posted February 27, 2018 11:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
How long ago did your father pass away? He was my first thought. Maybe this is part of your intuitive development..into mediumship possibly. Also, the spirit may be connected to your fears...and you draw them to you...that's why when you ignore it, your fears may not be that prominent at those times. Maybe your father felt like he needed to help you in some way..that he felt he failed to make you feel protected while you were growing up.

I drew some cards about the spirit, but instead they seem to be focusing on your relationship with DD or ??

2 of cups
world
10 of swords
7 of swords
magician
king of coins
4 of wands

The cards are showing love, friendship, beginning or renewed, partnership and marriage. You have high hopes, but the 10 of swords shows possible disappointment. The world can also reflect you doing well at work and being recognized for it. Seems like you will persevere. Is DD a good salesman? The magician can be deception. The next card is showing an earth sign or a man that is earthy, experienced and successful. Also, a reliable marriage partner. I drew another card to see what would come next (4 of wands), which shows romance, peace and tranquility as well as prosperity.

Hope this helps.

My brother, H, wants me to take care of his daughter (if anything happens to him). Do you see her, J, as starting to take better care of herself and have a better sense of direction in her life this year? Thank you.

I had something visit me many years ago (not sure what it was), but was having a nightmare and then when I flipped the light on I could see something moving below the sheets and then out the end of the bed, but I never actually saw a figure. I think that was around the time my empath...stuff started to really develop.

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Please forgive me, my progressed moon is headed towards Aries and that means to be about the self where it will hit my natal moon in the 1st which is in Libra. This should be interesting?

posted February 28, 2018 06:45 AM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I am not sure what or who the person is that follows me, it can not be my dad as he is still living yet it could be my grandfather from my mother side. I do think he felt some remorse as to what happened to me when I was little , there was nothing he could have done and he was a very good man. I learned very much from him that men can be men, they work hard to provide for their families although I know his love was tough I understood him as I got older. I wonder if this is him still wanting to know if I hold him to not being able to protect me when I was small, he was an Aries and areas is very big on protecting the ones they love. My dad is an Aries and although my grandfather never cared for him thinking he could have chose better choices in our lives my own dad would kill for me if anyone ever hurt me. He has tried to do so in the past so I know on a personal. DD is an Aries male and sometimes I wonder if this is why I am so very drawn to him, My grandfather being Aries and my dad, although I don't always understand their anger and what they do, like why they make the decisions of what they do I know I am protected. I also had a lady once tell me that I was very protected by my ancestors . I don't understand why . Astrology wise I know the 4th house shows something about the saved one.

There was also an older man I dated 7 years ago is when he died. I loved him very much and have dreamed of him, he was an Aries as well. I think he would have given me the world if he could have but he was bound to another as ashamed as I am to tell it. I know he watches over me, not always proud of my designs in life but knows my hears is pure or I mean well.

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Hi Colorful,

Sometimes the Aries Sun people have Taurus placements in their chart, which may give them a more earthy image or having lots of planets in their 2nd house can give that vibe as you call it.

I used to watch "Ghost Whisperer" and remembered that loved ones (who were parents, etc.) would normally be felt as if someone touched your shoulder or cheek, but your point of contact seemed more intimate. It was fascinating how they got the spirits to cross over after resolving what kept them here with the living.

When using 4am for DD's ascendant, that put his Sun in the 2nd house, with chiron (wounds) interestingly enough nearby. This is a saying that came to mind when I read over what I wrote: "to hide one's light under a bushel"
I also found these interpretations interesting when I searched online as I wasn't sure of the wording:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lamp_under_a_bushel

posted February 28, 2018 07:46 AM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Please forgive me, my progressed moon is headed towards Aries and that means to be about the self where it will hit my natal moon in the 1st which is in Libra. This should be interesting?

I see J as a very indecisive person, she wants better for herself but lacks direction. It can not be forced as she will reject this upright, more as she needs someone who just is and she is inspired to be as such. A mentor or role model, something about lessons is coming her way. Hard one but it will shape her into who she is meant to be, she has purpose here and for the greater good. She sees people clearly and has insight as to who they really are, you can not hide things from her. She is here to help those who need help. She hides her true self in fear of being taken advantage of and she has a real gift. Her blood line is of royal blood and should not be taken lightly. Think Joan of arc reincarnated into this lifetime. She needs good people, pure of heart to help her in their journey and those people are in her path lined up to help her.

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What's interesting about your progressed Moon in Aries falling into or around your natal 7th house is that it will also conjunct DD's Sun. Symbolically then 7th house (partnership/marriage), Sun (children) and Moon (family), so with that what LV said makes perfect sense.

