posted May 12, 2005 07:21 PM         

It's the negative aspects I want to ask about. There's no violence noted (how could there be between two heavily Gemini people?). I think most of the negative aspects fall on my side of the contributing profiles. My dominance and conflicts of ego are noted.

My questions are mostly:

When it comes to matters of love how do you determine what negative aspects are deal breakers?

Are there aspects of everyone's chart that probably won't ever be completely complimented by another person's chart?

Here's our info:

for "Me" (lol) (male)
born on 26 Dec 1972 local time 02:34 pm
in Orange, CA (US) U.T. 22:34
117w51, 33n47 sid. time 21:04:40
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Capricorn 05°16'40 08
Moon Virgo 29°35'09 05
Mercury Sagittarius 17°17'54 07
Venus Sagittarius 10°10'47 07
Mars Scorpio 27°27'50 06
Jupiter Capricorn 16°38'36 08
Saturn Gemini 15°40'09 01
Uranus Libra 22°36'30 06
Neptune Sagittarius 06°04'02 07
Pluto Libra 04°23'45 05
True Node Capricorn 16°51'40 08

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 02°53'38
2nd House Gemini 27°36'43
3rd House Cancer 19°46'00
Imum Coeli Leo 13°41'56
5th House Virgo 13°23'59
6th House Libra 21°35'25
Descendant Sagittarius 02°53'38
8th House Sagittarius 27°36'43
9th House Capricorn 19°46'00
Medium Coeli Aquarius 13°41'56
11th House Pisces 13°23'59
12th House Aries 21°35'25

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and "Her" (female)
born on 3 June 1970 local time 08:39 am
in Jackson, CA (US) U.T. 15:39
120w46, 38n21 sid. time 00:22:39
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Gemini 12°38'12 11
Moon Gemini 07°18'50 11
Mercury Taurus 18°44'57 11
Venus Cancer 14°27'10 12
Mars Cancer 00°54'17 12
Jupiter Libra 26°39'04 04
Saturn Taurus 16°06'11 11
Uranus Libra 04°41'21 03/4
Neptune Scorpio 29°09'31 05
Pluto Virgo 24°40'42 03
True Node Pisces 06°46'44 09

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 22°09'35
2nd House Leo 12°33'12
3rd House Virgo 06°21'00
Imum Coeli Libra 06°10'01
5th House Scorpio 12°20'40
6th House Sagittarius 19°40'42
Descendant Capricorn 22°09'35
8th House Aquarius 12°33'12
9th House Pisces 06°21'00
Medium Coeli Aries 06°10'01
11th House Taurus 12°20'40
12th House Gemini 19°40'42

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Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Pisces 23°57'26 10
Moon Leo 03°27'00 02
Mercury Pisces 03°01'26 09
Venus Virgo 27°18'58 04
Mars Virgo 14°11'03 04
Jupiter Sagittarius 06°38'50 06
Saturn Gemini 00°53'10 12
Uranus Libra 13°38'55 05
Neptune Sagittarius 02°36'46 06
Pluto Virgo 29°32'13 04
True Node Aquarius 11°49'12 08/9
True Node is technically near the end of house 8 and is interpreted in house 9.

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 27°31'37
2nd House Cancer 20°04'58
3rd House Leo 13°03'30
Imum Coeli Virgo 09°55'58
5th House Libra 12°52'19
6th House Scorpio 20°38'04
Descendant Sagittarius 27°31'37
8th House Capricorn 20°04'58
9th House Aquarius 13°03'30
Medium Coeli Pisces 09°55'58
11th House Aries 12°52'19
12th House Taurus 20°38'04

posted May 12, 2005 08:25 PM         

anyhow i will take a look and get back to u soon,

posted May 12, 2005 11:35 PM         

I'm not to advanced yet. However if you go to the astrology section of the forum, you will find a post that says put your links here. I listed lots of compatibility sites that do free composites and charts. They give you comaptibility reports.

Remember there are also other aspects in your chart.

