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posted May 18, 2009 04:05 PM         

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I read somewhere that if you cut the cordS between yourself and a soulmate, then that soulmate will contact you again within a few days/weeks to re-establish the connection because they would have noticed a change in their energy too.

I just wondered if anyone had these experiences when they have attemped to cut cords with their soulmates?

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posted May 18, 2009 04:34 PM         

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I have tried it once in the past and it made things even worse, it hurt so bad I wished I had not done that

added* he never contacted me btw, so if you want to re-connect, send them an email instead

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posted May 18, 2009 05:02 PM         

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I think one should always cut the cords with anyone you are no longer with, soul mate or not!

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posted May 18, 2009 05:07 PM         

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It can work but if your connected through the heart chakra it won't work..Those ppl always tend to come back around..

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posted May 18, 2009 05:45 PM         

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How do you know your soulmate?

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posted May 18, 2009 05:58 PM         

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Ooooohhhhh you will know, its like any other connection that you have ever had..Everything is with them is from your soul..

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posted May 18, 2009 05:58 PM         

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Situation was that I connected with someone. We both felt the same, and it felt strong.
He is no doubt a soulmate as I had never felt such a strong connection to anyone before. He was like a kindred spirit. It felt so familiar with him.He made me smile!

But then one day his ex came back on the scene and he went back to her!

This shocked me! which left me to deal with this by myself. Trouble was I liked him too much cus I felt we established a connection which was hard to forget. I would think about him every day, which went on for some time.
This started to drain me and also it was painful as I could literally feel my heart chakra feeling hurt.

So been working on cutting the cords with Archangel Michael and 2 months later I feel good about moving on, without having to think about him in my every thought! And I felt I could function again.

But just lately he's been coming into my thoughts again so thats why I wondered that maybe he's sensed something different about the energy between us which has prompted him to think about me again, to try to establish a connection?!
He is no longer with his girlfriend.
It felt liberating when I had no thoughts about him when the cords were cut, cus I could move on and have closure.
But if he's thinking about me again I wonder now if he's trying to establish that connection again. I will never forget him entirely and still care about him but rite now I want to feel free and not be bounded to be feeling for him too much as I did b4.
When the cords are cut it feels great.

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posted May 20, 2009 07:10 AM         

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Yeah I know the feeling I felt the same way for someone he said he felt it too then said it was all a lie..

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posted May 20, 2009 07:39 AM         

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I figure that if you're cutting cords and they are reattaching then it's not time to say goodbye. But maybe it's not the right time for something else to play out - either just isn't right yet or one or both aren't ready to break yet. Even if you have the awareness, it doesn't mean they do.

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posted May 20, 2009 04:57 PM         

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I have had to cut cords and it wasn't pretty. The timing had to be right, of this I am certain. I did feel a struggle on the other side when I cut, but when I was certain that it was the right thing to do, then I simply did it....but before I made the attempt, I did say goodbye and made sure to forgive him, and I feel that's important. It might be about easing into cutting the cords first so that the shock isn't so great.
Cutting the cords is best done without anger or excessive emotion, I've found. Like if it's done in a reactionary manner it can come back and bite you on the butt.

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posted May 20, 2009 05:36 PM         

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I remember trying to cut the cord with my bf and literally I felt my heart strings being tugged on for about two minutes..So when your connected through the heart chakra like that its very hard..

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posted May 20, 2009 05:41 PM         

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I did it I cutt cords! And I feel a whole lot better I was sad and miserable without him. But when I cutt the cords I felt a whole lot better.. Hm strange I wonder if it was my feelings at all I was feeling.

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posted May 20, 2009 09:21 PM         

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I have managed to do it effectively with a soulmate ( they have anger & control issues and hold on very tightly) he has moved on and now has two children with another woman but still sends out psychic cords every now & then. I visualize his attachment as a long stretchy silver chord & I then visualize a very large pair of sharp shiny scissors & I cut that chord & watch it rebound back to him & then I no longer feel his presence & cease to have him on my mind. It's the only thing that works for me.

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posted May 20, 2009 10:03 PM         

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Oh i Know that feeling I cutt cords with him.. he didn't like it at all.

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posted May 20, 2009 10:04 PM         

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But I feel so much better

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posted June 16, 2009 08:44 AM         

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Empty....
he doesn't want to try.
Empty....
after all this time I must let go.
Heart aching,
no energy for speaking.
Heart aching,
Imprisoned,
and weighed down.
I want to fly.
Empty...
He doesn't want to try.
I know it's hopeless anyway.
The weary soul,
tired from playing
vagrant solitaire
just needed a place to rest
With him, I felt safe
Just for a while.
But....
what is this spell,
what is it anyway?
that makes us fall for one,
unable to for another?
Would it even last,
if I had got what I wanted?
I don't know.
I just felt a belonging.
Just for a while.
When we were together.

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posted June 16, 2009 08:52 AM         

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He said he loves me and that he thinks about me all the time, as I do him, but doesn't want a relationship at the moment. I'm not sure it would ever work anyway as I need more affection than one who is naturally distant for various reasons can give, as well as the strain of the geographical separation.

It just feels so strange.
Of course I shouldn't go on like this.
But how to let go?

The dowsing pendulum told me a while ago, after seeing him again somewhere when we were separate, but feeling this powerful energy there between us....it told me that he feels the same but that he is confused about his feelings (which when I asked him he said he does but didn't admit the latter, but I think it was right). It also told me, each time I asked, that he is my twin flame, but I don't know how accurate pendulums are.

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posted June 16, 2009 09:18 AM         

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LTT, that poem is very deep

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posted June 16, 2009 11:56 AM         

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Well, what if you want to cut the cord, but you don't really want to, really. If you do cut it, would it not work, and then what kinda disasterous stuff would happen?

Like I know I SHOULD cut it, because this person is a mess, and has hurt me twice before, but yet I still love him. With all that I am.

So does that mean, were not done? The balls in his court again? more waiting? That makes it feel like I've got no control.

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posted June 16, 2009 03:04 PM         

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Yeah, I know....sounds like you are in a similar boat.

Men.

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posted June 16, 2009 09:12 PM         

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yeah, and it's stormy seas ahead matey!

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posted June 21, 2009 02:20 PM         

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Okay
I did the whole meditation, imagining the big shiny scissors thing on friday night and guess what happened?

Saturday morning there was a card on my front door adressed to "The Head Beotch in Charge" and inside an apology card and a gift card!?!

So much for the scissors, I spent most of yesterday in a text war.

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posted July 09, 2009 07:34 PM         

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I just recently cut the ties.........I will report back in a week or two to see if he contacts me or not? But you guys might have to send me an e-mail to remind me to come back to this thread!!! (I always forget where I posted!! LOL!!)

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posted July 12, 2009 03:55 AM         

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I began cutting the cord with a soulmate last weekend, and he has called me every single day since. He must've felt the shift in our energies or something, because this is very unusual for us.

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posted July 12, 2009 11:42 AM         

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hi cat lover,

first let me say i hesitate to describe things to the extreme like soul mates or what not, BUT...someone similar to that...i've tried before. like i was serious about okay no contact, no more anything but the thing was i knew deep down i didn't want to.

in conclusion, i felt a lot of internal pain but it also felt as if i was feeling someone else's pain. i can't describe it other than some sort of aching inside my stomach. no surprise i ran into him several times without even trying and i was told by friends that he was looking for me.

again i'm not sure if this is what it is, but this was what i felt. it's an odd feeling...like you're wanting to break away but someone won't let you.

i guess like only cut the cords if you truly genuinely want to. if you don't want to really, but just think it's the best thing, it won't work.

good luck

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