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PhoenixFire
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From: The Crossing
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posted July 24, 2012 10:24 PM
  
Hi Isabelle,
The cards I pulled for your ex F's holiday:
7 pentacles, Queen pentacles, and 6 of swords. His holiday isnt exactly a fun time, but rather a time for him to really really think of where he wants to be. It seems something has happened that brought him to realize he isnt entirely content w the way his life is going, and he is ready to make the effort to bring about positive changes w patience, thought, and care. He is strongly thinking about a caring woman, close to his heart. He wishes very much to see her and is anxious to be near her again. I get the feeling this is you, and he wants very much to leave behind any hurts which occured and reconcile w you, or at the very least to be back in your life as a friend and apologize for any hurts, seems he has many regrets over the relationship ending. IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted July 24, 2012 10:46 PM
Hooray, for spiritualjourney's friends  So cool learning the outcome of a question. I have another sort of outcome to add about mistrusting the guy who messaged me yesterday. He messaged me again this afternoon, asking that I call him. I decided not to call him back today, and shortly after my coworker randomly brought him up in conversation. Turns out he has been getting into conflict w his peers at my old work site... so he is trying to leave to get away from it. So he was hiding something (drama) and Im staying away no matter how cool he can be, not worth getting into all that. kk, spiritualjourney reading about friends:
7 pentacles, 6 wands, knight of pentacles. with all those pentacles, theme is around money/career, like you will be exchanging money w friends, say in a new project/venture or meeting valuable mentors & networking in your career. My feeling is that you have or are currently going through a phase of stepping back & evaluating who you want in your life, and who no longer fits within it. In the similar way, when one moves to a new life stage & finds that some old friends no longer relate to you & vice versa. At the same time, 6 of wands tells if exciting new friends coming into your life and a strengthening of the old friendships that do harmonize well w your current & future path.
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whereabouts
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posted July 24, 2012 11:16 PM
Yes, it would be best to steer clear of him. He's running from his issues and problems and they will only follow him. I also feel as if you shouldn't share the fact that he contacted you with anyone at work.IP: Logged |
Spritualjourney
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posted July 24, 2012 11:22 PM
Very interesting PF! They came over to just hang out but one of them is an old friend (know for 12yrs) & she will be letting me stay at her place while I find another place to live. So $$ is involved too as she does not want me to subsidize her in any way! IP: Logged |
Spritualjourney
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posted July 24, 2012 11:27 PM
Also PF, you're absolutely right about Re-evaluating my friendships & networking, but this part doesn't relate to the friends that came over specifically.
Just thought of another Q. I woke up this morning with a very sore throat. So my Q is: Is there an energetic reason why my throat is sore or did I just pick up a "bug"? Or I guess anything I need to know about my sore throat.
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posted July 24, 2012 11:43 PM
SJ, I was thinking about your sore throat and I heard "cold". It is not "a cold" but a "chill" by a fan, or too much air conditioning in the night or at some place where you felt a slight chill.IP: Logged |
Spritualjourney
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posted July 24, 2012 11:52 PM
Lol I sleep with a fan beside me bc my place is so hot & at work the AC is cranked up so high.IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted July 24, 2012 11:54 PM
SJ,
For the sore throat: Knight of wands, Ace of Cups, 2 pentacles. A bug, resulting from your body being fatigued with too much going on and lots of emotions surfacing. Things are looking very bright for sure, try not to worry too much and find a way to channel any anxiety so that you may start feeling more balanced again.
kk, didn't want to ask this but I'd be misleading myself if I don't admit it is on my mind. I'd like to ask if there are still feelings from his end to be resolved, if he will accept that I've decided to try to work things out with my partner. I've been trying not to think about it but has been on my mind all evening. IP: Logged |
whereabouts
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posted July 25, 2012 12:16 AM
Multiple cards flipped over while shuffling leading me to feel he thinks you are clinging to old ways that are outworn, and you should be focused on something new - him. Two of cups and the Lovers both flipped over at different times and associated with other cards. The Two of cups with Death Reversed (clinging to old ways, unwilling to change).I pulled: Knight of Pentacles Reversed
Justice Reversed
Ace of Cups The Knight of Pentacles Reversed is aggressive in his attempt to attain impossible positions. He had or has an idealistic view that is or will be shattered. There is mistrust and a feeling of injustice. However, the Ace of Cups assures new well balanced emotions and passions associated with The Lovers (pulled a card for clarification on the Ace of Cups). I always look at the last card on the bottom for further insight and sometimes the one next to it if need be. In this case, the last card is 6 of Wands - Victory next to the 10 of Cups - Happy Home Life. IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted July 25, 2012 12:29 AM
Makes lots of sense, thank you. Yes he does seem to think its my refusal to accept that my marriage is over. Its more complex than that, despite fall out w my spouse he has been my best friend & companion for years and there are children. Much as I dont feel the same way for my spouse anymore, and never felt as I do for this person, couldnt live w my decision if didnt give it one last try. It is hard staying away from this person, and he is on my mind a lot. I get the feeling he will be approaching me again, even if asked him to give me space to truly try & work things out w my spouse. IP: Logged |
Spritualjourney
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posted July 25, 2012 12:46 AM
PF that makes complete sense. I have working crazy long hours lately & have had a lot on my mind. So, I guess that with the "cold" together lowered my immune system. I really need to start yoga again.K PF for your Q, I couldn't actually pull cards. As I was shuffling they didn't feel right. I could be wrong, bthis hat came to my mind was that maybe instead if focusing on what he thinks or feels, turn inward & ask yourself why do you care what he thinks or if he's OK with you making things work with your partner? Maybe before you can make things really work with your partner, you might have to work through some of your feelings with your friend? IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted July 25, 2012 01:13 AM
