posted March 25, 2014 03:45 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I would like some insight regarding this combo as it is known for being very intense, passionate and long-lasting.

Here's my story.

April 11th 2013, I met Mr Pisces on a dating website. We hit it off right away and spent hours talking. We messaged each other all day everyday for like a month. I was almost obsessed with talking to him (Scorpio trait). We met up after a month and all I can say is that every single time our eyes locked, my entire body melted. I also felt a strong pull towards him. Then we kept talking but for some reason, he kept rescheduling our first real date. He did it multiple times and I ended up cutting him off.

However, I never stopped thinking of him. I thought about him every single day. After 7 months of no contact I got a text from him on Valentine's Day. He apologized for his selfish behavior and asked for a second shot. Again, we talked about everything and anything.

We finally went our first "real" date and oh my! Just walking next to him, I felt this electric connection! Our date lasted 8 hours because we just clicked. We talked and teased each other like siblings and talked about tons of things. There wasn't a single silence. Our first kiss was cinematic, intense, passionate. It was like a movie kiss (according to some woman who saw us kissing and told me we made a beautiful couple).

We kept talking and he kept complimenting me everyday.

However, the following date was pretty bad mainly because he was in a terrible mood which somehow made me moody too. A lot of making out (we just couldn't keep away) but his mind was clearly all about his financial woes. He qualified himself as a "jerk" and somehow took pride in it. It was a far cry from the gentleman he was on the previous date. He was a total tool and especially mean. It lasted 8 hours like the previous time. Same insane making out and silly jokes. I declined sex with him that night and he never bothered responding to my texts afterwards. It came crashing down again.

However, after I declined sex, he deluded himself and told me we had zero intellectual chemistry and it was purely physical (what?? He had told me the exact opposite statement the week before and mentioned how he had never clicked with a girl this way. 8 hours each time clearly show there's a connection).

We had so much fun together. However, we rushed things way too soon. We clicked so well that within the first hour of our "first" date, we were talking about love, marriage, family, heartbreaks, exes, childhood, politics, values, religion so on and so forth. We had a great deal in common on top of amazing sexual chemistry (those making out sessions could have led to raw sex if we weren't in public. He was all over me all the time, no time to breathe!).

Anyway. It's supposed to be a long-lasting combo. I don't understand why ours came crashing down. Any ideas? Do Pisces and Scorpio eventually go back to each other?

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Pisces male here, chasing a scorp female..thought my story is far more complicated than your ( we both married to different people, and shes a newly wed)...its on soul unions..

the chemistry is intense,,out of this world..i have no idea how something so incredible could exist on earth... i fell in love with an aqua, gemini,leo and libra..but it has never been so intense..

my situation is the reverse of your, she's the one playing hot and cold..stranger one day, lover the next, tells me she doesnt care, doesnt love me..etc..but i feel she's not telling the truth..just a test..

my strategy is to hang in there and be patient...not to smother her with emotions and not to ignore here..am trying to find a balance...

I don't know how scorp's can think about someone everyday for 7 month and not contact them,,,how do you do it ?

it seems that things went crashing down when you declined sex,,why did you decline ?

honestly, the same happened to me, i declined sex with her on our first date and things were never the same again..( remember were both married to different people)

i don't think you rushed things..you did what you felt at the time...don't regret it. i literally fell for that scopr within 30 min..went to the rest room of the air plane and cried...
its a long lasting combo i assure you..just don't give up yet..i know scorp have the ice cold strategy..i wouldn't use it yet..

posted March 26, 2014 04:31 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Thank you very much for your response usc277.

We didn't speak for 7 months and I didn't contact him because I tried apologizing for cutting him off too impulsively and he never bothered responding to my apology text. Hence, I didn't want to bother him again.

We haven't spoken since the day after our last date. He ignored a couple of my texts and even ignored my birthday text. I felt really hurt that he would even ignore my birthday text.

