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downtomars
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posted July 02, 2009 12:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message
Sorry about the stellium misread but that is good advice, to bring the 8th house vibes out through your eyes. I like that and I guess that is how those sexy Scorpios do it so it should work!

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GypseeWind
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posted July 02, 2009 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
Lucia;
maybe if you vibed from your chest the guy looked shocked because he all of a sudden felt your deeper emotions coming from you at him, and he was like "HUH, who me?"

That's why you gotta vibe it through the eyes.
Yes, thats probably exactly how the scorp ladies do it, I know for sure that is how the scorp dudes do it! (I took notes) jK.

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Lucia23
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posted July 02, 2009 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Okay, the next really hot guy I see gets the eye-vibe!

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Lara
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posted July 02, 2009 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
AMEN!

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bunnies
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posted July 03, 2009 08:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bunnies     Edit/Delete Message
They'll probably just think I've got indigestion

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Lucia23
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posted July 04, 2009 01:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Okay, I haven't seen ONE hot guy since I last posted here! And I went to a cafe, a restaurant, on a long walk, and to a yoga class. And I live in a big city.

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted July 04, 2009 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
try the gas station or home depot. stand around at lowes looking confused. guarantee ya someone will ask if you need assistance....preferably someone with out the blue vest who works there...always a ton of hot guys there. hot guys who can fix stuff!

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posted July 04, 2009 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Valus     Edit/Delete Message

Great thread, Gypsee!

Life is too short,
and too g*dd*mn long
for fearful bullsh!t.

The people who are turned-off
by open expressions of affection
aren't the ones you want anyway.


"Photograph"
by Weezer

If you want it, you can have it
But you gotta learn to reach out there
and grab it

'Cause everybody wants some love
Shootin from the stars above
And though my heart will break
There's more that I could take
I could never get enough

If you need it, you should show it
'Cause you might play so monastic
that you blow it

'Cause everybody wants some hope
Something they can barely know
And though my heart will break
There's more that I could take
I could never let it go

It's in the photograph
It's in the photograph
It's in the photograph
of love

'Cause everybody wants a dream
Something they can barely see
And though my heart will break
There's more that I could take
I could never let it be

It's in the photograph
It's in the photograph
It's in the photograph
of love

If you blew it, don't reject it
Just sit drawing up the plans and re-erect it
Just sit drawing up the plans and re-erect it
Just sit drawing up the plans and re-erect it

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Lucia23
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posted July 04, 2009 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
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try the gas station or home depot. stand around at lowes looking confused. guarantee ya someone will ask if you need assistance....preferably someone with out the blue vest who works there...always a ton of hot guys there. hot guys who can fix stuff!

Uhhh I think there are some regional differences in this arena. The hot guys frequenting the Home Depot around here are all into the other guys frequenting the Home Depot.

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Antiquarianbookcollector
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posted July 04, 2009 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Antiquarianbookcollector     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, life is too short and I totally vibed my feelings through my eyes (being a Scorpio). Unfortunately, the object of my affections is a Cancer. Will he get scared away if I pounced, metaphorically speaking?

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Lucia23
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posted July 04, 2009 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
The thing is, as a Leo woman, I guess I just think the f--ing guy should make a move!!

So if I've been hanging around him, touching his arm, looking into his eyes...or not even that. If I'm around with hair, breasts, a mouth, skin, a voice...he ought to have a huge boner for me, dammit!

I guess as a Leo woman I just wish I was naturally magnetic enough that the men I want would be unable to resist making a move.

And that's another problem with the whole "life is too short" thing...if it gets to the point where I would have to call, text, do the things Gypsee suggested in her first post, it means the guy is already managing to resist everything I have, all of me, all of my charms and allure. Otherwise he wouldn't be able to sleep at night if HE didn't make a move.

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If it is "the game" aww, screw that! Don't play! Don't follow the rules, and see what happens.
At least this way, you will know SOMETHING, instead of wondering.

I just hate the feeling that nothing I do will get me what I want--honesty, gameplaying, whatever. I've been feeling really lonely about all this.

Re: eye vibing, no luck finding a target. The guy I lust for didn't call me. Another guy tried really hard to strike up conversation--I know he's interested in me and I just do not feel attracted to him, even as a friend--so I gave him an anti-eye vibe.

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posted July 05, 2009 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
Lucia, call him. The object of your lust.
Antiquarian, call him, tell him, text him, write him, if that scares him away, you don't want him anyway, think how he would react in hard times???

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posted July 05, 2009 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Antiquarianbookcollector     Edit/Delete Message
For some odd reason I can't bring myself to tell him my feelings - intuition telling me not to?

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GypseeWind
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posted July 06, 2009 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
Maybe you need more time to think it over. You know, to define whatever it is that your looking for with that person.
Could be that is where your resistance lies.
But if your sure, I'm just saying, don't let the chance pass you by. Don't fear rejection. You don't really have anything now, so you don't really have anything to lose. Right? But if you do nothing, then you will never know. Better to know, then sit and wonder.

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Lucia23
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posted July 06, 2009 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
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Better to know, then sit and wonder.

See, I thought that with Pisces Moon Man, but confronting him STILL left me sitting an wondering--an unprecedentedly depressing situation for a Leo.

Sometimes I guess you just have to cut your losses and figure that if some watery turdbag is not making a real move, is not responding to your signals, retreats when you advance, and advances when you retreat, but never a REAL advance like taking your face in his hands and kissing you...you have to at some point give up, right?

In the case of Pisces Moon Man, he said he was still in a relationship (which, for reasons I won't go into here, I know was not true, I knew all about his situation that way)...I think I really needed to hear him say that he wasn't into me, and why, and to explain why he acted like that if he never wanted us to hook up. But I'll never know. And that bugs me sooo much. I think it has really been damaging and hurtful.

