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Topic: Does this look like a soul union?
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Jo B
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posted April 14, 2014 04:41 PM
  
Today he said "how are you my future gf again?"Lol. Whether that happens or not I thought that was pretty sweet. Ahh that's another thing I remember about him - his charm.  I hope the years have been kind to us both. lol (Sorry this has turned into a self-indulgent love fest, I'll shut up now!) IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 14, 2014 09:30 PM
^hahhaha. No worries.Ur just gushing
Cant hold it in Are u ok with just being friends? IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted April 15, 2014 05:45 AM
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Are u ok with just being friends?
Yes I'm ok with just being friends with him. I'm 49, past child-bearing age and not really looking to marry anyone, so friendship matters more to me. I can take or leave the romance (he WAS very attractive though so I'd probably take it here!). The main thing is I found him again and everything is ok between us. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 15, 2014 07:25 AM
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Originally posted by Jo B:
Yes I'm ok with just being friends with him. I'm 49, past child-bearing age and not really looking to marry anyone, so friendship matters more to me. I can take or leave the romance (he WAS very attractive though so I'd probably take it here!). The main thing is I found him again and everything is ok between us.
Perfect. I have a lot of respect for that
Too many women go crazy at the thought they might never get married. It's ridic. Congrats :P IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted April 15, 2014 08:04 AM
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Too many women go crazy at the thought they might never get married. It's ridic. Congrats :P
It was never really on my agenda for life. It would be nice to live someone you got along well with (and I do regret not having kids, I will admit that), but the ring on the finger/marriage contract thing always felt alien to me. I think I'm much better as a girlfriend than a wife!
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 15, 2014 12:49 PM
Hmm. That's cool. So far I just havent found someone who has no issues lol. Most guys have a lot of 'em. Lol. Unfortunately. Until then I'm way happier being single, and find that it's easier to be happy when I'm single. I already had two very fulfilling relationship experiences and they filled me up quite well
I dont feel like I need much more love. They were satisfying enough haha! That's what we all want, no? To have felt extremely loved by someone at least once, right?I want to adopt, though. Even if Im a single mom. Ive met too many little kids I had a special bond with. ------------------
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Jo B
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posted April 15, 2014 01:49 PM
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That's what we all want, no? To have felt extremely loved by someone at least once, right?
Yes, but a mutual love, and one that has potential for growth. All this has proved to me is that genuine love never really dies. He's by no means perfect and neither am I. We had a few clashes, it wasn't all easy. But the strong feeling drawing us close was there too. And maybe age does mature you and make you more philosophical and easy-going about love.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 16, 2014 02:00 AM
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Yes, but a mutual love, and one that has potential for growth.All this has proved to me is that genuine love never really dies. He's by no means perfect and neither am I. We had a few clashes, it wasn't all easy. But the strong feeling drawing us close was there too. And maybe age does mature you and make you more philosophical and easy-going about love.
Exactly. Love never dies or else it was never "love" at all. In my sun-jupiter crushes my feelings died eventually after some time (two or three years) and with moon square venus crushes...same. I eventually grew to find them all annoying. But with sun-venus in composite crushes, my love for them has always been and will always be. I could never find them annoying or turn against them. Same has happened in my friendships. I could never ever find my sun-venus friends annoying. There is too much affection and admiration there. ------------------
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Jo B
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posted April 22, 2014 11:41 PM
Oh well, yesterday he messaged me saying "how are you my friend"... so I've gone from "future girlfriend" to "friend." lol. Seems like he is feeling the same way.I can't blame him really. Long distance relationships suck, especially when you haven't actually seen them for 14 years! IP: Logged |
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