Wow! Thank you. I had posted J's chart on astro dot com and they picked up on an "imperial" sort of expression coming from her. They also said that she had hidden gifts, but like you said there isn't any direction. She had Gemini rising and her ruling planet Mercury is in Pisces. I had told her mother years ago after she was born that J (with Mercury on her mc) was here give the world a message, which makes sense with what you said. Pisces there does make her sensitive and insightful, but I don't think she has the visions just yet (maybe dreams) as she tells me she doesn't believe in new age or astrology stuff--at least not yet. She does know people, but it seems like there are some that get in her blind spot so to speak. Her father has worked more lately to help keep her from the "bad" people. I think she sees people as they are, but right now the rose colored glasses she still has on makes her want to see them differently at times. Maybe when the hard lesson comes, the glasses will come off. I've had someone tell me that when our mother passes, her father will retire and then have more time to devote to mentoring/guiding her.

The hard lesson may have something to do with her friend S. My brother had told me that S has kids, but doesn't have a lot (means). I had to look up Joan of Arc...my history isn't really good..remembered the name, but wasn't sure where she fit in history or what she had done. I read where people reincarnate into "soul" groups, so with what LV saw for me that makes sense. I do like helping other people, so maybe she sees me doing that. Her mother was like a Robin Hood of sorts, but then hid her own ambitions until now.

You answered another question that I long held. When doing my own chart, it showed me learning from my nieces and nephew, but that one of them wouldn't live very long. I'm now pretty certain that that will be my other niece. I have three aspects connecting them and I have 2 nieces and 1 nephew. I'm thinking the Mercury square Saturn is my other niece E as Mercury rules my 8th house (health) as well as the 5th and Saturn in the first also ruling the 1st. I'm thinking that her health may be affected possibly by all the tattoos she has had done because Saturn rules the skin and with my Mercury in Libra (beauty) they were colorful and beautiful. The 1st house also rules the head and she had a large one done on her head a couple of years or so ago. After thinking about this, I did a little search on their health affects and what I found out about doing MRI's on someone with tattoos was interesting. If there are metal flecks in the paint, it can react to the machine. Her soon to be ex was a walking billboard for his inking business (as my brother M referred to him) and she became almost similar. I've never wanted a tattoo. Never felt I needed one. Don't like needles anyways.

posted February 28, 2018 11:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Colorful,

Sometimes the Aries Sun people have Taurus placements in their chart, which may give them a more earthy image or having lots of planets in their 2nd house can give that vibe as you call it.

I used to watch "Ghost Whisperer" and remembered that loved ones (who were parents, etc.) would normally be felt as if someone touched your shoulder or cheek, but your point of contact seemed more intimate. It was fascinating how they got the spirits to cross over after resolving what kept them here with the living.

When using 4am for DD's ascendant, that put his Sun in the 2nd house, with chiron (wounds) interestingly enough nearby. This is a saying that came to mind when I read over what I wrote: "to hide one's light under a bushel"
I also found these interpretations interesting when I searched online as I wasn't sure of the wording:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lamp_under_a_bushel

Guys want to be able to provide for a potential mate, but with DD's Chiron in the 2nd house of earned finances, he may have felt like he couldn't earn enough to take care of you much less a child. That makes sense now with the money problem card I got for him earlier.

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He did say that once about "if he had it like that" things would be different. I am curious to see how things go in the coming year, things in his life seem to be changeing unfrotunatly it doesn't look to good for me as he won't be able to be around as much as he has been. Time will tell I am sure. Things are already overwhelming at times for me with his ex, a personal friend of his, other people in his life that get in the way at times causing friction. I tend to take these things personally hurtful and wander if he even understands why I am put off by things. Then with the added space, I am wandering if things will fade out. I told him today that I think it would defiantly call things as to what things will be. I had an amazing summer with him despite some irritations and to go from being with him to next to nothing seems hard to deal with.

posted February 28, 2018 11:52 PM            

Wow, thank you for the knowledge on J. I am not sure what to say except I get that her life is designed with people in place so that she does what she is meant to do.

posted March 01, 2018 08:17 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
He did say that once about "if he had it like that" things would be different. I am curious to see how things go in the coming year, things in his life seem to be changeing unfrotunatly it doesn't look to good for me as he won't be able to be around as much as he has been. Time will tell I am sure. Things are already overwhelming at times for me with his ex, a personal friend of his, other people in his life that get in the way at times causing friction. I tend to take these things personally hurtful and wander if he even understands why I am put off by things. Then with the added space, I am wandering if things will fade out. I told him today that I think it would defiantly call things as to what things will be. I had an amazing summer with him despite some irritations and to go from being with him to next to nothing seems hard to deal with.