Well since I have a taurus moon at the archaic degree(however the hell u spell it) and my taurus in venus it really bogs me down alot. So I don't act as b*tchy. I'd say it all depends on the man really. Capricorn men need to feel secure in a relationship and won't always enter things to lightly. They say you have to train them to be romantic from the start. Not a problem for me since I am already romantic. And well let's just say he's a beautiful man who is very honest and treats me like a queen

Be more emotionally open, at least. Do you like to cuddle alot? Just curious. My boyfriend does.

Buy her a good book. Do cute crap like that. Buy her an interesting book about let's say world conspiracies. Most geminis like to read. my mother is a gemini and we both love to read. We are spead readers. I once read somewhere that John F kennedy was a spead reader. He was also a gemini. I know many gems and the ones I know are like this.

Challenge her mentally. I notice aquarians, geminis, and saggitarians are like this. Talk about interesting stuff. Take a nice walk through the park. Go out to dinner.

Don't be to harsh and bossy.

And don't roam and look for other women.

Your ascendant is in gemini and her sun is also so that's good. Can help you relate a little more.

I notice your moon in virgo is at the 29 degree. You might wanna read about it here:

Anaretic degree:
The final degree (29th degree) of any Sign. It is also known as the degree of fate.
http://karma.astrology.com/anaretic.html

I have a taurus moon and it is at that degree also.

Hmmm you have mars in scorpio. Are you posessive sometimes?

posted May 13, 2005 02:16 AM         

What initially freaked me out about her was that she was a Gemini. I don't normally go for you guys, but there's definitely a connection there. A couple places in the free reports I saw it said that we had a psychic connection, and that we'd be lifelong friends or lovers. This seems easy for us both to see.

I haven't said this about our relationship. We met in an online game, and we hit it off and found out that we live fairly near one another. So where I normally wouldn't even consider meeting someone I've met online this kind of changes things.

posted May 13, 2005 03:40 PM         

You also have a gemini rising.

posted May 13, 2005 06:52 PM         

Yeah, I think her Cancerian and Taurus aspects work very well for me, and could be the reason we think we may be compatible. I typically fall for Cancers, and Tauruses are often my best friends.

posted May 13, 2005 07:05 PM         

Here's Her's:

And here's our composite:

posted May 13, 2005 07:26 PM         

The two of you are very different! Jason approaches life in a much more methodical, planned, patient manner than Jen. Jason uses a clear strategy and is willing to work hard for many long years to gradually achieve the intended goal. Jason is capable of great reliability and dedication, and will, for example, be willing to work through years of school until the desired degree is achieved, or work through a business or government hierarchy until a top position is achieved. Jen may also be successful, but the route is very different. Jen succeeds through curiosity, flexibility and adaptability, and communication skills. Unlike Jason , Jen is not inclined to persevere through the dry periods but rather moves on to more interesting material once a point of stagnation is reached. Both approaches can work, but they are different, and you may reach points in your lives where you cannot come to an agreement on the proper path to take.
Jason often seems like the adult in the relationship and can feel too conservative or serious to Jen. Jen is more like the child (or adolescent), being more flexible and playful but also less reliable and consistent.

Jen's Sun Opposite Jason's Mercury

Lively exchanges of ideas are common between the two of you. Fortunately, you understand each other well, but unfortunately you sometimes have opposite opinions and perspectives on an issue. Despite your differences, you work together very well in practical matters, planning, organizing, developing or communicating ideas, and your differing viewpoints are not likely to be a serious problem.

Jen's Sun Opposite Jason's Venus

Sparks fly when you come into contact with one another! Strong feelings of love, attraction, warmth, mutual admiration, and appreciation bring you together, and you are able to express your love feelings openly and fully to one another. You can be great friends and companions as well as lovers.

Jen's Sun Conjunct Jason's Saturn

One strong factor that attracted you to each other (perhaps unconsciously) is the feeling that you can have a deep, stable, permanent relationship and settle down together, facing life's responsibilities in a mature way, tackling challenges together such as raising children, becoming financially secure, etc. These concerns can gradually cause your relationship to become too absorbed with "serious" matters, causing both of you to feel limited and stifled by the relationship. Jason has a strong tendency to criticize and judge Jen s actions, sometimes accurately and sometimes unjustly. Jason should guard against this tendency to dampen Jen 's enthusiasm, and Jen needs to avoid being overly sensitive to Jason s suggestions and criticisms. Jason s tendency to dominate, control, or even repress Jen makes Jen feel resentful at times, and Jen may feel lowered vitality and self-confidence after being with Jason for a long time. You must make room for lightness and play, or you both will feel burdened by the tone that is set between you.

