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Ceridwen
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posted August 01, 2016 03:48 PM
  
Yes, with all I told you about him, sounds quite true,d oesn`t it?
It just, you know it just surprised me so much, to see how little attention he pays to her when she`s around. Maybe it`s just their thing, though.
But well, yes I think it does resonate. OH man and just my mom called me, seems things are not going so right with my brother`s baby. WEll he has been due last wednesday, and first they said they wanted to induce the birth this thursday, but now want to do already on wednesday, because he is still moving so much and there is too little contractions yet. Oh , I just hope that everything will go okay after all. I mean they are all excited now and upset about this and worried, we all are, but really really I hope it will be alright. I can`t imagine something going wrong, that would be so horrible! IP: Logged |
lilypad18
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posted August 01, 2016 03:51 PM
ohhh that's not beautiful at all! in any case everything will turn out the right way, u know what they say that babies have Angels by their side! I hope everything turns out fine for that baby Ceri!do u want me to ask about him? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 01, 2016 03:56 PM
Yes, please. And above that sending all the good vibes you can.
I know it is nothing THAT unusual, but still we are all so nervous.IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 01, 2016 03:58 PM
Yes, please. And above that sending all the good vibes you can.
I know it is nothing THAT unusual, but still we are all so nervous.IP: Logged |
lilypad18
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posted August 01, 2016 03:58 PM
yes it's totally understandable to worry! brb with it! IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 01, 2016 03:59 PM
And if you have another question, I of course gladly pull for you. IP: Logged |
lilypad18
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posted August 01, 2016 04:03 PM
3 of cups - death - devil clarif by 4 of swords - knight of wands - 6 of swordsIt's going to be alright! Just make sure y'all support the mom through this, in a cheerful way. The death points literally to giving birth, the devil plus 4 of swords means the baby just coming out fine, stopping the "dependency" from his or her mom, as in its out in the world, knight of wands is the baby crying (lol) and 6 of swords points to all of you feeling way more relaxed after everything passed by. So no need to worry! I mean it's not going to be the most easy and awesome birth, it will just be normal but everything will turn out right in the end Definitely sending my best vibes to that baby!
I kinda have a question I'd like to ask, does my ex feel kinda remorseful about how he ended up everything?
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Ceridwen
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posted August 01, 2016 04:07 PM
Thank you.
The Death card had me real worried there for a moment, but of course you are right, it s the transition into a new life. I hope so. Your reasoning makes sense. And yes we are all there to support her.
bRB with your question
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lilypad18
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posted August 01, 2016 04:09 PM
no need to worry about that card, it felt like something easy so I don't think there is something bad there hahahaIP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 01, 2016 04:11 PM
9 of wands - 10 of wands - Queen of Coins - 2 of coins
Well, maybe not exactly remorse. But he certainly does not feel good about it. It`s like he is or was all defensive, only concerned with his own wounds whatever he perceived as such and was completely overwhelmed and overburdened by something and just wanted this to end, maybe also to feel less I donīt know guilty?
and with the 2 of coins, it seems like he was or is juggling with it, being torn about how he should feel about it. Almost like he thought it was necessary yet he feels kinda bad about it.
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lilypad18
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posted August 01, 2016 04:13 PM
with "this to end" you mean the relationship itself? IP: Logged |
lilypad18
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posted August 01, 2016 04:28 PM
sorry Ceri but I just have a lot of questions about this spread, I'm just an over analyzer hahahahahahokay so, first, what do u mean with "whatever he perceived as such"? 2. what do u mean with he felt a need to end it? u mean the relationship? or his wounds about the break up? 3. overburdened with me being his girlfriend or with his wounds from the break up? 4. feels bad about it in what way? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 01, 2016 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by lilypad18:
with "this to end" you mean the relationship itself?
yes I think so. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 01, 2016 05:39 PM
"okay so, first, what do u mean with "whatever he perceived as such"?"I have no clue what went down between the two of you; it seems he was overwhelmed with something and hurt and wounded, which made him feel defensive. I can`t say if the reason for which he felt that way was real or not. I mean I don`t know what you did to make him feel that way or if you did anything at all or if he was maybe misinterpreting something... the spread doe snot talk about that. "2. what do u mean with he felt a need to end it? u mean the relationship? or his wounds about the break up?"
Both actually. I got the feeling, ending the relationship seemed like a way to him to get rid of some feelings of being overburdened, overwhelmed. "3. overburdened with me being his girlfriend or with his wounds from the break up?"
I don`t know. What do you think? "4. feels bad about it in what way?"
That he was maybe acting too defensively. IP: Logged |
lilypad18
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posted August 01, 2016 05:40 PM
okay, thanks  IP: Logged |
lilypad18
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posted August 01, 2016 05:41 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
"okay so, first, what do u mean with "whatever he perceived as such"?"I have no clue what went down between the two of you; it seems he was overwhelmed with something and hurt and wounded, which made him feel defensive. I can`t say if the reason for which he felt that way was real or not. I mean I don`t know what you did to make him feel that way or if you did anything at all or if he was maybe misinterpreting something... the spread doe snot talk about that. "2. what do u mean with he felt a need to end it? u mean the relationship? or his wounds about the break up?"
Both actually. I got the feeling, ending the relationship seemed like a way to him to get rid of some feelings of being overburdened, overwhelmed. "3. overburdened with me being his girlfriend or with his wounds from the break up?"
I don`t know. What do you think? "4. feels bad about it in what way?"
That he was maybe acting too defensively.
I get it... 3. I think both hahaha thanks Ceri IP: Logged |
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