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Topic: Uh ,ok. I don't know whether to be mad or cry or what...
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SavageScorpio Knowflake Posts: 158 From: Fort Worth, TX. US Registered: Mar 2005
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posted February 18, 2007 03:52 PM
I have Gem ascendant & have known lots n lots of em. He's probably just testing you to see your reaction.If it were me I'd be like..EXCUSE ME!!!!! Be really distant & cold, jokingly reference "I don't want to be tooooooo emotional now!!!!" Turn it into a joke possibly..."well ONE of us has to be emotional!" Tell him he analyzes his way into/out of everything, that'll get him!!!!! Most Gems think far too much- from every possible angle, comparing. They could have the love of their life in front of them & convince themselves otherwise. Virgo & Gem are ruled by Mercury, and they both worry a lot...Gem in the analytical way. I dunno I have the Gem asc, then Leo moon so it makes me an analytical perfectionist..all bad. IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 Knowflake Posts: 1013 From: Registered: Apr 2006
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posted February 18, 2007 05:52 PM
Ah YES you hit the nail right on the head! That's him to a T! IP: Logged |
aquaspryt69 Knowflake Posts: 766 From: Arizona Registered: Feb 2004
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posted February 18, 2007 07:32 PM
SS, I wouldn't say it's all bad. From a business point of view that would be a good thing for you to have. Though in relationships I can see where it would be a downer. Spry IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8216 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted February 19, 2007 03:01 AM
I have a Gem Ascendant with the Virgo Moon. Talk about being able to over analyze things. It is helpful in keeping an open mind, though.Savage Scorp probably has Sun in the (Virgo-ruled) 6th, so that would bring that Virgo perfectionism into play. IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 150 From: Portugal Registered: Sep 2006
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posted February 21, 2007 11:17 AM
Sometimes, people close to us are so used to see us as what they have been perceived, that it's hard for them to see how we changed or improved. It's not their fault, it's just normal. It takes time to improve ourselves, just as it takes time for others to perceive our changes and improvements. But even if it takes time, people will eventually notice your changes and improvement, if you are really improving. But maybe the reason you felt angry with him is coz it made you feel that you still didn't improve much at all, and that you wished that he could perceive the better you as you are getting better now. The one you must first convince is yourself.. It was kinda tactless of him thought.. ^_^; but I guess he didn't mean to hurt you.. after all, since the past time was hard for you, you might have been showing a lot of your emotional instability so that he could only see you as such (we can just know the other person as what we can perceive of them).. but if you are really improving, he will sure notice it after some time.. just believe in yourself.. ^_^ shine, and you will naturally, eventually perceived as what you are becoming. And be proud of yourself, of what you really are.IP: Logged | |