Jen's Sun Conjunct Jason's Ascendent

There is a very warm and vital connection between you, and Jason , in particular, will be a very influential person in Jen s life, and at times monopolizes or dominates Jen s attention. Upon meeting you may have felt that you already knew one another very well. Certainly you have much in common in terms of your attitudes and interests, which makes you both feel very comfortable and close to one another. The more time you spend together, the more your identities merge and you will feel very much a part of one another, a deep mutual dependence upon one another, a very important part of one another's lives.

Jen's Moon Opposite Jason's Venus

The love you feel for each other has a particularly sweet, romantic quality that draws the two of you together. You evoke the tender side of each other, and you simply love doing things for each other and giving gifts to one another. Your love for each other is very strong. Because you care for each other so much, you can also hurt each other's feelings rather easily.

Jen's Moon Conjunct Jason's Saturn

Together you can build a solid, secure relationship, a place of refuge and strength, but you must take care not to make it a prison with too much emphasis on commitment, responsibility, and duty. Jason in particular, has a strong parental attitude towards Jen , providing stability and support, yet also restricting, disciplining, or criticizing Jen s emotional, childish needs. Jason can be cool and indifferent towards Jen 's neediness. A pessimistic, heavy, serious atmosphere may develop between the two of you.

Jen's Moon Opposite Jason's Neptune

You enjoy sharing your hopes, ideals, social concerns, religious ideals, psychic experiences, dreams and fantasies. You work well together in areas that require great imagination, such as the arts and music. However, you also are prone to be a bit dreamy and unrealistic with each other, and may become enamored of glamorous, rather superficial traits in each other (such as social status, material assets, appearance) and be deceived by each other. Ask yourselves "Am I in love with a person or simply this person's image?"

Jen's Moon Trine Jason's Pluto

You have a very deep appreciation for each other's innermost feelings. This is not a superficial relationship. From your first meetings, you found that you could reveal to each other your deepest concerns, fears, and drives. At the least you are close friends. This deep appreciation and rapport is also conducive to a long-lasting marriage.

Jen's Moon Conjunct Jason's Ascendent

The two of you probably felt like old friends right from your first meeting. You have a natural affinity for each other, and it is very likely that you will remain life-long friends. You enjoy each other's company, feel very at home with each other, share many of the same interests, preferences, and tastes. You have a direct, intuitive understanding of each other that allows you to communicate and share your feelings and thoughts very openly with each other. Jason tends to "mother" and care for Jen and Jen easily can become dependent on Jason In fact, a mutually dependent relationship is very likely.

Composite Report for Jason and Jen

Sun in Pisces
The two of you are extremely sensitive to each other's moods and thoughts. In fact, psychic awareness of each other may be your primary form of communication. You want to be of service to each other. A gentle, spiritual relationship.

Moon in Leo
Many of the emotional issues that arise between the two of you are ego-oriented. Each of you needs to be the center of attention so you may have to take turns. This relationship likes to be noticed. You need to feel proud of each other. Very loyal.

Ascendent in Gemini
The two of you can't get enough experiences. The more stimulating your environment, the happier you are. You enjoy talking with others and people find you interesting and witty. People identify you best through your intellectual endeavors.

Sun Opposite Venus

Quite simply, one of your purposes in being together is to create and express beauty, whether this is in the form of a beautiful, loving relationship, or gracious and artful works. There can also be an element of vanity, artifice, or show-offiness - the desire to be seen and recognized as a Beautiful Couple, whether or not that's entirely true. Hiding or downplaying your difficulties and the "uglies" in your relationship may be helpful to a point, but if you try to maintain this image of yourselves as a happy, loving twosome despite your actual conflicts, then deeper troubles may never get attended to. However, whatever friction, dissonance, or ill will develops between you, there will also always be an urge to harmonize, reconcile, and ease your differences, and to create cooperation. It will take a lot for the two of you to ever turn against each other entirely.

