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Topic: I want him to be my lobster!!!
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Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted December 30, 2006 02:30 PM
 
Him:
Sun Sagittarius
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Aquarius
Jupiter Libra
Saturn Taurus
Uranus Libra
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Virgo
True Node PiscesMe:
Sun Aquarius
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Libra
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Libra
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
True Node Cancer I keep telling myself I should play by some sort of rules, but everytime I talk to him, I just throw them out the window and wind up in the most bizarre conversations with him. Only thing stopping me from ripping off his clothes at this point is that we haven't met yet. He's always here, there, everywhere. My busy Sag. And omg, is he hot. *crosses fingers*
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I'm mad, you're mad, we're all mad. - Cheshire Cat IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
Knowflake Posts: 1055
From: wild wild west
Registered: Jul 2006
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posted December 30, 2006 02:45 PM
Sultry whispers, and hot nights, it looks like!  ------------------
Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8420
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 30, 2006 03:34 PM
"we havent met yet"do you mean he is an online friend? x
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Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted December 30, 2006 04:58 PM
Yes, sue g? And?IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8420
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 31, 2006 05:01 AM
IntriguingAre ye guys gonna meet up, and if so good luck!  IP: Logged |
Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted December 31, 2006 11:02 AM
He lives very close to my office but he works very far from there, and at different hours. His schedule should change soon. And I was hoping to see him New Years but he's going by his folks.We've been talking through Yahoo, text messages and phone for the past few weeks now. The few times he's been able to meet up, it's usually while I'm at work or have an appointment with a client, or too late at night for me to bother. IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8420
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 01, 2007 06:22 AM
Edit cos I didnt see charts.....IP: Logged |
Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted January 01, 2007 01:58 PM
I'm awfully upset now. I had to assist at a New Years party that was absolutely awful. He had to go by his folks, or so I had though. Halfway back to my home, I received a drunken text message from him basically saying,
"I should've ****** u last night, instead of those 2 girls." IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8420
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 01, 2007 02:29 PM
Oh God....  Sorry, hope you are okay? IP: Logged |
Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted January 01, 2007 04:00 PM
It was part of an awful end to an awful night. I had to be one of the hostesses at a party where there was only a handful of guests that showed up, they then bitched about having to pay what? 5 bucks for a plate of exotic foods? Then they stuck their hands in the trays of food when we weren't looking. And there was more. I spent most of the night looking at these couples strolling around, kissing, all in love, wishing I had someone by my side. Then halfway on my trip home, alone, I got that text from him. Then when I took my cab from the train station, the cab service had the nerve to double my fare because of the holiday. I just feel incredibly alone right now. Incredibly alone everyday. Chivalry is dead and class is well on its way. It would be nice to go to sleep and wake up somewhere else or nowhere at all. I am so very disenchanted. I have no idea what to say to him now. I don't know what kind of response he wants out of me, really. Is he trying to confess his behavior? Is he simply saying he wasn't sexually satisfied? Was he so drunk that he was actually so stupid? Was he drunk at all? Was he just trying to say that to make me jealous? Or is he over me and trying to **** me off so I'll be over him? And it's not like we've actually met, so it's not like he should be commited, but it's just so wrong. IP: Logged |
LuLu
Knowflake Posts: 302
From: Louisville, Kentucky, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted January 01, 2007 04:39 PM
I can't believe he had the nerve to say that to you!?!?! What on earth made him think that it was okay to say such an intensely personal thing to someone he doesn't know that well and hasn't met? Not to mention that he doesn't come across as a very sensitive or nice person after making those statements. I really am truly sorry honey IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri
Knowflake Posts: 1486
From: Never Never Land
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted January 01, 2007 08:44 PM
Oh my Im very very sorry. In my personal opinion I think he was drunk and a Saggi Scorpio...i know one or two and dear God they can say some bizzare things. Personally I wouldnt respond at all, see if he remembers sending it. If he doesnt, ask him but at a later time.IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
