posted April 03, 2014 03:51 PM            

yeah I see you have Venus conjunct Sun but not combusted, that's good. It's an attractive aspect. My friend have this and boys can't keep away from her lol. I have Mars in Aries too and I don't chase, I see it play out more when I express anger though. You know what, the bitter relationship you talked about just described Venus opp Pluto. Maybe his Libra Moon falls in your 8th, that'd fit the theme ^^. I just wonder if you have Uranus in synastry with him too. And the guy you're dating, wow Pisces Sun and Cancer ASC, must be very romantic and nurturing. I have a Scorpio Moon friend, very deep and selective, but loyal to boot. I guess he is a family orient kinda guy. And you have Moon conjunct Neptune, but also Uranus. I just don't understand what you mean by the getting cold when he is not around though?

posted April 04, 2014 04:01 PM            

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posted April 05, 2014 07:09 AM            

oh and pluto square saturn is scarry- there is an astrologer ,Donna..and she told the storry of her sister that was terribly sad and hard, and she said it is mostly saturn square pluto but I know I must face what I must face..no need to escape from it.

Glad that we can share too

posted April 05, 2014 05:53 PM            

Chiron is active in my chart, it's retrogade in 2nd house (values, security of all kind is my greatest pain), square Mars tightly, oppose Saturn, trine Venus, loosely sextile Moon. He is a Centaur, so I don't know if a wide orb of 4-5 degree could be applied here. Ami Anne considers Chiron a planet so a wide orb still works. I myself feel Chiron very clearly so it must still be effective even wide the wide orb. Funny you said that people come to you for advices. I have the same experience. Even when I have never been in a relationship, they'd still ask for my advice. It's about trust and wisdom, I think. Relationships with Chiron prominent don't scare me off, in fact, all my close relationships have it, very healing in my opinion. Your ability to listen and sympathize I think also relates to Moon conjunct Neptune trine Venus. Just be careful don't take on their emotions though .

What have Donna said about this Saturn square Pluto? I hope it's not a lifelong effect, Saturn can be ruthless but he can be rewarding too, providing of course you learn his lessons. But Saturn combines with Pluto the planet of death and deep transformation could be scary.

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posted April 06, 2014 07:51 AM            

The Saturn-Pluto info is very interesting. You have a book that talk about it? Some say the square is the most difficult in all hard aspects. Opposition: you can swing from one end to the other. Conjunction: 2 forces fighting for the top position, not pretty but may be you can choose which one to express at a time. Square just feels stucked, too much tension with no exit venue. When you said about being afraid, it brought me some lights. This person that I know have the conjunction is very much afraid, and it happens to be in the 12th, unconscious tension: like he is on a minefield, don't know where to go without being exploded with it. The square in your chart is in 1st and 10th, how you deal with it affects your environment because people can see it too. I think in honoring Pluto, you must trust in letting go, believe that in surrender you'll gain what he want to give to you: the power of transformation. And Saturn can teach you to surrender with dignity. Can you share with me what you read about Saturn-Pluto. It's very interesting. And PLuto at 21 degree is loss? How about 26 degree?

And you know, I'm Sag but I don't go overboard with optimism. Maybe it's because I have Earth in my chart to balance it. I've had a similar experience with a girl friend a while back. Blind optimism is a recipe for disaster unless you experienced all the dark sides of human kind and still let optimism triumph, then it's strength in itself.

I'm not sure about Sun at 0 degree. 0 degree is an Aries point, very reckless, an enormous hunger for experiences so it is always on the go. I think with Gemini here the mind is very active it can be exhausting, you need to have Fire to materialize your ideas. Just my 2 cents

I have something that I want to share with you: http://www.throughnightsfire.com/BitethePoisonedApple-MoonandVenusinaspect.html
Do you find it resonates with you? I have Moon sextile Venus exact and it is spot on.

