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DonParagon13
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posted August 22, 2012 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DonParagon13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, let me give a prelude to you before I began; I met this girl in high school who when I first saw her my stomach twirled with butterflies, etc. I fell for her at first sight. (which I didn't believe) We were friends at first but it was obvious I really liked her. Time went by and I got a false message from her used to be best friend saying she didn't like me. It broke my heart. I would go on to be with someone else whom I didn't actually and genuinely like. It was a disaster! I would fall in love with this"Other Girl" who cheated on me, etc. but naively thought was Love. I still remained friends with the Cancer, my feelings unchanged. I finally got up enough courage to break it off and be with the Cancer. I showed/told her who I felt with a kiss in my high school's hallway. I told her I loved her and I truly did as I still do today. (this is seriously what happened) We begin dating but my Ex would come back to me claiming she changed and I believed her. I made a grave and stupid mistake by telling my Cancer that I didn't Love her and I was confused. But, I did and I was confused. I hurt her so deeply and yet she still took me back. I was her first. We went on the rest of our years in high school together. Prom, even living with each other, etc. We would break-up and get back together, try to talk to other people but we always came back and I'll admit to lying and hurting her. Recently, we'd break up for a long while but still be involved romantically, and physically but with no title. She was in Texas at school and she started talking to this Virgo guy. She fell for him. At home(in Chicago) I was helping her paying her bills, buy books, food, money for gas, etc. I even went so far as selling my prized jewelry, possessions, to get her money. She promised and sworn upon her grandfather's grave she'd let this Virgo guy go and marry. And by this time I was perfect! No more drama, enlisted into the Marine Corps, getting my life together so I could be with her. Be able to support her more financially, etc. Then, last year some weeks before Christmas she broke up with me. Saying "she doesn't love me the same, it's maybe probably all what we went through, and that she now loves Virgo guy." So, I told her about the promise she made and even went and told her before I would leave to Marines I was going to ask her to marry me, had rings everything. She said it doesn't matter and she didn't care. That I'd have to let her go. I quote her words"If you let me go, I won't run away." I'll come back if it's meant to be, etc. So, normally for anyone who was in love as deep as I was I kept calling heer, texting her to take back, and she said No she lives the Virgo and let it go, let time tell, and we are nothing but friends. Now, I'm here. Being here friend, but I can't stop thinking about her. I know she's the One and I want her...but she doesn't want me. Tell me will she come back? What am I to do? This is driving me crazy! I loved/love her so hard, so much from the depths of my heart and soul, truly. I thought and heard that True Love prevails why has it not for me? Will she come back to me? I don't know what to to do. I can't stop thinking about her? Tell me anyone. Also, to my good friend Mel...there I've vented this to someone/something that's better suited for my pursuit and questions of Love. Lets see if it helps me get with my special someone as much as it helped you.(Sarcasm)

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ariesdragon
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posted August 22, 2012 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's a tough one but I don't think she'll come back cos cancers are devoted when they're in love. I think you should allow her to enjoy her relationship with Virgo cos I'm sure it's painful to have to keep saying no to you every time u contact her. Give it some time & maybe you'll get another chance when she's single (if they break up) for now keep your mind on other things & go on dates

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DonParagon13
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posted August 23, 2012 01:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DonParagon13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
...she's not in love, she just loves the Virgo but you're the expert so...I guess I'll never be with her again...(this sucks so bad, I really, really Love this Cancer)...I don't think I want to date right now. It's too soon, I'm not ready I gave her, Cancer all of me. And that wasn't enough....It hurts when you want someone and they don't want you.

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DonParagon13
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posted August 23, 2012 01:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DonParagon13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
...she's not in love, she just loves the Virgo but you're the expert so...I guess I'll never be with her again...(this sucks so bad, I really, really Love this Cancer)...I don't think I want to date right now. It's too soon, I'm not ready I gave her, Cancer all of me. And that wasn't enough....It hurts when you want someone and they don't want you.

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ariesdragon
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posted August 23, 2012 01:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not an expert I'm just being fair... Would you want someone trying to get your girl? Like I said if they break up she may come back to you but until then shouldn't u do things to keep yourself happy?

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posted November 08, 2012 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ZezeLoves     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why did you let her go in the first place, tell her you didnt love her? My ex and sons father just did the same thing to me after a year and a half of saying how much he loved me and our life and family. How are we women to trust Pisces men ever again after something so cruel. You did this to her, you left her and now she has moved on. I am trying to hold off building the wall he will never be able to break through but that will only last so long. Let her go because it seems when life gets to real and the Pisces knows you want them, they will swim away!

