posted February 27, 2006 01:04 PM         

I find most women get frustrated and want answers, and that just annoys us. It takes a tough woman with a few more-than-odd psychological complications to keep a Scorpio interested.

I think my best relationship was with a Capricorn. She would do the sickest and kinkiest stuff that no other girl would, then she would turn completely aloof and it was so intriguing. She was one of the strongest willed women I've ever known.

Its dominance/submission with a bunch of elusiveness that Scorpios often seem to be turned on most by, and what keeps us around to see what happens next.

posted February 27, 2006 02:21 PM         

I think the best way to be with Scorpios is to go slowly. However, in your case Aqua Lady, I would run very quickly away from this particular Scorpion.

Scorpios, at their worst, have highly manipulative tendencies and becasue of their ability to lie when they feel it is necessary, coupled with their hypnotizing gaze AND their abilities to easily access the emotional self can make them very dangerous. I would like to stress that there are higher and lower level people from all signs and that includes Scorpio.

He may have even managed to convince himself that he is not doing anything wrong. He might have justified his actions to himself. Either way, he is messing with you.

Scorpios are often very aware of other people but I have found in my own personal experience that Scorpios are not the most self-aware cats in town. The less evolved often will have a better sense of who you are than they will of themselves.

So don't be freaked out Aqua, just be aware and realize that your Scorpio lover may well not be.

Peace!

Love

posted February 27, 2006 02:24 PM         

"Scorpios need a fine mix of knife twisting and nursing from their lover"....WOW....I get you !!!

Are you male or a gay female....found your post most intriguing....whats your chart like,if you dont mind me asking....cos you sound a lot like me ??? !!!

Thanks

posted February 27, 2006 05:44 PM         

He is just as needy and whiny as any other unevolved man regardless of the sign. I think though that many realize that there is a myth around the "scorp" and so they try to live it up.

I had a friend out to visit who came under the guise that he wanted to look for work in Arizona and find land. Yeah.. the jacka$$ wanted to LAND ME. LMAO.. he kept saying "Oh baby, who knows, you may end up falling in love with me when I am visiting you"

Or he would send me text messages in the bar telling me how much he wanted me and knew I wanted him too. In actuality, he was so disgusting (There would be no Archer chase that we love so much) and needy that he made me want to seriously PUKE.

He had just gone through a nasty break up (along with his other break-ups and 3 marriages) but he was still looking for someone to take care of him. I found him to be repulsive and pathetic thinking that he was some charming guy that was God's gift to women. LMAO... maybe female hominids, but not homo sapiens.

In any case, when he realized I was not interested he tried to see if he could make me jealous. He started texting women and asking me if it bothered me. LMAO

I said "No.. not at all. I find it to be repulsive in that you have completely lost control of your senses. Here you have been crying about the ex, yet you are playing games with everyother female. If you want a mommy, why do you move in with yours?"

Then he turned off the charm and started to try and pick on me:

"How could any man want to be with you Pidaua? You have so many friends, the majority of which are male and who knows what you do with them after you are out".

I smiled "Too bad that is something you will never ever know but will always have to think about. Besides, it's a woman's world as well and if choose to take someone home then I will do that. But you can be assured that someone will never be you. Hell you can't even keep up with my social calendar".

Then it went into "Maybe you wouldn't be single if you weren't so independent. Doesn't that make you lonely? I am looking for a woman to take care of me and who will love me for how great I am. See, that is how you should be".

LMAO.... Again.. I laughed at him and said "It takes a stronger person to love him or her self in order to really enjoy giving and receiving love. I feel sorry for the person that has to be so weak as to throw themselves into any relationship".

Needless to say, we are not friends any longer. I had to take his jerky butt back to the airport and didn't say ONE word on the way because he was that much of an a$$..

Hell, he even had the nerve to request for this Archer to wake up the same time as him so that I would make coffee and cook breakfast.

I said "Go down the 60 concrete stairs, make a hard left, follow the road and Circle K is right there waiting to serve you"

Hee hee hee....

Maybe it is my Pluto conjunct Ascendant that makes me so "scorp" proof. But I really am not taken with them at all. I do have a thing for their opposites though. Taurus intrigues me and scares me at the same time.