posted April 06, 2014 10:22 AM            

here is one very useful, u can give it a look
because it explains all the planets aspects and gives hints in how to go through it and transcend the limits
http://depthastrology2.com/SelectionPage.html
The square is always the most difficult aspects when it is about these 2 planets .And I am sorry for that person..it's double the pain because it is in the unconscious and it can turn to light in many painfull ways..at least I am aware of it and want to go further..
For scorpio ..because it is fixed, the worst degrees are 9 and 21..and pluto 21 is loss..concerning 26..I don't know ab it, sorry^^
haha, I feel the turmoil of the mind all the time, it is like it never stops..but I have A LOT of grounding earthy energy..I am almost a water void( only pluto in scorpio) and almost a fire void( only mars in aries) ..with a bit of freezy-breezy air..so not so much action going on here.
You are a sag? woow such an interesting combo with the moon, and scorpio there, nice, nice..I have sag in the house of friendship

posted April 10, 2014 02:06 PM            

I like my moon too :d, some articles claim Virgo moon is cold, but I don't see it that way. Honestly I think I'd be a good mother .
Thanks for the links, the info in there are good quality. I think we have underestimated Saturn a lot. When Saturn is afflicted, we have so much difficulties with self-actualization. Do you read Dawn Bodrogi? She has some very enlightening articles about Saturn as a personal planet. Saturn is a grown-up Mars, and Venus is a grown-up Moon. I don't know if we could ever out grown our Moon but Saturn is definitely more than an outer planet to me. Her website: theinnerwheel has many articles about synastry and composite. Maybe you'd to give it a go .

I hear you about the degree in Scorpio, I have Venus at 9, a bonus, eh? These days I take an interest in the Sabian symbol. I find it pretty accurate. Have you tried?

You have Sag in 11th, I don't understand how it means in synastry yet. Some say the 5th house is how you give love, and the 11th is how you want to receive love. We look at houses as axis so the 11th I think is important in love relationship too, maybe not crazy head over heels, but a natural affinity (good for long-term).

Oh about the link I gave you, I identified with the difficulty to be the nurturer and seductress, my mom isn't jealous of me at all, just didn't show me the way to grow into my feminine self. I'm sorry about your father, I can't imagined how hard it'd have been if I was in your shoes. But that just proved what I said about you, you're wise and strong. I'm glad you're a mother hen to your friends ^^, I'm like that with my friends, the only one who didn't let me mother her is a Virgo . Your mom sounds nice, actually, and loving. Lilith in 1st house, wow, does it make any aspect to your personal planets? My lilith is in 5th, no aspect to any planet in my chart. I appear very boring to fire dominant people ^^. Hope I'll have some updates from you, is everything okay? The lunar eclipse will happen soon, the articles that I read all said the solar and lunar eclipse of this month are more scary than the Cardinal Grand Cross, ughh.

posted April 12, 2014 06:55 AM            

Well, Saturn is my favorite teacher, nope, just kidding ^^. I'm trying to figure out why Saturn is so important in synastry for long-term relationship. If we call Saturn an outer planet then why can we work with him when we can't work with the other 3: Neptune, Uranus, Pluto?? I have many questions but still confused about the answers. Don't mind me .

Your environment seems very stressful, no wonder you catched a cold. Just relax and don't let others negative energy influence you. I know it's hard, and I find whining to my best friend helped immensely ^^. And you know what, the felt great surrounding you described fit nicely to what I'd describe my home, sounds cozy and fun to me. My Taurus Asc agrees with everything you said .

I don't know much about Lilith, you mean Black Moon Lilith, right? The articles I read don't have much positive things to say about her. The other woman, the mistress, the home wrecker... surely she is misunderstood. She is after all a part of femininity that we hide and avoid. One thing I know for sure is she's very seductive, so if you have BML aspects Venus, you must have that power of seduction.

I'm so sorry about the boy you're interested in. I don't have the words to make you feel better but you're right, this too shall pass. If it's meant to be, we'd know in the end. In the mean time, held our head high and deal with whatever life throw our way with courage and dignity. I know it's hard but I'll try my best. Thanks for the kind words, Camy ^^ I send love to you!