posted November 26, 2023 01:19 AM            

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summerlove22,

Yes, walking from a situation since you or one he held from your knowledge of.

Yes! Enormous love for you, he low key watches you now too.

Something involving another person likely was out of balance. He learned by how you treated him, he deserves more like your way. Another somebody didn't treat him as well. This could have been an actual relationship or idea of one. For instance he could have held hope for an X to return. His feelings changed as you somehow taught him or were somewhat a facilitating factor in his decision to move away from anything that wasn't balanced. Justice (Libra).

Hope this might help, please let me know.

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Thank you 😊 yes it sounds about right, he definitely took for granted the way I treated him, so I can imagine if he didn’t receive that treatment again he would realise the way I treated him.
The fact you say he has enormous love for me makes me happy because in the end he didn’t treat me well and I thought my feelings were not reciprocated, its nice to know they are (were) and that it’s not just me.
I am often tempted to reach out but it seems pointless because 1. A lot of time has passed 2. We live in different countries so logically nothing could ever happen. 3 . I have a lot of pride as I feel he should be doing it. 4. I have no idea if he’s with someone now.(although according to the above it seems he is not)

posted November 26, 2023 04:22 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:

sashavittoria,
We're using a special deck as well to see if there's more involving the connection/ disconnect between you.
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How is the connection between sashavittoria and her person? Is he her twin?
Please clarify -

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Q1
I feel he's making a concerted effort to keep you from his energy. It's as if he wants the disconnect. It looks like he's living what he might believe is his "best life" as a single guy. He is staying sharp looking and definitely wanting attention, much like a narc may do! This particular deck reflects this card as a "show off" type posing for a camera.
He might have been investing time in making money and money in getting attention from those whom could well be superficial.
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Ace of Pentacles, Moon, 9 of Pentacles

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He might have gone quiet on you just after you cut of his attitude. It's as if you spoke stern truth and told him only integrity would meet you but he chose to choke off his dialog. He's protecting himself from saying anything or m7ch to you. As well his play book is already been done. He realized you heard his games and he's saying "I had the last words". As if he felt he was a Victor in a battle against you. He's working hard to hold back from any activity towards/with you.
This maybe so but -
He watches you? He's stalking you online, possibly in the 3d too.

Queen of swords
8 of pentacles, knight of swords

Clarifications -
Q1 - 16 (houses 1, 6, 7)
#1 "patterns"
"I'm triggered, old patterns surfaced "
#6 "Trust"
"Though the universe works in mysterious ways, I judge this situation, rather than surrender to it"

To disconnect, hold back from you, he feels safer. It's his childhood triggers I feel. It is difficult to trust due to them.m

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23 (house 2, 3 and 5)
#2 "Romantic messages"
"I want to hold you in my arms and feel our bodies ignite as one."
#3 "Growth"
I'm changing this pattern and moving forward. "

I'm asking "Where is he moving forward, with whom?"

If there's anyone else it's full of conflict.
Releasing the old pattern leaves him sleepless. With bad dreams. He felt he needed to remove people from his story. Leaving them, ghosting them. This maybe you as well others. He is facing others as if he is standing his ground. This actually feels like family. He does come off as having a "win at all cos5s" attitude. Like having that attitude with you that he feels he needs the last word.
He could be hanging out with or has ghosted people whom could have initials of PB, MG, CB or RG. They don't have to be both initials.
Probably air signs too. Or Libra season he went cutting ppl off. Sagittarius, Libra and Leo. These houses as well ppl could figure 8nto his story.

Ultimately he might truly have narc traits but he might be trying to break old patterns now. Which he's going at it solo but his effort is being used to ice you out. He is still connected, but he's trying to not you realize it.

9 of Swords, 5 of swords, 7 of swords and 7 of wands.

pls let me know if anything resonates and if you need anything further looked at, don't hesitate to ask. Take care.

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Thank you so much MM, from the bottom of my heart. You're so generous and kind. I really appreciate your selfless service, not just for me but for others on this thread as well. We all need some reassurance and messages, and sometimes we need it to come from "outside ourselves."

