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phoenixflesh
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From: gold coast qld australia
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posted January 03, 2006 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for phoenixflesh     Edit/Delete Message
Over the years i have had some serious connections with several men (obviously not all at the same time) Over the course of these relationships i have participated in past life regressions to enable me to find the true connection with these individuals. Time and time again past issues (hidden deep within them) have been the thing that has led them to me. Each time before meeting these men i asked the universe to send me my mate and always it is undeniable who they have sent. The electricity between us is undeniable BUT each time the relationship deteriorates over time. Either they dont remember the connection and refuse to evolve or the connection is from past trauma we have shared and once healed, the relationship all but disolves. AAAARRRGGGHHHH Where am i going wrong. I refuse to believe I am here in this realm without my male counterpart. Where is he and when is he coming home.

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fayte.m
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posted January 04, 2006 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Soul connections...unfinished business...things to learn...Karmic debts...etcetera....
Soul Connections are easy to come by.
Soul Mates are rare. Most people love the concept of a soulmate..but are not mutually ready for that kind of deep commitment.
With a soulmate you will have NO doubt. Even when the sexual passion is gone... or perhaps never even happens....it will still feel/sense right.
If one has to ask..
Is this my soulmate?
Then the answer is..NO.
But that does not mean that it is not a good and necessary matching or soul connection.
These kind of connections are important. These connections will enable you all to learn and love and grow.
Then when the time is right and the two soul mates have learned and are ready for the deepest of soul connections...they will find each other.

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ariestiger
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posted January 04, 2006 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestiger     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with Fayte, and if you find one, you are very, very lucky.

No, I don't think they are people one has had issues with in past lives, but then I don't believe in past lives. I think that the more specific - and idiosyncratic one is, the greater likelihood there is of finding a soul mate.

And even if you don't, you can always carry the ideal around in your head. And if you wish for it enough, with all your heart and mind and body and soul, and never give up hope, because the iron will strike when you least expect...maybe something might happen

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hippichick
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posted January 09, 2006 11:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
if we are all of spirit then we are all soul mates and we all have something to learn from eachother! i believe we are drawn to those and those to us from whom we can learn the most from at any point in time. no relationship ever ends, just changes shape. you also draw to you what you put out there, so evaluate the energy that you are sending out. and remember you cant give what you dont have! peace, luv n light...

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pidaua
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posted January 09, 2006 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
Hmmm.. that is a difficult question.

I have a hard time with past lives, but I do believe in Karmic connections. People come into our lives to either teach us lessons or to be taught lessons from us.

I am still bound to my ex. I still love him very deeply, especially now that the hurt is almost gone. We are trying to make a go of it and I believe he has made changes in his own heart. It took major emotional upheavals, in his life and in mine, for us to break through. The karmic lessons have been tremendous, but it is a long road.

I had also met another person that I had a deep connection with. He came into my life at a time when I was hurting and made me see things in a different light, as I did him. We had wonderful talks, evenings out and just enjoyed being together. The one thing that was missing was the "spark".

My ex knew me inside and out and the spark was always there.. even in the bad times.

I know this may not help, but with lessons and issues.. following the painful road, comes a certain wisdom and happiness.

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fayte.m
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posted January 09, 2006 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
I posted some links that are somewhat about this subject at: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001948.html

Hope that helps!

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angel_of_hope
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From: Palmer, Alaska (the valley)
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posted January 10, 2006 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel_of_hope     Edit/Delete Message
I think a person has many soulmates in their lifetime(s) ... i believe its the "twin soul" that is rare ... and hard to find or come by. Linda also believed that a person can have more than one, many for that matter, soul mates. People are often mistaken when they find their soul connection, as to whether that other person is their twin or mate. I myself, believe there is a big difference.

I believe as well that, with soul mates, often there is a past connection. I'm not so positive though, that all are related to "big" issues .... but karmic issues. Whether those be good or bad. Karma is a learning experience. Just like us as children being punished by our parents for "not cleaning our room" (i.e. grounded) is not a punishment, but a teaching experience that we are to learn from. So with "your men" i believe each is a learning experience in one way or another, whether you are the teacher or the student ...

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i believe we are drawn to those and those to us from whom we can learn the most from at any point in time. no relationship ever ends, just changes shape
~ hippichick

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People come into our lives to either teach us lessons or to be taught lessons from us.
~ pidaua

Couldnt have saud it more better myself ... i really gotta start reading all the posts before responding! I also agree with those quotes - and i guess thats what i was trying to get at.

~Ang

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