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Topic: Loving everyone
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ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted May 21, 2017 07:00 AM
I dont know where else to speak up what I feel right now. I dont know if its right or wrong anymore. I feel like Love is everything. In everything. So why should i associate Love with just 1 person..? when you can see it/feel it in so many places and ways?
Love is not possessing. belonging. restricting. controlling. Love is free. igniting. irrevocable. transforming. Light. expanding. And its in YOU. Yes. The other person will only make you aware of it. Its like we are all a door, with a lock. If someone can unlock your inner door, you will feel Absolution. You ALREADY ARE ABSOLUTION, you just need to remember and to stop looking in other people. Start with you. When you feel that someone fills you up. Its actually your awareness of the Love INSIDE YOU that grows and moves and expands thanks to the touch of someone else. I came to this revelation some months ago when I was touched by another. I am so full of love right now, i want to direct it to anything, to anyone. Is it wrong? "Mixing" with too many people is bad? Exchanging energy? Am i screwing up my 7th house north node in leo? I am free. I am in love. With me, and everyone else.
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anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 8071 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 21, 2017 10:02 AM
I feel the same. The more people I love, the more it expands, so why restrict it to a single person ?IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 7859 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted May 22, 2017 09:57 PM
What sign is your venus in, girls?IP: Logged |
chaania Knowflake Posts: 44 From: Registered: Dec 2016
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posted May 23, 2017 05:22 AM
i feel the same...IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 24, 2017 10:49 AM
I wish I could feel like that. Detached.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 25, 2017 05:09 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2017 03:09 PM
Mars and Venus.IP: Logged |
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted May 27, 2017 03:36 AM
Im a libra venus.Love is not about attachment. Love is free. For me at least. Attachment is like taming a wild horse and keeping him only for yourself. Attached. When he should be free to experience everything and run wherever he wants to. When he should follow his energy, that maybe one day "tells" him to go somewhere else. Versus Freedom. When the wild horse comes to you and you dont need to BREAK HIM and tame him by any means. He follows his energy and stays with you, lets you touch him but you cant catch him. Because no one belongs to anybody. Does it make sense? Its more pure. Its more real. Thats why most marriages dont work. They limit your energy. That is NOT stable all the time. If loving makes you give everything, give freedom too.
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ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted May 27, 2017 03:37 AM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 28, 2017 02:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by ilunatique: Im a libra venus.Love is not about attachment. Love is free. For me at least. Attachment is like taming a wild horse and keeping him only for yourself. Attached. When he should be free to experience everything and run wherever he wants to. When he should follow his energy, that maybe one day "tells" him to go somewhere else. Versus Freedom. When the wild horse comes to you and you dont need to BREAK HIM and tame him by any means. He follows his energy and stays with you, lets you touch him but you cant catch him. Because no one belongs to anybody. Does it make sense? Its more pure. Its more real. Thats why most marriages dont work. They limit your energy. That is NOT stable all the time. If loving makes you give everything, give freedom too.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 29, 2017 07:17 PM
Yes, give freedom, too.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 30, 2017 04:48 PM
Everything includes freedom. IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 14903 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted May 30, 2017 06:54 PM
Ilunatique ... Your post is Beautiful. You have a Poetic bent in your writing. Your second post reminds me of a Leonard Cohen song... (music) Ballad of the Absent Mare (Leonard Cohen) [6:15] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vbFOiIKVmRA Then, this scene and song from a movie starring Robert Redford...
(music) A Soft Place To Fall (Allison Moorer, scene from The Horse Whisperer) [2:45] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oedoFqEZJgY http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Horse_Whisperer_%28film%29 IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 31, 2017 07:30 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 01, 2017 02:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by ilunatique: Im a libra venus.Love is not about attachment. Love is free. For me at least. Attachment is like taming a wild horse and keeping him only for yourself. Attached. When he should be free to experience everything and run wherever he wants to. When he should follow his energy, that maybe one day "tells" him to go somewhere else. Versus Freedom. When the wild horse comes to you and you dont need to BREAK HIM and tame him by any means. He follows his energy and stays with you, lets you touch him but you cant catch him. Because no one belongs to anybody. Does it make sense? Its more pure. Its more real. Thats why most marriages dont work. They limit your energy. That is NOT stable all the time. If loving makes you give everything, give freedom too.
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Gundahar Knowflake Posts: 74 From: Moon Registered: Aug 2015
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posted October 30, 2017 03:18 AM
Love is everything and for everyone. What you mean, subconciously, is that you don't want to have relationships because you can't limit yourself to one person. You are a true saggy, told you many times and you never believed me IP: Logged |
Mkya00 Knowflake Posts: 191 From: Hawkins, IN Registered: Oct 2017
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posted October 30, 2017 10:09 AM
ilunatiqueYour post rings so very true to me. It has take me a long time to understand exactly what you are saying. I've been on this journey without actually realizing it. Relationships have often been about control or fighting for freedom. It's only when I became truly comfortable with who I am that I began to understand exactly what you are saying. I keep coming back to this lately, but I've met my Twin Flame (TF) recently and while I want her and I to be together I don't want to control her. I would love to have her in my life and to love her, but not control her. Looking back at my previous relationships, I feel they have been getting me ready to meet her. Realizing that the greatest detriment in relationships is the ego. After meeting her, and me coming to terms with my feelings for her my ego shattered, as I see it bringing out the real me. It was a bit scary and ugly too because the ego is about control and protection. My ego tried to hold on but once I stepped back I realize I was freed. The experience even shifted me from being logically argumentative (facts/data) and pushing for love, compassion and unity among all people. My ego still exists to protect me from some things, as it is suppose to, but it no longer serves a useful purpose in relationships. I do want to emphasize this - we can have love for everyone but it is not always the same type of love. I have love for a lot of people in my life and I want the best for them. But I can honestly say that my love/care for them is much different than how I feel about my TF or my son. I think this idea gets into the idea of "exchanging energy." I even try to use the emotional/love freedom my TF broke out of me to approach other people with love/compassion. But the energy that drew her and I together isn't the same level of energy that occurs between me and others. So, while I give some of my energy to others, I can't imagine it having the same magnitude as the energy I feel when I am around my TF. I would like to believe if her and I were ever finally together as a couple we could do some really spectacular things in our community, and potentially the world - combining our energy to help others. Also, I must echo what others have said, your post is incredibly beautiful and accurate. Thank you for this post! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 31, 2017 02:13 PM
"Love is all." -- Linda GoodmanIP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 01, 2017 02:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gundahar: Love is everything and for everyone. What you mean, subconciously, is that you don't want to have relationships because you can't limit yourself to one person. You are a true saggy, told you many times and you never believed me
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 02, 2017 10:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by ilunatique: Im a libra venus.Love is not about attachment. Love is free. For me at least. Attachment is like taming a wild horse and keeping him only for yourself. Attached. When he should be free to experience everything and run wherever he wants to. When he should follow his energy, that maybe one day "tells" him to go somewhere else. Versus Freedom. When the wild horse comes to you and you dont need to BREAK HIM and tame him by any means. He follows his energy and stays with you, lets you touch him but you cant catch him. Because no one belongs to anybody. Does it make sense? Its more pure. Its more real. Thats why most marriages dont work. They limit your energy. That is NOT stable all the time. If loving makes you give everything, give freedom too.
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Gundahar Knowflake Posts: 74 From: Moon Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 03, 2017 06:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall:
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 19, 2017 06:02 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 26, 2017 02:23 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 27, 2017 08:18 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 148095 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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