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Topic: I don't know what to do.
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Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 12:02 AM
An old friend just FR me on FB. I have no idea what to do! I was just thinking about him today, too. I have no idea what he wants or why he contacted me. I haven't talked to him in years. A part of me wants to accept his FR, but another part doesn't. I wish he would've included a note, but he's a guy, they really don't do that. I am pretty sure that I'll accept it. I don't know if I should ask him why he contacted me (be my usual blunt self) or just accept. I don't even know how I feel. I feel like I should make him wait and sweat it out because of our history, but that is anathema to my personality. I have so much bad going on right now. I don't know why he's back. Ahhh, lol! IP: Logged |
Scorpionic Web Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Philadelphia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 12:19 AM
Why worry? Facebook is pretty benign. Friend requests come from awkward exes to obscure acquaintances, and never is it necessary to actually say anything to these people.IP: Logged |
Dee Knowflake Posts: 329 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 12:20 AM
Just accept. think of it as a telephone call he contacted you. Just accept and then see what he says or does about it IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 12:41 AM
Scorpionic,I hear ya, but we have such a weird history. It's very complicated and intense. I don't think he just contacted me for no reason. I could be totally wrong, of course, but we always had a very typical SN-Moon connection. He throws so much stuff in my 12th house, too. It's hard to explain without giving too much away. I would, but who knows who's reading this. Dee, So you think I should just accept and let him take the lead? I know I'll accept, but I am scared! Haha, I am freaking out! IP: Logged |
Dee Knowflake Posts: 329 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 12:44 AM
yes let him take the lead. it's the only way to find out what his intent isIP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 12:50 AM
Duh, you are totally right, Dee! In my freaking out state I failed to see the obvious. I'm still scared though. I don't really want him looking at my profile. I am very private and I feel like he will be entering my space. Stupid scorpio placements. I am very picky about who I accept FR from. It's so silly, too, because nothing bad or too personal is even on there. IP: Logged |
Dee Knowflake Posts: 329 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 12:56 AM
you can always edit out anything you dont want him to see before you accept himIP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 12:59 AM
I already did that, lol! My god, I feel like I am a teenager all over again. This stinks! He always does that to me. IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 196 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 02:17 AM
Look at your transits to see what planets are making the most exact aspects to your chart, this will give you a general idea what energies he's bringing into your life. quote: ... but who knows who's reading this.
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Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 02:33 AM
Jupiter is on my TN. Saturn is square my moon and venus - wide orb for venus, exact for moon. Mars is opposite my venus. Mercury is on my SN, so it's activating our SN/Moon connection, as is jupiter. Sounds nasty. Oh, the Aug. 5th eclipse is on our composite venus. I have to go to sleep. I will deal with this tomorrow. I may have a clue as to what I will do with his FR then. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 04:03 PM
I'm still scared. I feel like this is a big deal. I wish I knew what was going on. I don't have an emoticon for how I feel right now. Thay haven't made it yet. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 895 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 04:09 PM
Diana~ you're working yourself up! Stop it! Just add the guy and wait and see... I am in a similar boat as I am also waiting for an email, so... Let's hold each other's virtual hands on this one. For my situation, I am just waiting for him to tell me something horrible like he got engaged, or something. If he were to say that, I don't know what I'd do. Knowing myself I'd tell him to call off the engagement. *shakes head in self disappointment* Yep. these eclipses are something else. They are occuring on my 10th/4th house axis but you'd think it's a 7th house thing. Hmph! IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 04:26 PM
Omg! The eclipses are in my 10th/4th axis, too, and we are both going through the same exact thing! How weird....I know I don't seem it, but I am calm, but feel like something major is happening and I don't like uncertainty. I feel vulnerable. We are both waiting to see what happens on FB, lol. I'm here for you too. I can't wait to see what he has to say to you. You should tell him not to get married if you like him. At least then you'll know his true feelings and then you can move on -- with or without him. ETA: Thanks for helping me. ETA2: Wait, I think I may have found a common link. Does his moon fall in your fourth house and his sun in your 12th? That's where my FB person's does. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 895 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 04:54 PM
His Moon, depending on where in Cap it is, falls in my 3rd or 4th house. His Sun is in my 6th (6th/12th houses axis) conj my Vertex. quote: We are both waiting to see what happens on FB, lol.
It's hilarious! edit: his Moon is in my 3rd either way. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 05:01 PM
It is hilarious! Haha...FB has no idea the angst it's causing us. Interesting their moons fall into our 4th depending on TOB. I am betting his moon is really close to my SN. I can tell. It would've been really creepy if his sun was also in your 12th!
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Unmoved Moderator Posts: 895 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 07:33 PM
Hey Diana ~Funnily I am also feeling that something big is about to happen and I am not sure from which direction it will be coming, i.e. relationships, career, home, space. I am so apprehensive, calm but weirdly restless. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 07:39 PM
I know. Calm yet restless. Mmhmmm. I think it's the eclipses on our 4/10 axis. I wish it would just happen already! IP: Logged |
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 895 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 07:43 PM
I know! I was reading some old emails from him... There's definitely some nostalgia connected to these transits. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 08:11 PM
Don't you have tSat squaring or aspecting your sun? I have tSat squaring my moon, exact. I wonder if saturn ahs something to do with it...? If so, it will be karmic and lasting, whatever it is.IP: Logged |
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 895 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 08:16 PM
Well, as I have mentioned on the other forum, I have tSaturn conj my nSun on the day of the eclipse... a few hours' difference but within the same 24 hrs. So, ja! Wednesday is going to be fun! [sarcasm] that's probably when they'll respond on FB. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 08:44 PM
Why Wednesday? Ahhh, I can't stand the suspense! ETA: I guess this is why: >>>Wednesday is our lovely FULL MOON eclipse on 13:43 of the Leo /Aquarius axis. We will each be witnesses to some performance. We will each be performers for some audience. Mercury will bring shocking news that requires adjustments, adjustments, adjustments. There is a lot of feminine energy active in this eclipse chart so the emotions will be running VERY, VERY high. There is a volatile cardinal cross in the lunation chart making it virtually impossible to take action. If you do take action or find yourself shouting NEVER AGAIN, do remember to breath! We will release a bit of our solar or ego energy today ~ or perhaps lose a man or light in our life. Read the full moon report on this site for more information.>>>> Can't wait. Sounds like good times... boo!
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Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 09:29 PM
I'm starting to think it was a mistake to not write a message. He probably is confused now. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 895 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 09:45 PM
Yeah, men are such wusses! Sorry to generalize. But, yeah, he probably thinks that adding you makes him exempt from sending the first message, so you probably have to send it.From about a few hours ago till now, I am suddenly very cynical. Ag! What's your guy's placements? IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2009 09:53 PM
Well then *F* him. lol. I mean, he FR ME. And he was the one who screwed up, which is why we stopped talking. Not that I am still mad, but etiquette dictates that the person who was wrong should start the convo. God, this could drag out for months. I'll just have to view it like a game, even though I never do that, otherwise I will go out of my mind. He probably was worried I wouldn't accept his FR. He never saw this one coming. If I knew it would've been such a big fracking deal i would've said "hi" on his stupid wall. Anyway... We fight a lot. I haven't even talked to him yet and he's getting on my nerves.
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Unmoved Moderator Posts: 895 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 03, 2009 12:27 PM
Hello lady...just checking up. Unmoved IP: Logged |