posted August 08, 2012 08:37 PM            

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Originally posted by AshSkye:
Question: Are things going to improve for me soon?

Haven't been reading for a bit, I've been feeling drained! Give me a question if you're in need of an answer!

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Hi Ashskye,

You seem so tired when you should be enjoying the weather.

I pick for you the 6 of cups, the emperor, the king of cup R.

You need to remember the good part of your life, reconnect with old friends, put the good that you had in the past in the present.

There will be strong personality who would want to take decision in your place and even if it's not always with bad intentions, it's not the person who speak last who is right. You will have people who you shouldn't trust morally speaking.

When will thing be better ? When you will have clean up your entourage and take a strong stand against a person too autoritarian with you.
Sosoon won't the word I will use but it could be as soon as you decide

Good luck my dear. It's not easy to do that with people you know.

My question would be: how could I touch emotionnally Fred (my pisces ex) ? Not just reach him, but touch him.

posted August 08, 2012 08:56 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Yeah true about a person being the reason. Still it's just not possible to lay it aside. I am really broken re how it worked out with a lover. Nobody's fault really, still to lose something so beautiful kind of means being unable to forget, not having this kind of love keeps hurting no matter what I do. How can this ever go away? Guess someone put a curse on me, this wheel will never go up : D

Yes I do have barriers. For 35 year olds and whoever seems vibeless and not me. I don't want to be insulted by their invitations to have a coffee, because it's bad for my self esteem. Hope your reading does not imply I have to go out with them : D

Cheers for doing this for me!! So cool when it coincides

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Hello andstuff,

so your question is: is it true that i still have healing to undergo? in what areas? what should i do exactly about this?

I pick the maison-dieu XVI, the strengh XI R, and valet of coins. Yes you still have to heal because at some point a lot was taken from you and you have to start from zero. Some would say that a new begining is a good thing but at some point in your life, you expect to have more simplicity and not more complication. Your way of seing thing had to change but it will take time because you are tired of this situation, you have use all your reserve of energy and strengh and now you don't believe it anymore. But you have too.

It's not about lower your expectation, it's about to not wear dark glasses. Yes the sky for you have been greyish for some time that you forget that you have sun glasses on your nose. You don't need them anymore.
You just need to rely more on the new you. And the rest will come with it.

I hope it give you some of the answer you were searching. Keep us updated even if it doesn't happen in one night.

I have a question. My week have been very financially oriented, tomorrow and friday some things will be put in place for me with the bank but I'm still not sure on what form. Will it be a good thing ? On what form ? Will it pass quickly? Will my family of any help or on the contrary ?

Thank you very much.

posted August 08, 2012 09:03 PM            

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Originally posted by isabelle_lila:
I'm totally with firefox on this one because I see the 2 of swords as beeing detached to take a decision. it's even like there is a careful negociation.

pick two cards to cliarify the situation: 6 of deniers and the devil.
two very opposite cards for me : the feelings are beautiful and pure with the 6 of deniers. And the devil is the sensual pleasure (not a bad thing) but not the feelings with it. There is a choice to make between two kind of relationship the loving and spiritual one and the more physical and materialistic one.

It's a crossroad.

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Isabelle lila,

Thank you. I agree that its a crossroads.

6 of deniers = 6 of cups ?

posted August 08, 2012 09:05 PM            

@venia & @phoenixfire have seen a very emotionnal and masculine week, "loving" reunion etc. and family discussion too

QUESTION:
I wanted to know what do you think I could do to touch emotionally my ex Fred ? I don't mean as a revenge but as a wake-up call.

posted August 08, 2012 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
Isabelle lila,

Thank you. I agree that its a crossroads.

6 of deniers = 6 of cups ?

Iam more confused than when i started... Why is he at crossroads? He is the one who told me he loved me first the devil is interesting... A slave to his passions/lust. Typical male

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6 of deniers is 6 of pentacles.

Maybe he is at a crossroad because you have showed him another kind of relationship, a more higher or loving, and his more "material and earthly love" is more confortable.

and yes, lust, typical male

posted August 08, 2012 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by isabelle_lila:
6 of deniers is 6 of pentacles.

