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ilunatique
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posted May 21, 2017 07:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ilunatique     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont know where else to speak up what I feel right now.
I dont know if its right or wrong anymore.


I feel like Love is everything. In everything.
So why should i associate Love with just 1 person..? when you can see it/feel it in so many places and ways?

Love is not possessing. belonging. restricting. controlling.
Love is free. igniting. irrevocable. transforming. Light. expanding.

And its in YOU. Yes. The other person will only make you aware of it. Its like we are all a door, with a lock. If someone can unlock your inner door, you will feel Absolution. You ALREADY ARE ABSOLUTION, you just need to remember and to stop looking in other people. Start with you.

When you feel that someone fills you up. Its actually your awareness of the Love INSIDE YOU that grows and moves and expands thanks to the touch of someone else.

I came to this revelation some months ago when I was touched by another. I am so full of love right now, i want to direct it to anything, to anyone.

Is it wrong?
"Mixing" with too many people is bad? Exchanging energy?
Am i screwing up my 7th house north node in leo?


I am free. I am in love. With me, and everyone else.

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anonymidarkness
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posted May 21, 2017 10:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel the same. The more people I love, the more it expands, so why restrict it to a single person ?

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Orange
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posted May 22, 2017 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What sign is your venus in, girls?

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chaania
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posted May 23, 2017 05:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chaania     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i feel the same...

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Randall
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posted May 24, 2017 10:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wish I could feel like that. Detached.

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posted May 25, 2017 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aquarius.

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Randall
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posted May 26, 2017 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars and Venus.

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ilunatique
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posted May 27, 2017 03:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ilunatique     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im a libra venus.

Love is not about attachment. Love is free. For me at least.

Attachment is like taming a wild horse and keeping him only for yourself. Attached. When he should be free to experience everything and run wherever he wants to. When he should follow his energy, that maybe one day "tells" him to go somewhere else.
Versus
Freedom. When the wild horse comes to you and you dont need to BREAK HIM and tame him by any means. He follows his energy and stays with you, lets you touch him but you cant catch him. Because no one belongs to anybody.

Does it make sense?
Its more pure. Its more real.
Thats why most marriages dont work. They limit your energy. That is NOT stable all the time. If loving makes you give everything, give freedom too.


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ilunatique
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posted May 27, 2017 03:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ilunatique     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Double post sorry

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Randall
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posted May 28, 2017 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ilunatique:
Im a libra venus.

Love is not about attachment. Love is free. For me at least.

Attachment is like taming a wild horse and keeping him only for yourself. Attached. When he should be free to experience everything and run wherever he wants to. When he should follow his energy, that maybe one day "tells" him to go somewhere else.
Versus
Freedom. When the wild horse comes to you and you dont need to BREAK HIM and tame him by any means. He follows his energy and stays with you, lets you touch him but you cant catch him. Because no one belongs to anybody.

Does it make sense?
Its more pure. Its more real.
Thats why most marriages dont work. They limit your energy. That is NOT stable all the time. If loving makes you give everything, give freedom too.


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Randall
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posted May 29, 2017 07:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, give freedom, too.

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posted May 30, 2017 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Everything includes freedom.

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mirage29
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posted May 30, 2017 06:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ilunatique ... Your post is Beautiful. You have a Poetic bent in your writing.

Your second post reminds me of a Leonard Cohen song...

(music) Ballad of the Absent Mare (Leonard Cohen) [6:15] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vbFOiIKVmRA


Then, this scene and song from a movie starring Robert Redford...

(music) A Soft Place To Fall (Allison Moorer, scene from The Horse Whisperer) [2:45] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oedoFqEZJgY

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Horse_Whisperer_%28film%29

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Randall
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posted May 31, 2017 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted June 01, 2017 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ilunatique:
Im a libra venus.

Love is not about attachment. Love is free. For me at least.

Attachment is like taming a wild horse and keeping him only for yourself. Attached. When he should be free to experience everything and run wherever he wants to. When he should follow his energy, that maybe one day "tells" him to go somewhere else.
Versus
Freedom. When the wild horse comes to you and you dont need to BREAK HIM and tame him by any means. He follows his energy and stays with you, lets you touch him but you cant catch him. Because no one belongs to anybody.

Does it make sense?
Its more pure. Its more real.
Thats why most marriages dont work. They limit your energy. That is NOT stable all the time. If loving makes you give everything, give freedom too.


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Gundahar
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posted October 30, 2017 03:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gundahar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Love is everything and for everyone.
What you mean, subconciously, is that you don't want to have relationships because you can't limit yourself to one person. You are a true saggy, told you many times and you never believed me

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Mkya00
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posted October 30, 2017 10:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mkya00     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ilunatique

Your post rings so very true to me. It has take me a long time to understand exactly what you are saying. I've been on this journey without actually realizing it.

Relationships have often been about control or fighting for freedom. It's only when I became truly comfortable with who I am that I began to understand exactly what you are saying.

I keep coming back to this lately, but I've met my Twin Flame (TF) recently and while I want her and I to be together I don't want to control her. I would love to have her in my life and to love her, but not control her.

Looking back at my previous relationships, I feel they have been getting me ready to meet her. Realizing that the greatest detriment in relationships is the ego. After meeting her, and me coming to terms with my feelings for her my ego shattered, as I see it bringing out the real me.

It was a bit scary and ugly too because the ego is about control and protection. My ego tried to hold on but once I stepped back I realize I was freed. The experience even shifted me from being logically argumentative (facts/data) and pushing for love, compassion and unity among all people.

My ego still exists to protect me from some things, as it is suppose to, but it no longer serves a useful purpose in relationships.

I do want to emphasize this - we can have love for everyone but it is not always the same type of love. I have love for a lot of people in my life and I want the best for them. But I can honestly say that my love/care for them is much different than how I feel about my TF or my son. I think this idea gets into the idea of "exchanging energy." I even try to use the emotional/love freedom my TF broke out of me to approach other people with love/compassion. But the energy that drew her and I together isn't the same level of energy that occurs between me and others. So, while I give some of my energy to others, I can't imagine it having the same magnitude as the energy I feel when I am around my TF. I would like to believe if her and I were ever finally together as a couple we could do some really spectacular things in our community, and potentially the world - combining our energy to help others.

Also, I must echo what others have said, your post is incredibly beautiful and accurate. Thank you for this post!

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Randall
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posted October 31, 2017 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Love is all." -- Linda Goodman

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Randall
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posted November 01, 2017 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Gundahar:
Love is everything and for everyone.
What you mean, subconciously, is that you don't want to have relationships because you can't limit yourself to one person. You are a true saggy, told you many times and you never believed me

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Randall
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posted November 02, 2017 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ilunatique:
Im a libra venus.

Love is not about attachment. Love is free. For me at least.

Attachment is like taming a wild horse and keeping him only for yourself. Attached. When he should be free to experience everything and run wherever he wants to. When he should follow his energy, that maybe one day "tells" him to go somewhere else.
Versus
Freedom. When the wild horse comes to you and you dont need to BREAK HIM and tame him by any means. He follows his energy and stays with you, lets you touch him but you cant catch him. Because no one belongs to anybody.

Does it make sense?
Its more pure. Its more real.
Thats why most marriages dont work. They limit your energy. That is NOT stable all the time. If loving makes you give everything, give freedom too.


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Gundahar
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posted November 03, 2017 06:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gundahar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1inXm8qdd5c

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Randall
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posted November 19, 2017 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Remove the "s" for it to link.

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Randall
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posted November 26, 2017 02:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 27, 2017 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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