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Topic: Cancers....oh my goodness
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It's Just Me
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posted May 05, 2008 04:40 PM
 
Virgo,Sadly, the games are over but it just might get better. Hang in there and se what happens. You might be pleasantly surprised! Good luck!
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Meduza
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posted May 12, 2008 12:05 PM
Any updates on this guy?IP: Logged |
Virgo81
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posted May 12, 2008 01:21 PM
Hi Meduza,The lateset is that I haven't heard from him since before the weekend. Last week I was getting lots of replies and messages saying he can't stop thinking about me etc...now nothing. I guess I could send him one but we had planned on meeting up this weekend when I will be in the town he works in. So I plan on leaving it alone until the weekend and then letting him know I am in town if he still feels like getting together. So we'll see what happens then. IP: Logged |
Virgo81
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posted May 13, 2008 12:11 PM
Hello again...so I heard from him last night. I knew he was out of town with friends on a trip so wasn't really surprised when I didn't hear from him..which was fine by me because I was away myself hosting a party for a friend. I was curious to see if anything would happen after the weekend when he got home...and am happy that he got in touch with me...He is becoming slightly more predictable...just slightly!IP: Logged |
Virgo81
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posted May 20, 2008 04:26 PM
Yes the saga continues. I was just wondering how much emotion is too much for a cancer. Apparently telling them you are interested is music to their ears, but eventually does this not turn into desperation? It seems I am constantly trying to convince him I like him. Also, he seems to be very cautious and hestitant to trust a new person. How do you let them know that you have good intentions and are a stable person. I think he has had bad experiences in the past.IP: Logged |
sadcat
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posted May 20, 2008 10:02 PM
Virgo, I too was wondering how things were with you and your cancer. Your situation seems so similar to mine! OK, he told you he was going to pursue you now that he felt confident in your interest in him. Has his behavior changed? Did you two get together? How is he at returning calls, initiating contact, etc? IP: Logged |
Virgo81
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posted May 20, 2008 10:39 PM
Hey Sadcat....Things have gotten quite confusing on this front. I was meant to see him this weekend but apparently I freaked him out with a text message and nothing ended up happening. I was choked because to me he stood me up. He says that he has had bad experiences with crazy girls chasing him in the past and is now cautious when meeting someone he is not sure of. The thing all of our communication is through text message. He doesn't ever call or answer my phone calls. I don't understand how he can expect to get to know somebody through messages. So now I haven't heard from him all day and I doubt I will ever hear from him again. It is just so strange that when we are together we click so well, I put my foot in my mouth all the time and we laugh about it, so I thought he would get that in my messages. Perhaps he is cautious, but he has to regard my feelings as well, and it just seems like he won't even give this a chance.
I know cancers need to build trust, but how do you build trust with somebody you only talk to through text..it seems he is trying to keep the distance and is afraid to get close.
How are things with you and your guy?
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sadcat
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posted May 20, 2008 11:22 PM
Virgo81 girl...it is creepy how similar our situations are! I would swear they are the same dude if it weren't for their different birthdays. If you are interested in chatting via msn or yahoo I'd be game. On Thursday after him telling me he would call me back and NOT calling me back for the 3rd time in as many weeks, I told him I couldn't tolerate his disrespect regardless of how much I like him or the connection I thought we shared. This was on MSN messenger and he didn't reply and I havent't heard from him since. No surprise. Sigh....I don't get it. How long have you been dealing with yours? IP: Logged |
Virgo81
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posted May 20, 2008 11:35 PM
You're canadian too!  I have been dealing with mine for just over two months now. Mine also said he would call, after all the confusion this weekend..it was the first time he ever said that...but he didn't end up doing it. He seems to be completely oblivious of the fact he is playing games and just can't understand why I would be upset. I have decided that he is the crazy one! Just don't get how he could be so sweet in person and then a science experiment at a distance. Have you ever talked to yours on the phone? How often do you see him? IP: Logged |
sadcat
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posted May 21, 2008 01:45 AM
I started talking to him around Christmas time '07. He was working in a city about 4 hours away from me, but lived in Edmonton too. For all of january we talked almost daily; cammed/chatted online and then on the phone. We got really close and talked about how we had crossed the line in our friendship. He came back here February 1st, we met and I think since then have seen each other about 6 times...sporadically. Same thing...we have a great connection and he is sweet in person, all huggy and loving...but then he seems completely disinterested when he says he will call and doesn't. See how similar our stories are? Kinda wierd huh? IP: Logged |
Virgo81
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posted May 21, 2008 08:19 AM
You know whats even more weird...my guy works about 4 hours out of Edmonton as well...this is getting weirder with each new insight! Do you wanna chat via email?IP: Logged |
sadcat
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posted May 21, 2008 07:00 PM
yes I would like to chat. talk to you soon! IP: Logged |
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