posted November 02, 2008 11:56 AM         

Someone said I think it was Quinnie that men see good girls as the girlfriend type and bad girls for one night stands...These guys now days don't want girlfriends or a wife I am just so damn cute (smile) I attract the men but my Aurua screams good girl and they can't handle it..Strange stuff..

"Me personally I just just have good self respect and morals"

posted November 02, 2008 02:47 PM         

The whole thing about men thinking of women in such a way of good vs. bad , i'e., one-night stand vs girlfriend wife is immature. Seriously, I'm 35 years old. If a guy thinks that way, he can go back to the sandbox. The virgin/***** complex is telling in men, and the bottom line is that women encompass BOTH within themselves. Anyone who would view a woman in either one way or another has a definite issue and will never be able to have a wholly fulfilling relationship because they want to compartmentalize someone in the same way they are attempting to compartmentalize themselves.

posted November 02, 2008 02:47 PM         

Anyway, I was thinking about it a bit more and I think also think that the following things might contribute to my good girl stuff:
* Moon in Libra - makes me nice and cooperative, I don't like it when people pick on others;
* Moon in 7th - I care what people think/feel about me;
* Sun in 10th - I care about my public perception and am very aware of it;
* Sun opp Saturn - I have amazing self-control;
* Saturn in 4th - I keep family matters and personal issues private;
* Otherwise as mentioned before I have Jupiter conj my Aries ASC and also Venus in Sag/9th - I value good morals and ethics. I have high standards of myself and others and I'm kindly/generous.

posted November 03, 2008 04:11 AM         

I also get this from women too..me looking 5 years younger in face does not help lol
Another thing that gets my back up is people automatically make the assumption that your parents ultimately had something to do with it..My parents could not even tell me what to do and being one of five I never noticed they applied force to any of us they only pointed out right and wrong just our choice what we embraced.

I have always considered myself my own person, my own up bringing. If anything I feel like i'm the parent when comes to my parents Mum Sagitarius sun, Aqua moon, Dad Pisces sun, Aqua moon..they can be a nightmare.. >_>

posted November 03, 2008 04:52 AM         

As a working example, mine is Scorpio with a few seconds to an exact Square to Mars in Aqua in the 3rd house. If they see me as good girl or raunch-ass they are unlikely to patronise me by telling me about it.

I know I'm a risk of sounding like Millie Tant here (cartoon), but neither cliche shows the ability to take someone seriously as an individual.

posted November 03, 2008 10:19 AM         

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Follows me where ever I go...Men so see me as innocent and pure..I am 40 years old and these guys still see me as if I am 15. I was out tonight at a party and it was nothing but ppl there from my highschool days, and I told one guy I am going to get me some wine. He says don't mess up your good girl reputation.
i am not upset about that I guess I am just babbling bc I have had a glass or two of wine..ITs just crazy this guy that I had been feeling lately told me I was like sweet polly pure bread..LOL!!! I guess men are so used to raunch ass women..I guess us good girls finish last for real...

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posted November 03, 2008 10:28 AM         

I shine and stand out amongs some of the ppl in the this real world that I live in..

I only have that good girl image as far as men goes, bc I take no **** from women ppl period..Step on my toes and you will hear my roar and ready to back it up. I have tons of Pisces girlfriends and I know I am the most forthrighteous one of them all. My skin is thicker then theirs too..I am way to direct as well..It has to be my Mars in Aries and my mercury in the 1st house..

posted November 03, 2008 11:47 PM         

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raunch-ass

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posted November 07, 2008 03:36 AM         

For example, a friend of mine is very spiritual and studies the Bible. I've known him for a couple of years. We often have religious discussions. In the middle of one recently, he laughed and said, "I have to tell you. You're so different from how I thought you were when I first met you. You'd seemed so plastic." No one has ever called me that (to my face ), so I was stunned by his word choice and asked what had made him think that. He said, "Oh you know, you had your hair pulled up and that tattoo on your neck. And you were wearing lip gloss." Wth? So apparently temporary tattoos + lip gloss = plastic to this guy. I (sort of) get what he meant, that the tattoo looked like someone being trendy. But it's his own assumption that playing around with fashion means someone's shallow and plastic. Also, he had discarded the good convo we had when first meeting and based his initial opinion on superficial things like lip gloss and tattoos...So who's the shallow one?

Sometimes I'm annoyed when people misinterpret me, but most of the time I'm amused when they get me so wrong.

posted November 07, 2008 03:56 AM         

I am so tired of fake people...
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum16/HTML/004644.html

is it just a game to some!?

posted November 07, 2008 09:41 AM         

"I only have that good girl image as far as men goes, bc I take no **** from women ppl period..Step on my toes and you will hear my roar and ready to back it up. I have tons of Pisces girlfriends and I know I am the most forthrighteous one of them all. My skin is thicker then theirs too..I am way to direct as well..It has to be my Mars in Aries and my mercury in the 1st house.."

posted November 07, 2008 10:10 AM         

TripleCancer, girl this is what I am talking about..You hit it right on the mark, this is what I get out of that when ppl say that..

