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Topic: Soul mates? NEED HELP!
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artsy girl
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 13, 2003 01:56 PM
 
Hi, I am new and would love any help on this matter. I met a man about 6 months ago. We have great chemistry but because we have both been very hurt in the past, we just can't seem to get it together. Every time we come together, it just seems to get screwed up. I'll either say or do something or he will and then we stay away from each other, both being afraid. I can not explain how I feel about this man. I have never felt this kind of intense passion for anyone ever in my life. The first time we kissed, I got this vision in my head from no where of us standing in front of an altar, getting married. It came from nowhere! As soon as I got the vision, he looked at me and said "see", like he read my mind or something. Every time I try so hard to forget him and move on and I think that I have, he calls or something. I just don't understand. There is something deep inside me that says that we are truly ment to be together but it just can't seem to happen. Can anyone give me some answers? Will we ever get it together? or should I give up and just stay away?By the way, I have seen several psychics about this and they have ALL said the same things. That we are soul mates and that's why my feelings are so intense, and that we can end up together. Sorry for the long post. My birthday is 3-5-1962.
His birthday is 4-25-1961.
Thank you to anyone who can help. artsy girl IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 16464
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 13, 2003 02:10 PM
Welcome to Lindaland!  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Mazz
Knowflake Posts: 284
From: angel land
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 14, 2003 06:53 AM
It sounds like you really want to meet your soulmate,life can be very lonely sometimes.Try to keep busy and apply yourself to something in life,it's possible that without realising it you may be trying to mould this person to be your soul mate,it's also possible he could be your soul mate,I cant help you with that.
Has it ever ocurred to you that these psychics may be just telling you what you want to hear.
You sound like you are feeling a bit panic stricken about it all,as though there is something 'you should do'to make it all right with this person.Well there isnt anything you should be doing except living your life and he might decide to join you,if he doesnt he may not be right for you.
Lots of love
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artsy girl
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 14, 2003 11:11 AM
Hi Mazz & Randall,
Thank you both so much for your advice. I understand Mazz, what you are saying and I've thought of that myself but, this is something I have never experience before and I can't really explain it. That's why it's so confusing. There are many more things that I could tell you about this relationship that seem to put it on a karmic level but I would end up writing a book. I am 41 years old and have had many relationships in my life but never one that felt like this. That is why I saw the psychics. Most of the time I didn't tell them anything and they still said the same things. I wasn't even sure I believed in soul mates. I don't know. I am ready to move on though and let it all go because It's all too crazy. Can you tell anything from my chart? I'm new to all of this.
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3&btyp=w2gw&lang=e&cid Thank you again,
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Mazz
Knowflake Posts: 284
From: angel land
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 14, 2003 12:36 PM
You need to find out your time of birth for the chart,also the place of birthIP: Logged |
artsy girl
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 14, 2003 12:52 PM
I believe on that chart it is listed. The time was 10:15 am in Norfolk, VA.Thanks. IP: Logged |
Mazz
Knowflake Posts: 284
From: angel land
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 15, 2003 07:42 AM
ok
I've just realised that I'd better not have a look at your chart for you,particularly as it's to do with something so important to you,I'm only an amateur.
All I'll say is that I sympathize with what you're going through,perhaps you've made a decision in your heart that you want to meet a soulmate and not just anyone will do,in that case I'd say some funny stuff will happen with regards to that area of your life.
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Zero
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: Zero
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 15, 2003 07:59 AM
Don't talk to a Piscean lady that way, Mazz, you will only confuse her all the more! I will bet there are more swindlers than genuine psychics, thus I would advise that you (artsy) do not waste further $$ on those. I am surprised that you didn't spend the $$ to get a truly professional astrological reading for yourself. Alternatively, you could just try do-it-yourself with a book like Linda's Relationship Signs? Or have you bought that already?------------------
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Mazz
Knowflake Posts: 284
From: angel land
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 15, 2003 08:17 AM
Yes ,you're right
I was just going to edit that message but I cant now,you're right zero.Dont listen to me artsy,I'm talking from a personal perspective and my life is a bit odd sometimes.I was just trying to say that I sympathise and no-one had answered your post so far.IP: Logged |
Zero
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: Zero
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 15, 2003 08:56 AM
Do you happen to be a Pisces too, Mazz? Or your Moon is in Pisces if not the Sun? Just checking on my ability to recognize people from different signs.To ARTSY:
I forgot to ask, have you already read Linda's Love Signs on the Fish-Bull combo? That one plus the Relationship Signs should be good enough to give you a general idea (one word of caution: don't use the tables in Relationship Signs, there are several errors in need of rectification, use another reliable source to determine your signs). ------------------
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Mazz
Knowflake Posts: 284
From: angel land
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 16, 2003 06:59 AM
I have pisces rising zeroIP: Logged |
Zero
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: Zero
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 16, 2003 07:18 AM
That works! Any one of these three, yes, Sun, Moon or Ascendant.   ------------------
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Mazz
Knowflake Posts: 284
From: angel land
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 16, 2003 08:05 AM
Yes I found one error in R.signs,it was for the time the moon moved into a sign.I still find the book very helpful.IP: Logged |
Zero
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: Zero
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 16, 2003 10:11 AM
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Mazz
Knowflake Posts: 284
From: angel land
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 16, 2003 04:44 PM
What does that mean'zero comes from zero' IP: Logged |
StarLover33
Moderator Posts: 1987
From: King Arthur's Camelot
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted March 16, 2003 06:10 PM
Hi Artsy,Listen to me I'm a Pisces, I was born on the 6th, and to be perfectly honest with you, there is nothing anyone can tell you that you don't already know. Listen, follow your heart, keep away from another persons advice except for your own, they are not fully understanding your situation.