The hip area does seem really interment so it has me wondering .

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Sometimes being away from someone can make the heart grow fonder. Maybe when he misses you, he will make an extra effort to see you. Well, it makes me think of the expression, "shooting from the hip".

posted March 01, 2018 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Thank you again for you help with DD and I will keep you posted.

Wow, thank you for the knowledge on J. I am not sure what to say except I get that her life is designed with people in place so that she does what she is meant to do.

Hopefully things go okay with your nieces and nephews though and I am not sure about the tattoos yet I think you know the answers you need to know. You are very good with astrology and I am still learning.

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Thank you. I'm glad niece, J, will have a good future. She is an Aries Sun, and her years up and until this time were more focused on her needs and not others, but I can see the transition starting...slowly.

posted March 03, 2018 12:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Sometimes being away from someone can make the heart grow fonder. Maybe when he misses you, he will make an extra effort to see you. Well, it makes me think of the expression, "shooting from the hip".

It was a long day today. My mom forgot to fast for her appointment, so I'll need to take her next week for her bloodwork. A lot of things have been like this lately..snags. The doctor's office could only electronically transmit (no faxes where my mom gets her medicine) one of the two scripts, but the other one was a supplement, so we were able to get it over the counter. Haven't heard from the irrigation company..they were supposed to call Monday a week ago. I started working on my own sprinklers today..need to replace four of them. Trying to do the outdoor stuff before it gets cold again.

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Spring,

You are very on point with the phrase shooting from the hip! I think if he understood to be true to himself and think about what he was saying , how he would honestly feel about it if things were said or done to him in the manner in which he carries himself, his life with women would be so much better!

As of yesterday I broke up with him again. i think he is still about his ex and although I understand , I don't see myself dangling around getting my feelings hurt.

It sound like you have been very busy. I hope things work out for you with your mom , it's very hard dealing with knowing time is limited. My own mom passed 7 years ago and I still greave her loss as my grandfathers. I lost so many loved ones in just a few short years.

posted March 03, 2018 01:10 AM            

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Thank you. I'm glad niece, J, will have a good future. She is an Aries Sun, and her years up and until this time were more focused on her needs and not others, but I can see the transition starting...slowly.

You are very good at astrology. I would have never known. You notice stuff that folks in the class I took years ago wouldn't have seen. The two classes helped me take all that I read about and put it together when looking at a chart. Some charts are easier to read than others. I have books on that subject that I plan on putting in the yard sale, etc. as well.

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I am glad as well, being a kid that grew up seeing more than I ever should have, I can understand the confusion on her part. Transitions do take time but in years she will look back and be able to connect the dots to her destiny.

Thank you, I learned astrology mostly on my own and threw videos , what I could notice via the internet , LL and generous people who were willing to share their information. I am still working on charts and progressions. I learn a lot from looking at others charts.

I am looking forward to the recognition at work and decided to focus on myself more. Get back to the old me before I met DD. I love him very much and wish the best for him in life, I just don't see him being the best for me given how things have went between us, the things he does and says doesn't seem like what I should be investing myself in the long run. I know he means well but I am a very sensitive person. He lied several times about his ex, swears there is nothing there yet I don't get a good vibe from it. Their breakup was fresh and he has been with her in her youth and later on in her life for some years. I still think he just used me to make her jealous and to get even. I feel it so I let it go, for once just trust my own intuition. Non the less , I don't feel that I can be a real part of his life due to circumstances and situations. Just tired , hurt and I really have decided to move on. I deserve someone who can be there for me , who really is about me, who doesn't hold a double standard. Too much drama for me, too much saying and doing things that are hurtful that I don't deserve. Just too overwhelming and I'm just too tired to continue despite how I feel. I learned a long time ago you can not change a person, either it works or it don't. I do however wish him the best and all his hearts desires to come true because I really do love him. I value dependability , security , someone who is able to understand my sensitivity , someone with maturity,positive and supportive, interested in me and not what their wanting me to be, someone with a healthy lifestyle vs being toxic. I'm just not willing to compromise on my value , self esteem , self respect. Hopefully in time he will find a true value system to live by and one that is respectable until then, I will just find myself his silent cheerleader.

