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Topic: Piscean guys - not initiators?
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Swerve
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posted October 01, 2007 08:44 AM
 
Saw a post on Aries Pink's thread that said this, and for me its true, but makes me wonder if this is the case with other Pisces men.Do the ladies who've dated them feel this way? Do you other Pisces men feel this? Is it weak? Or just the way we are? Should you try to overcome it or flow with it? How do you other Pisces men meet your girlfriends or date partners? Very interested. IP: Logged |
marsconjunctmercury
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posted October 01, 2007 08:52 AM
lmao, Uhh... NO they're definately not 'initiators'.
Yes - they are weak.
Yes they're 'made that way'.Please lock the thread.
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Swerve
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posted October 01, 2007 09:08 AM
Shut it you rascal....  You are allowed to let some of them go you know..... anyway - other more pro-Fish opinions are hoped for. IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted October 01, 2007 09:20 AM
I had to initiate my first couple of dates with my Pisces husband.
It was curious at first, then became annoying, now I'm at a point where I would make a "suggestion" and have him mull it over for a couple of days before I bring it up again - by then he is ready with his answer.
In my experience Pisces men need to be given direction, otherwise they will just float into lalaland.
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Node
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posted October 01, 2007 09:29 AM
My take on the Pisces and luv thang? Pisces expect/anticipate their love interest to understand thru mental telepathy 'what I'm all about' That by some Divine cosmic order they will not have to explain any of the idiosyncratic methodologies they employ to swim the currents of life. Their love interest will 'get it' and them, with total acceptance. So pursuit/aggression doesn't really fit in. But that is generalizing....every-body is different. IP: Logged |
Swerve
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posted October 01, 2007 09:37 AM
Hmmm..that resonates with me Node.It also strikes me as highly unrealistic and a gamble though. Conflict for sure. IP: Logged |
CrankyCap
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posted October 01, 2007 09:57 AM
Hey Swerve! It's been a while...can you believe this place lately!!!???I've always initiated with men...no matter what the sign. I feel more comfortable that way. Guess it's the sun conjunct mars in Cap. Men who are overly aggressive and relentlessly pursue me usually turn me off. I don't trust them. I prefer to do the choosing myself, so that's probably why I don't mind Pisces guys. The "weak" mentality that *some* Pisces men have, does bother me though. I can't stand the ones who feel the need to lie in order to avoid conflict. That makes my skin crawl. I've noticed that Pisceans with a dash or a dose of fire in their chart seem better equipped to combat this trait. I love Pisces though...even if they do drive me nuts sometimes! IP: Logged |
Node
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posted October 01, 2007 10:02 AM
Swerve: Q= highly unrealistic Exactly- Um mm Neptunian? You betcha P/S/ Mom, Dad, Sister Pisces. Love of my life? Pisces Stellium. They are special. and no, I do not mean 'special Ed.'IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted October 01, 2007 10:06 AM
Maybe some of them, I met a Pisces guy back over the summer and he was a big initiator. He chased me until I said stop and go away. But his Venus was in Aries seems that placement always goes after what they want. And I think his moon was in Leo..He had alot of fire to him. I love my fellow men Pisceans as friends never romantically..IP: Logged |
CrankyCap
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posted October 01, 2007 10:16 AM
I'm right there with ya Node...brother, sister, sister-in-law, 2 cousins, and my boyfriend...all Pisces. Oh yeah, and me...Pisces moon. IP: Logged |
Green Fairy
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posted October 01, 2007 10:18 AM
I used to know a Piscean guy with Moon/Venus/Mars in Aries. We didn't click together, but he was quite the initiator.
See? It's the whole picture that counts.
