posted July 15, 2006 12:59 AM
Glad I found this thread. Interesting reads. Some of you already know that I, too, am involved with a Virgo.I was busy analyzing him again (which is my own obsession, but that's another story) and I began to wonder if he's emotionally unavailable.
It feels like he is, but it doesn't look like he is. Sounds like the typical Virgo experience, eh ladies?
I'm sure most of you would agree that it would be difficult to find someone more gentle, more helpful, more eager to please, and more polite than these astrological puzzlers. This appears to be the perfect picture of availability, right?
However, it sounds like it's not unusual for them to not take initiative, not make any bold moves (yes, I know they're Virgos, but isn't it human nature to be moved into action every now and then?), not actively work at a relationship (aside from doing subtle things that they feel might please their partner)... basically that they are so passive and agreeable that it's almost as though they aren't available emotionally?
And, hey... one more question for you fiery gals (regardless of your true astro element) while we're on the topic: Do you ever have the experience that your passionate natures go unnoticed and even neglected by these gentle-men, but when you express this you're met with such a logical explanation that you feel guilty and confused about your feelings in the first place?
Hee hee... don't mind me much... I'm not in crisis, but I saw the thread and thought I'd join in.
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Here's some extra lovin' for those ladies in love with these complicated fellas!