Looking forward to 2019 and whatever life has planned for me, progressed moon in Arjes and starting a new cycle, hopefully a positive one !

posted March 03, 2018 07:56 PM            

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Spring,

You are very on point with the phrase shooting from the hip! I think if he understood to be true to himself and think about what he was saying , how he would honestly feel about it if things were said or done to him in the manner in which he carries himself, his life with women would be so much better!

As of yesterday I broke up with him again. i think he is still about his ex and although I understand , I don't see myself dangling around getting my feelings hurt.

It sound like you have been very busy. I hope things work out for you with your mom , it's very hard dealing with knowing time is limited. My own mom passed 7 years ago and I still greave her loss as my grandfathers. I lost so many loved ones in just a few short years.

I was hoping the sprinkler system people would work out, hopefully they will make their way soon to you.

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Hugssss. Maybe DD still has some unfinished business with his ex especially if the relationship was kind of a codependent one or something like that--hard to break the ties. People that are in limbo between two relationships--old and new most likely behave similarly to DD. Sometimes it is good to just detach yourself from all of it.

It's been a busy week. Next week should be quieter. Thinking about bumping the yard sale, etc. up another week, so I can add more to what I have for it. Sometimes I just don't feel like I'm in the mood to go through the closet. Transiting Pluto isn't on my ascendant/1st house just yet, but I'm thinking my birth time may have been off by a couple of minutes. My mom's water broke as I was being born and she said the doctor was short and got wet from head to toe. Maybe he didn't look at the clock until after he got cleaned up.

posted March 03, 2018 08:56 PM            

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I am glad as well, being a kid that grew up seeing more than I ever should have, I can understand the confusion on her part. Transitions do take time but in years she will look back and be able to connect the dots to her destiny.

Thank you, I learned astrology mostly on my own and threw videos , what I could notice via the internet , LL and generous people who were willing to share their information. I am still working on charts and progressions. I learn a lot from looking at others charts.

I am looking forward to the recognition at work and decided to focus on myself more. Get back to the old me before I met DD. I love him very much and wish the best for him in life, I just don't see him being the best for me given how things have went between us, the things he does and says doesn't seem like what I should be investing myself in the long run. I know he means well but I am a very sensitive person. He lied several times about his ex, swears there is nothing there yet I don't get a good vibe from it. Their breakup was fresh and he has been with her in her youth and later on in her life for some years. I still think he just used me to make her jealous and to get even. I feel it so I let it go, for once just trust my own intuition. Non the less , I don't feel that I can be a real part of his life due to circumstances and situations. Just tired , hurt and I really have decided to move on. I deserve someone who can be there for me , who really is about me, who doesn't hold a double standard. Too much drama for me, too much saying and doing things that are hurtful that I don't deserve. Just too overwhelming and I'm just too tired to continue despite how I feel. I learned a long time ago you can not change a person, either it works or it don't. I do however wish him the best and all his hearts desires to come true because I really do love him. I value dependability , security , someone who is able to understand my sensitivity , someone with maturity,positive and supportive, interested in me and not what their wanting me to be, someone with a healthy lifestyle vs being toxic. I'm just not willing to compromise on my value , self esteem , self respect. Hopefully in time he will find a true value system to live by and one that is respectable until then, I will just find myself his silent cheerleader.

Looking forward to 2019 and whatever life has planned for me, progressed moon in Arjes and starting a new cycle, hopefully a positive one !

Let me know if you have anymore questions or catch up, I do enjoy our chats! It is very interesting how we just connected to each other very well! I am thankful for that!

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Hugs. I saw my niece today. She got a lot of attention from the staff at the restaurant. All of this will help her with how she sees herself--body image, etc. I was amazed at how open she was, too, with her failings and health-related stuff. She's opening up more.

The astrology forums on astro dot com are very good as well and well beyond the basics that I use when looking at a chart.

Well said. Hugs. I had to learn not to take things personally when someone criticized me. It was very hard to do with my Cancer Moon. Makes sense, though, since it sits in my 6th house (Virgo's house and a sign that can be critical).

Sending you lots of well wishes in 2019. I was thinking about what I wrote to you earlier about that relationship coming up in your chart. It's possible that you meet him sooner, but it doesn't turn romantic until the time that I saw it occurring in your chart. I think the good ones tend to grow on you as well.

I saw that you had another thread for practicing, so I didn't want to add to your pile of questions at the time.

On the genealogy stuff, I got an answer from one of my DNA matches--possible 2nd cousin. They hadn't been logging into their account very often. I gave her the additional info I had, so maybe she will be able to help further. I think I remember you saying they were on my maternal grandmother's side and paternal grandfather's side.