This really resonates. And I've been considering the first message you channeled too, and I think you were channeling me before since I didn't provide enough information. I do think it's my connection to Spirit that is pulling me away from him. Also where you wrote "You may not have understood our directions weren't (aren't) the same." It's strange because we could be such a power couple in the 3D, since we work in the same job/field, but because we're not aligned spiritually (he hasn't woken up at all, and I asked tarot this morning if he would and the answer was pessimistic) we simply can't be together. There is a spiritual connection, but he is so disconnected from his Self that no relation with me is possible. If you've read my latest post in my thread on the Interpersonal forum, you'll know even more what I mean. I think it could help with your connection too.

Anyway, regarding what you channeled from him:

Correct, he is staying away from me yet still stalking. It's funny you keep mentioning narc qualities, as he lashed out at a friend of mine recently and she pegged him as a narcissist. It makes a lot of sense. Focusing on money and gaining attention definitely tracks. (I know it and I have also pulled a lot of pentacles for him.) He is very trapped in ego and materialistic things, but from the standpoint of competing and wanting to prove himself as worthy, since he doesn't understand his intrinsic worth. It's very sad. He is trapped in the patriarchal prison that says a man's worth is measured by his paycheck. I feel sorry for him, and for men in general.

He is not single, so I have to admit I am smugly satisfied that his relationship is full of conflict. Since he is dating a student it has to stay a secret so there is a lot of strain on them, I think. Additionally there is his ex-girlfriend (to whom he was engaged) and a range of lovers in the mix (since he cheated on his ex a lot). The girl he's with now is very insecure, jealous, easily threatened, so I can't imagine it's easy for her. He rebounded and love-bombed her and future-faked his way into her life, and now I fear she's too attached and too stubborn to let go. Sad. Anyway she has been really mean to me.

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"It's as if you spoke stern truth and told him only integrity would meet you but he chose to choke off his dialog. He's protecting himself from saying anything or m7ch to you. As well his play book is already been done. He realized you heard his games and he's saying "I had the last words". As if he felt he was a Victor in a battle against you."

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Yes, I did speak stern truth to him - insulted his work publicly by saying (in a comment on his post) exactly what it reveals about him as a person. He was so hurt he first deleted my comment, then deleted his post altogether. Awhile later I saw him in person and he iced me out, but as usual couldn't help but try to play a subtle game with me (which of course I couldn't help but compete). Then I messaged him to say he shouldn't care about my opinion, since only one's own opinion of one's work matters. Then I blocked him again. I was sick of being watched. So yes, he must have realized by now that I see through his game. And since he always ghosts/almost never replies, he has the upper hand if he ever shows anyone our message history. This is his method with all women. So if he had the last words, they weren't literally with me. What's more likely is I think he lied and spread some rumors about me. That would be his only victory, and it wouldn't surprise me. But he knows what I think of him and that hurts worse.

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"He's stalking you online, possibly in the 3d too."

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Yes, I did see him lurking in my neighborhood recently, as if he were watching and waiting for me to pass by. And I don't know now which profile following me could be his new fake account.

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"To disconnect, hold back from you, he feels safer. It's his childhood triggers I feel. It is difficult to trust due to them."

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Yes, completely accurate. I think his parents just completely ruined this poor boy.

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"I want to hold you in my arms and feel our bodies ignite as one."

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I have received other messages that he has intensely sexual feelings towards me. I used to feel the same, but not now that his character has turned me off so much. I sense he wishes to "conquer" me for his ego.

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"He felt he needed to remove people from his story. Leaving them, ghosting them. This maybe you as well others. He is facing others as if he is standing his ground. This actually feels like family. He does come off as having a "win at all cos5s" attitude. Like having that attitude with you that he feels he needs the last word.
He could be hanging out with or has ghosted people whom could have initials of PB, MG, CB or RG. They don't have to be both initials.
Probably air signs too. Or Libra season he went cutting ppl off. Sagittarius, Libra and Leo. These houses as well ppl could figure 8nto his story."

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This really resonates - I suspected he had stopped hanging out with his oldest group of friends. I can only hope he's learned to cut out his family, but as an only child in a very family-centric culture, it can't be easy. Yet sometimes it's necessary. Also people at the school where he works - in a creative field. And he reconciled, then cut off his ex again. So the signs/houses also track. I don't know enough to pinpoint the initials.

