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VirgOh
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posted December 16, 2008 10:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgOh     Edit/Delete Message
I adore everything about her from head to toes " She doesnt have perfect feet though but I made an exception, that there should tell you something beside some other imperfections that i wouldn't have downsized if it was another female, a part of me also feels indebted to her because she is the one who promoted me to my current position at work, she was my manager once".

We work at 2 different departments now but we got close through work again, all professional stuff, but I slipped and fell for her, she held her grounds and although she showed interest but she kept it professional always, I never took it to the next step.

The problem is we both have an attitude, recently we are not talking, I am giving her the silent treatment and she is too, I wont back up and go talk to her and she wont give me the pleasure either lol, it's killing me but I dont know how she feels towards me and at this point we haven't spoken for 2 months because we are done working on mutual projects together beside there were some complications between our departments at work, I dont feel comfy making a move again.

If it happens through work so be it, but other than that I am not going against my nature and just keeping to myself and she is doing the same!!!

I hate her so much I wanna marry her lol


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Peri
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posted December 17, 2008 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
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I hate her so much I wanna marry her

good luck to you VirgOh

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Lara
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posted December 17, 2008 09:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
well it helped me to make a list of everything I wanted in a a partner, every detail. If it is our best interest and our perfect timing, the universal law of attraction will manifest that list into reality. 100 percent of the time.

yes, be very careful though... you might ask for the perfect man yet forget to mention height and a giant or midget might appear

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running_bull
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posted December 17, 2008 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for running_bull     Edit/Delete Message
Sometimes I'm silent trying to recover from not getting my way, other times I'm plotting a sneak attack to get my may, or, I'm just done talking for the moment.

One thing you ca count on for most Taurus folk is they'll get over it and be talkative eventually, usually sooner than later.

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running_bull
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posted December 17, 2008 09:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for running_bull     Edit/Delete Message
VirgOh, don't let her get away with the silent treatment. Personally, I love a man that cracks first - but do it once and it will become a habit.

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Peri
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posted December 17, 2008 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
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do it once and it will become a habit

well it certainly depends on a person and a particular situation

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running_bull
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posted December 17, 2008 09:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for running_bull     Edit/Delete Message
Certainly there are factors and individual attributes to take into account, however, my experience as a Taurus, and with Tauruses,points to a love of expectations.

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Mama Mia
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posted December 17, 2008 09:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
"Sometimes I'm silent trying to recover from not getting my way, other times I'm plotting a sneak attack to get my may, or, I'm just done talking for the moment"

Haaaaaa, thanks running bull, you really confirmed something I kind of already knew..

My girlfriend just said to me, oh don't think bc he is silent that he is done..He is just trying to figure out what can he do to get you...I just laughed and said as long and he comes correct he won't have a problem...He knows what he has to do..

And yes he has given me the silent treatment before I just really paid no attention to it and he always gives in first..It just began to be very noticeable..He says he gives in first bc he does not want to lose me from his life..((Shrugs))

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VirgOh
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posted December 17, 2008 10:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgOh     Edit/Delete Message
Running Bull,

Usually she is the one who cracks up first when I give her the silent treatment, I've passed her many times at work and just pretended that she doesn't exist due to the way she acts at times and her fake princess attitude "I secretly love it" lol.

What she does in return which drives me berzerk and I still dont know what she means by doing it is: If she walks by me or I see her at work at times and say hi or hey whats up she just looks at me, smiles a very sarcastic smile, doesn't reply, shakes her head and goes "heh" and keeps walking, I freaking hate that to tears lol

What the hell does that mean anyway?


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wheelsofcheese
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posted December 17, 2008 10:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheelsofcheese     Edit/Delete Message
VirgOh, I'm going to come over there and bash your heads together. Just snog already will ya?! Jeez....

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FistOfLegend
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posted December 17, 2008 10:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FistOfLegend     Edit/Delete Message
Mars in Taurus- most stubborn placement I've ever known. I know some people with this who literally don't move.
Not to offend anyone who does.

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Mama Mia
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posted December 17, 2008 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
VirgOh: I think sometimes you can't really look to deep into certain things bc it will drive you crazy..Somethings are ppl's personal way of being and then you have thier Astrological traits at which they use at handling things..Which I think some of her behavior is her way of being..

"Mars in Taurus- most stubborn placement I've ever known. I know some people with this who literally don't move.
Not to offend anyone who does."

Yep I agree even if they love a person they have a hard time moving..I don't think all Mars in Taurus are like this but other planets in their chart conflict with this and makes them this way or some of their not so good experiences makes them do that..

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VirgOh
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posted December 17, 2008 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgOh     Edit/Delete Message
I have Mars in Taurus but I make it clear if I take interest in someone every chance I get. Not slow moving but calculated, I also have to have all the reassurances I need before making a final move which I am not getting in this particular situation, I feel like I am chasing after a freaking ghost lol

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taurus/gemini cusp
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posted December 17, 2008 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurus/gemini cusp     Edit/Delete Message
I wish my bull would give me the silent treatment when he's mad at me. If I **** him off, he never shuts up about it!!! Virgo ascendant maybe?!

Mama Mia - he might not actually know what to say yet. Taureans (and Librans - venusian types) can take a hell of a long time to decide how they really feel about a certain situation and so if he's mad, he might be going through it in his head first before he vocalizes.

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Scorpionic Web
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posted December 18, 2008 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
I get the silent treatment from Taurus women even when we are on great terms.

It simply seems impossible for me to make an impact on them. I feel invisible.

I forget the astrology author who wrote something like, "Taurus and Scorpio together make mud, perfect for getting stuck in", and so far this has generally summed up my relationship with them.

I could juggle bowling balls while lighting my pants on fire, and it won't stir them.

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Mama Mia
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posted December 18, 2008 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Well these are not the girls for you apparently...

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sunshine_lion
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posted December 18, 2008 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunshine_lion     Edit/Delete Message
scorp web -

have you tried doing that on a unicyle? now that would be something.

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amowls
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posted December 18, 2008 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
I mean...

I do that but I have no Taurus in my chart.

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Scorpionic Web
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posted December 18, 2008 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, Mama Mia, it's a shame because I love Taurus women, but it's rarely reciprocated and my efforts fall on deaf ears.

Amowls: I don't think I've ever known an Aquarius to not speak her mind. Maybe the communicatively manipulative Gemini Rising causes it.

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Lara
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posted December 18, 2008 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
but taurus women love scorpios!!

I had the most passionate relationship with a scorpio but maybe my aries stellium help to boil his water

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Scorpionic Web
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posted December 18, 2008 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
Lara-

I'm not sure what kind of passion you're referring to, but although I couldn't verbally communicate with them, the only two Taurus women I've been physically involved with created some HOT experiences.

Communication usually occurs first in the dating game, but somehow these two taurus women skipped over the talk with me, and we went right to making out.

Some serious heat, but outside of the bedroom I never felt I was getting through to them.

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Lara
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posted December 18, 2008 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
maybe they were not conversationalists!

Did they talk in bed?

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FistOfLegend
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posted December 18, 2008 05:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FistOfLegend     Edit/Delete Message
Whenever I think of Taurus, I think of the sound, "Uhhhhhhhhhhhh".

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Mama Mia
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posted December 18, 2008 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
lol...

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Scorpionic Web
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posted December 18, 2008 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
Lara-

Haha, wow, looking back, they did talk more in bed! We spoke nothing of any value, but at least it momentarily opened up dialogue. Both of these women became rather childlike in their words and voices, it was strange and really kinky.

I hadn't thought about it, but it's really funny you mention talking in bed, because that seemed to be the easiest place for them to talk to me.

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