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posted November 12, 2013 11:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can attest to the pisces-cancer connection.

I'm a cancer. I feel a lot of the same ways you feel about this cancer girl for a pisces ex myself.

What're your chinese signs by the way? Are you chinese soulmate signs by any chance? look up Shelly Wu on google and chinese soulmate signs.

Astrology sites everywhere raved about the pisces-cancer match. But i never believed them. It's all true.

He does the same thing. Tells me he doesnt love me. I, the cancer, also just feel the beed to mve on after that. I would never ever hurt someone I love in that way. Or even someone I dont love. And that's why i'm moving on i bet that's why she is too

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posted March 07, 2014 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can tell you for sure my crushes on virgo guys would never ever compare to my crushes on pisces guys, the bond with pisces felt a ton more deep. Virgos are too lacking in passion/reserved to make us truly happy. We are all happiest with someone of our same element. She just cant forgive you for hurting her like that. I wouldnt be able to either

You have to understand that not being loved is a cancer's deepest fear. You telling her you didnt love her probably made her suicidal. You hit her in her weakest spot. Cancer needs reassurance above all confirmation that theyre loved is music to our ears....telling us u dont love us when we thought u did is the most powerful pain we can feel we absolutely cant take rejection, and to see that u kept saying it and didnt care to her is unforgivable trust me thats what happened

What happens is virgo is the safe sign for us. Cancers trust virgos instantly. We know a virgo is pure deep down and would never deceive us, would always treat us right...but passion is lacking with them

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usc277
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posted April 11, 2014 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I can tell you for sure my crushes on virgo guys would never ever compare to my crushes on pisces guys, the bond with pisces felt a ton more deep. Virgos are too lacking in passion/reserved to make us truly happy. We are all happiest with someone of our same element. She just cant forgive you for hurting her like that. I wouldnt be able to either

You have to understand that not being loved is a cancer's deepest fear. You telling her you didnt love her probably made her suicidal. You hit her in her weakest spot. Cancer needs reassurance above all confirmation that theyre loved is music to our ears....telling us u dont love us when we thought u did is the most powerful pain we can feel we absolutely cant take rejection, and to see that u kept saying it and didnt care to her is unforgivable trust me thats what happened

What happens is virgo is the safe sign for us. Cancers trust virgos instantly. We know a virgo is pure deep down and would never deceive us, would always treat us right...but passion is lacking with them


No passion = no reason to live

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posted April 14, 2014 08:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^true. That's why im not with a virgo either

Just waiting for another pisces. Lol.. -___-

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usc277
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posted April 14, 2014 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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^true. That's why im not with a virgo either

Just waiting for another pisces. Lol.. -___-



am a pisces sun/aires moon/taurus asc

lets go ! you will be guaranteed unparalleled happiness and joy with me =) until my aires moon kicks in....damn you my lustful moon

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posted April 14, 2014 08:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im a leo moon. Haha. Your worst nightmare.
Just kidding. :PP


Aries and leo moon are trine so they actually get along super well.

Stay with your wife, though. <3

or be honest with her, and find another scorpio, or cancer.

And dont cheat! Lol. Who can trust you knowin you've cheated in the past?or been lustful
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posted April 14, 2014 09:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Im a leo moon. Haha. Your worst nightmare.
Just kidding. :PP


Aries and leo moon are trine so they actually get along super well.

Stay with your wife, though. <3

or be honest with her, and find another scorpio, or cancer.

And dont cheat! Lol. Who can trust you knowin you've cheated in the past?or been lustful



my wife knows everything...she saw her pics,,her naked pics too and the pics of the scorp kissing me...she is staying and giving me a last chance i think..i dont know shes a gemini and maybe trying planning a revenge..she said if we didnt have a new born she would have left..not planning to cheat but i have 4 aires women now who seem attracted..its the worse combo for a pisces..not sure what they see in me..and yes 4

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posted April 14, 2014 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Im a leo moon. Haha. Your worst nightmare.
Just kidding. :PP


Aries and leo moon are trine so they actually get along super well.

Stay with your wife, though. <3

or be honest with her, and find another scorpio, or cancer.

And dont cheat! Lol. Who can trust you knowin you've cheated in the past?or been lustful



so shall i go back to the chase ? i quit her honestly..never chased someone for 2 months..

but scorpio sun and pisces sun get along superb and your saying aires moon and leo moon get along superb..its a match made in heaven ?

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posted April 14, 2014 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^no u shouldnt go back to chasing her. Your composite and synastry were terrible. And you were also the dog and dragon, a very passionate but extremely unhealthy match, no understanding between them. Your opposite sign is your enemy. They will never fully be there for you.

