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23 Knowflake Posts: 714 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 29, 2008 09:44 PM Dragoon - How about this from a Libran Moon and Gemini Mars that does not find mudslinging and fighting very funny (rather than debating), that I don't find your constant dropping of posts relating to the American elections in an astrological forum then weaving and disapperaring very witty or intelligent or cute. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/019145.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/019244.html Maybe that hurts your Moon. IP: Logged
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 5819 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 29, 2008 09:54 PM My Moon in Pisces in 6th conjunct Mars in Aquarius in 6th trine Sun in Scorpio in 2nd square Jupiter in Sagittarius in 3rd square Neptune in Sagittarius in 3rd square Saturn in Gemini in 9th overall negativity hurts my feelings my sensitivity is my greatness asset but also my greatest liability. I can easily empathize with others and be compassionate but I can be easily hurt and can be too idealistic for my own good. I can be very vulnerable. I have to strongly refrain from self pity and insecurity. My goodnaturedness can get me seen as being weak. Being a male, it can me mistaken for being gay. You can see why I prefer spiritually oriented woman for a relationship partner. IP: Logged
koiflower Knowflake Posts: 1984 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 29, 2008 10:46 PM quote: You can see why I prefer spiritually oriented woman for a relationship partner Make that your number one priority Glaucus. Don't settle for anything less either. Make that your strength and benchmark. Never let a woman take control of your life because of your good nature. Manipulating people are attracted to people with good natures. Having Virgo somewhere in your chart, you would appreciate that spirituality seeing it displayed in acts of kindness by that woman. Oops, do you have Virgo somewhere? I thought you did. IP: Logged
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 5819 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 29, 2008 10:51 PM Yes...I have Virgo Ascendant. I also have Juno in Virgo in 1st. My relationship partner can be Virgo-like and I can be Virgo-like in relationships. Well..I am picky....I want a partner that doesn't smoke,drinks,nor uses drugs. I like partner that is prudish in some ways. That's how I am too. hahahaha IP: Logged
bvanzy unregistered	posted September 29, 2008 11:05 PM Not feeling loved by those I love hurts me. Libran Moon conjunct Pluto in the 8th house. Being discriminated against, violated, and betrayed also do the job. But those I have in common with others. IP: Logged
bvanzy unregistered	posted September 29, 2008 11:10 PM Nice catch 23. IP: Logged
CoralFrequency Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Aug 2009	posted September 29, 2008 11:19 PM I don't think I get hurt as such and I don't usually get angry either. I often feel disillusioned. Things like - dishonesty, intentionally causing harm, aggression - leave me with an overall feeling of disappointment. I don't expect people to be perfect or to make no mistakes.. I kind of expect the opposite - but for some reason, I still have a general disappointment in human nature (including my own, at times). Moon in Capricorn (It might be affected by Mars and Neptune in Capricorn, although they are not conjunct by degree) IP: Logged
spunknini unregistered	posted September 30, 2008 01:51 AM Sun Libra, Moon Sag, Venus Scorpio, Asc Virgo What hurts the most & I have just experienced this yesterday so it's still fresh; is when a close friend betrays you - talking about behind your back with other people. Number two would be Deception (in my view I believe people close to me have no reason to lie as I accept them for who they are & am not afraid to talk about the ugly side of life that most people hide from or don't want to admit to. Number 3 Selfishness hurts me - People who go after what they want unethically, not caring who they step on. I could go on with more as there are many things that hurt but for the point of this question I will keep it short. IP: Logged
bvanzy unregistered	posted September 30, 2008 02:00 AM The thing about selfishness in my experience is that sometimes you have to mention issues you have related to this, because the person is just going about their life - albeit in a 'selfish' manner to your needs - but they're just neglecting to think of you in a certain way or in terms of your particular need. It's rarely on purpose. Best speak up to avoid it in those we love. Not every annoying detail so that it disrupts another person's flow, but when it's important to us. As to betrayal, that's very upsetting. IP: Logged
koiflower Knowflake Posts: 1984 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 30, 2008 02:04 AM I wrote "rudeness" in the thread "Mars, what makes you angry?" I think I'll write it here too: "rudeness" I am so over rude people!!!! Why do people open their mouths without thinking??? This is going to my signature for a while: "One's character rises and falls when they open their mouth." LOL - sorry, I have Saturn conjunct my Venus by 0 degress today!! It's also opposite my natal Saturn by 0 degrees. It's not quite square my Moon, but almost...!!Please bear with me through this time koiflower IP: Logged
spunknini unregistered	posted September 30, 2008 02:15 AM Hi - This is a reply to Bvanzy - I do not know if your response had anything to do with mine but I will say this - Is it just me (Libra) thinking of how an action or choice I make might hurt or effect another? or are those that are deemed "selfish" thinking of others & proceeding anyway or totally oblivious to others? This is kind of what I meant by selfishness. Thanks IP: Logged
bvanzy unregistered	posted September 30, 2008 02:32 AM Koiflower - Saturn will always be somewhere but it would be better not here for you right? I've got a four month break from my hideous Saturn/Chiron double whammy clashes - woohooo, let's party. Sorry. Became overjoyed for a minute! But seriously, no worries, you'll find friends around here koiflower. I have found that the only people you can depend on when things are going wrong for you are THE KIND PEOPLE. Even those you love and who love you can tend to be absent-minded or inconsiderate when you are going through hell. They don't mean it, but always respect the kind people. Not the pretenders, the schmoozers, the real ones. Spunknini - yes, that post I wrote was to you. I agree with what you say. I have a Libra Moon, but I was just sharing my experience that people aren't doing it to be mean, they just need to be told what they are doing is hurting you. Not little things - like biting your nails bugs me - but big things like 'it matters that you forgot my birthday'. IP: Logged