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"Ultimately he might truly have narc traits but he might be trying to break old patterns now. Which he's going at it solo but his effort is being used to ice you out. He is still connected, but he's trying to not you realize it."

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Yes absolutely. I also received a message that he might be considering my advice to seek therapy. I hope for his sake that he is.

I know we are always connected, whether we want to be or not...

posted November 26, 2023 10:51 AM            

Thank you for being so generous you are so kind and gifted.

posted November 26, 2023 06:56 PM            

Thank you for the kind offer! I’d love to take you up on it. My person would be a ex (sort of long term) fling type situation - initials are (). I will edit that out later.

Thank you in advance! ❤️

posted November 30, 2023 09:55 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:

Vradec, I'm happy to hear this for you too!
Re his ignoring you, men have varied ways of behavior. I'll ask here -
"why has Vradec's person been ignoring her?"
Answer - he's afra8d of being hurt.
10 OF Swords. Clarification Two 9f pentacles.
I feel he's afraid of a blunder. Dropping the ball, losing sight of how relationship rhythm works. He's trying to be cautious to not lose balance in this as he sees it delicate. Deep down, he is unable to convey his fear of failure - he feels a lot for you. In a reserved way - King of Cups.

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posted December 01, 2023 01:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Hey Moon, can you ..

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posted December 01, 2023 01:58 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Thank you.

Owls are one of the animals/birds that I love. I heard one outside my bedroom window, around July 4th, and hours before you did this reading, I was playing a video game, and I changed my glider to the owl I got through the game, early this year.

I'm afraid that I may only speak to her, if something happens to my dad, so if that's the case, I'd prefer that we continue with no contact.

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teasel,
You're very welcome. I was feeling you could be an owl girl. My aunt was, you give me a similar vibe as her. She was a reading, owl lover. Something about you just reminds me of her.,
@ your glider.
I manifested an owl outside a store and our home in 2019, mothers day. It was beyond enchanting. It was really intrinsic to my sons, felines - black cats.

Maybe something may occur and it won't be your dad but when you do, I do feel there will be more effort because the heart of the matter by that time will have healed and the threads connected will strengthen. Just my feel from the energy.

posted December 01, 2023 02:26 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlove22:
Thank you 😊 yes it sounds about right, he definitely took for granted the way I treated him, so I can imagine if he didn’t receive that treatment again he would realise the way I treated him.
The fact you say he has enormous love for me makes me happy because in the end he didn’t treat me well and I thought my feelings were not reciprocated, its nice to know they are (were) and that it’s not just me.
I am often tempted to reach out but it seems pointless because 1. A lot of time has passed 2. We live in different countries so logically nothing could ever happen. 3 . I have a lot of pride as I feel he should be doing it. 4. I have no idea if he’s with someone now.(although according to the above it seems he is not)

Could you be so kind to see why he has not contacted in all this time, and how would he feel/react if I were to? Should I even be contacting at all after all this time considering how awful things ended? Or is this something I should just leave in the past
Thank you 🙏🏼 I appreciate your time and energy so much ❤️ this has been so helpful, as I said this is an ex that I have always thought about even though so many years have passed and I have dated other people, had other relationships but this guy is just always on the back of my mind and I don’t know why and for a long time wondered if it was reciprocated, I felt a massive connection with him that I haven’t had with anyone else

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summerlove22,

Thank you for bringing in feedback. You're very welcome.

I asked, "why he hasn't reached out".
the Aquarius card fell out. It highlights "pessimism". Alternatively Gemini, Cancer and Sagittarius. I feel he's been invested as well in possibly studies, traveling or entertaining others. He might feel your distance isn't changeable, therefore feeling pessimistic. I feel he isn't steadily in one place but this could be uranus has had him changing his actions when he's felt a des, that pessimism steps in -gem/Sagittarius.

Aweful or not, If you reached out, I feel he'd watch you and probably stalk you online. If I read he was already earlier, he definitely is!
- knight of swords & World.
He might be interested in offering re-try. He seems to have been manifestyou. (Magician).
if you feel compeled to offer it to him, he's orchestrated the energy and this is why you are curious regarding him again !