I did have a dream a few months ago about my mom and it now makes sense with what happened with the one brother. In the dream, my other brother, H, was actually feeding our mother something with a spoon as I watched. My other brother wasn't present like now. He offered and I had asked H on occasion to pick up food stuff for our mom while at the store before he comes over her house for breakfast. My other brother, M, would bring her a cup of coffee, but didn't offer to pick anything up. I also tried to ask for food (extras when they would make a meal) when our mom stopped wanting to cook her own meals, but M did it for about a week or two and then stopped. Our mother for years used to invite them all over for a Sunday dinner when their children were little--I had told them it would be a good way to give back by sharing their meals with her.

My mom's phone ringer stopped working on her landline and when I tried to call before I picked her up today for the family birthday lunch, I thought the worst before heading over there.

I'm also having some interesting contacts with people lately. I spoke with a woman, F, who I had met a few years ago at a gym I had been going to. I saw her again while picking up a few groceries this week. We talked at length (a long, rambling conversation about what's going on in the world, etc.) and then I just felt calm all of a sudden and stopped talking (had tried to shorten the conversation sooner a couple of times) and then F had this mad look on her face as she walked away. I gave F my email address, but I don't expect to hear from her. I felt as though she wasn't able to take my energy from me anymore, if that makes sense, and wasn't happy about it.

Then I talked with another woman, K, who I had met before (that's what she said), but I didn't recall. We had an interesting conversation about places of work, etc., with the subject matter changing constantly. It left me with a feeling of really not enjoying the conversation (if that makes sense). I think they were looking to make new friends with someone, but they explained every reason why people wouldn't find common interests with her. K asked what my Sun sign was as though it would help her to avoid the people that she had had problems with in the past. Lately I've become more intuitive and think she is still in the logic based thinking about whether others are good people or not.

I'm thinking this is more of the purging of the past coming from Pluto transiting my 12th house. I also noticed that my energy level and things I see health wise are going up and down. Feeling calm is how I feel when my health is good and balanced. I didn't eat any sugar or much salt this morning, which is what seems to set my health off balance, but I felt off balance all of a sudden today anyways.

posted March 04, 2018 01:49 PM            

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Hugssss. Maybe DD still has some unfinished business with his ex especially if the relationship was kind of a codependent one or something like that--hard to break the ties. People that are in limbo between two relationships--old and new most likely behave similarly to DD. Sometimes it is good to just detach yourself from all of it.

It's been a busy week. Next week should be quieter. Thinking about bumping the yard sale, etc. up another week, so I can add more to what I have for it. Sometimes I just don't feel like I'm in the mood to go through the closet. Transiting Pluto isn't on my ascendant/1st house just yet, but I'm thinking my birth time may have been off by a couple of minutes. My mom's water broke as I was being born and she said the doctor was short and got wet from head to toe. Maybe he didn't look at the clock until after he got cleaned up.

The sprinkler guy has a grandchild with health problems that he said he would need to help with (taking them somewhere if needed for tests) and wasn't sure when he would be able to come back out. I'm thinking about calling their office on Monday, so he doesn't forget about me when he returns as their busier time of the year starts this month.

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Thank you Spring,

I am not sure how their relationship was , I am sure there are probably some codependance issues.

Hopefully the yard sale will go really well, I am thinking if you bump it up to another week to add more items you will prosper more. I do understand energy wise how you are feeling, I feel whipped out. I can't tell if it is work, the break up or just lack of rest. Good thing is I am losing a little bit of weight, I use to really be into working out and I am looking forward to getting back into it.

Oh wow, that one is hard to say. I am thinking you are really close to the time you were born or 5 min off in one direction or the other. I wander the same thing sometimes too if my information is correct or wrong. I do remember my mom saying I was born during the afternoon.

posted March 04, 2018 02:06 PM            

Let me know if you need help with anything.

I need to get more sleep, so maybe that will help.

posted March 04, 2018 02:36 PM            

I think your Cancer moon and my Cancer sun is what explains our connection and why we get along so well.

For the rest of the month I see things going fair for you but would you mind narrowing it down to specifics? It helps me to focus on that energy. I don't really know how to explain it but like people have so many spectrums in life such as love life, family life, work life, social life, finiacial realms, etc.

I'll try to break those categories down

Things with you mom I see staying the same, she loves all her children very much. Her health will remain the same and she enjoys her meals , her comforts that she has. Your company is what she cherishes the most right now.

I can sense some finaical gains this month, not sure where you obtain it from.

The friend that you sensed walked away from you mad, it is more to do with her than you. She just has some annoyances going on and she will be fine once those things settle down.

