posted November 12, 2013 09:51 PM            

Not true.
When someone’s ur soulmate,
The memories haunt you
Nothing ever affects you the same way ever again
You are changed for the better,
tho thru a lot of pain.

You argue with each other
until u both learn to be fair to people,
to treat people right,
to truly become better.
Everything hurts,
u dont let anything go,
but u cant let go of each other either,
so the only choice is to change.

Such is the destiny of soulmates,
to change each other’s bad behaviors
so that they are both good people,
taking responsibility for their lives,
living in truth.

posted November 13, 2013 05:32 PM            

Or maybe I'm fooling myself.

My last "experiences" (which have been quite few and not even based in the "real world") were very brief, starting and ending abruptly, often by my own decision.

It's like I basically refuse to "waste time" on people who don't give me what I want or need (but what exactly do I want and need?).
Is that the right thing to do? Or should I slow down and pay more attention to the people I come into contact with?

Is there even a place for so called "soul mates" in such a frantic change of associations?

Questions, questions...