Very very good insight/advice. Been thinking along similar lines. I really want to work it out w my partner, yet these feelings persist even if have stayed away from my friend. Im thinking of spending a few days w my siblings, out of our house, and seeing what thoughts/feelings come to mind with being outside my usual routine. Yoga is wonderful for the body/soul. My Aunt taught me a few poses & breathing exercises, which feel really peaceful. I havent been doing yoga lately, but it would probably be good to do. Do you enjoy running or jogging? My work friends got me into running, and its such a great way to cleanse the mind of stress and negativity. IP: Logged |
Spritualjourney
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posted July 25, 2012 08:35 AM
PF, spending some time with your siblings is a fantastic idea! I think being physically removed from the situation will let you clear your head a bit and perhaps even get a different perspective.Running is amazing, so liberating. I use to run a lot, but then my knees started hurting, so switched to more low impact exercise...Pilates and different forms of yoga. Loved it! Have just fallen of the bandwagon lately because I've been so busy. Guess this sore throat in July is an eye opener to start making my health a priority and taking some time for myself. IP: Logged |
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posted July 25, 2012 09:23 AM
SJ, I agree COMPLETELY with your insight on PF's situation.PF, one thing to consider; if you care about someone and they ask you for space, to leave them alone so they can think clearly, what would you do? You seem to feel rather certain that he will continue to pressure you which tells me that he is selfish which tells me it could never be right with him no matter how strong the feelings are. He's thinking about himself and what he wants and not what you need. Also, when all those cards were flipping out prior to pulling the three that I did, all I sensed was mother and children in a very good way. I don't know how may children you have but two different ones appeared in the cards and it was all about you, in a good way. I may be wrong but I see your home life and your marriage beginning all over again in a very good way and your feelings changing for your husband in a good way. I see good for your family and that life but not so good with that other man. It's all about him, and I don't pick that up from hubby, just the opposite. Flames can blow out in the wind but it only takes a spark from a match or a lighter to light the flame once again. Everything I saw in those cards and in you is about "family" and being a mother inside a happy family and home. You are dedicated the needs of family (as you should be). You are right where you are supposed to be. Challenges always arise but over coming though obstacles and difficulties is what makes our lives richer, build character, center our beings, and further our understanding spiritually. Cut the cords with him and let him go. Don't send him your energy or accept his by thinking about him. If it was meant to be, when the time is right, it will happen but I don't think it was meant to be. I think he was in your life for a reason and that is to show you what those kind of feelings can be like. Well earned love and respect for another can bring you to that point as well, experiencing the same kind of feelings for your husband, and maybe that's the message? It seems to me that you already have a good level of respect for your husband, it's just that the chemistry isn't right. Change the formula.  IP: Logged |
whereabouts
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posted July 25, 2012 09:26 AM
(oops) overcoming "those" obstacles...IP: Logged |
Spritualjourney
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posted July 25, 2012 09:59 AM
Whereabouts I was totally thinking the same thing about the other man being a bit selfish & not respecting PF's wishes for some space to figure things out.PF is your partner wants to make things work & you want to make things work, then like whereabouts said let the other man go & give your full attention to your partner. Give this situation an honest try and see where it leads you. It seems that you have the friendship part covered with your partner, perhaps try reigniting your passion? Go on a date & have some fun IP: Logged |
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posted July 25, 2012 10:17 AM
Yes, dating is a GOOD idea. Once a week. MAKE time for dating each other. Do things that you enjoy, that are light, simple, and provide together time without the noise of the household. Try keeping your dating discussions limited to each others' likes, dislikes, etc. You've plenty of time at home to talk about the kids and life's responsibilities.I know you'll be very happy once you move beyond the place where you are now. How soon you get there is completely up to you. Have fun!  IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted July 25, 2012 11:04 AM
Thank you, whereabouts. I do love my children & family life very much, the kids are most important thing in my life. Thank you for the message, it brings me hope. Im def taking a few days w my siblings, too hard to clearly think or release the other person while being near my husband. I do feel my husband still cares, as he isnt throwing the bond w the other guy in my face. I know that it does hurt him a lot, and hope he is working through those feelings and not building them within him. I do worry a lot as he is a water sun, venus, mars, & saturn in cancer/scorpio. He tends to repress feelings until they practically destroy him. I cant imagine that he would try to work it out if he no longer cared. Good insight about not feeding this other person energy w thoughts. I hadnt thought of it that way,but its true if he should let this go and think to release me to find my own answer with space, and not just think of himself. Does bring me to think a lot. Im going to give myself alone time to just cry & release my feelings and visualize releasing him. I agree, meeting him was for a purpose. Helped me face reality that my marriage & feelings for my husband are dying a painful death. Still trying to capture what I once felt for my husband. Its really hard, feel so alienated from each other, and so much hurt & trust issues now. Still trying and praying the universe brings me my answer. I do know for certain that even if we dont make it, not going to start seeing this other person or anyone else for a long time. I must heal, grieve, and find myself whole/balanced before even going into something new. IP: Logged |
isabelle_lila
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posted July 25, 2012 11:07 AM
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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Hi everyone! So glad you're finding this useful
Time to reveal the outcome on one of my questions " will I have visitors tues night?". The answer is yes! My friends called & will be on their way shortly.
