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Topic: I want him to be my lobster!!!
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Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted January 03, 2007 03:20 PM
 
Poor thing. Right now, we're really hoping he didn't send the same message to his mom. ------------------
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8420
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 03, 2007 03:39 PM
 Can you just imagine if he did....what an eejit hey....? Silly bugger needs a kick up the backside dont he....will I oblige.... Seeing you with another man Lynx, a grown up one this time... Bless you  IP: Logged |
Sweet Stars
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: New York City
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 03, 2007 06:24 PM
Be very careful with your feelings. Don't keep your hopes up.
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Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted January 04, 2007 11:39 PM
I finally met him. He's just as handsome as his pictures. I'm so glad. For a while, he joked that he was really a 15 year old boy and that his photos were really his dad. LOL. I really like him.He's still a horndog, and well, I was very, very bad and dirty. We sort of wound up under the bridge with him feeling me up and I gave him a handjob. We both wanted to do more but I held back. He's magnetic to me. Sorry. IP: Logged |
Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted January 05, 2007 12:08 AM
I left my cellphone in his car. I'm an idjiot.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 1810
From: nevada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted January 05, 2007 01:04 AM
the old hand jive 
I would have dropped him.IP: Logged |
Sweet Stars
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: New York City
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 05, 2007 01:07 AM
Ewwwwwwwww I mean at least do it to someone who deserves it.IP: Logged |
Sweet Stars
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: New York City
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 05, 2007 01:07 AM
Your charts do look compatible to me.I don't like him though.
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eatbooks
Knowflake Posts: 445
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Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 05, 2007 01:16 AM
from the looks of his chart, he was born in 69'...I know a Sag born in 69'....sounds exactly like him...------------------
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MysticMelody
Knowflake Posts: 1409
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Registered: Dec 2005
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posted January 05, 2007 01:46 AM
He's a liar.
I have nothing to say that doesn't involve the words chop or vomit.
Watch for any strange rashes on your hand...
Randall needs a projectile vomiting emoticon.
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Cassy
Knowflake Posts: 282
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Registered: May 2005
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posted January 05, 2007 03:10 AM
Aw come on you guys.... give the guy a break (I mean Lynx did). He can't be all that bad. He certainly excited the **** out of her.IP: Logged |
Arnicka
Knowflake Posts: 751
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Registered: Jun 2004
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posted January 05, 2007 04:45 AM
woah hes a lot older! better to get someone who actually has the "mature" part down.IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8420
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 05, 2007 06:08 AM
LynxYour post sounded like a confessional...."sorry".......  Yes I agree with the others, but, me being an open minded dirty one too understands the hand job under the bridge (what a great name for a song). Anyway, how would you have known if you hadnt met him...would he have remained an illusion in your mind...what if, what is he like etc etc. Just looking at it from both sides..... "hand jive".....haha....love that expression... The world needs more jiving doenst it? IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8420
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 05, 2007 06:14 AM
Maybe your meeting him will teach you lessons that in the future will....Serve you well.... The only thing I would worry about is your level of emotinal involvement with him. I love the "thought" of having unattached sex, cos I love sex.....but I cant, because I become very consumed by the person (big pluto in my chart). Maybe you are different.....but evenso, watch that old heart whilst learning the lessons...  IP: Logged |
Swerve
Knowflake Posts: 1083
From: London
Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 05, 2007 07:37 AM
Yet another story that seems to justify that treating a woman with disrespect and as an idiot does the trick.edit: had to add that this is the opposite of how I feel, but I seem in the minority and being honest is infinitely less effective despite it's socially superficially accepted face. Trying not to be bitter here..... How many other times have you received texts that were meant for somebody else? Especially with such sensitive content. Utter lies. You got played and you enjoyed it. You'll go back for more and he will really really have you, and I suspect thats where you really want to be underneath it all. Whatever makes you happy I suppose....