Friendship wise I get a really good feeling, people see you as someone caring, nice, having a really good spirit within.

posted March 04, 2018 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Spring,

I think your Cancer moon and my Cancer sun is what explains our connection and why we get along so well.

For the rest of the month I see things going fair for you but would you mind narrowing it down to specifics? It helps me to focus on that energy. I don't really know how to explain it but like people have so many spectrums in life such as love life, family life, work life, social life, finiacial realms, etc.

I'll try to break those categories down

Things with you mom I see staying the same, she loves all her children very much. Her health will remain the same and she enjoys her meals , her comforts that she has. Your company is what she cherishes the most right now.

I can sense some finaical gains this month, not sure where you obtain it from.

The friend that you sensed walked away from you mad, it is more to do with her than you. She just has some annoyances going on and she will be fine once those things settle down.

Friendship wise I get a really good feeling, people see you as someone caring, nice, having a really good spirit within.

As for your love life, hmmm... I sense that you get many admirers? I can't help but giggle a little, I take it your a real looker to men in your age group.

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Yep, I get along much better with the Cancer Sun signs born in June and early July. When their Sun falls into my 7th house (this rules partners as you've probably learned as well as open enemies). The Cancer Sun in-law that you saw as being not very secure, her Sun falls into my 7th. I also worked with a girl that was born a day before her, but two years later and they were both similar in how they acted towards me.

I understand...that makes sense, too, so you can give a better reading. Thank you on my mom. She has a Leo Moon as did my father and like you said--they love their children.

On the financial gains--could it be from a book deal? I've read that the well-known authors get advances for a new book, but unsure if they do that for first time authors.

On the friends, I had been hoping to make new ones--and an added bonus would be if they had a dog.

You are right about the admirers, but it seems to happen in waves or maybe I'm just more aware of it at times. I often feel like an ostrich with its head buried most of the time--just not paying attention. I won't ask about this energy I pick up just about everyday from someone--know who it is, but I've had readers get really uncomfortable about it. Are you familiar with energy cords?

One question: Do you see me going on a trip somewhere this year?

Let me know if you have anything you need help with.

Thank you so much,
Spring

posted March 05, 2018 10:04 PM            

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Yep, I get along much better with the Cancer Sun signs born in June and early July. When their Sun falls into my 7th house (this rules partners as you've probably learned as well as open enemies). The Cancer Sun in-law that you saw as being not very secure, her Sun falls into my 7th. I also worked with a girl that was born a day before her, but two years later and they were both similar in how they acted towards me.

I understand...that makes sense, too, so you can give a better reading. Thank you on my mom. She has a Leo Moon as did my father and like you said--they love their children.

On the financial gains--could it be from a book deal? I've read that the well-known authors get advances for a new book, but unsure if they do that for first time authors.

On the friends, I had been hoping to make new ones--and an added bonus would be if they had a dog.

You are right about the admirers, but it seems to happen in waves or maybe I'm just more aware of it at times. I often feel like an ostrich with its head buried most of the time--just not paying attention. I won't ask about this energy I pick up just about everyday from someone--know who it is, but I've had readers get really uncomfortable about it. Are you familiar with energy cords?

One question: Do you see me going on a trip somewhere this year?

Let me know if you have anything you need help with.

Thank you so much,
Spring

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Spring,

Being that DD sun falls into my 7th house, if this is the house of open enemies? I read on it awhile back and yes I did see him as someone who could be that one, unfortunately I can't live with all the exes , things he says and does. He is wishy washy in his intentions for me even though I know he loves me dearly. I don't necessarily see hm as an enemy but I do see him quick to throw other women in my face when he thinks I have flirted with someone or whatever goes on inside his head, I have never done anything to him to make him feel this way , he creates it out of air the way I see it. I spoke to a male friend of mine and he described him as someone who just wants to be mad. I can't fix that either and quite tired of it, then him sneaking around texting his ex like he does which he had lied about on end. I will just keep my distance, I already know I am way to sensitive and don't deserve to be hurt anymore than I already have.

I want to say yes but I am not sure of the source at the moment. Which leads me to ask about the energy cords your talking about? I have never heard of them. Very curious because some days I get like intuition everywhere and then other days I can't even if I try to.

posted March 06, 2018 12:34 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Spring,

Being that DD sun falls into my 7th house, if this is the house of open enemies? I read on it awhile back and yes I did see him as someone who could be that one, unfortunately I can't live with all the exes , things he says and does. He is wishy washy in his intentions for me even though I know he loves me dearly. I don't necessarily see hm as an enemy but I do see him quick to throw other women in my face when he thinks I have flirted with someone or whatever goes on inside his head, I have never done anything to him to make him feel this way , he creates it out of air the way I see it. I spoke to a male friend of mine and he described him as someone who just wants to be mad. I can't fix that either and quite tired of it, then him sneaking around texting his ex like he does which he had lied about on end. I will just keep my distance, I already know I am way to sensitive and don't deserve to be hurt anymore than I already have.