Maybe he is at a crossroad because you have showed him another kind of relationship, a more higher or loving, and his more "material and earthly love" is more confortable.

and yes, lust, typical male

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What do you mean his more material and earthly love...?

posted August 08, 2012 09:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
What do you mean his more material and earthly love...?

You mean he is used to a one sided materialistic superficial love?

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I'm afraid it didn't translate very well from french to english but love have a lots of form principally : intellectual, emotional, physical, spiritual. And some people are just content with physical and the mininum of the rest simply because they don't know it exist or because they don't believe it can be possible.

What kind of man he wants to be ? What can of love he wants to reach ? Without doing anything, you open some doors for him.

But that is my intuition.

posted August 08, 2012 09:26 PM            

Maybe he is already involved with another person...

posted August 08, 2012 09:28 PM            

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Originally posted by isabelle_lila:
... Without doing anything, you open some doors for him.

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posted August 08, 2012 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Isabelle, so happy to hear things are going well for you. This is my favorite thread too Predictions are coming true, AP sent me a quick hello message. Not sure if he still has emotions for me, it was more of a catch up conversation, not an invitation to meet up. Was really nice to hear from him before he goes again, but it does feel different now. He is still in my heart, but my spouse has been trying really hard to win my feelings back. My spouse is aware of the message, was actually relieved, stated will feel better once Im totally clear on my feelings.

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posted August 09, 2012 04:28 AM            

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Originally posted by isabelle_lila:
I'm like you, I take all the practice I can to improve

And thanks 5girl

On your questions :
1) When will i see improvments in my love life? 2) And what should i work on to improve my chances at a relationship?

I pick a lots of arcana for you and some of them jump at me

1) when you will have finish your spiritual and personally transformationIf you have causing troubles or problems to people, it's the moment to repair it. This period is difficult for you and will continue to be until the end of the transformation. And when you will have finish, you will have a second chance at love.

2) In a curious way, I would say be less romantic, flirty etc and more on the friendship side. Be more spontaneous but in a amical style.

I hope it will give you some insight in your situation.

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Ohhhh!!! So very good!!! Its one of those things, that once you read it it you think 'oh yes! I knew that already....' you know? Haha you just brought what i prob knew in the back of my mind, to my attention! On both counts! Especially the be more friends thing. My style gets me more makeout time... but im getting over it i want a love now!! I think i am starting to be ready. As you said, i still need to complete my transfomation stuff. Im not exactly sure what or how i am transforming. I just know im changing! Maybe im maturing.... well, as much as a 19 yr old Gemini does

posted August 09, 2012 04:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
Iam happy for you phoenix!!! Someone on this forum needs to bring news of happy love joy !!!

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@phoenixfire you beat me, you are the one with the good news about love. I'm greedy, I wanted to me be me maybe next time.

@Junethird, you were so right and on time You are good !!! Afterall, it's normal for a mod

posted August 09, 2012 04:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
Isabelle lila,

Maybe he is already involved with another person...

I hope all is better on your end. Hopefully things are looking up for you. Someone on this forum needs to overcome their love obstacles and bring news of love and rejoice

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It was not my feeling that he already had someone in his life. But it was not was I was asking.
Also if he had someone other than you in his mind, it wouldn't be to replace you. I don't know if it make sens in english.

I think I have read somewhere that someone also don't think he had someone else, I will go in the same direction about that interrogation you had.

posted August 09, 2012 05:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
Can you expand on this please? Maybe some examples?

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Something, someone can open your eyes by a franck conversation, with puting you in a difficult position, in a way they give you a mirror so you can see who you really are or appears to other.

In your case, it's not an action that produice this effect on him, but your own existance. I would say, you open new door for him just by meeting him and being yourself.

I can be pushy when needed to make a project evolved or to be clear with my boyfriend. but for example, with F, it was not the case, the fact that I had some morals which are not only words, impressed him. He also discover that you can have a love relationship without power struggle, or that he can be his own boss etc...

I hope, you understand what I mean and maybe you have more precises ideas in your memories concerning some discussion you had with him.

posted August 09, 2012 05:13 AM            

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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Isabelle, so happy to hear things are going well for you. This is my favorite thread too Predictions are coming true, AP sent me a quick hello message. Not sure if he still has emotions for me, it was more of a catch up conversation, not an invitation to meet up. Was really nice to hear from him before he goes again, but it does feel different now. He is still in my heart, but my spouse has been trying really hard to win my feelings back. My spouse is aware of the message, was actually relieved, stated will feel better once Im totally clear on my feelings.