I'm asking "why has summerlove22 been stuck in memories of him?" pulled Cancer card. "Loyal" is noted on this card. "Chariot" energy. 279
It's February, July and Sept too, as well taurus (h2), libra (h7), Sagittarius (h9) -again.
I feel he's home, you feel this deeply. He's so you feel loyalty towards.if you two traveled together or spoke of doing so, this has been your thoughts a lot. Itsa touchstone in your energies, the desi5to travtogether. You are thinking him this long because venus has painted him as a "valued" other in your story. He's significant to you. You're overlooking the bad because your heart still yearns to know him. Maybe be with him too.

Are the feelings reciprocated? Yes!
Page of wands. Clarifyng with Wheel of Fortune. Sagittarius energy. Yes! Jupiter may well connect in your synastry and or Davidson/midpoint charts.
Maybe you met and fell in love dura certain jupiter transit in your combined transits?

posted December 01, 2023 02:32 AM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
Yes absolutely. I also received a message that he might be considering my advice to seek therapy. I hope for his sake that he is.

I know we are always connected, whether we want to be or not...

MM, thank you, again, so much. I truly am grateful for your help and this validation. I have been desperate for it for so long, and between your messages and the revelations I had last night, I feel a sense of peace about this situation that I never felt before. Thank you

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sashavittoria,

thank you! I feel those whom offer help on LL are very big hearted. I just wanted to offer my thank you to those, you & them. As well I see so much is unresolved for many hearts that need healing, clearing and sometimes resolutions.

"I feel a sense of peace about this situation that I never felt before. Thank you "
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I feel an immense warming in my heart to hear this. That is the best reward to here - thank you!

posted December 01, 2023 03:01 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
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summerlove22,

Thank you for bringing in feedback. You're very welcome.

I asked, "why he hasn't reached out".
the Aquarius card fell out. It highlights "pessimism". Alternatively Gemini, Cancer and Sagittarius. I feel he's been invested as well in possibly studies, traveling or entertaining others. He might feel your distance isn't changeable, therefore feeling pessimistic. I feel he isn't steadily in one place but this could be uranus has had him changing his actions when he's felt a des, that pessimism steps in -gem/Sagittarius.

Aweful or not, If you reached out, I feel he'd watch you and probably stalk you online. If I read he was already earlier, he definitely is!
- knight of swords & World.
He might be interested in offering re-try. He seems to have been manifestyou. (Magician).
if you feel compeled to offer it to him, he's orchestrated the energy and this is why you are curious regarding him again !

I'm asking "why has summerlove22 been stuck in memories of him?" pulled Cancer card. "Loyal" is noted on this card. "Chariot" energy. 279
It's February, July and Sept too, as well taurus (h2), libra (h7), Sagittarius (h9) -again.
I feel he's home, you feel this deeply. He's so you feel loyalty towards.if you two traveled together or spoke of doing so, this has been your thoughts a lot. Itsa touchstone in your energies, the desi5to travtogether. You are thinking him this long because venus has painted him as a "valued" other in your story. He's significant to you. You're overlooking the bad because your heart still yearns to know him. Maybe be with him too.

Are the feelings reciprocated? Yes!
Page of wands. Clarifyng with Wheel of Fortune. Sagittarius energy. Yes! Jupiter may well connect in your synastry and or Davidson/midpoint charts.
Maybe you met and fell in love dura certain jupiter transit in your combined transits?

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Hi Moon, thank you I´ve been curious to see what your reply would be. It´s interesting that the card you pulled for him is aquarius and me cancer, as he is an aquarius and I´m cancer!
It makes sense that he is pessimistic about me, because of the way things ended, he probably thinks I would never speak to him again, and the logical side of me thinks I shouldn´t .
I often thought whether he is my twinflame because of the intensity of the connection, when we met it felt like we knew eachother already, and when we broke up we came back together so many times over the years, but neither of us had dealt with our issues so it never worked out.
I am definitely tempted to reach out, however I don´t know if anything would happen because of the distance, even if he is single and even if feelings remain.
I have definitely overlooked the bad, more than anything because so much time has passed, and the bad I feel was more due to us being so young.
I definitely have been online stalking him too- lol

I appreciate this so much, you´re so gifted, and I wish I could do the same for you. You are the one person who has given me answers I have wondered for so long

posted December 01, 2023 03:03 AM            

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itisokay,
You're so welcome!
I asked if you're insensitive and this deck moon is different. I'd say you're sensitive, caring. Though as well impulsive. In your Q of reciprocated energy, yes! Very - Emperor & 4 of wands. With Emperor he could be headstrong and want things his way but building with you is an interest it seems. Mercury, pluto and jupiter may play a role in his attitude. Those transits may hold more answers.