Sun Opposite Pluto

The two of you have a very powerful and profound effect upon one another for good or ill, and a major temptation for you both is to use your power to control or change or reform one another. Inevitably you WILL be transformed as a result of your interaction with each other and the struggles you will face together, which at times may seem monumental. Circumstances which force you to eliminate everything you thought you knew or had, and begin all over again, will arise. You may lose something which is very precious to you both, but as a result, experience life on a much deeper level.
This relationship is anything but superficial. It will probably be one of the most intense of your lives. At its best it can enable you both to reclaim power you never realized was in you.

Moon Trine Jupiter

Quite simply, one of the purposes of your relationship is to BE HAPPY. Play, laughter, humor, and just feeling wonderful in each other's presence is the heart of it. You put one another in a good mood, and can cheer one another up quite easily. It will be unusual for both of you to be down for very long when you're together.
To others you will appear to be unusually blessed. You seem "gifted" together, and you will be... uncommon good fortune and "miracles" happen to you, and as a couple you will be quite generous and willing to share the good that comes your way.
A feeling of openness, spaciousness, tolerance, and generosity towards one another permeates your bond.

Moon Trine Neptune

posted May 13, 2005 08:05 PM         

Jennifer's Sun in Gemini and Steven's Sun in Capricorn
The two of you are very different! Steven approaches life in a much more methodical, planned, patient manner than Jennifer . Steven uses a clear strategy and is willing to work hard for many long years to gradually achieve the intended goal. Steven is capable of great reliability and dedication, and will, for example, be willing to work through years of school until the desired degree is achieved, or work through a business or government hierarchy until a top position is achieved. Jennifer may also be successful, but the route is very different. Jennifer succeeds through curiosity, flexibility and adaptability, and communication skills. Unlike Steven , Jennifer is not inclined to persevere through the dry periods but rather moves on to more interesting material once a point of stagnation is reached. Both approaches can work, but they are different, and you may reach points in your lives where you cannot come to an agreement on the proper path to take.

~ often seems like the adult in the relationship and can feel too conservative or serious to Jennifer Jennifer is more like the child (or adolescent), being more flexible and playful but also less reliable and consistent.

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Jennifer's Sun Conjunct Steven's Mars
Your relationship is a stimulating, energizing, dynamic one. You inspire each other to be very active in both work and play, and to accomplish a great deal. You enjoy challenging each other and probably enjoy competing with each other in games. Sexual attraction to each other is very strong as well. The only negative tendency is to possibly develop a rivalry with each other; this is especially possible if Steven comes on too forcefully, directly and aggressively, hurting Jennifer 's feelings or pride.

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Jennifer's Moon Trine Steven's Mercury
You enjoy long talks and you feel very much at home with each other. You are able to openly share your feelings about various issues, whether they are political, religious, or personal in nature. You will find that as you spend more time together, your tastes, interests, hobbies, and activities tend to blend together harmoniously. The feeling of friendship and inner understanding of each other is very satisfying and of a very positive nature.

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Jennifer's Moon Opposite Steven's Venus
The love you feel for each other has a particularly sweet, romantic quality that draws the two of you together. You evoke the tender side of each other, and you simply love doing things for each other and giving gifts to one another. Your love for each other is very strong. Because you care for each other so much, you can also hurt each other's feelings rather easily.

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Jennifer's Moon Sextile Steven's Saturn
The level of mutual trust and respect for each other is very high. You are very responsible and honest to each other. You are able to communicate your deepest concerns, values, priorities, and moral beliefs with a candidness and frankness that is impossible with most other people. It is likely that your relationship will be a long, stable one.

