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TrueTaurus
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posted January 07, 2011 03:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been gone for a while and I came back. I used to be Taurean_Scorpion...as some of you may know I've been in a relationship with an Aries/Aries. I stopped reading my horoscopes and what not because I thought it was just messing with my head, but now I see how real and accurate Sun signs can be. I feel like I should've listened to the descriptions and the compatibilitiy of a taurus and aries. Now I'm at a place where I feel like I know that we will not work out because of our differences, but we've come a long way and it's really difficult to let go. We've been together for 2 years and it's been a rollercoaster. I'm a Taurus with a Scorpio Moon and Cancer asc.
He has no water...an Aries with Aries moon and Libra rising.
It's really obvious that our signs don't work together, and it makes me sad that I see it in reality how we're just not meant for each other.
I guess I am just really sad because I really love him, and he loves me. He just doesn't think he could handle our fighting in the future. I wish that I didn't start us from the beginning when I read about the Taurus & Aries pair. Turns out signs are a big deal.

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janoe
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posted January 07, 2011 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for janoe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there,

first up, let me say how sorry I am... it sounds really painful and I can only hope that you both recover. But bear in mind that you always come out of love stories with a lesson learnt, and sometimes the painful ones are more valuable in that department. Might not sound very comforting now, but maybe one day you'll see it that way.

I partly agree with you on the sun signs, however, I think the disharmony of elements should have made you more suspicious. But then again - you were in love, so would it have been right to let it hold you back?

Probably not...I had a different kind of story. My last boyfriend was a Sagittarius, I'm an Aquarius, which is a cracker combination at first glance. Our suns were in trine and we had some other good-laughs-and-frolicks aspects going on. However, his Libra moon had nothing to deliver to my Cancer moon. Somewhere along the line, the fun and laughter just wasn't enough and it all seemed very shallow and meaningless to me.

So you see...compatible sun signs aren't enough. Every person enters our life for a reason. Astrological warning signs shouldn't hold you back from opening the gates for them.

All the best to you,
Janoe

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janoe
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posted January 07, 2011 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for janoe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry - that didn't make sense: Our Venuses were in trine, not the suns. Duh.

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Steam
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posted January 08, 2011 04:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Steam     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so sorry things aren't working out for you. I'm an Aries sun (Taurus cusp) & moon and had a wonderful relationship with a Taurus that had a Virgo moon.

Perhaps it's the moons; Aries/Scorpio both ruled by mars that can locked in battle? Or other signs/aspects within your charts. Above all, I know you need harmony to be happy so I wish you all the best.

I know they say signs next to each other are not supposed to be compatible but there are quite a few that seem to happen because of venus or moon? I know Leo's who love Cancers & Libra's because they tend to have moon or venus in those signs. Some Tauruses have Aries in venus and that seems to work.

Is it all just attraction and won't work in the long run? Venus in someone's sun sign or moon?

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TrueTaurus
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posted January 08, 2011 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Janoe and Steam for your responses.
Well he has Venus in gemini and Mars in Aqua. I also have those two placements. So our venus signs and mars signs are conjunct. My Venus and Mars, thankfully sextiles his Sun and Moon.

This is our composite

ME:

PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Taurus 1228'13 in house 12
Moon Scorpio 2053'09 in house 6
Mercury Taurus 2556'16 in house 12
Venus Gemini 2350'50 in house 12
Mars Aquarius 1712'39 in house 10
Jupiter Taurus 1236'39 in house 12
Saturn Capricorn 210'38 in house 6
Uranus Capricorn 043'31 in house 6
Neptune Capricorn 1004'27 in house 7
Pluto Scorpio 1109'27 in house 6
True Node Pisces 2159'42 in house 11

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Cancer 711'49
2nd House Cancer 1713'07
3rd House Cancer 2832'03
Imum Coeli Leo 1355'46
5th House Virgo 1003'09
6th House Scorpio 602'21
Descendant Capricorn 711'49
8th House Capricorn 1713'07
9th House Capricorn 2832'03
Medium Coeli Aquarius 1355'46
11th House Pisces 1003'09
12th House Taurus 602'21

HIM:

PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Aries 2616'58 in house 7
Moon Aries 2025'06 in house 7
Mercury Aries 2114'10 in house 7
Venus Gemini 1125'43 in house 9
Mars Aquarius 609'00 in house 4
Jupiter Taurus 839'12 end of house 7
Saturn Capricorn 231'59 in house 3
Uranus Capricorn 059'36 in house 3
Neptune Capricorn 1011'19 in house 3
Pluto Scorpio 1137'10 in house 2
True Node Pisces 2248'46 in house 6
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Libra 1217'14
2nd House Scorpio 942'40
3rd House Sagittarius 1037'04
Imum Coeli Capricorn 1349'34
5th House Aquarius 1643'26
6th House Pisces 1638'24
Descendant Aries 1217'14
8th House Taurus 942'40
9th House Gemini 1037'04
Medium Coeli Cancer 1349'34
11th House Leo 1643'26
12th House Virgo 1638'24