Leo makes me feel like I can truly be possessed and loved while Saggies makes me laugh hysterically.

Scorpionic Web - yeah.. save your sick crap for another thread with a disclaimer. Telling us how you got off on some woman that would fully demean herself in the act of sex and then act aloof is not a factor that is indicative of being mysterious. It is more indicative of one that has a sexual fetish that allows him or her to do things most would find repulsive.

Taking her predilection towards kinky sex and applying it to what makes a woman mysterious and able to keep a Scorp interested is ludacris (with the exception of you) I am not meaning this AT ALL as a bad thing. I am just merely pointing it out so as not to feed into the myth that ALL scorp males have such a voracious sexual / kinky appetite that the only way to keep them is to defile oneself. LOL

posted February 27, 2006 06:46 PM         

You have to be one...to understand it....

posted February 28, 2006 12:38 AM         

I briefly dated a Scorpio man last fall. Things were ok, and I was wanting to go slow. He was infatuated and very expressive. I wasn't feeling mutually his intensity in such a short period of time and his expression actually made me grow colder and uncertain. It was strange. I wasn't sure how much I liked him and didn't want to express things that weren't genuine.

I still remember him saying one time, "You don't like me!" I felt bad about it and didn't know what to say.

I stopped communication and he did the same. I never got any retaliation or angry words from him. Then he started instant messaging me asking how I was and if he can come over to my place and watch a movie. I recall him asking several times on different occasions, I always replied "No." One time he said he would call me. He didn't. I wasn't expecting him too.

The more recent instant messaging was of him saying he would love to be friends with me. He had this thing about using the word "love." He asked me for my number and I said "Why?" He hadn't called before and I was wondering. He said he has lost his phone the last time he was in France.

*uh huh*

He gave me his number and told me to call whenever. I told him I would, then flaked. I couldn't bring myself to do it.

Anyway, he asked why I didn't call and I basically confessed that I felt uncomfortable. That although intellecutally I could understand the concept of friends, I just didn't feel it inside wanting to do that.

posted February 28, 2006 01:36 AM         

My forum name IS my disclaimer.

And I don't TRY to be mysterious. How absurd. Scorpio does wear masks, and the mystery that others perceive is no doubt a side-product. Life is often a facade or persona for us; we assume entirely different roles for different company. Many consider Scorpios spineless. But most Scorpios couldn't care less what others think, and like myself, are often upfront about their life. I think I've made my tendencies rather obvious. And I would put it all out there for every girl who cares to hear.

We're a case study in contradiction.

And we're often a study of ourselves.

I don't have a fetish that I'm aware of. I just love everything to do with women. I've had few sexual partners, as I prefer serious relationships, but yes, I'll take it as far as she can go.

I don't think applying aspects of kinky sex to a woman's mysticism is too far off. Its breaking down the barriers of human connection.

Because I see the amazing part of it all, it may be simply a Scorpio thing. But I highly doubt it. I'm not being mysterious when I say this- you obviously don't quite understand the enjoyment. And thats just fine. There are aspects to every relationship that outsiders will simply not make sense of.

posted February 28, 2006 04:10 AM         

You too have a Scorpio Mercury Jupiter and Venus as well as a Venus ruled moon (I have taurus there) and a fire sign on the ascendant (I have Aries). I also have Mars in earth (Taurus)..... God we are similar.....!!!!

And I can relate to EVERYTHING you wrote in your last post, except I would say that I love everything about men....well almost everything....

I always wondered what it wouldve been like to be a man....and you obviously how it would be as a woman?

Are you an October born or November ?

Thanks....your post made me feel....errrr......normal....hahahahaha......as if !!!

posted February 28, 2006 11:46 AM         

I do understand the enjoyment of another person and the fact that there are facinating... ummmmm things one can do with another. I am just not one to put it out there in that manner in which you did. (LMAO... could be Mercury in Capricorn - I have been accused of sounding rather cold in my writings. Or.. Saturn in Taurus in the 8th always seems to be the editor of my language...especially that which deals with sex).