The reason why I declined sex is because I wanted to make sure he was in it for the right reasons. I planned on having sex with him at some point (because I was very attracted to him), but since he only came back after 7 months, I was wary of his intentions. I wanted to make sure he wasn't just going to hit it and quit it. I told him I wanted to take things slow and he agreed but I suppose it was only because he didn't want to seem like a jerk.

For some reason, I just can't stop thinking about him. I didn't even get upset when I cut him off, because deep down inside I know we're connected. I tried crying and feeling sad, but it just didn't work. Somehow, my intuition is telling me there is no point in crying because it's not over yet.

However, I just don't understand why this Pisces man would ignore me. He was sweet, couldn't stop kissing me, held my hand before he dropped me off at the end of our last date, kept telling me how beautiful I am, told me he believed in love enough for the both of us (he knows I'm pretty pessimistic when it comes to love) ... only to disappear afterwards. I'm very much confused! Why?

I have now blocked his number, deleted my online dating account and blocked him on FB hoping that absence will make the heart grow fonder. After all, he's been ignoring me but that didn't prevent him from spending hours on that dating website. It was too much for me to handle. Do you think this could work?

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so even if he tried to contact you, you wouldn't know since he is blocked ?

if that's the case, unblock him..he might contact you...if he's blocked you wouldnt know about it...i believe Pisces never let go..am like that...only when are truly hurt we swim away...

this will work out..astrology was made for the Pisces man/Scorp woman...patience. perseverance... i have finally broken the outer shell of my scorp,,she's finally surrendering, slowly but surely...but i am wary..she's a scorp after all and could still be playing...

don't chase him..your a woman,,he should chase you. but text him again tell him you want to talk. plain and simple...if he doesn't reply within 3 days..text again and tell him your done...and go ice cold..its painful but it has to be done.

posted March 26, 2014 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Regarding your own story: I think it takes a lot of time to get a Scorpio woman to let her guards down. Just show her you care, don't disappear for no reason. You have to prove to her you'll always be there. Consistency and honesty are the best policy if you want to get to a Scorpio woman's heart. I know you're both married, but I'm sure she's thinking of you as much as you're thinking of her, if not more. Despite our cold front, Scorpio women are very very sensitive. Trust me, if you two weren't married to other people, she'd be all over you like white on rice! Unfortunately, Scorpios are very loyal and it's a tough situation for her. Be there for her. Scorpios find it really hard to trust people, show her she can rely on you

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He was born March 7th, 1990. I was born November 5th, 1990.

I'm not sure if he tried to contact me but after I sent him a birthday text and he never responded, I wrote him one last text to tell him I'm done with him (again). I find it slightly unsettling that he would ignore a gesture which was only meant to show him I care. I was more upset about the fact he ignored my birthday text than about the rest.I decided to pull my disappearing act again (no FB, no dating site, no phone) and hope he'll realize what he lost. I genuinely hope he is going to get his act straight.

Truthfully, I know a lot of very sweet Pisces. One of my friends is a female Pisces and my dad is a Pisces, and they would never ignore someone's birthday text no matter how mad they are at the other person. In my case, he's got no reasons to be mad because I didn't do anything wrong. He's just being plain mean.

He told me himself he'd never drop me. He told me he had never clicked with anyone this way. I've been nothing but nice to him. I complimented him on his looks all the time (I know he's got insecurities) and was really sweet to him when he tried to "get me back".

I don't even understand why he even bothered holding my hand or telling me he believed in love enough for the both of us only to disappear the next day. He's heartless in my opinion.

He ruined it once again. He can be the sweetest one day and then turn into a jerk. I don't understand.

I just wish my Pisces were as sensitive as you are and thought of me the way you're thinking about her.

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Thanks for commenting on my story, she told me recently life isn't fair..if she had met me when she was engaged she would have called it off and married me...she wants to be friends only and I don't know if I can..

The thing is, if he gets his act straight, how are you gonna know about it ? He's blocked...he can't even aplogize if he wanted to...can you unblock him and not contact him ?

