posted May 25, 2005 12:47 AM         

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It's difficult feeling so free in thought and spirit, but so restricted on the outside. You have a stellium in sag, so maybe you can relate to this.

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I have the opposite trouble actually. My ascendant is in Gemini, so I look much more open-minded than I really am. People get surprised to know I have a definite stance on things sometimes. Also, I have a more difficult time making decisions because of my Gemini interference.

posted May 25, 2005 01:05 AM         

Capricorn men suck. I wish it wasn't my descendant. Ugh.

posted May 25, 2005 08:40 AM         

I see what you're saying about the Gemini rising. I hadn't considered that.

My ascendant is at 28' Sag, so it's close.

I don't remember where I got the 28 year thing with Capricorn. I'll do some digging to see what I can find. I think it has something to do with the length of Saturn's cycle through the zodiac, maybe.

Something I've noticed that I thought might be attributed to Capricorn influence is that I find other people to be so careless when they're having fun. I feel compelled to always follow the rules (except the ones I feel were made to be broken... hypocritical, I admit.)

So you have a gemini ascendant. That would be a strange influence to mix with your Capricorn sun!

How long have you studied astrology?

posted May 25, 2005 09:22 AM         

Yes, Gemini does have a really odd effect on my Capricorn sun. Makes it so I can't get anyting done. lol I am more expressive in my vocabulary and word choice as a result I'm sure. I'm also WAY less decisive. Yikes!

Secret Garden just gave me a numerology website, and OMG I can't believe what it had to say. It was as right on as astrology. At least with the birthday part.

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The number 3 Life Path is one that emphasizes expression, sociability, and creativity as the lesson to be learned in this life. Here we are apt to find the entertainers of the world, bright, effervescent, sparkling people with very optimistic attitudes. A truly gifted 3 possesses the most exceptional creative skills, normally in the verbal realm, writing, speaking, acting, or similar endeavors. The lesson to be learned with a 3 life path is that of achievement through expression. The bright side of this path stresses harmony, beauty and pleasures; of sharing your creative talents with the world. Capturing your capability in creative self-expression is the highest level of attainment for this life path. The characteristics of the 3 are warmth and friendliness, a good conversationalist, social and open. A good conversationalist both from the standpoint of being a delight to listen to, but even more importantly, one who has the ability to listen to others. Accordingly, the life path 3 produces individuals who are always a welcome addition to any social situation and know how to make others feel at home. The creative imagination is present, if sometimes latent, as the 3 may not be moved to develop his talent. The approach to life tends to be exceedingly positive, however, and your disposition is almost surely sunny and open-hearted. You effectively cope with all of the many setbacks that occur in life and readily bounce back for more. It is usually easy for you to deal with problems because you can freely admit the existence of problems without letting them get you down. You have good manners and seem to be very conscious of other people's feelings and emotions. Life is generally lived to the fullest, often without much worry about tomorrow. You are not very good at handling money because of a general lack of concern about it. You spend it when you have it and don't when you don't.

On the negative side, a 3 may be so delighted with the joy of living that the life becomes frivolous and superficial. You may scatter your abilities and express little sense of purpose. The 3 can be an enigma, for no apparent reason you may become moody and tend to retreat. Escapist tendencies are not uncommon with the 3 life path, and you find it very hard to settle into one place or one position. Guard against being critical of others, impatient, intolerant, or overly optimistic.

Typically, the life path 3 gives an above-average ability in some art form. This can encompass painting, interior decorating, landscaping, crafts, writing, music, or the stage, or all of the above. You are apt to be a happy, inspired person, constantly seeking the stimuli of similar people. Your exuberant nature can take you far, especially if you are ever able to focus your energies and talents.

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Amazing. Truly. Refers to all the artistry I've felt throughout my life. In fact, I've considered most of the vocations listed there. Seems I need to focus my energy and talent.

posted May 25, 2005 10:35 AM         

yet........he calls me everyday. I think it's definitely time for some space because the man is obviously confused. He said he has strong feelings towards me.

Yet you don't love me in the way that I want?
Then why do you call me everyday and tell me how beautiful I am?

posted May 25, 2005 10:47 AM         

You have the ability to make friends very easily, as people are attracted to your magnetic, open personality. You have a special gift of understanding people, which if used correctly can be of great benefit to others. Your interest in people tends to make you quite social. People just naturally like you because you are so sympathetic, tolerant and broad-minded. In many ways, you are a romantic that can get lost in your loves and passions. Relationships can be difficult for you, however, because it is hard to strike a balance that will work effectively. If your partner is one sharing your giving attitudes, the relationship will be happy and lasting. On the other hand, if you choose a partner whose focus is on material issues, problems will arise quickly.

As do all the life path numbers, the 9 has its negative side, and because of the demanding nature of the truly positive 9, many tend to fail in this category. It is not uncommon for persons with the 9 life path to fight the realities and challenges of purpose imposed here because selflessness is not an easy trait. You may have difficulty believing that giving and a lack of personal ambition can be satisfying. It must be realized and accepted that little long-term satisfaction and happiness is to be gained by rejecting the natural humanitarian inclinations of this path.

posted May 25, 2005 04:17 PM         

I want to continue these discussions, but I won't have much more time to do so today. I want to reply to both of you though!