posted January 22, 2008 01:12 AM         

Every aqua guy I know has left me richer in experience, and vision. I find them treating me as equals, not pouncing on me on our first date ( and some times not even on our tenth ) They don't fuss over me, but are always around every time I have needed them.

Love one currently. Don't know where its going. But frankly I don't care. We are part of half a doz. projects and a hundred dreams. Time enough to see which ones come true and which ones don't.
Maybe because my venus and mercury are in aqua, and his Mars is in pisces, and we both are Libra moon, we resonate well. I have seen them serious-happy-crabby-selfish-turned on- turned off, but still won't settled for anyone else.
Thanks heavens for Aqua men !

posted January 22, 2008 07:57 AM         

come on gemgemgem, you're a gemini, if you try to understand him, i'm sure you'll have a wonderfull time. don't be put off simply cause he's aquarius. obviously on the expression of the feeling, he could be warm to you until the moment he becomes cold for a while because he will be on a mental pursuit or trying to live an idea which make him look like he's not in love, or not caring,... but if he loves you, let him express it in his way for a while, (lialei said it better), and be conforted that he won't change his mind about his love, deep down. we might not be very demonstrative but we are sincere, and with you being a gem, i'm sure you can create the dispassionate mental connection needed to bring him back down whenever you feel abandoned without creating anotherr problem on top of it. you'll tell him your problem and he'll tell you why he's like that. you probably won't have the power to change him but love is not power, but trust, and he'll be moved by yours for him if you let him go and come back (in his emotions, mind)

otherwise, if he's an ******* , why blame is sun sign... he could be one, but i think his sign would be more a trun on for you as a gem sun and moon.

posted January 22, 2008 09:24 AM         

We are friends, but then he'll come on so strong it'll make me want to back off, but then he'll back off and disappear instead. It's actually quite amusing. I don't mind the whole "game" because his unpredictability has become predictable to me now. haha.

posted January 22, 2008 12:40 PM         

it's accurate for everyone i know around me. this book is in fact the most accurate i ve read so far. they distinguish between female and male expression of the sign energies. and each description is around 20 pages long of a detailed analysis (in small print), so there's plenty of informations. as the name suggest, the authors focus on signs relating abilities.

posted January 22, 2008 10:38 PM         

when are people going to grow up...

games suck...

posted February 03, 2008 06:10 PM         

He had cheated on his wife and the entire office knew about it (she was a business associate with another company). He is married with two children. They put on this 'front' that they are happily married, successful, rich, etc.

posted February 03, 2008 09:08 PM         

Gem + Aqua???

posted February 08, 2008 01:27 PM         

I am a pisces with venus and mercury in Aquarius and years ago had the most fantastic relationship with an Aquarian (with sun, venus and mercury in aquarius...Ouch!). But he did the usual disappearing acts, and the whole "I need space". Our relationship was so completely different from those of my girlfriends that I thought I should try and change him to what I expected - how wrong was I!! We parted (obviously) and he moved away, to a different continent! That is how much space he needed. We remained on speaking terms, this was hard at first but we were always each others best friends and I felt that was too precious to give up, even if he lived 15,000 miles away.

Things change, time heals and I found myself in a relationship with a Capricorn. He turned out to be the very devil himself. He lied, stole, cheat and sucked my spirit from me until there was nothing left of myself that I recognised.

After two years I feel like me again and a few months ago my lovely Aquarian came back for a visit. We met up a few times, emailed almost every day (just the one email per day mind) until we realised there was more going on.

Now this is almost 6 years after we first split, so when we say that Aquarians need time, it can be a long time. I haven't compromised my life for him in the slightest, I have commitments here and simply told him I loved him but that he had to do what was right for him.

The result is that he quit his job abroad, sold his home and moved back here to be with me. This could be the impetuous Aquarian spirit, my sister is Aquarius so I am familiar with their nature.

I think what I am trying to say is, if you can love them wherever they are, when they are floating on a breeze somewhere, and you don't worry cos you know they will be back, then they can be the most wonderful thing to happen to you. He always makes me smile, our relationship is so unique and now I am older i can appreciate this.

Sorry for rambling on. The heading here was are Aquarians that bad? I have to say no, there is always hope, even when two Venus in Aquarius people give it a go!

posted February 08, 2008 11:21 PM         

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Hard to believe that three people posted for the first time on page 3 of this thread(!), while two others posted for the first, second, third, or fourth time, on the same page. Harder still to believe, is that all of these posters had wonderful things to say about Aquarian men. Is it just me, or is anybody else wondering if someone is going around openning fake profiles, just so they can do public relations for the Aquas?

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They're not the Aquarian Crusaders are they? ARE THEY?!