posted November 28, 2006 08:11 PM            

Your partner could have a strong Saturn,Pluto influence.

a good example is somebody with:

posted November 28, 2006 08:19 PM            

You take your commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Your strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes you a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but you often feel that marriage or any binding commitment between yourself and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seek to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for you and it may seem that you are always "working on" your marriage rather than enjoying it. You will persevere and ultimately grow through the process, however.

Pluto in 7th

posted August 25, 2009 12:24 PM            

That's a lot of Saturn in the 7th. Is that bad?

posted August 25, 2009 10:48 PM            

Basically always had a boyfriend of one kind or another. I fell in love in my late teens (with a guy only 2 years older), we were together till my early 30s, then I left him. Now, a couple years later, I am single for the first time.

posted September 06, 2009 04:43 PM            

Actually, that's how it has worked for her.

tantricseed is my exgf,Meghann.

I am 12 years older than her.

As you see, I have a very strong Saturn influence.

I actually met her the day after she first posted this thread. I wasn't a member of this forum until July 2006. I didn't know about this thread until November 2006. The example that I gave was my own chart. I even showed her my post to her shortly after I posted. She and I were officially a couple August 2006.

the issue wasn't the Saturn conjunct Pluto in 7th. It was her Moon in Scorpio conjunct that Saturn in Scorpio and Pluto in Libra.

She has very strong obligations to her mother,and she couldn't cut the umbilical card. What made it worse was that her mother had a strong dislike for men because Meghann's father cheated on her. Out of fear of what her mom would think because of her prejudices with men, Meghann kept our relationship a secret until she got herself situated in regards to her relocation and work stuff. She was also concerned about what her mom would think about the age difference. Having parents that were 13 years apart, I didn't think anything of it. Besides, she was over 21 years old. She was planning to relocate with her mom. She had an argument with her sister. Her sister threatened to tell the truth about the relationship to her mother. Meghann told her mother before sister was. She told me that her mother was angry with her for lying to her instead of being happy that her daughter found a nice guy that wasn't like her exhusband. That was the beginning of the end of our relationship. She broke up with me on April 2nd shortly after she went to her grandmother's funeral. She and her mom decided that they were going to relocate and live in her grandmother's condominium.

it was an interracial relationship. She's white, and I am the son of black man and white woman.

so it wasn't that her relationship were doomed. It's the issue with how her life depends on what her mom thinks and feels. With her mother's prejudices being a complication.

She let fear overcome love.

I don't think any placement dooms anybody. It's what we do that determines if your relationships work or not.

Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

posted September 16, 2009 02:29 PM            

i did marry late (33 and already a mom is pretty much late!) and experienced a lot of saturn and pluto in my marriage, in fact all my relationships. learned a lot from each one.

the part about seriousness and intensity is especially true, i have had plenty of light ENCOUNTERS, but not ONE relationship - oh, i tell a lie! my first live-in boyfriend was my best friend, made me laugh, no complications really - except that he bored me! not intellectually but emotionally and physically. the only person i ever ditched for someone else!

house 7 is also where you keep your projections, so many of the traits may SEEM to represent your partners more than yourself, but don't be fooled!!! it's all your stuff!

posted September 29, 2009 05:16 AM            

Saturn represents maturity, realism and pragmatism. Rarely is Saturn spontaneous, irresponsible and disorganized. Saturn values organization,restraint and loyalty.

You must look at whether the other planets in the 7th house support Saturn or modify its effect on the 7th house issues.

A planet's characteristics that contradict the above mentioned traits of Saturn will "dilute" the effect(so to speak).

Taken indidvidually, Saturn in 7th house represents the single man or woman who is far too busy to be inlove or too self-sufficient to have close associates.

It represents the individual whom seems so self-sufficient and "all together" that they project that they don't need anyone with whom they can have an intimate relationship.

Saturn in 7th house represents dullness,contemplation of divorce or separation in a married life because the "spark" has gone.

Saturn in 7th house represents loneliness(of the affectionate kind) and the feeling of being unable to connect with your partner. Even within a seemingly loving relationshup, one feels "alone" and "unloved" by the partner.

Remember that Saturn is "realism" without the romance. It tallys up what is tangible and from that decides on what to do.

If you've viewed your relationships with intimate others, marriage and business relationship(and all other 7th house issues) with rose coloured glasses before, Saturn in 7th house TAKES THEM OFF.

posted September 29, 2009 03:07 PM            

I'm not into older guys. I liked same age guys or guys a year or two older when I was younger...basically my 7th house Saturn and I like tall, hot 24-year-old guys with beautiful faces, good jawlines, and lean torsos. Those guys were older than me in the past, younger than I am now.

All the guys I've gone for have been wildly talented, witty, and unconventional...also I have a secret weakness for fame...so I can see a guy's wonderfulness being more important to me than him meeting the beauty ideal at some point. I actually don't care about age at all--I care about mutual chemistry, beauty, sex appeal, brilliance, talent, and the guy being a really unusual, cool person who I think is extraordinary.

But, so far, I've never been attracted to the old ones, I think cause they just aren't as hot looking to me.

posted February 22, 2011 05:48 AM            

I did not realize that it was in the 7th though.
That explains a lot of what you are going though.
For me, if there is ONE planet I don't want Saturn to mess with,it is the moon.

The moon seems like it needs all the warm fuzzies it can get.
It is such a sensitive creature.

I think these placements--planets/houses are the root of the challenges you are expressing.
As you look in to all parts of them, you will prolly find ways to morph them in to being the best they can be.

I think Astrology can do that.