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Topic: Is Scorpio Truthful?
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sthenri Moderator Posts: 4086 From: Generic New England City Registered: May 2003
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posted March 04, 2006 11:31 AM
I have lived in France and Spain so I am not exactly repressed, so you know where I am coming from. I lived with a Scorpio male for a time, I can say that as a woman is happiest when she can be herself and be sexy too..that is nice and ladylike and professional, and be sexy whenever she feels like it. Scorpio men tend to want sexy when they want it..projecting a fantasy is projecting on to someone..And no we don't have the power to say No, to anyone based on a fantasy, so I am careful about letting Scorpio and Cancer men talk to me about their fantasies. I have been the object of fantasy before and even idealized it's very limiting. Scorpio men tend to like women who are bitchees and women who treat them like crap. I am not saying this lightly, once I have slept with a Scorpio or Cancer male the fantasy is pretty much over and so it's an ego or power trip, not about one on one intimacy. I have received hundreds of love letters from a Scorpio only to watch him go away..once he got the prize...the power a woman may have is exactly equal to the fantasy in the man's head, and that's not power at all, it's a job. It's not much fun when a fantasy becomes so important. Scorpio and Cancer men not only fantasize, idealize, obsess, but imagine and determine the fate of their women based on these thoughts very often. They are overwhelming and it's on the verge of separating a woman from her own identity. A strong woman won't put up with it. I like Scorpio men friends and Cancer men, but I am being honest when I say they tend to like women with lower self esteem or feel upset by any changes in her station or identity. A fantasy about a woman can never make her happy if it's too strong. Natasha Taurus Cancer Moon/8th IP: Logged |
AquaLady Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Feb 2006
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posted March 04, 2006 01:04 PM
Natasha, so are you saying its the Fantasy that he's chasing? My scorp guy is still chasing me. I get text messages saying he thinking about me,he tells me Anything I Want we can do. He wants to go to the market for me and bring things to my house(he doesnt know where i live i dont trust him to know where i live) He's says i have a mystery about myself so i'm beginning to think that he's on a quest to conquer this so-called mystery. He's acting as if we never had a converstion about he and his ex-wife,.i really think he doesnt care at this point. Im wondering if this mystery he says about me is turning into a obsession for him.I think that once he gets the sex from me(which wont be anytime soon unless we're in a long-term relationship) that he may disappear IP: Logged |
AquaLady Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Feb 2006
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posted March 04, 2006 01:23 PM
I think my scorpio friend did a Background search on me. I received an email alert stating that someone in the California area conducted such. IRONICALLY?,.My scorpio was living with his ex-wife in California before moving to my state. He thinks im so mysterious(at which i simply am not) that he's prying for info about me? Someone Please tell me he wouldnt go this farIP: Logged |
AquaLady Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Feb 2006
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posted March 04, 2006 01:27 PM
almost forgot; > Peace and Love to All AquariusIP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 4892 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 04, 2006 01:31 PM
Am afraid he would go this far......eeek.....sorry.....You being an Aqua would probably be such a challenge for him that it would turn him into some sort of James Bond. We make great spies and just love the game of love.... I being a very heavily influenced Scorpio, know this !!! Sorry girl, hope I didnt freak you out...this is just what came to me when I read your post... Good luck and love to you IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 4892 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 04, 2006 01:34 PM
Oh yeahAnd just to reiterate what Nat said...I believe fantasy plays a HUGE part in the love lives of some Scorpio people....how would I know this..... Well I shall let you work this one out for yourself....
