posted June 16, 2022 08:27 PM            

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posted June 24, 2022 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:

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posted July 23, 2022 10:58 PM            

Well anyhow people💖

Welcome welcome welcome to LindaLand and
I hope you all love being here💖
There are forums for just about any interests you may have😎
Explore the diversity here💖😎

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posted August 06, 2022 04:29 AM            

However to everyone's utter surprise
everything went far better than ever
expected😎🌈
Still took 6 hours total,
and have to do it once a week before at
least 6 months and then 6 months or so radiation and jhoghy invasive abdominal and pelvic surgery cottong me from ribs to
crotch ugh.....but
now I feel it is possible for me to survive
and be free of
the multiple cancers😎🌈
(Once I get through all of this and
know I will survive
I think I should write a
book on why one should keep wanting to live
and accept that it is true about life;
To live one must often choose to adapt to
unwanted and unanticipated changes or just
choose to die instead💙

I choose to adapt unless the choices
limit my limited quality of life too much.
Each person must decide for themselves at
what point is quantity no longer in balance enough with quality of life?
That choice must be best done before on
becomes desperate and in so much agony
all the time or totally incapacitated and unable to even communicate etcetera.
Keep on thinking of reasons to live
because if and when you do survive
you need those options to enjoy your
life and have more reasons to
continue to go on living and to also be
able to
help others along with yourself💙😎✍️🌈
Sadly it was not until I got hit with skin cancer an multiple other rate usually fatal cancers that I started thinkng more about
all these things😢💙

I often wonder nowadays
if knowing what I know now
if I could have somehow
reached Knowflakes who took
their own lives😢💙
So sad about runarounds reaming and fattinketbelle and others who did commit suicide😢💀💙🥀👽

I will never know now😢

I do not want to lose such possibilities
to try to help others to desire to to
at least try to adapt instead of dying💙
That is why I tried to recently help a Knowflake who posts often of loneliness
and misery and suicide for
many years here 😢
but I only recently discovered that fact
as I had rarely paid any attention to his threads until very recently👽
It now appears that I may have wasted my precious time on his situation.
I must think of caring for myself at
this time first
and must try to to stop being
so damn naive
and I must do my best to take the time
to learn to recognize who is desiring
help and who needs it but does not really
want help nor advice because it because
whining about their lives and gives years
of attention and they are simply not
ready to realistically choose to
live adapt or die yet😢
I care but I must choose not to get
drawn into the dramas of any more
miserable desperate individuals
because they do not want help and drain and depress me and then their toxix noise
infects me emotionally and psychologically
and that leads to physical manifestations
that impact on my physical wellbeing
😢👽
I have tried all my life to date
to help others who are
in misery and hope I have helped at
least a little💙
I am not going to stop trying to help folks
but from here on I must not let my
naivete and strong natural desire to help
to try alleviate their misery of others
cloud my jusgement of who would benefit
From my wanting to help.
I cannot keep trying to help anyone who is not ready to change.
So call that heartless or selfish but I must take care of myself first
and of course my husband of
25 years together to date who has a rare Heriditary disease that is incurable 😢💙

Advice here more of legal than
merely ethical:
Have your futire health directives clearly
and legslly spelled out and always have
it on your medical files.⚕️✍️
Carry a copy always✍️⚕️
Have a Person as your mediical proxy
legally✍️
See a medical and ADA aware lawyer who specializes in such laws✍️

I am not being just naive nor desperately hopeful here.

I am perfectly aware
that this could be just first time
luck of the draw
but perhaps I am just the usual oddball
medical enigma dozens of doctors all my
life to date have been
labelling as being😎😳⚕️

please pardon any typos
My eyes are wonky this middle of the night
and my brain a little bit chemo addled
perhaps and a wee bit heavy
intravenous steroid manic🤪

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The thought of suicide
is a great consolation:
by means of it
one gets through
many a dark night.💙😎

posted September 12, 2022 01:55 PM            

Seeing you posting is like a BREATH OF FRESH AIR!! It has been a while and I’m catching up on your thread here and you have filled me with inspiration with your writing about valuing your life. It shows me the most important thing is that you value the joys you’ve experienced in this life, valued them enough to want more and to fight to get more. That’s the most awesome thing ever!!