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posted July 06, 2009 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
I can respect your feeling Lucia.
But sometimes actions do speak louder than words, and if you have done what you could do (what your comfortable with) to let him know, than yes, perhaps moving on is the option.
Keeping people stringing along by being ambiguious IS a game, and you DONT have to play it.
I would say there are other fish in the sea, but maybe fishes aren't a good 'catch' for you at the moment. Still, you get my point.
You seem like a smart, thoughtful, sensitive woman, and why waste another second of your life pondering the questions of someones mind, who maybe doesn't even know the answers himself!
I know it hurts, but cut your losses, and find another.
Fishes swim both ways, you know, and maybe he will swim back your way one day, when its right, if thats the way its meant to be.
My point was don't waste time.

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posted July 06, 2009 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Antiquarianbookcollector     Edit/Delete Message
GypseeWind, good advice!

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Lucia23
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posted July 06, 2009 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
I see your point, Gypsee.

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posted July 13, 2009 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
Simply LOVE this thread. So Saggie! and after the last two weeks i've had, hell yeah for seizing the moment and being who you are and loving yourself enough not to put up with bad behaviour.

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posted July 13, 2009 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stopandstare     Edit/Delete Message
i think everyone knows this but for some reason we all hesitate and delay...i know i'm totally guilty of it. i've been pushed into action only because there were moments in time when i wasn't going to be there anymore and when i thought i wasn't going to be there anymore so i did it.

i guess like most people i try to adhere to this rule and i do what i can within my own powers. i try not to let my own ego get in my own way. it's like i'll take that step if a) i'm okay to do it and b) i'm not disrespecting anyone. i guess my fear of seizing the moment IE telling someone you like them or something along the lines of that is my fear of disrespecting them. okay like what if that was the last thing they wanted to hear from you? i try to weigh the yays and nays of these things though i've done it before. but i hear ya.

like i know someone who went to school with my older sister who was suddenly diagnosed with terminal cancer and he just died recently. he came and went at 31. and it got me thinking about this other situation i know about, someone who's unsure about being "committed" to someone after almost 10 yrs. i was like dude are you serious? and this guy is much older than 31. it made me sad because the guy who died just got married and was happy and now he's gone. i'm serious when i say he was diagnosed and a couple of months later he was gone.

then there's this other fool who's about 10 years older and is not married though he's got everything going for him and he's not sure about being committed after being with someone for almost 10 yrs...makes me sick when people take things like that for granted.

if anything everyone...just do what you can within your own comfort levels and don't take anything for granted.

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posted July 13, 2009 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geemeeni     Edit/Delete Message
lucia23-

have you ever thought of being with a younger guy? i did recently and wow, did he make me feel like a woman! a hot and desireable one. if a physical relationship is a focus of yours right now, maybe it would be fun to consider that option.

stopandstare-

that's an unfortunate and sad story. when things like that happen to good people, we owe it to them to appreciate what we do have and live life with an open heart and mind, enjoying the moments good and bad. it reminds me of a passage from my favorite book the prophet:

"you shall be free indeed when your days are not without a care, nor your nights without a want and a grief, but rather when these things girdle your life and yet you rise above them naked and unbound".

that's a powerful truth. maybe a tiny bit off the topic of going for what you want, but still relevant.

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Lucia23
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posted July 13, 2009 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Geemeeni, the friend I lust for who I mentioned in another thread is 9 years younger than I am.

The last guy I slept with was a 10 years younger Gemini--yay I love Geminis! They can actually read Leo signals. For the Scorpio, it's like he wants me to love him and lay myself bare for him on the "vibe" level before he will f--k me. I'm a Leo and I need a guy who just hands-down wants me. But yet I think about the Scorpio all the time. Lately we have not been in touch at all cause the situation kind of makes me feel bad.

stopandstare--and everyone--one thing I think is a problem is that many people never even consider trying an open relationship, where they consensually agree to enjoy each other and enjoy the moment without making a heavy big commitment. Instead, they keep an emotional distance because they (understandably) don't want to feel trapped, or they lie and cheat! We have lots of different kinds of connections with different people, and sometimes we may like someone in one way but not every way.

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posted July 14, 2009 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aerialcircus     Edit/Delete Message
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one thing I think is a problem is that many people never even consider trying an open relationship, where they consensually agree to enjoy each other and enjoy the moment without making a heavy big commitment.

Sometimes I wonder if ALL intimate relationships should be this way. If you end up wanting to be together forever, then you can easily stay together forever. But going into every relationship expecting it to go somewhere specific just seems like a joy killer. Not that I'm anti-marriage necessarily, just that people are so varied (and there's so many of us). The idea of thinking every new person who comes along in my life romantically is the cherry on the hot fudge sundae of my life seems hasty.

I think that when you find the person who's right for you, it (meaning commitment/marriage/etc) will all fall into place if it's meant to- no need to keep trying to shove your shoe into a glass slipper that's not going to be comfortable (for you OR the slipper) once you jam it on, you know?

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Lucia23
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posted July 14, 2009 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, aerialcircus!! I agree.

Any longterm relationship is actually lived out in the moment anyway, unavoidably, so if you spend the time obsessing, "Is this my Soul Mate who I'll be with Forever even after we die?" you might not get to enjoy actually being with the person. (If you have time to do both, fine! )

But the idea that lots of different kinds of relationships or connections can be valuable and exciting opens up the world a lot, I think.

Imagine if we all felt like love was infinite and abundant, instead of rare and in short supply.

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