spunknini unregistered	posted September 30, 2008 02:59 AM Oh bless your little cotton socks Bvanzy, thanks for clearing that up, I guess from my point of view it' is something that I do naturally without thinking being a partnership sign but I am ever so frustrated at the thought of having to tell someone that they are being selfish, I mean if I can think of it (and I'm not special or anything, tho have been told once or twice that I got here on the short white bus - lol) why can't they? oh it makes me want to throw a tantrum IP: Logged
Arnicka unregistered	posted September 30, 2008 03:27 AM capricorn moon/H6: when someone isn't pulling their weight ~ biggest gripe - left alone feeling i'm the only one that cares about the work that needs to be done, very lonely spot! IP: Logged
bvanzy unregistered	posted September 30, 2008 03:40 AM It is hard for people with strong Libra to SAY to someone that they are being selfish in this or that regard (or many!), but it is necessary to clear these things up, because that other person will not be thinking that way at all! I know someone who is both intensely kind at times (Cancerian Sun) and intensely selfish at times (mega Gemini collision including Moon and Mercury), but who if diplomatically told she is being selfish will adjust herself accordingly. I've known Leos and Scorpios who've done the same Therefore, I conclude it is a general human phenomenon. If you are unlucky you will have misjudged and found yourself a truly selfish person (they exist of all signs), but then at least you will know, but most people are selfish by accident, if you know what I mean. IP: Logged
wheelsofcheese Newflake Posts: From: Registered:	posted September 30, 2008 04:44 AM What hurts me is friends who are too clingy and suggest that I am "not there for them". I'll "be there" as much as I am able to be and no more. I've got my own stuff going on too, and only so much energy. Friends that don't give you freedom to engage when you want to, and suggest that you're not doing a good enough job. Friendship is elective. Of course I will come running at a crisis and I keep promises/commitments - but don't expect me to invite you round for dinner because last time you invited me round for dinner and it turns into some kind of merry go round of obligation and routine. I really dislike that. Gemini moon. IP: Logged
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 30, 2008 07:05 AM quote: When someone close to me uses something secret or personal they know about me as a weapon, especially unprovoked (which has happened, usually out of jealousy or envy). That is the key to the seemingly trivial arguments between my Moon Aries relatives. Often the trivial is symbolic, and certainly when they get going I don't think the real matter being argued over is the plant or whatever. Yes, that gives it a deeper context. Neither of them spare the time to be malicious, they might rush out with hurtful comments in a the heat of an argument, but they are never intentionally cruel. Everyone knows how they feel as well, you don't need to spend time working it out or worrying if you have offended them, they will soon say. It does save needless time. IP: Logged
Dragoon unregistered	posted September 30, 2008 09:10 PM quote: Dragoon - How about this from a Libran Moon and Gemini Mars that does not find mudslinging and fighting very funny (rather than debating), that I don't find your constant dropping of posts relating to the American elections in an astrological forum then weaving and disapperaring very witty or intelligent or cute. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/019145.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/019244.html Maybe that hurts your Moon. um... nope. It's good that you tried though. and I can drop more of those posts if you like. IP: Logged
diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 1009 From: Registered: Jul 2012	posted May 05, 2016 12:36 AM Unfaithfulness Rejection Resentment Detachment Loneliness Moon in Leo sextile Mars IP: Logged
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 738 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014	posted May 05, 2016 07:17 PM quote: Originally posted by bvanzy: Not feeling loved by those I love hurts me. Libran Moon conjunct Pluto in the 8th house. Being discriminated against, violated, and betrayed also do the job. But those I have in common with others. Same here. Libra Moon conj Pluto in the 1st house. IP: Logged
aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 875 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted May 05, 2016 09:44 PM quote: Originally posted by Dragoon: my moon is in Gemini and it has Opposition to Sun, Saturn, and Uranus so i have no idea how to answer this question. Lol me too. Moon in Gemini square MC. I am passionate about homelessness though so seeing a homeless person bothers me and I get angry w/ the system. I'll go to sleep thinking about it sometimes and feel horrible that while I'm in my warm bed, somebody else is sleeping on the sidewalk. But it's not really a deep rooted "hurting" but more of a strong awareness that something needs to be changed, accompanied w/ strong mental visualization. But I'm not sure how this relates to my Gemini Moon. I also feel abandoned by friends who stop responding to me or puts me as a low priority, especially if I've put them on the top of my priority for years. But this probably has more to do w/ my Sun in Aquarius and Venus in Aquarius. IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 182084 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 06, 2016 09:14 AM Cappy Moon. Very thick skin. IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 182084 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 07, 2016 09:22 AM It takes a lot to hurt my feelings. IP: Logged
aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 875 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted May 08, 2016 03:38 PM quote: Originally posted by Randall: Cappy Moon. Very thick skin. I'd imagine! IP: Logged
Hemilla Knowflake Posts: 833 From: State of mind Registered: May 2015	posted May 11, 2016 11:01 AM somdones mercury opp my moon does it IP: Logged

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