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posted August 03, 2009 12:42 PM         

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Nothing here. What about you?

I realized last night that this will probably be a standoff until October when mars transits the eclipse point. You watch!

I'm starting to get over it.

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posted August 03, 2009 01:13 PM         

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Nothing also. Hmmm...

October, eh? Well, we'll see. I could just also get bored of this sooner than I think.

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posted August 03, 2009 01:16 PM         

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As soon as we give up, they'll know and they will come back to shake us up again. Bast_rds!

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posted August 03, 2009 01:54 PM         

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posted August 03, 2009 02:33 PM         

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I can't view it as a game. I don't know how...I am so beside myself...

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posted August 03, 2009 04:15 PM         

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I think me not saying anything confused the whole thing. Now neither one of us knows what to do....

It's too late for me to say anything. He could play the "I haven't logged in yet card" but I obviously can't.

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posted August 03, 2009 04:36 PM         

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God! I feel soooo pathetic. I have to get offline now. All I do is check my FB. ugh.

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posted August 03, 2009 04:47 PM         

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I haven't been on FB funnily. I just conceded that I will get an email notification, so instead I am having a laugh watching funny web videos from his favorite website though.

Haha.

Hey, if it helps, get offline and wind down.

{{{hugs}}}

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posted August 03, 2009 06:11 PM         

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AHA! He has been on facebook today. I cracked okay! And I went to look at his profile to see if there was any activity and there was. So, he was online, but... no reply. This was 7 hours ago, which was 5pm here.

Yes, stalker like, but what other use is there for facebook other than stalking!?! Yeah, justifying my evils.

So, now I am even more curious!

1. It could be that he wasn't in the mood to send the message through today.
2. This mail is not casual as it would necessitate planning.
3. Hmmm...

curiouser and curiouser!

but, I must remember that he is a guy and not a Virgo so we would have different motives for not sending a message "later" as he said.

Hmmm...

Hmmm...
Hmmm...

girl, if you were around I'd say let's go get a shot or two of something strong!

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posted August 03, 2009 06:28 PM         

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I'm back. I went offline for a little bit.

So, you cracked? You're still doing better than I am! And yes, FB is made for stalking, lol.

See, he probably saw that I was online too, because I had recent activity, so I can't casually say "hi" now. Poop. This is terrible. I feel bad. He probably is wondering why I am ignoring him. It would be weird if I said anything now....

Seriously, I rarely drink, but a shot sounds great. The one good thing is all of this commotion is taking my mind off all the bad stuff I have been dealing with sincfe the eclipse hit.

Maybe he isn't in the mood to write it. I know I have to really be in the mood to write a message. Maybe he's scared (like I was).

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posted August 03, 2009 07:26 PM         

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Yeah, I try to steer clear of alcohol too, but I could have had a shot today!

A tequila!

Why don't you just say to him, "Anyway, how are you?"

no title, just that and SEND!

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posted August 03, 2009 07:33 PM         

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Hi,

The last line of my other post was re: your guy, not mine. I just realized it wasn't obvious.

I don't know if I should do anything now....I think it's too late. Maybe I should just let it play out. I don't even know, because this isn't the way I usually do things. Dee suggested it. Maybe she will read this and tell me what she thinks I should do, because this is what she would've done. I need help, because I am usually really direct and don't know how to play this game.

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posted August 05, 2009 09:16 AM         

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Hi Diana,

Been meaning to get around to this thread so here I am! I'm going to avoid being repetitive coz i'd say the same thing i've already said to Unmoved.

Forget a shot guys, bring out bottles of the stuff & I'll join ya.

I hope your situations work out.

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posted August 05, 2009 12:05 PM         

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lol, seriously, a bottle was probably necessary!

I feel a lot better now that we've communicated, even though I am still in the dark about the whole thing.

We'll see what happens.

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posted August 05, 2009 12:18 PM         

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He finally said something. this is excellent news.

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posted August 05, 2009 12:23 PM         

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Your guy said something?! What did he say!

ETA: Or are you talking about mine? It's hard to tell sometimes because we're both waiting on these two to communicate.

Yeah, but we're emailing, so it's awkward. Neither one of us wants to give away too much info about our lives in this format.

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posted August 05, 2009 03:01 PM         

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I was talking about you!
Mine is still mum. Nothing from him.
Oh well.
I have wasted enough time on this.
I am going to go back to work in a few days so my work will take over my mind now.
I bet though, that when I least expect... BOOM.

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posted August 05, 2009 04:58 PM         

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Yup, when you least expect it, lol. My fingers are crossed for you that it is soon.

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posted August 06, 2009 06:52 PM         

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I'm so over this. I lose interest when I am made to wait for no good reason. I think it's disrespectful.

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posted August 06, 2009 07:57 PM         

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Agreed!

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posted August 07, 2009 02:06 PM         

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The more time that goes by, the better it is for me. I am not one whose heart grows fonder with absence. It just gives me more clarity.

This isn't like him at all.

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posted August 07, 2009 03:37 PM         

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Funny you should say that because I always say to my friends that, while absence makes the heart grow fonder for others, in my case, absence makes me forget.

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posted August 08, 2009 10:46 AM         

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Unmoved! My sentiments exactly ! Sorry to pipe in on the thread...

It irks me how people say Absences makes the heart grow fonder...... soooo not true and at least there's someone else out there who agrees with me

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posted August 08, 2009 01:09 PM         

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ahhh i have to be the loser who has to say yes absence does make my heart grow fonder.

i live far away from my family and friends and i can tell you that i start to get anxious and sad and out of sorts if it's more than four weeks. the irony is that i don't call home or write every day to kind soften the blow. i just ride it out until i see them again. with someone i care about...i get sad if they're not even the same building. but i don't let it show though. i won't message them or call them. i just wait until the next meeting.

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posted August 09, 2009 03:22 PM         

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Yeah, the more time that goes by the less I care about talking to the person --- unless it's not their fault, like in StopandStare's case. That's totally different.

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