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sc0rpioRising
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posted September 16, 2016 08:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sc0rpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess for those of you who have met their twin flame can maybe she'd some light on this? I'm not sure if the person I knew back in 2012 was my twin flame or not, but we put eachother through a lot of pain, so much emotional pain it felt physically painful. We both felt that pain, which in the end drove us apart, literally, he left to go to the other side of the world, I felt like the catalyst to make that happen......I guess the pain was there because we knew we couldn't be together.

Has anyone else experienced this?

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posted September 17, 2016 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Linda did.

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posted September 18, 2016 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I met someone in 2012 as well, don't know if he really my twin flame is, but he put me through a lot of pain. I don't know what happened on his side, but he definitely played part in starting my awakening process.

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posted September 19, 2016 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sc0rpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with you Emsie. I haven't been the same since the meeting and departure, physically mentally and emotionally.

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posted September 20, 2016 04:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted September 21, 2016 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All we can do is learn from it.

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posted September 21, 2016 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sc0rpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's so hard, nearly three years and no contact, I braved to contact him a few months ago which he responded with a few words, and he has now completely blocked me of any kind of contact with him. I'm not allowed to reach out to him, not even as a friend, and that really hurts, after all the years that have gone by, I still feel that pain, if I allow myself , most of the time I don't, but when I do it really hurts, which makes me think this was more karmic, as twin flame feel the same from both sides, but since he wants to cut me off completely, we don't feel the same about eachother, maybe I'm confusing this with karmic soulmate, which had so much pain I can't even describe ...

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posted September 21, 2016 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sc0rpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just want to let go, I want to feel nothing towards him so I can move on, I have moved on somewhat emotionally it's need to stop thinking about him altogether I want that to happen for his happiness and mine . I don't want to annoy him anymore or finding a way to contact him because he clearly doesn't want to hear from me . I want myself to stop ... Just stop and move on

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posted October 03, 2016 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sorry to hear that , girl. You really need to find the strength to move on, for this is a waste of your time.

What is your synatsry with him? Do you have strong Pluto and Saturn? Neptune, too? Can you post the charts for us to see and learn

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posted December 07, 2016 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 07, 2016 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is more likely karma, not 'twin flame.'

Old souls who have lots of life experiences together and a bond don't get together again to put each other through "immense pain." There is always the factor of free will, and free choice of who to be with in this lifetime, but it is important not to set some sort of norm for hurtful behavior in relationships. That's karma, not a spiritually based relationship.

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posted December 15, 2016 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 27, 2017 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PangolinParty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am currently going through that process right now, and I can assure you I am in immense pain If I am diligent with my self-care and commit to a high vibration, I am fine, but at the time of impact, I was completely consumed...all the phoenix analogies about regeneration are spot on.

Although, from what I've read, running/chasing isn't always guaranteed for Twin Flames. If it's part of your life lesson to overcome fears of abandonment or co-dependency issues, then it is more likely you will be faced with the obstacle, but it comes from a good place because it is meant to strengthen you. But you have to imagine, if you're reincarnating over and over again with this person, every lifetime doesn't have to include a painful encounter with them. It all depends on the balance that needs to be achieved.

There are days when I think that I would be so happy if I could just cross paths with him, but then I realize that if it were to happen, I would rip open and my feelings would be eeeeeverywhere. Be honest with yourself if you're not done cooking yet The separation serves its purpose until you can be more solidified. Like how a caterpillar turns to goo inside the cocoon and literally becomes a new creature. If you know this is the process, you are already winning. If you think that it is cold and dark and gooey and uncomfortable for no reason, it will be harder.

Whether or not my situation is karmic, or if it is painful because this is altogether new and he broke the soul contract, I do not know. If anyone knows how to determine this, please chime in

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posted February 04, 2017 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehv25VwHn5k

I like this Twin Flame couple, they seem authentic to me.

She doesn't mention pain.

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posted October 18, 2017 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mkya00     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From experience, I wouldn't say "immense" pain but there my be some pain.

I can honestly say that I have more a heart ache pain than I do immense pain. I want to share my thoughts, feelings, well my everything, with her and I can't.

Neither of us want to hurt the other one or cause pain, but there may be heart aches or separation type aches.

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Originally posted by Faith:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehv25VwHn5k

I like this Twin Flame couple, they seem authentic to me.

She doesn't mention pain.



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posted January 26, 2018 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say yes, but it's worth it.

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posted January 27, 2018 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No growth without pain.

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posted April 18, 2018 08:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 21, 2018 11:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mkya00     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
I would say yes, but it's worth it.

I disagree, but I agree with your "No Growth without Pain."

I don't think true Twin Flames put each other through pain, so much as their journey back to each other is painful... unless you embrace it like you are embracing The Force!

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posted April 28, 2018 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Force!

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posted May 19, 2018 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Mkya00:
I disagree, but I agree with your "No Growth without Pain."

I don't think true Twin Flames put each other through pain, so much as their journey back to each other is painful... unless you embrace it like you are embracing The Force!


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