Nowadays i'm dealing with a Piscean guy who's a "chicken". (Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars in Pisces). I'm sure there are exceptions out there. IP: Logged |
CoralBird
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posted October 01, 2007 10:28 AM
I remember one time when my ex Pisces bf called me up and said let’s go to a movie. I was pretty happy about it, since I was the one that usually called him to do something. When he picked me up we drove around and around and around and finally I said “Are we going to the movie?” He got irritated with me (like it was my idea) and said “I don’t feel like going to a movie”. I didn’t go psycho on him tho…felt like it but didn’t! It would’ve been nice if things were initiated by him once in a while, then it would’ve seemed like a lot less work. IP: Logged |
Node
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posted October 01, 2007 10:41 AM
Cranky: Yeah Pisces Moon here too CoralBird: Hi and welcome! Q=we drove around and around and around That sounds sooo familiar. The Stellium Pisces guy drove to a specific place, (restaurant/bar) parked outside, then left, because it didn't 'feel' right. Confusing and perhaps irritating to those that are not tapped in. He is an Aqua Sun  IP: Logged |
Fishean
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posted October 01, 2007 10:49 AM
I agree that I'm not so much of an initiator,but I think its all got to do with what we can get out of initiation..if the prize is really good,then I've initiated a lot..otherwise I just happen to go with the flow weak or strong..this is such a subjective topic IP: Logged |
Swerve
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posted October 01, 2007 10:54 AM
Some of these guys sound very selfish to me, and not using their Piscean awareness fairly.Probably something to do with knowing nice guys usually finish last and a Pisces can respond in the strangest ways when trying to assert himself. Like a wriggly fish fit and overdone mystery. I am extremely vague, not forward at all with women. A mixture of these Piscean qualities and my Aquarius Venus and Mercury that advocate aloofness equals attraction. If you'e backing away all the time even those that may come forward can't reach you. I can see this now with many years of hindsight. Frustrating. IP: Logged |
CoralBird
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posted October 01, 2007 10:57 AM
Haha...I can laugh about it now!Thanks for the welcome Node !! IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
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posted October 01, 2007 10:59 AM
Nice to see you around CrankyCap and Swerve .IP: Logged |
belgz
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posted October 01, 2007 11:00 AM
HA HA HA HA Thýs ýs funnnnnnnnyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
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CrankyCap
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posted October 01, 2007 11:07 AM
Hey JG! How are you?To all: IGNORE the MORON in the post above. Somewhere, some sad little village is missing its idiot. I think we've found her...I mean..."it." IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
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posted October 01, 2007 11:12 AM
Great CC, you? IP: Logged |
sanchita
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posted October 01, 2007 11:14 AM
Well I am an Arien and in love with a Piscean too.. He is a lot into astro and so I have some acquired knowledge..Our r'ship was initiated by me.. But it was just too hard to resist so it had to happen. I too don't mind initiating cos I like to do that, being in-charge, not that I can boss him.. no way! But yes not everything should be initiated by me.. someone above said abt a movie trip.. well we have no issues with tht cos both of us love to watch movies n he does initiate them most of the time.. But somethings that I would like and appreciate is getting flowers for me once in a while (even a blue moon wud be great!).. all this dont mean more or less love but they just feel nice n special.. neway i am riding along with him.. n touch wood pretty smoothly.. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted October 01, 2007 11:16 AM
Pisces Steve Jobs didn't seem to have trouble initiating things, though you may be talking romantically only.IP: Logged |
CrankyCap
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posted October 01, 2007 11:17 AM
Pretty good JG...just a little stressed lately. Must be the Saturn Return! LOL..IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted October 01, 2007 11:28 AM
So, how do you tell if a Pisces man is interested? I have a crush on a man with a Pisces moon, and it's pretty clear (from talking to him about it) that he didn't initiate any of his past relationships.I've never initiated any of my relationships (Leo sun here, but with a stellium in Cancer and Cap rising, I need reassurance). I'd be willing to try it with him, but I don't want to get brutally rejected. Not that he would do that. I just don't know WHAT he'd do. IP: Logged |
marsconjunctmercury
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posted October 01, 2007 11:32 AM
I think Swerve is cool. He never gets shirty with me. I think he embodies that quality of unconditional acceptance that is ruled by Pisces, and aided probably by his Moon in Scorpio. I admit i don't usually like the positions that much seperately, but i think his must be in a Trine, because the synergistic effect means both planets operate in line with their more superior natures, and less of the lesser traits can manifest themselves. He never reacts angrily to my behaviour on here. He has the wisdom and strength of Water.------------------
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