Does he enjoy your company?
Yes! He sees you as someone possibly divinely aligned as in pairing with. Hierophant. Emperor shoes again too. I see this as he may feel you're the missing key?
As for speaking of you, he might defeyou from skeptical ones or jealous ones. He stands his ground over you. 7 of wands. This may answer the why they create trouble for you two. It was answered before I read that port. They are deeply agyou two due to their own imperfections, which they deflect upon you both as a pair. Jealousy could be for one or two as well.

His creating a distance, it seems has more to do with just. Libra card. He might feel an imbalance in your efforts. Maybe he feeyou don't match him completely. Thouhe wants you, he may feel you aren't fully ready. As I'm not finding the Empress I this but his perfectionism could be in part this distance. Possib5he made some demands upon you or suggested something to make him happy, possibly he has to have every just so! Lok5a perfectionist might. I feel his Libra house seriously might bring more clues. Possible motherhood, his mother too. Idk but house 4 is insinuating possibly an issue. 6th house, virgo and mercury - more pickinessin the persona maybe? Be it a physical distance, he's traveling possibly too? Sagienery and 9th house. His intentions are to perfect everything with you first. Family, studies and travel may play
role and of course routines.

He cut contact to observe you, your card Kniof swords. I feel to show certainty you're ready. Those naysayers may have him behave cautious.

"Does he know of your feelings?"
Yes! 2 of Cups.

The "false hope" cut off Q,
It seems it leads back to his observing you. Signs of loyalty. It feels like a test. He iced you to see if/how long u you moved forward away from this connection. How loyal to the bond were really?
5 pentacles, Chariot. The devil/capricorn and cancer axis may play a role. As in carrer vs home family. If these are work associates or family cautious two issues, he might have decide to test you by cuttthe Connor a trial period.

posted December 01, 2023 03:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Thank you, Moon! I’m going to get back with feedback later as I need to think about it.

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posted December 01, 2023 03:53 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
Hi Moon,

Thank you for the kind offer! I’d love to take you up on it. My person would be a ex (sort of long term) fling type situation - initials are SC. I will edit that out later.

Thank you in advance! ❤️

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P.S I am also back with my cards and have to take them out, but will start a new thread in the next couple days to offer you a Q if you’d like- I haven’t forgotten!

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Hi Marie.
My apologies it is so delayed. Some offline stuff had me pretty busy. I do appreciate your patience in me.
You're very welcome also.

"What would ‐‐ say to Marie if he could?"

Before I begin, I felt a cusp scorpio/Sagittarius energy speaking. I had 8th card fall and 9th was my target card. In fact this was a directed move via Divine &Spirit. The 8th(scorpio house) fell, it was Aries - "moody" I'm implementing it in his message.

"I've been strong despite how it may seem.For me balance is absolutely necessary. You know my nature and how my vitality requires balancing in my relationships I see balance with you. . I might have come across as more intimate, pure passion but my heart is fickle. It's difficult to lock my emotions down, I'm passionate. It takes over. If I was overly controlling, it wasn't my intention but I get into a mindset and lose sight of what, whom matters. I show my love wrongly maybe. I get it, my moodiness may have caused us troubles. I don't see other women without seeing you in some way - as you. You have left a mark upon me I can't convey. I think of you when I see daisies and if I were to offer you a crown, I can see you as my Queen."

Marie, daisies really were emphasized by several cards. This deck is unusual. I like it for that reason. I feel he ses you as a petal that has the most beauty. The last one that when playing "loves me, loves me not" it was there all along and worth the wait to discover! Idk if he was a charmer? He does place you higher than others if you wonder.
King of wands, Justice, Libra card too. An echo to Justice. This for me can be a twinflame facet. A possible signature to the ONE sought after, like yoked with. 7 of cups, and the infamous Aries card.
H1, h7 (asc/desc) Emperor/Empress energies. Divine masculine & Divine Feminine.
King of wands, could he be a cusp Scorpio/Sagittarius or cusp Libra/Scorpio?