I couldn't do it with my scorp...I would block her, then unblock her within hours and shower her with texts about how much I care....
If he said he'll never drop you, then he won't drop you..maybe something happened like a death in the family..maybe he died..just unblock him please..

posted March 26, 2014 01:28 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I unblocked him but it's so frustrating to have him unblocked because I keep checking my phone constantly, hoping to get a text from him. I hate this "needy" feeling. That's half the reason why I keep blocked. I try to convince myself the "out of sight, of mind" will work at some point.

It doesn't help that I keep seeing his name absolutely everywhere. I wish he were as sweet and attentive as you are.

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If you cant stop checking your phone, then reblock him...I know how you feel..I was in the same boat but I kept trying, it was painful..but i really believed no matter what happens she is with me forever whether we get married or not...that's what kept me and is keeping me going. If you don't feel it with this intensity then drop him.

posted March 26, 2014 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:

Scorpios sometimes have a hard time dealing with feelings and sensitivity. We're very secretive people, mostly because we're afraid of getting hurt! It's nice to see how much you care about her. Scorpio women can be quite harsh at times, but it's only meant to protect themselves from the pain some feelings can inflict. Don't run away if she sometimes turns cold on you, she's just trying to process her own feelings.

My Pisces can be so mean and heartless. On our last date he was like Jekyll and Hyde. Told me "I could be a jerk, you never know!". I care so much about him, it hurts. All I wanted was to build something sweet and nice and I got fooled.

He's very much alive, I just checked his FB page (I unblocked him just to check).

I've never been hurt by a guy, but for once in my life, I did. Mainly because he made me believe in rainbows and fairytales only to drop me weeks later because I declined sex. I wonder what I ever did to deserve such treatment.

He came back with a heartfelt apology but I think he had an agenda and was in a dry spell. It's sad to see I like him so much that I'd be willing to wait for someone who blatantly mistreats me. For some reason, I still believe it's not over even though everyone keeps telling me it is.

I just don't understand how one can treat someone like this and not have any regrets. As a Pisces man, how would you feel if you had consciously or unconsciously treated someone this way?

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I can't treat someone this way unless they cheated on me and lied about it...I would plan a revenge or drop it forever... Depends how hurt I was...

posted March 27, 2014 12:20 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I'm sorry to hear you two had a fight. Scorpios have a hot temper. I'm sure she isn't mad at you but she's certainly bothered by something else and is taking it out on you. I do that often. Don't take it personally. I'm sure she'll be crawling back apologizing in a couple of days. Just calm down and let it go for the time being. No matter how harsh or "mean" we can be at times, we still care. She's probably having a rough week and wants to be alone for a while. Scorpios don't like to talk or be bothered when we have something going on. Keep yourself at a distance for now, she'll come back apologizing, I'm sure

In my case, what annoyed me is that he also lied a lot. When I declined having sex with him, he told me he had a train at 7am so he cut our date short. Next thing I know, he was on that dating website until 4 am and the train excuse was a lie because he was on that website all day the following day. I tried to reach him via text that day and he never responded.

Last time I talked to him was when we were on our last date. I haven't heard from him since and I'm pretty sure he blocked my number.

I think he never cared in the first place.

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posted March 27, 2014 01:36 PM            

Basically, your synastry is amazing, with BOTH of your personal planets all trining and sextiling each other in double whammies (aspects that happen twice). This is why you had such intense chemistry. But the composite which shows long term potential and the unity of the couple is absolutely terrible and harmful as well. I don't think he was trying to use you...the synastry is all too real. But I do think he changed his mind about how serious his feelings were. I do feel that if you were to chase him he would be capable of lying to you and using you. The composite is very negative.

posted March 27, 2014 02:52 PM            

The intensity and emotional games of water sign matches is the stuff of drama.

I once read "Maru" by Bessie Head and to me, it describes perfectly the Scorpio /Pisces relationship. Only in this novel it is male Scorpio with female Pisces.

I am a Sun in Sag conjunct Neptune and Jupiter(ruling Sun sign planet) with Venus in Scorpio. Even in my wildest dreams, I have never "bled" this much for love.