Although I may talk a good game, I keep a fair amount of what I do behind closed doors because I am intensely private about certain actions that I can only share with someone that I am....well merging with. Again, that may be the Saturn in the 8th thing. There is little that freaks me out in the bedroom, but there is little I will try if I am not in love or into the person, in fact, there won't even be an invite if I can't see myself with that person (a few indiscretions aside) LOL...

Once two people have merged....well, then life / sex it an amusement park and I throw myself into it... which is rare (because I can't just break out that MOJO for anyone..then I would have TOO MANY fans LMAO).

I think my discomfort comes when I see specific acts spelled out (and I am sure you did not mean it to come off as crude, but it assaulted my sensibilities - please say that in your best southern accent) LOL...

Then again, my poor Leo, I have bragged about his, shall we say, stamina and endowment - which made him feel proud yet uncomfortable at one time. But... he also let it go since there were several men hitting on me and I let them know that I was with the "king" and they had to hit the road (Hee hee).

He also has to put up with the weirdness that follows us... he attracts TROUBLE... I attract DRAMA... it seems that when we go out we get a bit of both, but indirectly - yet we manage to get out of the situation unscathed..

Now we were approached by a young Taurus man that fell madly in love with the both of us on Superbowl Sunday. He saw us again last weekend and wanted to take BOTH OF US home... Oh hell NO!!! LOL.. I was flattered and weirded out at the same time.. .but who am I to tell the guy he is off? TO each their own right? I politely declined until he crossed the line and really threw his poor self at the Lion and I. Telling us how beautiful we are together and he just wanted to watch. Ewww... nope.. not gonna happen.

You should have seen the Leo's eyes. He just growled and said "Young man.. I do not share and she does not want to be shared, so you may want to find another couple to follow".

I just smiled..... that's my Leo

Anyway,

I don't think you are a total pervert at all. I am a bit spunky and off the chain, verbally, when I want to be (I just pictured Meatwad and his off the chain comments from Aqua Teen Hunger Force LOL)...

But it is all in good fun. Besides, who better to take a barbed comment from an Archer than a Scorp? Not only can I shoot the arrow at you, but I can do it from a safe distance and not get stung

Hee hee....

PS.. you seem cool too.. for now, we'll wait until you turn weird.. you all do (LMAO... again, I am just kidding).

posted February 28, 2006 11:50 AM         

And unlike the above poster.....I would LOVE to have you spell MORE out....

But then again I am a Scorpio and the thing that is written about "no taboos" in my case rings true...either that or i AM a bit of a perv.....or as I like to put it very open minded.....

Retain a childlike curiosity and you will never become old !!

posted February 28, 2006 01:44 PM         

Huh? Huh?

Likewise, my first tattoo was on the small of my back and quite large. Took almost two hours.... and now I want to get one, not on my ankle, but on my foot. I think I need to do that this year. To commemorate changes.

Gosh, Pid, you are such a sl*t!
I'm kidding.

posted February 28, 2006 02:12 PM         

Pixie,

It is of an Apache Mandala - about 4 inches in diameter. Inside it my dream guide - the profile of a horses head (lower neck on up) and there are 4 long feathers that go from left to right.

The detail is amazing. The artist did it all in black and shades of black (having olive colored skin, I was advised on my first tattoo that colors would fade faster than the black). It took him 4 hours because he was so meticulous (A Pisces artist.. yay). My picture (I took several drawings and merged them together with one that I had seen- then tweaked them a bit) had less detail...

Man when he was done I was amazed. I also had the Sag glyph intertwined with the Leo glyph placed as a brand on the horse's neck. (Not because of the Leo, but because my Leo grandfather just passed away and it reminded me of how much I miss my Leo grandmother - she was such a large part of my life and heart).

The horse and mane are just beautiful... muscular and extremely forceful in picture. I can almost see the rest of the body in my mind of a Stallion rearing up to defend the territory (in this case.. my A$$) LMAO...

Oh yeah.. the new Leo...

He has a Pisces moon, Merc in Leo, Venus in Virgo (kind of ick) and Mars in Taurus. We have to wait to get his birth time.

Big blue eyes, dark hair (he's Irish and Cherokee...so a very strong face) and well... he's just HOT HOT HOT...

