posted January 27, 2009 11:49 PM            

However, I've never met a Virgo that didn't have that "virginal" air to them... even though most of them haven't exactly been very virginal.

I think I would probably approach this person gently, sincerely, and probably cautiously. It seems the men have a strong submissive streak, at least in the bedroom.

posted January 28, 2009 02:07 AM              

So someone with venus/mars conj. in Virgo probably is shy,curious,sweet,caring,and considerate but if they are negative they could be controlling and critical in love.

posted January 28, 2009 07:47 PM            

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Mars in Virgo is not sexy.

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The two sexiest men I know have this placement! (One is a Scorpio, Libra Rising, Sag Moon; the other a Libra, Scorpio Rising, Gem Moon.)

posted January 29, 2009 10:29 AM              

Hmmmm... A man with Mars in Virgo I know is also a bit of a w***e, but surely sexy. Too much for his own good. Mind you, he also has Libra Asc and Sun conj Venus, so...

It is odd because many virgo mars seem to be born ready for it, and it goes totally against what the "image" for this sign is...

posted January 29, 2009 02:20 PM            

Just popped in to see how all this Virgo deliciousness is cooking up!

posted January 30, 2009 07:26 PM            

Anyway, it is true he prefered girls who didn't throw themselves into the spotlight.
And when attracted to someone he would "serve" them, he became very focused on them , helping them. He softened and was completely aware of what you wanted, when you wanted it and was happy to help out in anyway he could--it was an expression of his love.
Of course I've read (and agree with) the idea that men with this placement are looking for women they can mold and "improve".

posted October 31, 2014 07:44 AM            

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Originally posted by katatonic:
beg to differ. mars in virgo belongs to the sexiest man i know!!

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posted October 31, 2014 07:46 AM            

otherwise I have Sun, Venus, Mars, Merc, Asc conj i Virgo in my Progressed chart. I am SUPER analytical with people and words and very specific with things I like. I am not a picky eater but I should be becasue my system is sensitive. Optimal food for me is fish and veggies.

I exercise ALOT which is the only way for my brain to relax.

I am kinky in an "earthy way" but don't like toys or roleplays. I also detest when there's too much talking! I kinda just want to melt into the other person and find some nirvana-rhythm.

I live to SERVE mankind and I suffer a lot because humans will never be perfect. I don't want world peace but I do want some sort of justice and freedom of thought.

I am extremely "mercurial" and I morph by the hour depending on who's in my vicinity or whatelse is going on.

I would say that I am a tricky person to get to know but I am very, very kind-on a "keep your distance" sorta way.

I also have a Virgo asc and Mars in my Natal Chart.

posted October 31, 2014 07:55 AM            

Now I would see a Mars in Virgo as a very diligent lover. This is someone who aims to work hard and please you int he bedroom. Mars in Virgo is also VERY methodical, they are shy, yes. They may not be the first to come out and start touching you, but they know how to do it. Think about it, they are injecting "perfectionist, work smart, do your best" in the bedroom!! Heck yeah! These may not be your sultry deep intense lovers, but they have staying power. I could even see them "researching" how to get you off better in bed, whether that is scrolling around the net about pleasing you, or asking you how they can please you even better the next time.

posted October 31, 2014 09:24 AM            

He had great attention to detail and would notice if I cut my hair even a 1/4 of an inch.

posted October 31, 2014 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
My ex boyfriend had venus and mars in virgo. He was exceptionally picky when it came to women. If he didn't think you were a "10," then he would treat you like dirt.

He had great attention to detail and would notice if I cut my hair even a 1/4 of an inch.

I absolutely despised his controlling nature. He tried to tell me what to wear, what to do, where to go and who to hang out with. I responded by dumping him.

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I can see him doing this! I notice the smallest details too but thanks to Uranus I don't nitpick on people as I need individuality. I have the strangest array of friends and there is also no correlation between my lovers whatsover. I have also heard more negative things about Venus in Virgo than Mars.