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Topic: Is it Love?
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melbel1964 Knowflake Posts: 5 From: Montreal Quebec Canada Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 24, 2005 10:38 PM
I will try to explain my situation in as few words as possible..I was recently involved with someone..We lived across the hall from each other..We ended things about 2 1/2 months ago after one year..We had never put a lable on our reletionship but were together every second and had plans to move in together..one day he just changed his mind about living with me and started to act strange..i know a few women who had dated him and they all were very scarred by him but the connection that i felt with him was unbelievable..I felt like i knew him for years..Its difficult to explain..Basically to sum it up, for the past 2 1/2 months its been over..but it hasnt..we are constantly in out of each others lives and it seems that no matter how much time goes by when we're together or sexual it feels like it never ended..Im confused and dont know what to do..He is a Pisces, March 3rd 1981, and im december 28th 1983 capricorn, any help would be appreciatedIP: Logged |
artlovesdawn Knowflake Posts: 1176 From: Registered: Jul 2005
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posted August 24, 2005 11:32 PM
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 11092 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted August 25, 2005 12:11 AM
I'm a Cap, and I've felt a couple times that Pisces males were/are players. I might be wrong. Maybe there's something I don't understand.I would be confused as well, and I'd probably have to do something about it eventually. I mean, you can either enjoy the sex when it comes, and try to be ok with it, or you can make a stand for what you want (which probably fits your character better). IP: Logged |
Isolaede Knowflake Posts: 346 From: Studio City, CA Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 25, 2005 04:34 PM
Dear Melbel1964, My heart goes out to you. From the preliminary chart I did, it looks like your love is a sun Pieces, moon Aquarius, venues Pieces, and mars Pieces. That’s a lot of pieces and unfortunately combined with his age that means he’s probably not completely sure what he wants, and not above playing games in love. He also would probably never come out and tell you if he didn’t want to be with you, for fear of hurting your feelings. To answer your question: Is it love? I'd say no. Love by it's very nature cherishes the object of it's affection. I don't see your Pieces cherishing you. My gut tells me this fellow isn’t stable, or ready for a relationship with you. He’s either playing a game, to see if you’ll chase him, or more likely he’s truly drifted away. Either way, ask yourself – do you truly want to be with someone that doesn’t see just how magnificent you are? Do you want to try to hold onto someone that doesn’t grab you and hold onto you just as tightly? However, it sounds like you need closure, so my advice is confront him. You have nothing to loose at this point. Expose your heart to him, and see what he says. If he turns you away, then he doesn’t deserve you. Have courage, Melbel! My prayers are with you. - Isolaede
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