Composite Report for Steven and Jennifer

Sun 5 AR 5 1N08
Moon 2 AR 50 2N13
Mercury 4 AR 22 2S28
Venus 27 AQ 42 1S37
Mars 12 LE 31 11N35
Jupiter 23 CP 8 3S44
Saturn 8 VI 10 8N58
Uranus 19 SC 1 17S46
Neptune 19 SG 6 21S26
Pluto 17 LI 55 8N50
Node 16 VI 40 3N05
Ascendent 3 TA 42 2N13
Midheaven 6 AQ 3 8S25

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Sun in Aries
The two of you have a lot of impulsive energy at your disposal. You need to be active in the world and are good at leading others. You may have to give up instant gratification and work at putting your partner's needs before your own.
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Moon in Aries
This relationship can be very demanding. You have fiery, impulsive wants and needs. You feel adventurous when you're together. Anger may rise between you quite often, but it passes quickly. Impatient. You arouse each other.
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Ascendent in Taurus
Being together brings out the sensualist in each of you. You enjoy life more fully and feel things more deeply when you are in each other's company. You like your surroundings to be soft and inviting. As a couple you are comfortable to be around.
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Sun Conjunct Moon
You complement one another and bring about a sense of balance and wholeness0 lives. There is a deep and abiding attraction between you, and together you will both feel very unified and more complete than you feel singly. Over time you will begin to feel almost a part of one another.

An important aspect of your purpose together is to bring something new into the world - either physical offspring or "brain children", or both. You will be quite fruitful as a couple.

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Sun Conjunct Mercury
Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another's curiosity and interest in the world - all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.

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Sun Sesquiquadrate Uranus
Your relationship may or may not be long lasting, but it will always have a flavor of unpredictability, spontaneity, and surprise. Periodic unexpected events and changes create an unsettled feeling between you, as if you can never quite relax and settle down into a comfortable, established pattern. While you will never be bored with one another, neither will you ever feel quite certain or peacefully secure. However, if your temperaments enable you to he highly flexible and adventurous and willing to take risks, you may be able to ride through the ups and downs.

You are destined to act as "awakeners" for one another. One of you may open the other to something totally new and different, even shocking, which revolutionizes the way you view the world and your place in it - something you may once have considered weird or too "far out". Always there will be the element of experimentation, of following the unexpected twist in the road. Being with one another encourages you both to be more free, unconventional, and impulsive than you might be otherwise.

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Moon Conjunct Mercury
Through your relationship with one another, and especially your intimate conversations, both of you will understand your past histories, your emotions, and your own inner lives much more clearly. Being in one another's presence evokes in both of you the desire to confide, to tell your stories, to speak about your private selves. You are able to talk for hours. There is often a sentimental or nostalgic tone to your discussions. Visiting old childhood haunts together, studying your family trees, looking at and discussing old photographs, describing your dreams to each other, talking about your children or your mate or parents - this type of sharing will be a crucial aspect of your bond. Even if you are not the sort of person who discusses feelings or readily confides in others, you'll find that with this particular person, you can and will. You make good counselors for one another.

posted May 14, 2005 05:15 AM         

I'm from India?

Do I look like I'm from India?

I'm from Tustin, CA in Orange County, and now I live in the Bay Area, CA. I've been to around 20 countries on 4 continents, but the longest I've lived away from California is a few terrible years in Tennessee.

This is so weird that I have to wonder why anyone would even think that I'm not American. My nearest relative to not come from America are my deceased great grandparents from Norway.

Here's a pic of me on my ship. I was in the Navy 1994-1998.

It's not about linguistics. My Gemini ascendant may cause me to be slightly more eloquent than the average person, but I am SO a Californian.

My Aries roommate likes guessing and making assumptions about things too, but you couldn't be farther off this time. Have you ever met an Indian person so ashamed of his culture that he would pretend to be born in America? I haven't. Check out http://groups.msn.com/LindalandPhotoShop/homepage for photos I posted on the 10th (before this debate started). What would be my motivation to put on such a farce?

posted May 14, 2005 07:22 AM         

What's the rest of this fantastical story you're weaving? I'm sure it's fascinating.

I think my email is available if you click my profile. Email me if you like and we can talk over MSN or Yahoo Messenger. I think that's the best I can do as far as proving I'm a Californian American of European descent.