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Topic: Sun conjunct Venus- Shallow?
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leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 438 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:20 AM
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:23 AM
He's in another state and I'm not into phone sex LOL. If he wants he has to take action. I'm not about to make the first move, it's not my style. IP: Logged |
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posted January 18, 2009 01:24 AM
Do you like the overall synastry? It's easy to be revealing online. The trick is to translate that into real life, and that's not always easy. People aren't always the same person in both places. Do you plan on meeting him some time in the future?IP: Logged |
Lara Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 18, 2009 01:27 AM
quote: do it/him!
just like that? Are people really still so promiscuous?  IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 438 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:27 AM
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Lara Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 18, 2009 01:30 AM
online men are there for one reason only - they can't get it in real life LOLhowever you wrap it up, it's true!! either they are married, a troll, warped or their brain is sitting in a jar as they msn you.... there is always something "loser" about them. Of course, there is always the billion to 1 exception  IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:31 AM
Nah, it's too new for meeting somewhere. I don't know what he wants. I'm going to wait for him to make a move to arrange something, I think it's best that way by the feel of it. The synastry is so-so. He Moon conjuncts my IC exactly though, and that's pretty heavy. Leaping, you saw some of the aspects in another thread earlier. My Lilith conjuncts his Sun and Venus, so does my NN. My Saturn opposes his Sun and Venus. I'm already feeling clingy toward him. This is no good. My Venus falls into his first, so he might thing I am attractive but who the hell knows what he wants with it. I only know we have this odd, compulsive need to keep emailing back and forth and sharing really personal crap. His Venus and Mercury are falling into my 8th, he's got an impact already. My Moon falls into his 5th and Mars into his 7th, that's just sexual. Not long-term for him probably. I think I'm more moved.
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Lara Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 18, 2009 01:32 AM
mars in 7th means arguments to me.IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:33 AM
Lara, yes, you're right...but my little sister married a guy she met online, knew him 6 years. He's brilliant. An artist, really shy, but sweet and not social. You never know. For me though...eh. lolIP: Logged |
FistOfLegend unregistered
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posted January 18, 2009 01:34 AM
Saturn with Sun and Venus? That's pretty long-term possibility. Has he gone through something recently? That would explain to me his compulsive need to talk to you. Seems like he needs some reassurance.
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:34 AM
Hell, I don't mind arguments, I expect them. I'm more concerned with what the hell he wants  IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 438 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:35 AM
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:36 AM
Fist, he's divorced and two years ago went thru a major transformation. Got sober, etc. etc....that should be a warning sign for me. Do I listen? Of course not.I'm already kind of hooked. For the moment tho...I just enjoy conversing with him immensely. I look forward to the communication. He almost reads my mind. It's freaky. I like it. IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 438 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:37 AM
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FistOfLegend unregistered
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posted January 18, 2009 01:38 AM
Has he been sober since then? If he has, I wouldn't condemn him for his past mistakes. IP: Logged |
Lara Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 18, 2009 01:40 AM
true and i've made some good friends too... and met some seriously retarded men heheFist, good point about his need for reassurance. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:43 AM
Oh hell no, I don't condemn him at all. I salute his honesty. I wound't judge him by that. If anything, it gives him an edge. I think he's just feeling like crap about himself and is happy that I am not holding it against him. So my dilemma is whether I am currently existing to just make him feel good about himself. Not that I mind. We'll see, I suppose. I think he's freaked out too though. Didn't think there'd be a connection  At any rate, we're both amused LOL IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend unregistered
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posted January 18, 2009 01:48 AM
I don't think he's using you. I think he's glad he found someone so accepting. It's probably a big breather for him since many people in his life possibly look down on him. If you don't feel any connection in real life, I wouldn't be surprised if you went on the computer for it. When I look at all the people on the internet collectively, it's clear to see how many are lonely.
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leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 438 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:51 AM
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:53 AM
You're right, Fist. I think he's shocked that I'm not judging him. It's just not my style. I'm appalled at how judgmental people can be about someone's past...and saddened. He's a really talented guy, very artistic and funny and sweet. And self-conscious. That's all I see. As far as I'm concerned, everyone starts off with major points with me, and only lose points when they become deliberately cruel. I give them enough rope to hang themselves, and oh how they love to do so  IP: Logged |
Lara Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 18, 2009 01:54 AM
LOL yes Fisty, there are a LOT of lonely people on the net, this is for sure.A lot of insecure people too. In fact the only website l feel safe truly is on FB, just cos it's all real life friends! IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:54 AM
I'm off to sleep, you lovely lot...  Have a good night, sweeties....  IP: Logged |
topshelf unregistered
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posted January 18, 2009 01:55 AM
we aren't talking about sun conjunct venus anymore are we?IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 438 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 18, 2009 01:57 AM
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Lara Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 18, 2009 01:58 AM
Night MVM IP: Logged |