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Topic: LIFE IS TOO SHORT!
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stopandstare Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 14, 2009 07:16 PM
geemeeni: that was very sweet thank you i guess for some people...they don't take things like even the potential for a relationship or something more lightly so they would rather back away. i'm not sure...everyone has their reasons for hesitating. it's fair and fine. at least you do what you can on your end i think is most important. but it would be nice to kind of try to be cool with someone like let them give you a fair chance to even start something like even being good friends first instead of slamming the door in your face. i hear you lucia some people don't even wanna take that chance. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 803 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted July 14, 2009 11:19 PM
Exactly to whoever said stop thinking is this the person I am going to marry, my soulmate, etc...Man, that is pressure! We have NO IDEA what tomorrow brings, no guarentees that there is one, can anybody promise me tomorrow? Nope. Just try as hard as you can not to over analyze every single move you or another person makes, because sometimes, they don't mean a thing but to just reflect a passing moment! We live in such a fast paced world now, so different from times ago, when every thing was planned, every little nuance was calculated and meaningful. Probably why we enjoy watching films from those days, you know the wistful innocence of a simpler time. But now, you simply have to make use of your limited time. When I say 'go for it or someone else will' I say this from experience, not to send you out to the wolves! There will always be some girl who will take an opportunity to go for something that looks good to her. We may pass judgements on her, but why? Maybe, she has the right attitude. IP: Logged |
GeminiFront Knowflake Posts: 8 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 15, 2009 12:58 AM
Just had to chime in, this is exactly how I feel about love. Although I'm a Taurus sun, my 7th house cusp is in Sagittarius. I guess that makes me more Saggie when it comes to relationship. When I like someone, I say it straight out . I don't really see a point in playing games and follow all these rules that people come up with. If I'm honest and direct and people look down on me because of that, well too bad for you. My philosophy is years from now I don't want to look back and wish I could have done more but didn't. Being careful is good but you can't expect to know the future, so believe and work things out along the way. As long as there's love, you can overcome any troubles. Don't let fear cripple you.Funny thing is I dated a Sag with Pisces moon. I was initially attracted to her for the Sag qualities fun, straight forward, optimistic only to find out later that when it comes to serious relationship, she's nothing like that, probably because of Capricorn 7th cusp. The whole time she was doubting whether I was the right one or not and in the end she ended relationship because she still couldn't make up her mind if I was the right one or not. I read somewhere that the 7th house does not only show what you attract and attracted to but also what you become when it come to relationship. What do you think? IP: Logged |
aerialcircus Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Western Massachusetts, US Registered: May 2009
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posted July 15, 2009 08:39 AM
quote: I read somewhere that the 7th house does not only show what you attract and attracted to but also what you become when it come to relationship. What do you think?
Wow, GeminiFront. I'm going to have to think about this for a little while. (7th house ruled by Sag, Neptune & Lilith conjunct in the 7th) IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 803 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted July 16, 2009 12:31 PM
Well if that is true then it explains alot, but it isn't a good thing for me.IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 827 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 16, 2009 01:23 PM
quote: I read somewhere that the 7th house does not only show what you attract and attracted to but also what you become when it come to relationship. What do you think?
Wow, well for me this is 100% accurate! My 7th (Cancer stellium, Moon-Saturn-Venus-Cupido, probably a bunch of other asteroids) shows exactly who I become in a long term relationship, even though I'm always attracted to or involved with Geminis and Libras. IP: Logged |
Antiquarianbookcollector Knowflake Posts: 94 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 18, 2009 07:12 PM
I think my seventh house is in Aries. What does that mean? Or if I'm totally wrong, how do I find out?IP: Logged |
Peri Moderator Posts: 669 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2009 07:20 PM
quote: I read somewhere that the 7th house does not only show what you attract and attracted to but also what you become when it come to relationship.
exactly! btw, welcome to LL, GeminiFront! I am Taurus Sun, Sagittarius Moon, Cancer DSC IP: Logged |
GeminiFront Knowflake Posts: 8 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 19, 2009 03:33 PM
Thank you! IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 126 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2009 05:04 PM
quote: I read somewhere that the 7th house does not only show what you attract and attracted to but also what you become when it come to relationship.
This is very true, I seem to come alive when I am in a relationship. Leo is on 7th house cusp with Sun, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter there. Not that I need propping up but I just feel more like myself when I am with someone. I'm more fun, nicer. I'm just my boring, bookworm self when I'm not in one. Hair in a bun, no make-up, yoga pants and tees/tanks everywhere = alone. Head to toe glamour = in a relationship. lol . I think that part is true for most people though! The funny thing is - I don't force relationships, I save myself for the special ones. It has to be good enough for this proud Leo! IP: Logged |