posted April 23, 2011 04:51 AM            

Only just saw this topic.

Well, my ex was a aries/scorp moon and I am sag sun/leo moon. I felt like his lover, his friend and mother wtrapped up in one!
I am an honest, direct saggie and do not like to play games (my gentle harmony loving libra venus and mars contributes to this).

We re-connected after a break of a year (he regretted losing me and said he had never wanted to leave in the first place). But, he had an issue and i am more wary of giving my whole self emotionally this time so, and he expected me to throw al my thoughts aside and support/defend him in his issue! I felt like saying "I am not your mother" nor am I his girlfriend so I find it hard to deal with this. Previously I had been in love with him and a naive first love kind of feeling so I literally would have done anything for him.

As a Sag I would love to join him on his adventures! But he went to Japan alone for 5 weeks and then when he was there he wrote he wished I was with him. Talk about confusing messages.

I think i'd be well suited to a libra??!!

posted April 23, 2011 01:53 PM            

They usually only want to be with you,when you don't want them anymore.I would say they are notorious for coming out of the woodwork years and years later and asking if you could give him another chance,long after your feelings are gone for him.

And my experiences tell me they do not like
assertive women.They might like to hang out with you as a friend if your kinda out there and rambunctious,and extroverted/powerful.But i dont think they take them seriously in love.

posted April 24, 2011 02:05 AM            

*How should aries men be appraoched? Has it to be subtle and hinted or direct?

Very -Obvious- Hints!

*What attracts them in women (physically and mentally)?

Intelligence, good-humour, wit, easy-going behaviour (not very set in her ways).

*If the Arian man seem very passionate about a lady and then change after a woman has made the first move.
Is it because they don't like assertive women or it's because they tend to ponder and consider the situation?

posted April 24, 2011 05:52 PM            

He's an Aries with Leo Rising and Virgo Moon. A four planet stellium in Capricorn.

His Answers, Verbatim:

1. Direct. There is nothing sexier than a woman saying she's into you.

2. Physically it varies, I'm not picky..all men are different but confidence is key but all men have different tastes of what they like in a woman. All that matters is that they are able to carry on an intelligent conversation with me.

3. Some things I can make a snap decision on but some things I like to sit back and consider. With women, it would be either I'm not interested or because I'm pondering, considering the situation.

* May I add, that this Aries is very sexy

Also, As a double cancer with sag rising, I suffered as the role of typing this for an Aries male. They are not patient or understanding. They are very specific people. Admirable.

posted April 24, 2011 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by DICO:

What type of women would attract an Aries?

I would say they like independent and strong ones, but why do they always run away once a woman takes the first step?
Is it a general thing with men, or is it arians only?

1- How should aries men be appraoched? Has it to be subtle and hinted or direct?

2- What attracts them in women (physically and mentally)?

3- If the Arian man seem very passionate about a lady and then change after a woman has made the first move.
Is it because they don't like assertive women or it's because they tend to ponder and consider the situation?

A have many many more questions, but I'll write them later
Thanks!

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I personally love it when women are not afraid to come out and break the ice. I have no time for flightly women. I dont approach women either, I let them come to me. In fact, I love it when women are willing to fight tooth and nail to be with me, it shows me they are worth my time because they are SERIOUS about THIS. It can be hinted or subtle, or direct, but SHOW it to me, but expect me to show it to you first.

2.Looks attract me of course, it's a given, but what really attracts me are REAL, Spiritual women. Ever been around someone, ANYONE, and felt you had to watch what you say? What attracts me about a female is compassion. Nothing gets me more than a women with a soft heart with healing hands. Physically, I like women who are as strange as me, glasses and dorky appearences are well accepted. Preferably brown or black hair but I don't discrimate-I love all kinds of women. I do not like overweight women, it's not attractive to me at all. I want a beautiful woman who admires me and shows it. Who thinks I'm hot and tells me. Who listens to what I say and doesn't present an opposition. I speak the truth.

3.I don't become passionate about a woman until I'm sure she wants me. I kinda have this thing where I don't really need anyone. My heart has been vadalized way too many times. I'm going to put you to the test, I want you to pass. And don't be intimidated by me, my looks, or the words I speak. A lot of women tend to really like me until I open my mouth. I'm a strange dude, psychic, and if thats too much for you, we'll go talk to the guy having a beer who is a lot less deep than me, who is a lot less better looking than me. Go for mister "cool guy", if thats what you want, I am not for you. Sorry if I appear arrogant, I'm really not. It's good to know what you have and put it out there. It's good to know who you are, where you stand, and put it out there without fear. Thats about it.