I do feel from his message that he might recognize how intricate you two may be. He's thought of you as a counterpart, even if he's been quiet or never let on. It could be his ego that has gotten the best of him.

posted December 01, 2023 04:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Vradec:
Thank you so much for this reassurance! It has helped me keep my peace about the situation. I really appreciate it!

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posted December 01, 2023 04:32 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlove22:
Hi Moon, thank you I´ve been curious to see what your reply would be. It´s interesting that the card you pulled for him is aquarius and me cancer, as he is an aquarius and I´m cancer!
It makes sense that he is pessimistic about me, because of the way things ended, he probably thinks I would never speak to him again, and the logical side of me thinks I shouldn´t .
I often thought whether he is my twinflame because of the intensity of the connection, when we met it felt like we knew eachother already, and when we broke up we came back together so many times over the years, but neither of us had dealt with our issues so it never worked out.
I am definitely tempted to reach out, however I don´t know if anything would happen because of the distance, even if he is single and even if feelings remain.
I have definitely overlooked the bad, more than anything because so much time has passed, and the bad I feel was more due to us being so young.
I definitely have been online stalking him too- lol

I appreciate this so much, you´re so gifted, and I wish I could do the same for you. You are the one person who has given me answers I have wondered for so long

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summerlove22,

Thank you again for your wonderful feedback. ♡

I kinda felt those two signs could be yours and his. So happy I used this deck. Okay, in my experience Aquarius and cancer have a certain ability to weather storms and still find their ways back to one another. If you feel this connection could be a TF .. it is highly possible, especially the absence and reunions over time. If you'd like .. oh you made me have a light bulb moment. I'll add a link here in a bit, maybe you can return for it.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/027132.html

there's a strong possibility you both are mirroring each other.
TFs response and trigger one another. The unions generally about healing but love is of particular of the packaging. This is why it's a challenge to let it go. Two wings of a butterfly always need each other yet they long to fly free. Can't go opposite ways without tearing to two. Once they unite it's sweet until the flame does singe the wings - separated.

posted December 01, 2023 11:35 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
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summerlove22,

Thank you again for your wonderful feedback. ♡

I kinda felt those two signs could be yours and his. So happy I used this deck. Okay, in my experience Aquarius and cancer have a certain ability to weather storms and still find their ways back to one another. If you feel this connection could be a TF .. it is highly possible, especially the absence and reunions over time. If you'd like .. oh you made me have a light bulb moment. I'll add a link here in a bit, maybe you can return for it.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/027132.html

there's a strong possibility you both are mirroring each other.
TFs response and trigger one another. The unions generally about healing but love is of particular of the packaging. This is why it's a challenge to let it go. Two wings of a butterfly always need each other yet they long to fly free. Can't go opposite ways without tearing to two. Once they unite it's sweet until the flame does singe the wings - separated.

You melt my heart, you're so sweet. Thank you!

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OK, I´ve posted in your new thread, thank you so much for doing this!! ♡ ♡ ♡

I have a quick question regarding your previous post, where you said he feels pessimistic you said:
"He might feel your distance isn't changeable"
Does this distance mean physical distance because we live far from eachother, or is the distance we´ve had from being seperated all these years?
I´m telling you I´m compelled to contact him, I just have some fears, including he won´t reply, that he´ll think I´ m crazy or that it will trigger in me anxiety, is this a good idea?

posted December 01, 2023 02:45 PM            

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itisokay,
You're so welcome!
I asked if you're insensitive and this deck moon is different. I'd say you're sensitive, caring. Though as well impulsive. In your Q of reciprocated energy, yes! Very - Emperor & 4 of wands. With Emperor he could be headstrong and want things his way but building with you is an interest it seems. Mercury, pluto and jupiter may play a role in his attitude. Those transits may hold more answers.

Does he enjoy your company?
Yes! He sees you as someone possibly divinely aligned as in pairing with. Hierophant. Emperor shoes again too. I see this as he may feel you're the missing key?
As for speaking of you, he might defeyou from skeptical ones or jealous ones. He stands his ground over you. 7 of wands. This may answer the why they create trouble for you two. It was answered before I read that port. They are deeply agyou two due to their own imperfections, which they deflect upon you both as a pair. Jealousy could be for one or two as well.