I’m sending you continuous gentle, pain-free, healing and mercy vibes. It’s so good to feel your energy here. I’ll stop by again. I hope you’re enjoying your day and the people around you.

posted September 12, 2022 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Geocosmic* Valentine:
LEEEEXXXXXXXXXI!!!!

Seeing you posting is like a BREATH OF FRESH AIR!! It has been a while and I’m catching up on your thread here and you have filled me with inspiration with your writing about valuing your life. It shows me the most important thing is that you value the joys you’ve experienced in this life, valued them enough to want more and to fight to get more. That’s the most awesome thing ever!!

I’m sending you continuous gentle, pain-free, healing and mercy vibes. It’s so good to feel your energy here. I’ll stop by again. I hope you’re enjoying your day and the people around you.

Love,
Geocosmic Valentine

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Geocosmic Valentine❤️💓🥰
Absolutely wonderful hearing from
you again😎❤️💓
I wondered if you were still around
and have missed you💙❤️
So many of us LindaLand longtmers
are not around much these days💙😢
Ah but that is life and life intrudes
but that
is not a good or bad thing
It just is how it is😎
You have known me
a long time here since I joined
on March 24th.2005 when I was
a total internet and computer
user newbie and terribly naive
and looking back had I known
the things. about the internet and
online communications
I would have handled my
efforts much better than
I did👽
It was so confusing to say the least👽
How has life been treating you ❓❤️😎
I am so happy that my ramblings
here have given you inspiration
for living life the best as one
can live our lives❤️😎
A few folks communicate with me via
threads
we use mainly for one to one communications/conversations here
at LindaLand 😎❤️
With my fighting over a dozen
rare and disabling conditions and
6 forms of cancers
and my husband with an incurable
Heriditary non preventable liver disease,
life has been very very difficult

It is nice to be able to talk
with folks here
one on one without going off topic
on threads;
Spoooopo....... hence the having
dedicated conversation threads😎❤️
Many threads went off topic because
of my
struggles and me talking about them
and folks also asking about it all
and more💙
I want to not go off topic
as much as possible like how are
Lexigram Magic many threads got
segued away from the topic and
fell into the here I am how am I
doing statements. questions,
answers, and much appreciated emotional
support for me caring words❤️
Nothing wrong with that but it
does make for a confusing mess
when
the threads go off topic👽
Better to have threads just for
talking with others and keep
topic
specific threads on topic😎💙
Oh my I am a rambling terribly
again👽
I tend to do that too much
especially
these days💙
Anyhow.....
Would you like me to start a
thread here for you to
communicate one on one easier
with me
dear Geocosmic Valentine❤️
This one is okay too if you do not want a dedicated thread to use😎❤️
I can give you links to the several other threads with updates and all if you wish
and conversations with others.
Also my joy of living type of threads
and all❤️😎
However I do not want to overwhelm
or bore you silly in any way💙

So much had happened in the
over 17 years that I have been here at LindaLand 😳😎
Some bad but much good but
I am still here and
I intend to keep going as long
as possible😎❤️

You loving caring blessings
are so very very welcome
especially during these
exceptionally hard times
in my world❤️❤️❤️
One big thing as I want to say
and you may have read my rant
about such things before;
is my concerns about wishing
people well
and or praying that they be
free of pain and
suffering and all👽😳

I shall post link to that or
post an excerpt here,
or perhaps start a thread
about the twists that can happen
too often when summons prayers
and wishes are not very very
carefully worded👽😳💙
There is a good reason why
there is that old but true saying:

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Be careful what you wish for😳

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Very happy to hear from you
dearest Geocosmic Valentine❤️
Love and blessings to you
as always❤️🥰💓
A good place we for a dedicated
thread if you want me to start
one for us would be at
HEARTH And HOME 😎
Let me know please💙
Also when I start a thread I
get a message telling me so and
it makes it much easier to keep
track of conversations
without my having to figure
out whare and who posted at me😎

PS.
This thread explains the Betty
problem in to he fb irst post
on it. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/002751.html

Please pardon any typos and or strange autofills 👽
My vision and typing finger are
wonky these days👽
Yes I still type
one fingered hunt
and peck😎🔠🔢⌨️🆎