it's such a great idea. It has a very stimulating feeling to it. For your question on your visitors, too late for me ! Next time IP: Logged |
isabelle_lila
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posted July 25, 2012 11:17 AM
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Originally posted by whereabouts:
Isabelle, thank you! I am a very serious person even though I like to be funny.SpiritualJourney, yeah!
Thank you for the feedback. You will tell me if you had a conversation about money or financials advices in the IP: Logged |
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posted July 25, 2012 11:20 AM
PF, I see you right where you are supposed to be. You are well grounded and level headed. Keep the Faith.IP: Logged |
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posted July 25, 2012 11:26 AM
isabelle, yes, I will tell you. I've been thinking about that too. Thank you again. IP: Logged |
AshSkye
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posted July 25, 2012 12:41 PM
Could anyone tell me what this big gift is that is coming to me before the end of this month? IP: Logged |
isabelle_lila
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posted July 25, 2012 05:48 PM
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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Hi Isabelle,
The cards I pulled for your ex F's holiday:
7 pentacles, Queen pentacles, and 6 of swords. His holiday isnt exactly a fun time, but rather a time for him to really really think of where he wants to be. It seems something has happened that brought him to realize he isnt entirely content w the way his life is going, and he is ready to make the effort to bring about positive changes w patience, thought, and care. He is strongly thinking about a caring woman, close to his heart. He wishes very much to see her and is anxious to be near her again. I get the feeling this is you, and he wants very much to leave behind any hurts which occured and reconcile w you, or at the very least to be back in your life as a friend and apologize for any hurts, seems he has many regrets over the relationship ending.
Hello Phoenix. Thank you for your reading. It is bad to think that is fair that his holidays is not fun ?  After all, he is the one who broke up. I don't know if you read my previous answer but I know that not everything goes to plan, that he had to pass to much time with his wife family instead of his mother. He is not happy with his life both professionally and personally, it's totally eaxct But I feel like he already knows that for a long time now and he didn't make any change. I don't know if there was a specific recent event which decided him to make a real effort. I could be the caring woman in his eyes since I gave him affection, courage and confidence when we were together (or it could be his mother). But
1/ he broke up by email
2/ he asked some of my friends to see me and to keep it a secret but he always has an excuse to not discuss our ending with me
3/ when I told him that he should be deleting our email he took it very badly and put me out of google. Finally we saw each other again to his invitation and he spoke about everything except us...
But since we are in the same literary association, I gave him a new chance at frienship. There was new adventures and new adversary to our friendship... But we stay very close and on the same page. And when I have been agressed, I wanted to speak to him on the phone because I needed his support but he rebuffed me. And I said, if this is the case, it's not necessary to call me back. And he defriend me from twitter. So I'm not sure I am the woman close to his heart but it would explained why he regrets how things ended between us. I'm not even sur that he knows what happened to me. Thanks again. In a way, I would love that you are right IP: Logged |
isabelle_lila
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posted July 25, 2012 05:52 PM
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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Hooray, for spiritualjourney's friends So cool learning the outcome of a question. I have another sort of outcome to add about mistrusting the guy who messaged me yesterday. He messaged me again this afternoon, asking that I call him. I decided not to call him back today, and shortly after my coworker randomly brought him up in conversation. Turns out he has been getting into conflict w his peers at my old work site... so he is trying to leave to get away from it. So he was hiding something (drama) and Im staying away no matter how cool he can be, not worth getting into all that. kk, spiritualjourney reading about friends:
7 pentacles, 6 wands, knight of pentacles. with all those pentacles, theme is around money/career, like you will be exchanging money w friends, say in a new project/venture or meeting valuable mentors & networking in your career. My feeling is that you have or are currently going through a phase of stepping back & evaluating who you want in your life, and who no longer fits within it. In the similar way, when one moves to a new life stage & finds that some old friends no longer relate to you & vice versa. At the same time, 6 of wands tells if exciting new friends coming into your life and a strengthening of the old friendships that do harmonize well w your current & future path.
yay ! An answer. It's seems like that everyone have seen that he was hidding something from you and that you should be careful.
I'm happy you stay clear from him. IP: Logged |
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