His creating a distance, it seems has more to do with just. Libra card. He might feel an imbalance in your efforts. Maybe he feeyou don't match him completely. Thouhe wants you, he may feel you aren't fully ready. As I'm not finding the Empress I this but his perfectionism could be in part this distance. Possib5he made some demands upon you or suggested something to make him happy, possibly he has to have every just so! Lok5a perfectionist might. I feel his Libra house seriously might bring more clues. Possible motherhood, his mother too. Idk but house 4 is insinuating possibly an issue. 6th house, virgo and mercury - more pickinessin the persona maybe? Be it a physical distance, he's traveling possibly too? Sagienery and 9th house. His intentions are to perfect everything with you first. Family, studies and travel may play
role and of course routines.

He cut contact to observe you, your card Kniof swords. I feel to show certainty you're ready. Those naysayers may have him behave cautious.

"Does he know of your feelings?"
Yes! 2 of Cups.

The "false hope" cut off Q,
It seems it leads back to his observing you. Signs of loyalty. It feels like a test. He iced you to see if/how long u you moved forward away from this connection. How loyal to the bond were really?
5 pentacles, Chariot. The devil/capricorn and cancer axis may play a role. As in carrer vs home family. If these are work associates or family cautious two issues, he might have decide to test you by cuttthe Connor a trial period.

I very much hope this helps. Pls let me know if I should clarify. ♡

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Hello moon thank you for everything. I have some points to clarify but there is no need for a new Q, ❤️ I just want to be sure what you meant before and share my opinions feelings on your lovely re.

To begin with. I felt kinda sorry for him after I read the whole, he must be so untrustful so that he tests the love I have felt. I didn’t know he was that strongwilled, clever and rational. But also I didn’t know he hated taking risks that much.

Could you clarify the part where you said “he might feel an imbalance in your efforts.” Do you mean he sees my efforts are not consistent and I am hot and cold? or do you mean that the effort we give each other doesn’t match since I am the one who gives the effort most of the time.

Maybe he sees me naive and not mature enough so that is why he feels it is not the time I guess? I guess he thinks that I am not enough for him at some point but he also sensed something special so that he observes. Sorry for my misunderstandings. I just wanted to know if you agree with me regarding your previous reading.

I don’t know his birth time so house placements are still a mystery for me. I maybe guess his rising might be virgo? That may fit with perfectionism.

Could you edit the parts where you quoted from the beggining..❤️ thank you so much..

I wish you the best, take care 💓

posted December 02, 2023 01:45 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlove22:
OK, I´ve posted in your new thread, thank you so much for doing this!! ♡ ♡ ♡

I have a quick question regarding your previous post, where you said he feels pessimistic you said:
"He might feel your distance isn't changeable"
Does this distance mean physical distance because we live far from eachother, or is the distance we´ve had from being seperated all these years?
I´m telling you I´m compelled to contact him, I just have some fears, inluding he won´t reply, that he´ll think I´ m crazy or that it will trigger in me anxiety, is this a good idea?

Also you mentioned jupiter transit in your previous post, I checked and jupiter was transiting both our 10th houses when we fell in love, and now its transiting both our 12th houses. I dont know if that means anything?

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summerlove22,

It felt like a physical distance. Maybe he feels the costs or mandates that could limit moving, something possibly outside your control. Or maybe he feels you're stubborn?
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"telling you I´m compelled to contact him, I just have some fears, inluding he won´t reply, that he´ll think I´ m crazy or that it will trigger in me anxiety, is this a good idea?"
Re this ^ I'll need to read on this but please note you should be the one to decide anything you choose to do. A read from anyone could sway either way. Sometimes the Divine is in charge as well. I feel strong about the readings but only our can *feel the authentic nature from your intuition. This is why clearing your energy, space and crown chakra is a good idea before proceeding with any firm action that may result from readings. I only want the best for you, this is why I'm adding this note.
I'm uncertain of the true meaning re jupiter the 12th house. It can be a good omen in 12th as a native with it in your natal. 12th can be enemies. As well subconscious. Idk - I'm looking up.
(Note I hope I'm not confusing your reading as you being Cancer, he Aquarius, if I am please ignothis Aqua banter. lol)
- if your relationship had a friendship basis, which him being an Aquarius, I'm prety sure it did, this transit for you two might show a nice beneficial for a reunion.
Let me speak personally. I'm a triple Aquarius in tropical. I'm a very serious person, to those I get into love, adult love relationships with -- only IF they are friends first. and take me seriously as a friend. I think your chances if you two share the friendship basis at the core, are very nice
while this transit is at play. Especially since venus is ruler of the present transit.