With fire matches, its more instantaneous.I feel a kinship with Aries, Aries will let me know(like it or not).

Should I feel a love for a Leo? Well, all I need do is be sensitive enough to stroke the Lions lips and I will get my answer.

Point is, it is only with other signs(Air , water and Earth) that the mind games and innuendos come in.

I think the two of you may have been sensitive enough to feel the connection between your respective match ups, appreciate the intensity and rarity of it and , throwing all logic aside, went with your "gut" feel to bare all.

I read somewhere that water relationships are hardly characterized by intellect but emotions.

So even when people may speak to implore reason from both of you, I think your emotions for your partners are just too strong to heed the advice.

posted March 27, 2014 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Scorpios have a hard time apologizing, but when they truly care, they do apologize. They don't think of "apologizing" as being weak.

It's none my business, but I think that now she found out she's pregnant, you should back off. You clearly have feelings for each other and asking you to be "just" friends is selfish of her. It's a disaster in the making because this so-called "friendship" is just going to make the two of you miserable. You too would be fooling yourselves. But you didn't ask for my opinion, so.

I hope you're right. I hope he'll realize his mistake and come back with an apology. Just an apology will do, I'm not asking for much really.

I wish I had someone who cares about me as much as you do care about her!

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She doesn't truly care..she told me yesterday she will never fall in love with me..the day before she said life is not fair she would have married me if she was single..isn't this contradictory Is she insane ? Today i sent a good morning Text she ignored..a good night text and she ignored..

posted March 27, 2014 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
@MineAgain, I'm sorry I really think you've got to let him go. From your composite chart, it doesnt look like he's going to come back. I think that he did feel the chemistry like you did, but really did later change his mind about it and felt it was only physical. The composite chart is one of the worst I have seen. It shows intensity but very destructive as well as deception. It is not real love or true caring.

Basically, your synastry is amazing, with BOTH of your personal planets all trining and sextiling each other in double whammies (aspects that happen twice). This is why you had such intense chemistry. But the composite which shows long term potential and the unity of the couple is absolutely terrible and harmful as well. I don't think he was trying to use you...the synastry is all too real. But I do think he changed his mind about how serious his feelings were. I do feel that if you were to chase him he would be capable of lying to you and using you. The composite is very negative.

If you want to know for sure I recommend asking Sandie Camara on bitwine.com how he feels. She was very accurate for me about how someone feels about me.
You can also try asking Sacred Divine Love Reunite on Kasamba or Hermes on Kasamba, but they are more expensive and might be less detailed. I can vouch for all three of their psychic abilities, though.

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Can you interpret the girl and I

Me:
Sun Pisces 8.30
Moon Aries 22.45
Mercury Aquarius 11.38
Venus Capricorn 28.15
Mars Libra 18.54 R
Jupiter Scorpio 10.19 R
Saturn Libra 21.37 R
Uranus Sagittarius 4.35
Neptune Sagittarius 26.48
Pluto Libra 26.42 R
Lilith Sagittarius 17.20
Asc node Cancer 21.40

posted March 28, 2014 02:28 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
@usc sure I can! I'd just need the two birthdates though

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Thanks

Mine: Feb 27 1982 @08:45 am

Her's: Nov 1st 1988 @12:30pm

posted March 28, 2014 02:56 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:

Water signs tend to be pretty emotional and certainly don't think rationally when it comes to love. Our heart tends to prevail. I know I don't think rationally at all. Despite my very cold and harsh front, I'm very emotional.

I'm in this 2 dimensional perspective at the moment. I know that for my sake I should get over it but my heart can't let go.

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Absolutely true..no rational thinking whatsoever.. Like i would quit my job, dump everything and everyone around me just to hold her hand...so irrational but it just feels right.
My heart can't let go and seems to ignore any hurtful thing she does..I mean she does hurt me but my heart says nevermind you can handle that pain...I know am strong enough, confident that she won't suffocate me, summer is almost here and women love 6 packs, tall, dark skin, gray haired men..