Composite Horoscope midpoint method

PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Taurus 422'35 in house 10
Moon Aquarius 539'08 in house 6
Mercury Taurus 835'13 in house 10
Venus Gemini 1738'17 in house 11
Mars Aquarius 1140'50 in house 6
Jupiter Taurus 1037'56 in house 10
Saturn Capricorn 221'18 in house 5
Uranus Capricorn 051'33 in house 5
Neptune Capricorn 1007'53 end of house 5
Pluto Scorpio 1123'18 in house 4
True Node Pisces 2224'14 in house 8
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Leo 2444'31
2nd House Virgo 1327'53
3rd House Libra 434'33
Imum Coeli Libra 2852'40
5th House Scorpio 2823'18
6th House Capricorn 1120'23
Descendant Aquarius 2444'31
8th House Pisces 1327'53
9th House Aries 434'33
Medium Coeli Aries 2852'40
11th House Taurus 2823'18
12th House Cancer 1120'23

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GypseeWind
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posted January 08, 2011 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just wanted to say that my grandparents who were married over 50 years were Aries & Taurus.
Also, my Aunt and Uncle, together for over 20 years were Aries & Taurus.
Each couple died within around 18 mos or so of their spouse.

Personally, I see ALOT of sign next door couples.
I am a Sag who was with a Capricorn, and now I am with a Scorpio.
Makes sense b/c we would probably each have planets in our neighboring signs.
And not only that, but in general most of my friends are fall/winter babies, and I see alot of people who are friends that were born in the same season.

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TrueTaurus
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posted January 11, 2011 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
GypseeWind, well that gives me hope. We're just trying to work things out now. I suggested that we need to be more intimate, spend more time doing a variety of things not sit around watching tv all the time. Basically, keep the romance going so we feel in love and happy again.

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Steam
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posted January 12, 2011 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Steam     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by TrueTaurus:
GypseeWind, well that gives me hope. We're just trying to work things out now. I suggested that we need to be more intimate, spend more time doing a variety of things not sit around watching tv all the time. Basically, keep the romance going so we feel in love and happy again.

I have sun, moon, mercury in Aries & I can't believe YOU are the one who is making the effort to inject some excitement/romance in the relationship! He is seriously slacking in that department

I think this is a guy thing. They get complacent after a while. But if signs mean anything, he should appreciate your effort. I would and that is usually my 'job' in relationships. Keeping it fresh & alive always

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TrueTaurus
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posted January 12, 2011 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know it's kind of ironic. You would think he's adventurous and enthusiastic but I saw that only in the beginning of our relationship. He was never energetic. I think he's a quiet Aries but I see that more of a problem than good because he keeps things inside.
I suggest that we need to keep our relationship alive because I'm the type to think ahead. He thinks more on an impulse and never plans. I see that in the long run it will not work out if we don't have fun and be happy. He says he isn't happy either but he doesn't know why. I've taken a relationship class before and if you lose the intimacy, the relationship goes along with it.
However I know that he will never initiate doing anything with me so that's disappointing. I can't work on this alone.

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Steam
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posted January 13, 2011 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Steam     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"However I know that he will never initiate doing anything with me so that's disappointing. I can't work on this alone."

You should not be alone in this and I'm afraid all I can do is probably tell you what you already know.
My advice is to demand more from him if you haven't already. Straight out tell him what you need. If you did that, then yeah, disappear from him and look forward to a future with a much better suited partner.
Life is too short to waste time on an unresponsive partner who doesn't appreciate you. I move on fast from this.

I so wanna kick him in the arse!

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akuna
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posted January 16, 2011 07:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for akuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your talking relationship TWO people..I'll speak of relationship within as ONE as I'm a
Taurus sun Aries rising...a hard mix being
such different persona..but I find my "leave me alone to peacefully graze Bull" uses that
Aries "don't tread on me" as protection from this harsh world that doesn't seem to recognize we all have a right to be our selves living our lives as we choose so long as we don't infringe on the rights of others to do the same. Aries me speaks up before the Bull has a chance to snort and charge.
Now maybe this attraction which is the last word in polarity opposition could find a melding in the world if looked at as becoming one to exhibit what the other doesn't have and together making a compatible whole. Blessing with this...

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TrueTaurus
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posted January 18, 2011 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had two choices. To either stay in the relationship with him saying he doesn't know what to do, that he doesn't know right now whether or not he could prioritize me. I said prioritizing is commitment. He says he needs to get his life together first.
He couldn't make up his mind to break up with me, but that is what he wanted. I'm the one who kept saying it's worth trying for because we've been through a lot together. But I was unhappy either way. I had to break up with him. I told him this is not what I want...
It's been three days and it's SO hard. I'm very heartbroken because I dreamt of having something bigger and beautiful with him.

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Steam
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posted January 19, 2011 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Steam     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"To either stay in the relationship with him saying he doesn't know what to do, that he doesn't know right now whether or not he could prioritize me. I said prioritizing is commitment. He says he needs to get his life together first. "

As painful as it is now, it's better than being with someone who gives you less than %100. You are so right in saying that prioritizing is commitment.

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