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SweetCappie Knowflake Posts: 158 From: Registered: Oct 2005
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posted March 07, 2006 10:32 AM
Thanks for the cool tips on Scorpio men. Don't know if I'd be their cup of tea but I surely attract plenty of Scorpio males and females as friends. I'm fascinated by this sign.I found the Sun/Moon combo thread and that thread is classic! One day we should create a "Classics" thread or website that compiles the classic info on this board into one place for easy retrieval. I learn something new everyday here. AquaLady -- Sounds kinda creepy! (But then again, its not such a bad idea to check out prospect lovers). I guess he's either obsessed or maybe his ex-wife found out about you and decided to investigate. IP: Logged |
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 433 From: Columbus OH USA Registered: Aug 2005
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posted March 07, 2006 04:25 PM
AquaLady.... I agree. it could be her....it would also make sense... especially if he's not beed on the up and up about their relationship... something to think about sue g... so glad to see you posting more as of late I agree with you too... fantasy is huge for most Scorpios...not some... most! and yes, he of all males would be likely to check you out..in every which way IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 4892 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 10, 2006 06:32 PM
Hey StargazerYes I think you are right.....a lot of Scorpios are prone to fantasy, maybe because the harsh realities of life are too much for the depths of Pluto.......? My Virgo husband often says nothing is enough for me...haha...he is probably right !! x IP: Logged |
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 433 From: Columbus OH USA Registered: Aug 2005
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posted March 11, 2006 12:29 PM
sue g..... All the Scorpio (males) I've known have enjoyed the contemplation just as much or more than the execution... Not so much the females?.. I've found MANY differences in terms of "Love" between the two.. The females I know are much more stable or something? But, all the females I know where born in Oct. and the males in Nov.?? .. I have a Scorpio son too...11/1..So i was close to knowing an Oct. one For your Virgo hubby to understand that about you is a beautiful thing... hope all is well! IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 4892 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 11, 2006 12:40 PM
Oh StargazerI got such a lovely feeling when I read your post.....warmth and understanding coming thro..... Lovely understanding Virgo......what would we do without them..... Our son is also a Scorp...15 Nov....oh dear.....!! x IP: Logged |
ariestiger Knowflake Posts: 1048 From: UK Registered: Jan 2004
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posted March 20, 2006 10:10 AM
Haven't been around here for a couple of weeks...a lot of interesting stuff on this thread. I'll touch on some of the issues that people have brought up as I see them right now. This might be a little off the beaten track... but d'you know, I've got to the stage where I don't really feel the need to analyze my relationships...for the present...not that I couldn't quantify the way I felt if I had to...but I have to ask myself, what is love? At present commitment aspects don't really seem to bother me; the issue of commitment was an emotional hurdle that I needed to overcome, but I think I managed it. At the end of the day I think everyone wants someone they can relax with and who is not too demanding. Even if it's only for a short time. Why clutter the whole situation up? Why does emotional stuff get in the way? This doesn't really encapsulate what I want to say very well...perhaps I can't rationalize it...the need for me to talk about relationships of any kind in great depth has disappeared...I don't want to let my heart overcome my head, I am cynical, I hardly believe what anyone tells me any more, because I think, "yeah, right" (assume the people in question are at least half lying and you will never need to care again whether they are truthful or not; at least be honest with yourself about that one factor!)! I don't care about the commitment issue, because for me this feeds into bigger issues to do with why we're here, and that we are all ultimately expendable...maybe this is my Pisces talking...I don't know. I don't feel I know anything, any more. We all feel attraction, right? - so why not enjoy it for what it is while it lasts (within reason)? Although my view is probably biased, or polarized, because, for example, I don't want kids, so that possibly underlines the fact that I may not be the most responsible of beings. No, I'm not on something. AT IP: Logged |
AquaLady Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Feb 2006
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posted March 28, 2006 12:55 AM
Well since my last post my scorpio and I have fallen close to in love with each other. We did become one and it was Wooooooonderful. He says I am the first lady that he has ever opened himself up to. and Loves our converstions. Neither of us knows where this is going. And we're both a bit puzzled. Timing in totally off. I've been divorced 1 year so i am ready for something with more meaning. His divorce is final in April. He says he not looking for a relationship right now because this tends to put pressure on the other person so he rather just let things flow as they may. He said after his divorce he said to himself that he wanted to be free of All ties before going into a relationship (at which i can understand him wanting freedom and not wanting to jump into a relationship right after his divorce),..then he says he met me. Right now we're dating so, i'm sure maybe he may date someone else also,..am i wasting my time or heading for a brokenheart?IP: Logged |
AquaLady Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Feb 2006
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posted March 28, 2006 07:32 AM
Hi Focused Chi,Thank you for your insight, but im not the other woman. My Scorpio friend showed me the court documents at which his divorce was suppose to be final in Feb but he and his ex are not in agreement about the financial arrangements so the judge has kicked it out several times. He has another court date in April at which it should be final. I have to give him the benefit of the doubt because he hasnt lied about anything as of yet and goes above and beyond to prove to me he's not being untruthful. Peace and Love to All IP: Logged |