And.. he makes me crack up. He's a SGT 1st Class in the Army (former Airborne Paratrooper) now he flies UAV's(drones). I thought I would never date another Military dude, but he seems to be normal (as he said, going through Ranger training does that to a person). My ex never made it through it and was cocky as hell - so I was worried about this guy.. but he's just mellow and sweet.

I had him over for dinner Friday night and he was cleaning up before I even put the food out. He helped me with everything instead of sitting on his butt like a couple of other guys I dated (with the exception of the Taurus Sun / Sag moon). Saturday we cooked together again, but this time HE did the cooking I was impressed.

He's just a good guy, like he will call me early in the morning to make sure my alarm went off (he is usually at formation at 4am and I get up at 6:20am). He reminds me of things I told him I needed to do..etc... and I enjoy being around him and doing things for him.

The only problem we may have down the road is that he is very touchy-feely and I am not all that much. I am at certain times, but I start to get clausterphobic when someone gets too close too often. That and he has a picky streak in him. He folds his dirty clothes all nice and neat LOL... and I thought I was anal retentive.

posted February 28, 2006 03:00 PM         

This sounds pretty real to me.. based on your description.
And honestly.. it is the same in my house.. everything you described!!! The touchy feely thing ( my Venus in Sag vs his Venus in Pisces), the attentiveness to detail, the phone calls, dinner etc.... I went ... *WHOA*
And it works.
We just ride out the rough parts, but it is working better now.
Good luck. I hope this is good for you.

posted February 28, 2006 04:51 PM         

I do like Venus in Pisces (The Taurus Sun / Sag moon) had Venus in Pisces and he paid alot of attention to detail. He also had this wonderful swagger about him, like he just knew where he was going and never had to worry about tripping. LMAO - unlike this Venus in Sag that always has to watch where we step and we get a little iffy with too much clinginess LOL.

Anyway.. I am just so happy to hear that things are better...

Lots of Hugs.... and kisses (and I don't mean that in a gay way.. LMAO... hee hee... let's see the controversy now)

posted February 28, 2006 11:55 PM         

Hahaha, you're great, I finally feel warm and cozy on this forum.

I'm a November Scorpio.

I would like to spell more of my sex life out for you, but these things get personal...

posted March 01, 2006 04:58 AM         

Oooh aaah oooh aaah......mmmmmm.......

cold shower, cold shower......trying to think of something to distract......errr....the Queen of England, knitting, housework, brass bands.....no not working....

Yeah go on then.....but I dont think this spiritually enlightened place is ready for such depravities....do you.....???

Maybe worth a try tho.....

You first......Mr Pennsylvania 65000....or should that be 6 5 O O O !!

hahahaha !!!

posted March 01, 2006 06:32 AM         

Altho I am very honest and open....too much maybe at times....I have been deceitful in love, in the past, mainly to save others' feelings.

Luckily I am at a point in my life now where I dont need to do this.....but I think yer man maybe lying to you. Just grab both his hands......stare right into his eyes and say "are you being deceitful with me"......(and as soon as you realise he is.....s l o w l y lift yer right knee and..........well you know what to do) !

At least then, you will feel better !!!!

Good luck and I hope he doesnt hurt you too much !!

posted March 01, 2006 12:18 PM         

Do you know why I said to be careful? WHO do you think got busted awhile back? I am talking a couple of YEARS ago.. been there done that... had the thread closed and told to delete all the "graphic information".

AJ, Pixie, Lioneye and myself have ummmmm.. shall we say, caused more than a few teenage moms and dads to freak over our past content.

We had threads about turn ons and offs (which led to S&M, same sex game play...etc)

Sextrology - the desires of each sign- gay and straight (for example- Scorp men will wear garter belts)

To "who's been your best lover" chock full of dimensions, stamina and play by play action. We even had one dom post his pics from his latest night at the club.

But.. be my guest and start a raunchy thread.. I would like to have the "sex maniac club" attachment removed from my name - well not really LOL

posted March 01, 2006 02:10 PM         

I'm really just having a little fun, I wasn't planning on taking this any further.