" am so grateful to be able to have fun without needing alcohol".

Yes me too, I can have a drink or not and still have the same amount of fun either way..

"So if suddenly I curse then people tell me "you can't curse". I just hate it when people automatically decide what you can or can't do based on impressions and stereotypes."

posted November 08, 2008 04:12 AM         

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But it's his own assumption that playing around with fashion means someone's shallow and plastic.

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posted November 08, 2008 04:24 AM         

My friend Aditya would love you Lol!

One of his quarky little blog posts (its all opinion people so don't take it personally. Yes... He comes off as a sexist, Ultra-right wing gorbanite Lol! But he is actually a gentle Taurus.)

Part of emphisis bolded.

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Green makes us all ugly.

Written by Aditya Iyer.

So, environmentalists - bearded men, the hairy women, yoga types that have a cactus for pet, ones that smell like Malaysian public urinals because they do not use soap. Well, all that is changing. Pretty people are cashing on the green craze.

Bono has become a mouthpiece for environmentalist and so has Leonardo di Caprio. I mean, the aesthetic reasons to argue with environmentalists are dead, for now at least. I say for now because all these beautiful celebrities turning green, its only a matter of time before they start to ugly-fy like all the other greenies.

Liz Hurley could become one soon and stop shaving her legs, and the porn industry would collapse because Jenna Jameson would suddenly shift her preference from morning wood to wood that has leaves. I wonder if the academic theorists see the threats of this rabid environmental movement as well as I see it.

Let alone beautiful people, what about cars ? Aston Martins would be replaced with plastic golf carts. The Toyota Prius would undoubtedly become the next S-Class and the G-Wiz would be the perfect replacement for your VolksWagen. What will become of gas stations ? They are ugly to begin with, so I guess the 'mentalists will keep those, as watering holes, electric charge stations, may be ?

Don't even get me started on turbines and solar panels. Say, you worked hard and made a lot of money and bought that nice place by the water front with a fantastic view of the bay and the sail boats and pretty girls on sand. If everyone decided to jump on this environmental bandwagon - well sir, that view is gone. What you will get instead is windmills whiring every hour of the day, not only have they robbed you off the visuals, they will also give you a tumor in your inner ear. And to make matters worse, your balcony will become as mossy as the Scottish country side because of all that wind and moisture barrier thing that wind-mills supposedely violate.

Oh, right. And if you live in the suburbs, Scarborough for example, your back yard will be covered in a big glass box, so that you can grow your own bananas, and your roof will be covered in big solar panels, detailed after none other than the flooring of your neighborhood gay bar. Airplanes will be gone, roads will be left to crack till dandelions can grow on them, cats will run amock and by the time you are half way through the day, an extinct species will somehow regenerate itself in the Himalayan foothills and thank you.

Yes, the skies will be blue, but you will not see any of it - because, of course, you will not be allowed to breath out in the open. You see, each time you exhale, you let out a few Carbons or something like that which work to foul up the air and kill creatures called Polar bears that are extremely useful for the profitability of Discovery Channel and as you know the Discovery Channel is God and if God becomes poor, we are all screwed. So, we have to breath in little receptacles that work like little catalytic converters in cars and by logic, they will be tremendously heavy, so that we don't have to go out of our houses. All great progress really.

So there we are - a world where the greenies have triumphed. We will all look ugly, drive ugly cars if we drive at all, live in ugly houses, breath into catalytic converters and our idea of a Friday night would be to drink lots of rain water and urinate on our back yard tomato plants and save some ugly walruses.

Now, if you don't want any of that, there is a perfectly good alternative. Wait a few years and if this whole global warming thing doesn't work out, sue Al Gore for all the anxiety and all the time spent in cramped mini cars and smelling armpits on buses, take his money and buy yourself a Land Rover or two. There will be only one green left then - your neighbor - green with envy.

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posted November 10, 2008 03:10 AM         

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A guy who didn't really know me very recently thought it was in my best interests to let me know that "it's not all about looks".

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What a nasty thing to say. I hope you set him straight and responded with, "I know! Being rich is really important, too."

Does it hurt you when people misinterpret you? Or do you find it more aggravating?

Usually, it doesn't anger me, but it does hurt me. I like to think that people are interested in really understanding each other, really getting a feel for who another person is. But when people label/misinterpret me, I feel like I'm being too idealistic in expecting people to care about understanding each other. I wonder if maybe instead of knowing me, they're more interested in knowing their own framework and where I, as an idea instead of as a person, fit in it. And when I realize that barrier and that only parts of who I am filters through it to them, in that moment I feel isolated and alone. I'm far too sensitive and idealistic about this issue.