posted November 18, 2011 03:17 AM            

is he serious with me and should i continue with him???

posted November 18, 2011 04:09 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by sunshine9:
I'd like to do one for you as well. Please email me when you're ready for a reading!

Hugs,
Sunshine

---

Thank you for the offer. I defintely am interested in having a reading from you, but I feel it has to wait until I did my "work" in this thread.

posted November 18, 2011 04:12 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kanwalratan:
i have a boyfriend for 4 years,but i found out that he cheats on me and keeps lying to me...but,i still love him a lot and so does he love me....at least that's what he says say...so my question is -

is he serious with me and should i continue with him???

thanks!!

---

Why did you post this question twice? I did see you yesterday.
Also I noticed you posted the same question in various threads; I read somewhere that you can ask the same question about the same person only once, just like in horary. The following readings might be invalid or lack in clarity or something like that.

I am just rephrasing what I read, and I gladly do you reading. Just wanted to let you know about that.

posted November 18, 2011 04:15 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by anongrl10:
Edit: Just realized that you said "the spread consists of 11 cards" not the entire deck. Alright, I don't know if you have a full deck then. My advice is the same: if you have less than a full deck, do use reversions; no need otherwise.

---

Anon,
yes, it is a full deck. So I can leave the reversions?
I usually do not have a good feeling using reversions, but there are some interesting interpretations in the booklet for the reversions as well.
But anyway, I think I am going to use the upright versions from now on; i feel more comfortable with them.

posted November 18, 2011 04:18 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Hera:

PS: I never use reversals.

---

you`re No 10. You made it in time.

so two voices against reversals, plus my own uncomfortable feelings with it. I think my decision is made. Thanks.

posted November 18, 2011 04:21 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Hera:
Ceri, when I get my modjo back on (was unable to pick up the cards lately) can I do this spread for your question? I think it would be awesome combined with the Osho Zen Tarot I intended to use for your question. I'll also be doing my own spreads that I am familiar with, but always like to try new things.

---

Yes, I would like that. Definitely. I haven`t refrained from doing a spread on him and me till now. I am just too anxious about the outcome.

I did a spread on someone else and me though. Actually I did two, as with the first one I used the Crowley deck, because I did not have this deck yet. And then did it again with the Lover`s deck.
But of course I am not sure if that second one is even valid, as I had already done a spread on that issue and that man.
Though if I combine both interpretations, it gets really interesting. LOL

I was just thinking about modifying this spread and drawing two cards per position for clarification. Can I do that?
It would give 22 cards, the number of the major arcana; 2 times 11, and it is always about 2 people.
Well, I donīt know, I guess I am rambling here. lol

posted November 18, 2011 04:27 AM            

1. Downtomars (Magician)
2. Blueswan84 (Highpriestess)
3.Ms Venus (Emperess)
4. Sunshine (Emperor)
5. Kanwalratan (Highpriest)
6. love being aries (Lovers)
7. Anongirl (chariot)
8. YoursTruelyAlways (Strength)
9. Teasel (hermit)
10. Hera (wheel of fortune)
11. Hecate (justice)

---------------------
if I still will have strenght after this

12. Yuting (hanged man)
13. Pixieangel (death)
14. Sparkleblue (temperance)
15. Metid (Devil)
16. Babycvolors (Tower)

I wonder if the order in which you asked for a reading has some meaning for you if applied to the major arcana.

Let me know if "your" arcana reflects something about your current state of mind or relationship. Just curious if this is all coincidental or bears some significance.

posted November 18, 2011 04:51 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Ceridwen:

Yes, I would like that. Definitely. I haven`t refrained from doing a spread on him and me till now. I am just too anxious about the outcome.

I did a spread on someone else and me though. Actually I did two, as with the first one I used the Crowley deck, because I did not have this deck yet. And then did it again with the Lover`s deck.
But of course I am not sure if that second one is even valid, as I had already done a spread on that issue and that man.
Though if I combine both interpretations, it gets really interesting. LOL

I was just thinking about modifying this spread and drawing two cards per position for clarification. Can I do that?
It would give 22 cards, the number of the major arcana; 2 times 11, and it is always about 2 people.
Well, I donīt know, I guess I am rambling here. lol

---

posted November 18, 2011 04:55 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Ceridwen:

Also maybe someone can shed light on this? Is it okay to do several readings on the same question?

