posted October 01, 2007 08:07 PM            

Awwww so (unfortunately) true! Vulnerability and trust. The two hardest words...perhaps. Unconditional is my #1 if you don't achieve trust, you will rarely have the latter.

posted October 01, 2007 09:51 PM            

quote:

---

Not every guy likes a dirty **** .

---

You're right OMGJay, I should probably quit doing the hooker thing then huh?

Actually, I brought this little segment up to my Pisces tonight. I told him how I said it would take 2 seconds to convince any guy to have a threesome. He got defensive. His response was, "Hey! I'd never ask you to do that!!"

I said, "Well, I wouldn't WANT you to! But, if I really, REALLY wanted to do it, how long do you think it would take me to convince you?"

He paused. "Ok...you're right. But I would get to give my input right?"

I rest my case.

**edit**
And no, this isn't just a Pisces thing. This is a typical, universal, male fantasy. Not all guys are into it, but it's probably the most common.

posted October 02, 2007 08:08 PM            

quote:

---

Piscean guys - not initiators?

---

I think they often initiate sexually. They make it obvious that they want something sexual - when they do.

Emotionally.. not so much.. They're very shy about anything emotional, so if they've fallen in love they're more likely to hide behind a bush with binoculars and stare at you for hours on end. This stage ends with most guys.. but with Pisces it can well last a life time.

posted October 04, 2007 09:05 AM            

I don't know MCM...I might have to give you a run for your money there. Neptune is a pretty girl, and if I ever decide to become a lesbian......

posted October 07, 2007 04:05 PM            

I hope you are still reading this thread because I was just wondering from your posts whether you always hide your interest in a woman? Even when you were really, really interested will you be vague and evasive?

posted October 07, 2007 04:27 PM              

quote:

---

Swerve,
I hope you are still reading this thread because I was just wondering from your posts whether you always hide your interest in a woman? Even when you were really, really interested will you be vague and evasive?

---

posted October 07, 2007 05:25 PM            

What I find really funny, or slightly mentally impaired - but funny nonetheless.. is when they totally like a girl, and they make it very very obvious.. so the girl actually knows, and his friends know and her friends know and pretty much everyone who has ever met them finds out.. lol and the Pisces guy thinks he's still keeping it a secret.. so he won't say anything.. It's like "everrrrrrrryone knows.. OMG.. Do you understand that it's past the secret stage? You've made it too obvious.. Dudeeeee, it's too late now, just let IT go with the f-in secret!" lol

Like the Pisces type, I mentioned above who would "hide with binoculars".. The problem is - most girls notice these things.. But Pisces thinks he's being all incognito and no one knows .. It's hilarious in a way. I could make a comedy filming a love struck Piscean. Maybe it's because my Jupiter is Pisces - I really think they're sooo funny sometimes.

posted October 08, 2007 04:58 PM              

I asked the question to get a bit of insight.

I have Mars in Gemini in the 7th and Saturn in Cancer in the 8th retrograde, so I'd imagine that doesn't help much lol.

posted October 08, 2007 09:39 PM              

Don’t have a history of relationships, however I had 3 attractions, one was a relationship and other two were more of infatuation/attraction from my side. All three was like a waiting game for me and then me taking the step forward. I might have already posted my rationale in earlier posts, however here are my thoughts.

The waiting stage is like me to make sure that other person does have feelings. The waiting (non-initiating stage) is also due to combination of factors - not being sure of oneself, Is it the right thing to do (in one instance), What if the other person knows of some of my past secrets which make me look bad and she not accepting me; (and maybe additional reasons).
Once the friendship, attraction grows stronger and deeper; it reaches a stage where I need to get it out.

First attraction, I was not sure due to my past whether to approach or not. After few more incidents the attraction was stronger that I had to try something. I decided to talk however didn’t get a chance. The next thing was that I waited to get the right signals, if she was interested in me or someone else. Finally finding that she might have been interested in someone else, I didn’t take any additional steps and slowly removed all those feelings.

Second one, long distance relationship. Started with friendship and it reached a stage where not being in touch with her for few days made me spill out that I will be missing her and followed by saying that I loved her. I think after revealing I surely was open of all my feelings and thoughts.

The last one, which was like mis-interpreting someone else’s friendliness/open nature. I kept waiting to figure out whether did she had feelings for me or not. Finally it was unbearable I decided to just ask her. I did and found she didn’t had any feelings for me.

I think for Piscean men with no prior relations, they might wait for being sure if the other person is not involved with someone, or other person does have feelings and give the ‘right Signals’ for him to take initiative.
For the ones with prior relations (proper relation – not just infatuation), depending on how one is hurt the new ones surely will be altogether a different ball game. It might be like going with flow with no or minimal action (though there might be attraction or need of relationship in him). It might be shielding oneself by certain restrictions on oneself. This might require other person taking more initiative and not just giving right signals.

posted October 09, 2007 07:23 AM              

I think they are just reserved because they do not want to cause "waves". They would much rather swim in the ocean in stealth mode... The other thing is... if you can get a piscean guy to care enough about something or someone, he'll initiate.