The reason you are doing this to yourself is becuase you've been broken before and now your afraid. Don't be! You deserve the best kind of love and that is with your soulmate. Believe in your heart don't be ashamed of your own need, trust me your not foolish. The only thing that will bring you down is your own negative thinking. Trust me...love will come when it's ready. Hold on to your soulmate, make this one worth all the while. I believe with you, that he is, your soulmate. Becuase that is what you truly feel...and why would you be wrong? Tell him how you feel and he'll understand...trust me! That vision wasn't just wishful thinking. Give it one more shot and if you lose your faith in love...which I already think you have...just pray to god and he'll give you strength.
My hope for you is that your vision comes true! Others up there, are only saying doubtful things that are being fed into your fake fear. -Starlover IP: Logged |
Zero
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: Zero
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 16, 2003 10:28 PM
Hey Starlover, I didn't say anything but recommended Artsy to read Linda's Books on Love Signs and Relationship Signs. I suppose you wouldn't challenge that move to seek wisdom from Linda, right? Right!Mazz,
In his Book of Thoth, Aleister Crowley wrote 'The Equation "Naught=Many=Two=One=All=Naught" is implicit in every mode of the being of the System.'
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artsy girl
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 17, 2003 11:59 AM
I am new to this astrology stuff so I didn't realize that I could really find out any answers this way. I am just searching for any answers that I can get. In regards to the psychics, all I can say is that I was amazed how they could zero in on specific things without my telling them anything. I went to a couple different ones to see if they would tell me different things. I'm not saying I am taking what was said as absolute truth. All I can say for certain is how I feel and every ounce f my being tells me this. It confuses and scares me. Are there such things as soul mates? I don't know. Maybe it's just a physical and mental chemistry that I never experienced before. I certainly never had a vision like that before and I have heard of others having something similar when they met their mates. There have been other strange things that have happened as well. Thank you all for your advice and esp. you StarLover33 for helping me not feel so foolish! I guess time will tell the truth.
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dawn25
Knowflake Posts: 17
From:
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 19, 2003 07:45 PM
Hi Artsy Girl,
I am new to this website but when I was reading your post it seemed that you were describing my relationship. I have already posted a question regarding Taurus Men to get some answers so I will be waiting patiently. It just striked me as kind of odd that my beau shares the same birthday 4/25/74(except for year) but we never really get it together. Either he is too busy or we just never really connect how I want. But I still feel that he is the one. Well just thought I'd share. Good luck to you!
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Mazz
Knowflake Posts: 284
From: angel land
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 20, 2003 08:09 AM
If you haven't read it already I'd especially recommend reading the Taurus/Taurus section in Linda Goodman's 'Love Signs'I'm not a taurus myself but those pages always stuck in my mind she goes into great depths about two taurus' together,I hope you'll read it.IP: Logged |
artsy girl
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 20, 2003 12:04 PM
Hi Dawn25!
I read your post about Taurus men. It is really strange! Why do they have to drive us so CRAZY!!!! Here is another weird thing that just happened last night! I was very upset that I
haven't heard from him in about 2 weeks. I wrote in my journal
at 9:40 pm that this is it. No more am I going through this. Everthing I
believed was wrong and nothing is ever going to happen with us. I truly felt
I was done and if he calls I will not return any more calls, I'm staying
away. 10:00 pm he called. The phone rang and it was his number on my caller
ID, but he didn't leave a message, he just hung up. About 15 minutes later
he called back and left a message. Now this is about the 6th time, I have given up and let go and then he calls. The psychics say it's
because subconsciously he can feel me letting go. I have decided though that this time I am staying away. I want this craziness out of my life. I just can't deal with anymore. I give up.I guess I should get that book on Love Signs, but do I even care anymore to try and understand? I don't know. I do wish you all the best with your relationship though. I hope it goes better than mine did.
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Aphrodite
Moderator Posts: 3280
From: San Francisco, CA, United States
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted March 20, 2003 12:18 PM
hello, i think the best thing . . . is to say to him what your genuine feelings are, which will leave him touched, moved, and inspired. aphrodite IP: Logged |
trinityfuse
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: Los Angeles, Ca
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 25, 2003 04:32 AM
ANSWER YOUR PHONE! HE MISSES YOU! TRUST ME...A TAURUS MAN WANTS SOMEONE HE CAN COUNT ON! (but yeah my taurus man drives me crazy as well...hehe) He always talks about getting his own life in check then he talks about OUR future together then SPACE then FUTURE....go figure...im starting to give up and just accept thingsIP: Logged |
artsy girl
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 25, 2003 11:08 AM
Trinityfuse! WOW! Thank you. Your man sounds like my man. (or the man I wanted rather). I've decided to give up and stay away from him. I think that I was wrong about my feelings because if there had been something there and we were ment to be together, It wouldn't have been like this. If he wanted me he would be calling...period. I don't want to obsess andgo crazy anymore so I'm letting go of all of this. Thank you all for your advice though. I really do appreciate it! I think if I ever meet another Tauras man, I will run like crazy. IP: Logged |
trinityfuse
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: Los Angeles, Ca
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 25, 2003 11:58 AM
Well your very welcome. How's the weather in Vegas anyway? I am planning to go there for my graduation...  damn them taurus men! IP: Logged |
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