posted March 28, 2008 12:01 PM            

Thank you!!!
I swear, I don't have a flirtatious bone in my body...I think if I tried to flirt, I would just end up being awkward...
on the other hand, I do talk to everyone. Completely casual, but I'll chat with pretty much anyone. I can't imagine my TALKING being construed as *flirting* or something to be jealous of.

It's hard because it's hard for me to be reciprocal with him... he comes on strong with the texts, cuddling and baby voice... but I'm sooooo the opposite. I LIKE HIM, but I just don't like the pressure of having to constantly prove it!

I mean, he must know I like him. Everyone else mentions it... 3 different bartenders, my 2 roommates... they all recognize that I like him... so, he must, right? I'm baking cupcakes tonight for my roommate... I'm gonna make it a point to save one for him, then he'll know, right????

posted March 28, 2008 12:12 PM            

My former Cancer indivdual's family life was Pleasantville on the exterior, doting mom, supportive dad, then when I began my "research" he had been raised in a military family, no roots, parents always partying, entertaining other military couples (his dad was high ranking) and he caught his mom at a very young age with another man...spawned quite the woman-hater in a soft little Crab boy.

But to this day, he goes to family gatherings, talks to his mother and dad almost daily, shares good bonds with his brother and sister....to the outsider a perfect family situation.

I am very wary of jealous individuals, it is never correct and never acceptable to me, and it is their problem, not mine.

posted March 29, 2008 03:47 AM            

hahahahahahah.......
i already like you ! no change of heart here .

posted March 29, 2008 08:52 AM            

And I know psycho boy was an extream case, but after studying him and the events in his live that lead up to he becoming psycho, I just see the potential more clearly.

It is like he could be SO good, then become SO bad!

Really we had great times, shared alot in common, but when his dark side rose, I realized it came from his childhood and there was no going back, for him.

Funny thing, HE brought out the dark side in ME!

He had sun, Mars and Venus closely conj in Cancer in the 8th and I think that had alot to do with it, given his upbringing. Our Scop acs's conj so all of his Cancer planets fell in my 8th as well.

I have a nephew who is a little Cancer and I, for gifts, usually give him seeds, planters, an ant farm, etc. something to symbolically get his personal roots started and nurture. His parents will never allow him to have a pet, like a cat or dog, so I sneak things along the way.

But I am very concerned with the 19yr old I mentioned. I am going to get up my courage and ask his dad if I can do the boy's birth chart.

posted March 29, 2008 08:59 AM            

I recently found out, when researching paranormal activity in an area where lots of strange things have happened, that there is this church, and many, many folks have heard battle sounds, cannons, guns, cries and screams coming from the area of the church.

My ex Crab lives directly behind the church. He is a substance abuser and I have often wondered if he does not open himself up to the reported awful energy of the church area.

posted March 30, 2008 03:35 AM            

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posted March 30, 2008 04:32 PM            

Actually, I have tried to think of ways to let him know, publically, without him knowing it was coming from me, but I just have to let it go.

I have to enter visualization from time to time to make certain the cords are cut, and remain that way.

posted April 03, 2008 06:19 PM            

Posted on a thread a while back not the one currently...my pic...

or---www.myspace.com/piscesdruidess

AND ALL!!!

Here is a story, a brief, sweet story of Cancer...

My 16yr old Aqua daughter was born with a severe heart defect. Her cardiololgist has always been beyond sweet, caring, etc. Always goes above and beyond the norms of a physician in America.

A bit of a issue with my kid lately, and who is there to support she and I, EMOTIONALLY and, ofcourse, physically for her???

A very kind, blessed, pediatriac cardiologist, (male) born under the sign of Cancer...

I know, absolutely, I diss The Crab, here at LL, but I will always, and I do mean always, recoginze the good folk.

posted November 12, 2014 06:33 AM            

And Cancer men sure can lies through their teeth. This Cancer guy are master in lying and manipulating women. And he loves DRAMA, he just got to make drama out of everything and out of everyone, in order to feel secure his spot in life or something.