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Topic: Dedicated to all the Cappy males (or other signs) who leave us hanging...:
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SweetCappie
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Registered: Oct 2005
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posted November 18, 2005 03:48 PM
 
Lotusheartone- Thank you for your beautiful words! IP: Logged |
greeneyedgemini
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From: ca, usa
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 18, 2005 04:17 PM
you always have a way with words~ sent you an email IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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Registered: May 2005
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posted November 18, 2005 08:00 PM
I don't have time to properly reply at the moment, but SweetCappie's insights are good, though parts of what was said sounded like what I've read about Virgos. (Maybe we're not so different from Virgos in some respects?) I've got a Virgo moon, so I'd have trouble figuring out whether it's a Virgo or Cappy trait in particular.Anyway, I'll be back to comment later.  IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
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posted November 18, 2005 08:01 PM
Funny ...I just realized I was pulling a disappearing act right now.  Seriously, though, it's 5:00 -time to go home.IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
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posted November 19, 2005 01:23 AM
Ok, upon further inspection, I think SweetCappie and my differences lie in our Moons. She's got a Cancer Moon, while mine is on the Virgo/Libra cusp in the 5th house. I'm not often able to distinguish the activities or functions of my moon, so this is interesting meeting someone with such a similar chart (We both seem to have Cap Sun, Gemini Rising, and Mercury & Venus in Sag in the 7th).If I have less than stellar chemistry with someone, then it can take quite awhile for me to come around to the idea that they're the one for me. I'm possibly an utterly hopeless romantic. Here's where I seem to differ with SweetCappie, though. If I get involved with someone, I don't abandon them. While flirting I don't feel bad spending lots of time away from the object of my affection, because there's really no duty to take care of them. However, after I get together with someone, even someone I'm not crazy about them I'll call often. Perhaps I'm not a typical Cappy in that respect. Like SweetCappie said, though, I too will work a lot harder than most to work things out. Perhaps it's the Gemini Ascendant ability to look at all sides of things when trying to come to a solution. When I was younger I may have displayed more of those qualities of running away and coming back. I typically take that behavior to indicate confusion. To me it looks as if the Cap hasn't made his/her mind up on whether or not they really want to be with you. We DO take it VERY seriously. We are ALWAYS in it for the long haul. IP: Logged |
SweetCappie
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posted November 19, 2005 01:27 PM
Very cool you responded AG! I was hoping you'd give your opinion on my analysis. I do want to make it clear that when I'm in a relationship, I DO NOT abandon them or not call them. This only happens when I'm not sure about them, basically when I just met them and don't know them too well. Once I do know them well and they catch my heart, I'm there for them 110% I'll also be more emotionally responsive if I know for sure that they truly love me. The exes I had in the past that said they loved me, they really didn't so I could never say it back to them. I pretty much ignored them. I guess its my Cancer moon that can tell how a person feels and when they are being insincere.So what are you confused about with your moon sign? I know a Moon in Virgo/Aqua sun and I see his moon sign come out more than his sun. It's quite an interesting mix. IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
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From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 19, 2005 01:36 PM
they said they loved me, but they really didn'tare you them, how did you know?
you couldn't say it back, what you lack
was Love for them you get what you give
if you with-hold, you will get nothing... ... you never know until you try,
what do you have to lose?
BEing alone? Love and Light to ALL IP: Logged |
SweetCappie
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posted November 19, 2005 02:11 PM
Hi Lotusheartone- Well what happened was after boy #1 & 2 (high school, college boyfriends) said they loved me, I did say it back but I was young and didn't really feel we all knew what love was. After a while, when I said I loved them and they didn't say it like before, I asked what was wrong and they both said they felt love for me at the moment but didn't feel it anymore. They made it sound like a passing mood. LOL.. Boy #1 was a Sag and boy #2 was a Libra/Scorp moon. Libra/Scorp treated me very badly in the relationship and I took it like a doormat (my fault) and it kinda traumatized me because after that I changed dramatically and became extremely cautious.The last ex (lasted 4 yrs, ended last year), Aqua/Scorp moon said he loved me very early in the relationship (2 months) and I wasn't sure if I felt the same and doubted him. I didn't say it back. I was confused about him and if he really did love me. The second and last time he expressed himself, he was drunk and it kinda slipped out of his mouth ("She knows I love her"), I was still confused about how I felt towards him so I didn't say a word back to him. After that I never heard it again and he changed for the worst. I still don't know if he ever loved me, but judging by how he played games with me (I won't get into details), that love wasn't true. He was the first guy I really did love. I ended up telling him after we broke up the second time (we broke up 3x). When you really love someone, you don't use them, manipulate them, cheat on them, purposely play jealousy games, make them feel insecure, invalidate their feelings, and that's what the the Libra and Aqua did to me. I was young, naive, and foolish to let that happen to me, but I have learned. I hope you now understand what I mean by me saying that they didn't really love me. This summer when I fell in love with my Taurean friend, I did tell him how I felt. I knew him for years and I saw in many different ways how he truly loved me (he told me indirectly several years ago, but directly said it last year). For the first time in my life, I realized what unconditional love was and it is a beautiful thing. Nothing like how the others boys said they loved me. My taurus love was pure, he loved me for who I was, stuck with me through the good and the bad. That's Love. IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
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From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 19, 2005 02:28 PM
there is also Karma, whatever things happen to you, remember you have done this to them, forgive and end the cycle of pain
come full serpent circle
forgive forgive forgivelove love love for every action, there is a re-action it's all in how we undertake to learn the lessons, that make our jounrney's different Saturn is a stern teacher, we are learning and growing, sometimes, painful, sometimes joyful, look at as your tapestry, and how you choose to weave the threads in.... .... IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted November 21, 2005 02:48 AM
My Moon's at the 29th degree of Virgo, so I guess I have traits from both moon signs. It's just difficult for me for to place my emotional nature with either. Part of it has to do with neither sign being particularly tied to emotion. My personality, however, is fairly emotional. I can make myself seem unemotional, but the truth is quite different.When I read the descriptions for the Moons, though, there are things in each that sound right. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 3460
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
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posted November 21, 2005 03:01 AM
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I DO NOT abandon them or not call them. This only happens when I'm not sure about them, basically when I just met them and don't know them too well.
Oh good! I'd read it the other way. Yeah, when I'm not yet together with someone, anything can happen. I don't necessarily concern myself with whether or not I'm available to that person. However, I am very courteous and friendly, so a simple phone from someone wanting to get in touch with me will be returned. Of course, that also has the added benefit of me feeling like whoever it is that's calling me is actually interested in me. IP: Logged | |
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