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I'm happy for you (even if it's not simple) and for your spouse who seems to have a very mature attitude toward that. I understand that you are deeply attached to him even if it's not the passion anymore.
You are right, he is your friend as well as your spouse.

posted August 09, 2012 05:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
@PF: thank you for your warm wishes! YAY, you've got good news!

@Isabelle-Lila: thank you for your reading & positivity. I'm hoping that this is happening because a better opportunity will come along. Lol yes you are right, I was tempted to tell them what I thought about them, but decided to remain professional & keep my opinions to myself. I agree that there will be delays. It doesn't feel like my plan will work out in the short term. Also, money has to do with it with this negotiation, but not my project. My salary is being paid by neither, which is part of the reason my current boss doesn't want me leaving. Thanks again for your reading!

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It will not resolved very quickly and maybe not in the way you anticipated. but it will and you will feel releved and satisfied.

And you were right to keep it professionnal even if they deserve to be call on what they have done.

posted August 09, 2012 06:01 AM            

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Originally posted by tonia:
Could you have a taro prediction too?
I would like to know what will happen tomorrow?we will kiss?i want him so much :/

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Hello Tonia,

I hope, someone could also come in and give you a reading as well since it seems very important to you.

I'm not skelled enough to be so precise as to know if you would kiss or not but I would ask if everything will go well for you two

I pick for you 5 of coins R and the maison-dieu XVI.

I'm afraid that your insecurity could play against you in your personal relationship. You will have to renew yourself or it's the relationship that will change.
So be careful.

posted August 09, 2012 06:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Gem-Gurl:
Ohhhh!!! So very good!!! Its one of those things, that once you read it it you think 'oh yes! I knew that already....' you know? Haha you just brought what i prob knew in the back of my mind, to my attention! On both counts! Especially the be more friends thing. My style gets me more makeout time... but im getting over it i want a love now!! I think i am starting to be ready. As you said, i still need to complete my transfomation stuff. Im not exactly sure what or how i am transforming. I just know im changing! Maybe im maturing.... well, as much as a 19 yr old Gemini does

Thank you very much Isabelle!!

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At 19, it normal that you are still changing and experimenting and doing mistakes You are a gemini, you will learn

posted August 09, 2012 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by tonia:
Hello isabelle thank u for your reading
i dont know what can i do he shows me mix signs :-/so he thinks that i am insecure and holds back?

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The insecurity is from you and it risk to impact your action. I didn't do the reading from his point of view so I don't know if your insecurity is showing to him.

In general, insecurity is not attractive but here is not the point. I feel like the outcome of all of this for the moment won't be what you expect. What I fear is that you do something a bit to much irrational espacially if there are unexpected event (delays, you have to change your plan etc...) and it will play at your disavantage. What I would advise is whatever happend, be calm about it even if it's not what you exactly wanted.

To have good basis, to have to start fresh

Don't forget, we are short term here.

I hope it helped you a bit and that you will give us some news soon.

posted August 09, 2012 03:24 PM            

I have been fowolled by different butterflies for some days now (it never happened to me before). And tonight a special one came near me and didn't leave my side until I was capable to find which kind of butterfly it was : a Parasemia plantaginis (WOOD TIGER) probably.

Did you see that as a sign of something ? How would you interpret it ? Did it trigger an intuition/reading/symbolism explanation in some of you ?

posted August 09, 2012 03:31 PM            

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Originally posted by isabelle_lila:
Something, someone can open your eyes by a franck conversation, with puting you in a difficult position, in a way they give you a mirror so you can see who you really are or appears to other.

In your case, it's not an action that produice this effect on him, but your own existance. I would say, you open new door for him just by meeting him and being yourself.

I can be pushy when needed to make a project evolved or to be clear with my boyfriend. but for example, with F, it was not the case, the fact that I had some morals which are not only words, impressed him. He also discover that you can have a love relationship without power struggle, or that he can be his own boss etc...

I hope, you understand what I mean and maybe you have more precises ideas in your memories concerning some discussion you had with him.

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Isabelle Lila,