I want to say yes but I am not sure of the source at the moment. Which leads me to ask about the energy cords your talking about? I have never heard of them. Very curious because some days I get like intuition everywhere and then other days I can't even if I try to.

I think so , you will have to do a little saving in some areas but I see you going on a vacation if you wish. I also seeing you getting the finacial income before this trip.

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Hi Colorful,

Along with the 7th being the house of open enemies, the planets in it and their sign and planet that rules it (cusp) as well as where the planet(s) and ruler sit (in your case it's Neptune in Sagittarius in your third house), are descriptive of your partners. DD is most likely insecure and not as mature as he could be. With your natal Venus sitting high in the sky in your chart, people are attracted to you. Don't know what you look like, but your appearance, personality, and communication skills lend to your attractiveness. They enjoy talking with you I bet, too, and DD may take that as flirting. Neptune opposing your natal Venus may give the guys the wrong idea and take it as more than just being friendly or interested others socially. A thought occurred. Since I saw in his chart that his parents didn't get along, that may have been why he does this--mother was a flirt and that caused some of the discord between his parents. I've often heard that people tend to learn from their parents and pick partners similar to them. You have something to teach him: Maybe it's you don't know what you've lost until it's gone. You've grown through your experiences from the past, but sometimes it takes others longer or they never get it and don't grow or change.

On the energy cords. Try searching online as there is some info out there on them. I actually saw them one night. A bright orange cord maybe an inch or so wide and they can connect with you. I felt them connect even though they hesitated because they knew I wasn't interested, but they connected anyways. If I take a cold shower, I can get them to disconnect for a short while. It also helps when I follow the better eating habits I've been working on. I think they have been there since 1999, but over the last 8 years it has become more noticeable. I think symbolically it stems from a lack of balance in my life. All the stuff I need to do each day is more than what I should be doing to have a balanced life, but what this person offers isn't what I need. One person referred to the energy as debilitating. In late 1999 I was diagnosed with an underactive thyroid (hypothyroid), but I found it over the past years to be more of an adrenal issue from all the stress, abundance of work and lack of rest. An interesting thing happened in Jan 2016 when I fell while running with the dog and broke my hip. I didn't take my thyroid medicine with me to the urgent care or hospital. After the surgery, one of the nurses came in and told me both my BP and TSH were good (exactly what it was before 1999 as well as my TSH or thyroid level). All this with no meds. Not long after the surgery, though, I needed the medicine. I think the energy disconnected while I was essentially unconscious.

I had one person tell me that when my mother passes, the energy will go away. I'm thinking they won't be able to handle all the emotion and will disconnect. I find myself getting mad at the dog at times and can't understand why. When I knew this person in 1999, he mentioned that the girl he dated before I spent the short time I did with him, was bipolar. He asked me to move my car for no reason one day--he didn't get anything out of his garage. He was yelling and hammering his finger on my car's front windshield. I knew then there were some issues, but it wasn't until years later that I put two and two together. Some other clues were there. He wouldn't hire someone for his business that had been involved with drugs. I think he had been addicted to them at one time and that's where the bipolar health problem came from. Don't try to tap into this energy. I think even my dog picks it up at times, because one of her ears will feel hot at times. The same thing happens with my ears--part of my empath thing. I think what kept the connection was that I never gave him closure after the yelling episode. I got him a gift for Christmas, dropped it off with a card saying essentially adios and good luck. The last 7 year change was due to me thinking about him and others from the past and bumping into a girl that belonged to the same club--then he knew where I lived.

You could be picking up DD's energy and becoming more of an empath--as well. Grounding yourself more, etc. can help with getting rid of it.

Thank you. It may have to do with my investments as I keep watching what the government is doing. I haven't been on a vacation in a good while.

Time to get the dog moving. She gained her 2 pounds back--no good!

posted March 07, 2018 02:03 AM            

Thank you!! I'm tired so I will comment more tomorrow but I understand what you are saying , there is some truth to that. I just don't know how to make him feel any more secure than I have tried and I keep getting my feelings hurt so I just quit. It might be his lesson , I had told him that. To save it because one day he was going to see me and want to say this and that, about how he should have done me the right way. I just told him to save it because by then I will have moved on and I won't care. I would care about him and wish him well in life, sometimes though some doors don't reopen for me when I am done.