Knowflake Posts: 4884
From:
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted January 01, 2007 11:10 PM
I'm sorry to hear you had a bad night, Lynx. I wouldn't waste time analyzing that guy. When the tide's low, conserve your resources. The tide will come back again, it always does. Try your best to stay optimistic and keep on going.IP: Logged |
Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted January 02, 2007 04:59 PM
I'm tempted to agree with BornUnderDioscuri, only because I want a reason to believe in him. He just sent me an IM with a worried looking emoticon. Not quite sure what to say, really. Deep inside, I feel like he is just this big kid. A 37 year old kid, who still has foot in mouth syndrome. It could very well be the case that he was just joking around or drunk, but I also feel like I should have at least an apology and an explanation. IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8420
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 02, 2007 05:09 PM
LynxI would let him stew a while Did he lie to you and say he was visiting family? Foot in mouth for sure.....I wouldnt be too happy with this at all. IP: Logged |
future_uncertain
Knowflake Posts: 2533
From: ohio
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted January 02, 2007 05:17 PM
Unbelieveable! My advice would be to drop him and don't look back. Seriously. He sounds like a creep and you're too good for that. Besides, it sounds like you're in a vulnerable place right now. You need to keep your distance from this one. 
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Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted January 02, 2007 05:29 PM
Thing is, sue g, he might not have had sex with anyone at all and was at his folks, but wants to torture me because of my nature. People like to torture me or see me angry. Former is satisfying for them, latter is erotic. Boys are wierd.IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8420
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 02, 2007 05:33 PM
Oh I see My advice is not to allow them to do that to you Lynx....tell him to FECK OFF!!!!! He has no right to treat you this way....it is very unkind...I am sorry for you... I know this is a little naughty but I would tell me that you met someone at the New Years Eve party Sorry..... I am a Scorpio woman, if a guy treated me this way I would just have to give something back to him....I think its called karma.... Do unto others and all that I hope you do meet someone else.....I have a feeling you will!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 1687
From:
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted January 02, 2007 05:45 PM
Uh he is a idiot,drunk, playing whatever that was not appropiate for him to say..I wouldn't be bothered. Do what you Aqua's do best and detatch and move on..He would know better next time thats for sure.. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 2466
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted January 02, 2007 10:18 PM
Oh, if he was telling the truth please drop him...he has no tact.If he was lying then I agree with Sue...let him toss and turn for a bit. IP: Logged |
DayDreamer
Knowflake Posts: 4636
From:
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted January 02, 2007 10:23 PM
A fellow Aqua here. What are you doing even entertaining ideas about this idiot? IP: Logged |
Sweet Stars
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: New York City
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 03, 2007 12:38 AM
Dump the idiot.I would never take crap like that from any man.
At least you didn't meet up with him.
Don't even waste your time.
So damn immature.
If a guy said that to me I would slap him.
Don't even think about why. Just move on.
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Sweet Stars
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: New York City
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 03, 2007 12:39 AM
Yikes. Venus in Sags are ***** and very gullible with other women (only noticed this in the men. And his Sag sun makes it worst.
Yikes.
They like to roam.
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Lynx
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: Brooklyn, New York, United States
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted January 03, 2007 12:11 PM
I finally decided that whether I want him or not, I wanted a ****** explanation.Found out that he's still getting over his 8 year relationship with his ex and meant to send those text messages to her. He was jealous and wanted to hurt her, and never slept with two girls. He doesn't understand how I got them though, because she received them as well. Well, it actually makes more sense to me. He said that he's scared to be with me because he's so broken. I told him we should probably remain platonic until he finds a way to let go. ------------------
I'm mad, you're mad, we're all mad. - Cheshire Cat IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8420
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 03, 2007 12:33 PM
WOW!!!You were definately meant to receive those messages....maybe they have saved you a lot of heartache... Guard your heart Lynx....tread carefully girl x IP: Logged |
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