posted November 10, 2013 03:53 PM            

Birth times are accurate, btw

posted November 10, 2013 03:56 PM            

And the tighter the conjunction between sun and venus the stronger the love so woohoo that is pretty tight

posted November 10, 2013 03:58 PM            

Btw, RunAroundScreaming, I ended up stalking your response to Chiemi Sorry!!

So, chinese signs: Me - Dragon / Him - Rooster

Our http://reallovecalc.com description:

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Your Happy Place
This is one of those relationships that just works. For once, you don't have to deal with any of the annoying, embarrassing or disturbing situations that are par for the course with dating life. It's like you two "get" where the other person is coming from and make each other feel as comfortable in your skin as possible. So you can toss aside your fear of rejection, just be yourself and go for it, no holds barred! You love that you're both up for anything, and can take off on an adventure or start a new project together at a moment's notice. He appreciates that you've helped his to become a more spontaneous person. With your influence, he can start living life to the fullest. And he's "home" for you, providing someplace safe, stable and supportive to always come back to. It doesn't hurt that your physical attraction always keeps things interesting, regardless of whether you're out cliff jumping or staying in to watch the Discovery channel. Provided that you address emotional tensions and keep them from building up, you two are headed for a life of awesomeness.

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posted November 10, 2013 04:20 PM            

What is the good of knowledge if I keep it to myself?

What I find annoying is people who ask a compatibility question and they post only the synastry maybe, and then i have to ask them to post the composite and come back later. But i usually forget to come back later. Or maybe they post the wrong chart from another site not the one from astro.com. Etc

posted November 10, 2013 04:35 PM            

Ok, gotta put this nagging question out there.

posted November 10, 2013 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
So, I think I may have hurt this guy by really not diving in in this relationship .

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posted November 10, 2013 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Youre in the safe zone. There are no bad aspects in the synastry

Did u say that u rejected him when he asked u out?

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posted November 10, 2013 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Well then just ask him out yourself somewhere : P

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posted November 10, 2013 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Well your sun signs being square, that for one indicates a push pull relationship. But additionally, that pluto conjunct the stellium is so intense that people tend to run away since they feel so exposed. I experienced it once (with one of my chinese trine signs) and we would both run away, it was terrifying. We loved each other way too intensely. We both would het so incredibly nervous and play so many games to get the other's attention. But its lifechanging nevertheless, i cant imagine how much more intense it wouldve been with my chinese soulmate sign instead of my trine sign.

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Haha, I can't believe the whole dynamic of things can be explained by this. But I don't think we played games, tbh. He was, characteristicly, blunt about things until he realized I couldn't handle his blunt approach, so he gave me space.

Thing is, no space he gave me made up for that whole natal Sag Stellium of his in my H12. I think this was more intense for me than for him because:

1) his descendant falls in my H8, which is home to my Leo Venus, and conjuncts my Juno;
2) his Sun, Moon, Uranus, Vesta, Lilith, Juno and Neptune ALL in my H12;
3) his NN in my H7;
4) his Venus in my H1.

It was like he had a microscope into my every thought, and even the things he didn't outrightly asked me, I ended up blurting to him.

Would you mind telling me how I affect him? Like, by synastry?

posted November 10, 2013 07:31 PM            

The synastry doesnt show anything specific about the way u see each other. With ur sun opposite his neptune he probably feels that u idealize him and he works hard to keep this perfect image u have of him even if he has to tell a fib here and there. Just go to grupovenus and click compatibility for lovers report

Ur names do say a ton and its something ppl never look at. If u go to astrologizeme.com and click first names then click compatibility it'll describe the way u see each other rly well.

posted November 10, 2013 09:09 PM            

Can't seem to work out astrologize.com name compatibility... if it's anything like numerology compatibility, then we have like same personality number -- 9 --, lifepath number -- 2 --, and in love-meter.net, we got very compatible: respectively, me and him, for destiny number, 6 and 3, for birthday number, 3 and 8, and for balance number , both 4.

We were almost always on te same page. I actually don't idealize him and he knows it, lol. I'd list some of his faults from time to time, just to tease him, lol.

posted November 10, 2013 09:17 PM            

If they took out the name compatibilty from astrolgizeme you can go to asiaflash.com
It's the same site in french, just put the website into translate.google.com

The name compat isnt like numerology no : P

Edit: Ah, here u go http://asiaflash.com/prenom/affinites_prenoms.shtml

posted November 11, 2013 04:55 AM            

So, our name affinity:

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This combination, despite the inherent antagonisms, is possible and is not necessarily doomed to failure. However, there is a risk of reports of "executioner-victim" with cries of hate and tears, but also passion and complicity. In other words, for their union to survive, partners should have nerves of steel and show a lot of tolerance and mutual understanding.

The couple can also find salvation in children. It better be several as that will be a good stabilizing element. As they both have parental fiber, their children will have the opportunity to flourish in an atmosphere of affection and love.

She is optimistic, enthusiastic and cheerful, while He is pessimistic, anxious and sometimes sad. She must therefore remain vigilant and be always present to assist her companion and comfort him during his crisis of melancholy. With this man, she must learn patience, because just as she is lively, active and exuberant, the other is quiet, peaceful and prone to hesitation before action.

The partners are both very sensitive, and each can find within the other the emotional security they need. On the other hand, they are of very jealous nature, but one does not have to worry about loyalty to the other. It is on these positive aspects that all parties should focus their efforts on to achieve an otherwise perfect harmony, at least livable.

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posted November 11, 2013 09:00 AM            

If you find him to be too serious and depressed-looking sometimes that's already a red flag.