Swerve
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Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted January 05, 2007 11:55 AM
Well yes. He just turned 37. I will be 25 in about two weeks. The age difference didn't bother me. I've always liked older. My limit was 11 years older, but the attraction was too immediate for me to really care.My hands are fine. He didn't have any wierd smells or blisters or anything, but that doesn't count for everything. He's dropping off my cellphone at my office within the hour. I am reading, and I am listening. At the same time, I don't want to become nuerotic and paranoid unneccessarily. I would prefer it if we both took our time, but even at dinner, I felt like I was holding back. I don't know why I feel this way. Felt this way with the very first email he sent me weeks ago. And i haven't so much as kissed a guy in about 2 1/2 years. ------------------
I'm mad, you're mad, we're all mad. - Cheshire Cat IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
Knowflake Posts: 1409
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Registered: Dec 2005
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posted January 05, 2007 03:52 PM
Lynx... your moon/his sun... but you will find lots of Sag boys....Sue!!! Name of a song!!!!!!!!!!!! LOLOLOLOL 
He was just too hard to resist...
but I knew where he'd been the night before this...
So, avoiding the cold sores that would come with a kiss...
I just gave him a hand job under the bridge... Sorry, Lynx, my Mercury is in Virgo! lol  Swerve, I love ya more every time you post!!! IP: Logged |
Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted January 05, 2007 04:15 PM
We were actually conversing at the same time about how novel it'd be to have an anthem about such a thing. LOL.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 1810
From: nevada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted January 05, 2007 04:47 PM
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eatbooks
Knowflake Posts: 445
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Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 05, 2007 06:35 PM
Swerve  ------------------
your pain is my pain, is that love? IP: Logged |
Sweet Stars
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: New York City
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 05, 2007 06:39 PM
And then they say the girls form Queens are naughty *Spank IP: Logged |
CrabbyKitty
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: Upper Left Corner
Registered: May 2005
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posted January 05, 2007 06:56 PM
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I finally decided that whether I want him or not, I wanted a ****** explanation.Found out that he's still getting over his 8 year relationship with his ex and meant to send those text messages to her. He was jealous and wanted to hurt her, and never slept with two girls. He doesn't understand how I got them though, because she received them as well. Well, it actually makes more sense to me. He said that he's scared to be with me because he's so broken. I told him we should probably remain platonic until he finds a way to let go.
This is not an accident that he sent those messages to you. Frankly, even if he sent a message like that to anyone it shows how immature and petty he is. I went with a Saggie sun/venus who played this game. Believe me, he'll keep lying to you and playing these games until you finally have enough of it. There isn't even a way to be careful with people like this. (((swerve))) Some of us do appreciate honesty and it receives much more appreciation than being lied to and told what we want to hear. IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: New York
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 05, 2007 06:58 PM
Yes .. ok lynx I agree with the person who said you were ment to recieve those messages. I dont like the sound of this guy at all and I would advise strongly to stay away from him! even if he is broken from his past relationship which he probably isnt, sending a message like that is extremely immature and childish. Its sad especially when hes in his late 30's and I wouldnt even do that being 18. Whatever its your choice in the end, maybe you can bring the good out of him and be apart of some good healing change. But from my automatic opinion I would say ditch him and keep looking and remain patient.. up most that is key. There are better guys out there just keep looking and dont make the same mistake I see too many other girls make and then get hurt in the end. It disgusts me to see this. god help guide you women and curse those promiscuous, insensitive, childish men who wouldnt know what chivalry was if it came up and bit their overused sexual organs right off. .... lol ok good talk. keep in touch. hmm i still feel like im forgetting something i wanted to say, oh well I will post if I remember.
-Kevin
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Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: New York
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 05, 2007 06:59 PM
Yes .. ok lynx I agree with the person who said you were ment to recieve those messages. I dont like the sound of this guy at all and I would advise strongly to stay away from him! even if he is broken from his past relationship which he probably isnt, sending a message like that is extremely immature and childish. Its sad especially when hes in his late 30's and I wouldnt even do that being 18. Whatever its your choice in the end, maybe you can bring the good out of him and be apart of some good healing change. But from my automatic opinion I would say ditch him and keep looking and remain patient.. up most that is key. There are better guys out there just keep looking and dont make the same mistake I see too many other girls make and then get hurt in the end. It disgusts me to see this. god help guide you women and curse those promiscuous, insensitive, childish men who wouldnt know what chivalry was if it came up and bit their overused sexual organs right off. .... lol ok good talk. keep in touch. hmm i still feel like im forgetting something i wanted to say, oh well I will post if I remember.
-Kevin
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Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: New York
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 05, 2007 07:02 PM
..hmmm .. ok so I only read the first page when i made the first comment.. my mistake lol... but oh well. good luck with him! -Kevin IP: Logged |
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