I have been looking on the empath stuff. Supposedly this is what I am but I don't really know. I know I am very sensitive and can get my feelings hurt easily. I will look up the energy cord thing. I do think there is something to what you are saying because of this study I saw about prayer , the effects it has for someone who is being prayed over. LOL, I don't wanna be an empath take it back, take it back.

I really have been looking at things to ground myself and black out negative energy or negativity in general. Trying to put myself around positive people , encouraging and have my best interest at heart. Trying to stay away from things that are not healthy for me and taking on my own spirit.

Thank you again and I will try to respond more tomorrow. Just exhausted lately.

posted March 07, 2018 01:37 PM            

You are very welcome!

What usually happens with people that need to be more secure is that they usually end up with another person that is the same way and when the other person becomes more secure in themselves, the relationship breaks up. Eventually for some, they become more secure in themselves, but I don't think anyone can do anything but reassure them at times that they will always be there for them. That works for some, but not others. You did the best you could and don't feel bad about it--let it go...maybe you'll find that your energy level picks up more afterwards. The transit you have now of Saturn in Capricorn (reality, responsibility) is squaring your natal Moon in Libra (emotions, partnerships, harmony, love, balance) are conflicting, and you will grow from the changes you make in balancing your life and taking care of you and your emotions. Try to detach yourself more from others. I have had to learn to do that too.

I went out earlier and while out I took the dog for a walk. The weather was nice, a bit breezy, but I felt alive and energized. As soon as I came home and got out of the car and into the house, I felt low energy. Definitely need to clean out more stuff. Time to work on that now.

posted March 08, 2018 12:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Colorful,

You are very welcome!

What usually happens with people that need to be more secure is that they usually end up with another person that is the same way and when the other person becomes more secure in themselves, the relationship breaks up. Eventually for some, they become more secure in themselves, but I don't think anyone can do anything but reassure them at times that they will always be there for them. That works for some, but not others. You did the best you could and don't feel bad about it--let it go...maybe you'll find that your energy level picks up more afterwards. The transit you have now of Saturn in Capricorn (reality, responsibility) is squaring your natal Moon in Libra (emotions, partnerships, harmony, love, balance) are conflicting, and you will grow from the changes you make in balancing your life and taking care of you and your emotions. Try to detach yourself more from others. I have had to learn to do that too.

I went out earlier and while out I took the dog for a walk. The weather was nice, a bit breezy, but I felt alive and energized. As soon as I came home and got out of the car and into the house, I felt low energy. Definitely need to clean out more stuff. Time to work on that now.

Spring

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Spring,

Intuitive wise I hope what I sense is real but I really am crossing my fingers and hoping that whatever it is you wish for comes to fruition! I am glad you had some energy for a period of time and hope that it continues to rise.

posted March 08, 2018 01:43 PM            

Thank you again for the kind words and thoughts. I am learning to keep the faith, too!

I hope all goes well for you and that "mature" man that you are meant to meet also comes to fruition. Sending you good energy and hugs.

posted March 11, 2018 12:46 PM            

Hope all is going well for you and that things have settled down.

Just wanted to give you some feedback. I think you will be right about J and having another hard lesson. Found out today that she did something again that she go in trouble for over the last couple of years. Since it's a second time it won't go as easy for her, though.

posted March 13, 2018 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Colorful!

Hope all is going well for you and that things have settled down.

Just wanted to give you some feedback. I think you will be right about J and having another hard lesson. Found out today that she did something again that she go in trouble for over the last couple of years. Since it's a second time it won't go as easy for her, though.

Thank you again,
Spring

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Oh wow, I hate that for her but I do know sometimes you have to learn a lesson a few times before you actually learn it isn't good for you to do what you were doing such as my DWI thingy. Thank you for the feedback! I hope all is going well for you!!!

posted March 13, 2018 01:00 AM            

Couldn't sleep. Didn't see you on here much and thought you were busy--now I know why.

Yes, but I think my niece will do more. Someone else on here picked up her having more troubles involving others and related to driving.

It will be interesting to see how things turn out with DD. Seems like he likes attention from everyone including you.

The irrigation guy was back today, but things are still delayed--no control box in stock yet. Going to send out past dues to the residents that didn't pay--sending them certified mail. Have to give them 45 days by law. That's probably when I hear from the one woman--you saw her speaking to me saying that she didn't take it seriously. This week got busy with my mom again and then the delay with the irrigation people, so I'll be putting off the yard sale again.