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MineAgain
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posted September 05, 2014 11:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 06, 2014 09:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Helios     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think you are delusional.

I used to believe in fated encounters but not anymore - at least not when it comes to romance - as I haven't seen enough proof or evidence that such encounters have any deeper meaning or significance than exactly that - a simple encounter.
That being said, it's probably because I've only had negative experiences in that area that I believe only further damaged my heart, mind and soul rather than enriched me or helped me grow.

However there are a select few people that I think were "put on my road" by God's hand (or some Higher Power), because they bring/brought some sort of knowledge, information, inspiration and/or support to me. All of them have a planet conjuncting my North Node (IIRC).

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MineAgain
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posted September 06, 2014 10:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 06, 2014 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for melodiemelodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I've become more spiritual in the last couple of months and I've been wondering if you've ever felt like an encounter (romantic) was just fated even if it didn't last.

Fated meaning it's like you two came to this location, at this exact timing, had the same things going on and finally met ... Then the relationship broke down and you both left the location at the same time with an invaluable growth.

I had an encounter which I believe was definitely God's work.

Or am I delusional?


Yes, absolutely. You can read my story here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000578.html

You are not delusional!

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AmelieRose81
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posted October 06, 2014 03:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not really.

How many songs and movies are there about love lost?

It isnt fated or any kind of divine influence.

Dating someone and breaking up has happened to every human on the planet.

it's life. Nothing divine or fated about it.

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posted October 06, 2014 04:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And by same things going on, unless you were both planning on becoming Tibetan monks or soething similarly obscure, then it isnt hard to have the same things going on.

We all have job, family, health, money, etc etc etc worries.

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posted October 06, 2014 04:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 06, 2014 06:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes. To those saying love isn't fated... Not all love is fates. Not all relationships are fated, and you just can't know the feeling until you've experienced it.

I remember when I met my boyfriend. I didn't even find him that attractive, we've never said anything to each other. But it was something about the way he looked at me and I don't even know what else, but I couldn't get him out of my mind. Then one day circumstances drove us to talks me we hit it off. We were both going through very tough times and about to throw in the towel. He told me he was about to give up on everything, and I was too. In a sense he saved my life.

I've had other fated meetings, with friends and brief relationships. Even though the relationships didn't last, it taught me a lesson, and they put me in the right place and the right time to meet my boyfriend now.

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posted October 06, 2014 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarmicMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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KarmicMoon
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posted October 06, 2014 07:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarmicMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did you notice how you posted this at 11 11 and ameliarose has made 111 posts?

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posted October 06, 2014 08:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mineagain.....don't flatter yourself. You're not that important.

I hadnt actually realised it was you. Do you honestly think I remebered your username from all those months ago. I cant even remember what you said to me now. You remebered who inwas though which says it all.

It isnt rude I was direct. There is a difference and I would have replied the same to anyone.

Meeting new people we have a connection with is life...plain and ordinary. It's happened to me at least four times and I havent been alive that long.

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posted October 06, 2014 08:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 06, 2014 09:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And I've given up completely on a guy who isnt interested in me and i am dating again.

you need to get a grip if you're still thinking about fated divine connections with a man who isnt with you anymore.

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posted October 06, 2014 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
And I've given up completely on a guy who isnt interested in me and i am dating again.

you need to get a grip if you're still thinking about fated divine connections with a man who isnt with you anymore.


I'm not talking about a specific person, dear. Plus, you're off base as this topic is a general one, not a personal one.

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Dancing Maenad
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posted October 06, 2014 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I understand you two have conflicting opinions and that is fine, but don't cross the line here. No rudeness and no insults, manage your contradictions respectfully.

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posted October 06, 2014 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[This discussion is closed. Certain individuals do not know how to get their point across in a respectful manner. As I do not want to engage in endless mean spirited word exchanges, I am terminating this thread. Thanks to those who provided a constructive answer to my question. Regards]

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Vajra
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posted October 06, 2014 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vajra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
[This discussion is closed. Certain individuals do not know how to get their point across in a respectful manner. As I do not want to engage in endless mean spirited word exchanges, I am terminating this thread. Thanks to those who provided a constructive answer to my question. Regards]


MineAgain,

I'm sorry you feel your thread was derailed. From the outside it seems more like a misunderstanding though. Do you want it officially closed? Please feel free to start another one if you want a fresh start.

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posted October 06, 2014 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am sorry too, MA. Your thread made interesting points and I wished you hadn't edited but it is your choice.

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AmelieRose81
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posted October 09, 2014 02:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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MineAgain,

I'm sorry you feel your thread was derailed. From the outside it seems more like a misunderstanding though. Do you want it officially closed? Please feel free to start another one if you want a fresh start.


it was just a little misunderstanding. I didnt even remember who she was. I gave a straigt answer, she took offence and was rude.

Ironically if you go over to astrology 2.0, a person started a thread asking questions about Pisces men. Mineagain has completely and utterly derailed the thread by telling her own story and asking for advice there.

its ok for her to take over other peoples threads then?

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AmelieRose81
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posted October 09, 2014 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/229169.html

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posted October 09, 2014 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vajra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AmelieRose81, since MineAgain dropped the issue by not continuing the discussion, and it is her thread after all, please do likewise. What is going on in other threads or other forums has nothing to do with this issue. Closing the thread now.

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