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usc277
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posted April 14, 2014 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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^no u shouldnt go back to chasing her. Your composite and synastry were terrible. And you were also the dog and dragon, a very passionate but extremely unhealthy match, no understanding between them. Your opposite sign is your enemy. They will never fully be there for you.


Come on, terrible..?? Really ?

Your the expert, am not good at reading charts.. What made you say its terrible ?

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posted April 14, 2014 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jo B     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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my wife knows everything...she saw her pics,,her naked pics too and the pics of the scorp kissing me...she is staying and giving me a last chance i think..i dont know shes a gemini and maybe trying planning a revenge..she said if we didnt have a new born she would have left..not planning to cheat but i have 4 aires women now who seem attracted..its the worse combo for a pisces..not sure what they see in me..and yes 4

I'm beginning to REALLY feel sorry for your wife. I had to say it. This is just... sad.

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posted April 14, 2014 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm beginning to REALLY feel sorry for your wife. I had to say it. This is just... sad.



Its not like that..I had a childhood from hell, sexual abuse from men and women.. (mostly women), mental and physical abuse.. Cheating ran high in the family..and she knows about all this..so she understands why am like that..and it doesn't bother her much..

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posted April 14, 2014 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ "and it doesn't bother her much."


Lol...wow.


Usc if it's what you want go ahead and chase her. I'm only telling you it's not worth it. But if that's what feels right then you probably should because you need to see that it's not worth it for yourself first.

At this point I dont see why you should be with your wife.

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posted April 14, 2014 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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^ "and it doesn't bother her much."


Lol...wow.


Usc if it's what you want go ahead and chase her. I'm only telling you it's not worth it. But if that's what feels right then you probably should because you need to see that it's not worth it for yourself first.

At this point I dont see why you should be with your wife.



Am already there RAS, she ain't worth it...in all honesty I feel that I already have her..not being delusional, but she will come back one day. I just feel it..she told me once that she cant handle the guilt..she's mine..when she does come back though... Not sure what will happen.. Most likely I will swim away to my ocean and leave her ashore..

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posted April 14, 2014 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jo B     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Am already there RAS, she ain't worth it...in all honesty I feel that I already have her..not being delusional, but she will come back one day. I just feel it..she told me once that she cant handle the guilt..she's mine..when she does come back though... Not sure what will happen.. Most likely I will swim away to my ocean and leave her ashore..

Lol, this is one big ego trip for you really isn't it?

It's just a shame people are getting hurt in the process. Why did you decide to tell your wife, incidentally? What were you hoping to achieve from that?

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posted April 14, 2014 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jo^ I wouldn't waste your time with him. As I have seen those who plow iniquity and sow trouble reap the same. Whoever digs a pit will fall into it, and a stone will come back on him who starts it rolling. -bible

Lustful people will confused lust with love and end up heartbroken after they base their relationships on sex. If you think you sticking your hand in her vagina after having just met her is love, then you are wrong. That's not love. Love respects. Love waits. Love honors. And she is obviously showing you it's not love by her behavior.

Love is true caring. Lust is not. If you loved her you would've respected her body so much you wouldn't have been able to do that until you got to know each other much much better. LOVE is based on friendship and caring, NOT lust.

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posted April 15, 2014 03:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Lol, this is one big ego trip for you really isn't it?

It's just a shame people are getting hurt in the process. Why did you decide to tell your wife, incidentally? What were you hoping to achieve from that?



i didnt plan to tell her..she hacked into my iphone and saw all the pics,,so i came clean and admitted everything

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posted April 15, 2014 03:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Jo^ I wouldn't waste your time with him. As I have seen those who plow iniquity and sow trouble reap the same. Whoever digs a pit will fall into it, and a stone will come back on him who starts it rolling. -bible

Lustful people will confused lust with love and end up heartbroken after they base their relationships on sex. If you think you sticking your hand in her vagina after having just met her is love, then you are wrong. That's not love. Love respects. Love waits. Love honors. And she is obviously showing you it's not love by her behavior.

Love is true caring. Lust is not. If you loved her you would've respected her body so much you wouldn't have been able to do that until you got to know each other much much better. LOVE is based on friendship and caring, NOT lust.


that is just harsh Ms Cancer..insensitive, why are you hurting a fellow water ?
i know what love is..its why am on earth..its not like i forced my hand in there ! she wanted it and she wanted more...but because i felt something weird in my heart i stopped and didn't sleep with her when i had the chance..i wanted to wait and i waited..and what did i get in return ? complete ignorance and ..she found another guy to do the job and left me ice cold...but i have no regrets.

cancer ! i like cancers

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