posted December 02, 2023 02:55 PM            

The imbalanced part was he might feel he needs to step it up, it was aimed at whomever was bringing less to the relationship.

No troubles re misunderstanding, it's normal. I'll do my best to get a clearer view. I feel he might be wary over his abilities to match your energy output and he does possibly feel the maturity m8ght be a worry. If your trulready, if this makes sense.

A virgo rising or moon could definitely bring perfectionism. Though almost any sequence could render a perfectionist.

I will edit out, give me a bit of time. I'm between things atm.

posted December 02, 2023 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:

5 pentacles, Chariot. The devil/capricorn and cancer axis may play a role. As in carrer vs home family. If these are work associates or family cautious two issues, he might have decide to test you by cuttthe Connor a trial period.

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posted December 02, 2023 04:24 PM            

summerlove22,

Q: " is it a good idea to contact him?"
and Q: "what will Jupiter and venus bring in assistance for Summerlove22 if she is to contact him?"

Your answers-
On bottom of deck 2 OF Cups and your cards for Q1 are Hanged man & Judgment.
I feel this about your meditating (burn a candle and speak with your own inner higher self) on this but it seems you both are connected still, emotionally. 2 of Cups can be a soul mate signature. I feel the judgment is on you. Spirit feels you need to challenge yourself and feel it out and if you decide to proceed forward, you're spiritually supported. Though it may challenge your anxiety, were you choose to be the one to reach out, it feels like you're breaking through ayour anxiety too. Strengthening your inner power and he'll see your true and strong. This may appear as a quality he'll find attractive.

Q2: I'm in awe, these two energies offer you if this is to be a reunion, with a new beginning. An opportunity to be blessed by financial gifts too. I feel your cups will overfill due to these planetary helpers. the overflow will possibly be overwhelming and have you both a bit less showy in emotions towards one another. Though there will be *much there. Jupiter's expansion of the 12th for you both may have you both more quiet in speaking of love, possibly less demonstrative. Reserved yet each feeling it.

Clarification - 9 Of Cups
A solo energy but this may denote you each are exhibiting towards each other, you're taking rather good care of yourselves. This is Jupiter and Venus, if you should reunite, bringing a fully noticeable amount of "self love" and these energies could bring you to both independently feel giddy regarding the meeting and possibly renewing the connection.

posted December 02, 2023 04:44 PM            

Regarding the "ready" part I was feeling had to do with experience, like maturity in the way you've lived and been **through it**, so to speak.
You've toughened up through conflict. Stood through life's tests like heartbreak, let downs etc. I'm feeling he wants to be certain you're done learning ready for the challenge to be more serious and long standing.
Tower & knight of Pentacles.
Taking it slow to rebuild (speaking in tower terms) once you are completely ready**.
Another analogy I hear in this answer is "dough ready to bake". As in you've culminated towards the perfect mixture from blending. Now you're ready to truly create the final product. Hence .. a stabilized formula.

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Re the "imbalanced", your overriding-
Answer: yes! You were overriding but you should have given him a chance to meet your energy. You may have been carrying the relationship but this isn't necessarily the case. It's about rhythm. Just looking at this it feels like you were dissatisfied from his lack of generosity in energy matching.

2 of pentacles & 8 OF cups
Clarification The Empress
Yes. You are supposed to allow him to see you're Divine Goddess and your energy is powerful and it needs to be met, you're not supposed to go beyond the half way marker.
He realized this, that you were overly willing to make up for his short comings. I feel if he were to short change you, he might fear he can'tenergeticallymatch you or he feels you were depreciating your own value. Advice (Empress) is to know your worth and to stay in balance - let him match yours!