---

It is OK in the sense that the energy of the tarot will be the same. What most people don't realize though is that it can be confusing to ask different readers the same q because each reader has her/his own ways of articulating things, different type of talent (if at all), and in general it is like consulting a lot of books from different authors on the same subject matter. Are you (as a querent) up to that?

If you think you will get confused, do not ask different readers the same q. Rather pick one reader you find most compatible to you and stick with them. If on the other hand can handle the risk of being confused, you can ask the same q until you are blue in the face. But in this case please do not wonder why you are unable to consolidate the different readings you will get.

So be forewarned. Know how to use the tarot as a tool for your best interest; avoid confusion and keep things simple. An advantage with asking the q once and take your answer from a reader of your choice is that you can see if reality validates the reading or not. Once you figured that out you can stick with the same reader or not, it is always your choice.

And it's also an energy compatibility thing. Some readers will most match energetically with some querents. I find that when I read for people I match well with energetically it's very easy for me to go in some depth and do a better job. Likewise, as a querent, always look for the reader who matches you well. It has nothing to do with the ability of the reader; just an energy thing. You will be better served if your reader and you have some kind of affinity with each other. And by that I do not mean a "friendship". I mean fluency in energy exchange. Most readers are intuitive and can feel the difference with different querents. Try to develop your own intuition as a querent so as you know which reader is a better match for you energetically. This will serve you the best.

So, bottom line:
-Can you ask the same q more than once.
-Sure, why not.
-Is it recommended?
-Nope.

posted November 18, 2011 04:59 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Ceridwen:

Anon,
yes, it is a full deck. So I can leave the reversions?
I usually do not have a good feeling using reversions, but there are some interesting interpretations in the booklet for the reversions as well.
But anyway, I think I am going to use the upright versions from now on; i feel more comfortable with them.

---

posted November 18, 2011 05:12 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Hera:
Well, the Fool seems to be a major theme with you at this point. You know it came out for you repeatedly.

Wheel of Fortune for me... Yes. It speaks truth. I am at a BIG crossroad in my life right now and it feels very fated, out of my hands. Couldn't have picked a better position for myself at this point.

---

posted November 18, 2011 05:17 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by anongrl10:
I had to laugh with the Chariot for me: so many roads to pick from and I am just spinning my horse-wheels lol I wish I had the WOF!

---

I'd gladly exchange positions with you, but WOF means drama lol. LOTS! Are you sure you can handle it?
And it's kinda down-turned for me right now. But I'll be bouncing back in no time. For sure.

posted November 18, 2011 05:19 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Hera:
I'd gladly exchange positions with you, but WOF means drama lol. LOTS! Are you sure you can handle it?

---

posted November 18, 2011 05:24 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by anongrl10:
Believe me; where I am, it's only UP from here!!!

---

posted November 18, 2011 05:32 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Hera:
Drive, sister, drive!!!

---

I truly enjoy driving for the very reason you described. You and I would take some fabulous road trips together!

posted November 18, 2011 05:44 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by anongrl10:
I truly enjoy driving for the very reason you described. You and I would take some fabulous road trips together!

I'm shutting up now; I don't want to meddle with the energy of the reading thread. Email me, Hera, anytime, ok, you know where to find me.

---

posted November 18, 2011 05:47 AM            

Just to confirm the interpretation of "Strength." I take it to mean there is a battle/conquest towards an objective, and that are challenges, but there is discipline, control, persistence and power from within to drive towards the objective. Am I correct? Kind of like the "Chariot," except that its from within rather than the aid of external forces. Am I correct? Sorry, I'm totally uninitiated and so I need guidance.

Many thanks!

posted November 18, 2011 06:23 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Hi,

Just to confirm the interpretation of "Strength." I take it to mean there is a battle/conquest towards an objective, and that are challenges, but there is discipline, control, persistence and power from within to drive towards the objective. Am I correct? Kind of like the "Chariot," except that its from within rather than the aid of external forces. Am I correct? Sorry, I'm totally uninitiated and so I need guidance.

Many thanks!

---

The Chariot has nothing to do with the Strength card. The Strength is what you described: the need to face up a challenge and gather your inner resources for that.