posted January 20, 2008 04:33 PM              

I'm not 100% sure on one of the birthtimes. I think I have the rising correct, just the actual degree.

No, not an affair, but a distance problem is there. Does that count?

posted January 20, 2008 04:54 PM              

Chart A

Chart B

posted January 20, 2008 05:00 PM              

Thanks for posting your charts! I am JUST learning to read these so I'll have to study them some more but for some weird reason, I like the first chart. I like the Vertex/DESC positioning (if that means anything), the 12th house planets....

But the second chart is very interesting too. Look at that 8th house! And I like Juno in 5th.

I lean towards intensity in relationships. Keeps things interesting and hot. So I do like a lot of the traditionally "bad" aspects. I find a lot of times that the fire that keeps a relationship together is having "work" to do with each other.

posted January 20, 2008 05:16 PM              

What's the story behind the second chart you posted?

posted January 20, 2008 05:46 PM              

the first chart reminds me a bit of mine cuz of the pisces rising, vertex on the DC, and pluto at 28 deg conjunct moon (though mine is saturn). with all the planets in the seventh it seems like a very intense ride and like maybe there is some alternating between extremely strong feelings and erratic-ness or bouts of disappearance on behalf of one or both of you? is this a possiblity?

neptune conjunct jupiter seems like it can bring TREMENDOUS depth to your union (with its happy contact to pltuo/moon) but at times there could be trouble knowing what to make of it, how to understand it, what to DO with it (squaring sun and mercury)..

is any of this accurate??

posted January 20, 2008 05:54 PM              

You've picked up on this relationship being atypical. It was a best friend of mine. We had a very deep connection, could finish each other's sentences, etc. We were on the same weird wavelength. Then, things turned bad. She became very very competitive with me for some reason. Later, she became attracted to me (she's bi, I'm straight). She also would use me t make her partners jealous (unbeknownst to me). I could never understand why her SO's were threatened by me, but then she told me a story about a fight she had with her BF, where she said something to make him jealous just to make him mad. I was like, "Don't do that!" It was then I realized she probably did that with all of her SO's.

I found out she talked about me behind my back.

I was always there for her as a friend. I would listen to her problems, etc, but if I had a problem, she'd disappear. She would leave and then come back. I felt like she was a fairweather friend and finally moved on.

She was very unstable as a friend.

It started out as an amazing friendship, but then she became very selfish and abused my good nature and giving ways.

You were right about us having a good time, but not knowing where to stop. Crazy times, but that was when we were young.

posted January 20, 2008 05:57 PM              

i am only going on my intuition. i actually don't know much about composites at all and am just guessing based on what i see. if any of it rang true, could you let me know?

Yep! You wrote this before I posted all of the bio. *Claps*

You and WriteSomething were really good!

She would always ditch me for her SO's, too. It was ridiculous and I can't believe I put up with it so long, but I don't give up on friendships easily.

posted January 20, 2008 06:02 PM              

was i right about the sexuality of the first? just a wild guess and i'm sure that polarity could mean many things..

writesomething,

posted January 20, 2008 06:06 PM              

First, I hope you noticed I edited my posts to reflect your SN. I had put your location by accident...duh! I'm a bit sick with a cold today, so I'm a little fuzzy.

And your stellium in the 8th...

I did that emoticon when I saw it!

Not only is it very scorpio-ish, but it's very plutonic. It had to be an important and life changing relationship for both of you.

Are you still with this person? If so, you know tSat will be hitting that stellium in the next few years. I don't know about you, but I'm scared!

My composite with the 8th stellium is difficult to describe. I can't really say it was sexual, because we were plagued wtih sexual difficulties, but at the same time, it was sexual. The timing with that one was bad. It could've been a great relationship, but for that, but then it got ugly. Very scorpio-ish I guess.

He still has a vendetta and I can't expel him from my life.

Heartcakes:

posted January 20, 2008 06:12 PM              

the impression i first got off your chart is that it is very focused. from the stellium and the clean, sharp aspects it makes. then i noticed rising is capricorn and stellium is in virgo. so that seems to carry that energy to me. like a very practical, direct energy, very focused but not showey or overdone. being in the 8th, possibly very sexual or just a very very deep bond that i am thinking may be unspoken in terms of, it doesn't need to be spoken, but also because of its earthiness from virgo..

i still don't know what to make of some aspects, like the squares to jupiter. i don't think that means closed off from the expansiveness.. but since it's touching it must mean some kind of expansiveness.. maybe jupiter makes you see some things you don't want to see that you would rather keep hidden or unspoken.. or you say things out of context at times or too bluntly.. um.. i dunno. sorry, i shouldn't go too far with that since i *really* don't know!!

anyway, it feels dynamic and strong to me but not without its challenges (though i'm not sure i can identify them!). possibly there is some difficulty accessing emotions in some ways despite the 8th house stellium, since it *is* in virgo after all and moon is in aquarius.

posted January 20, 2008 06:16 PM              

yeah.. i feel like i am rather aquainted with neptune energy and i do get the problems it can create. thanks for reassuring me that it can be nice too. i tend to agree.

could you let me know one or two things that stand out as good in our composite? i like chiron-moon-jupiter..

posted January 20, 2008 06:25 PM              

I like the venus (in its own sign and in its own house) so pleasantly aspected. I also like the saturn conjunct pluto. Some may disagree, but it can mean a very deep and lasting union.