posted November 04, 2015 08:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Saturn on a planet tends to make it more susceptible and expose its vulnerabilities.

When I had Saturn on my Moon, I felt my emotions(and I mean the more tearful kind) were on the surface.

I felt that people around me didn't "connect" with me emotionally. And it added to the feeling of wanting someone to hug me and tell me that I am loved.

Around the same time, it crossed my Mars; making it difficult to resist giving up when challenges were met.

I took it very personally when I didn't succeed at doing something that I put effort in.

And this was also accompanied by a feeling of ;'what's the point?' constantly visiting my thoughts.

And then it moved to conjunct Venus;exposing my romantic nature.

Instead of "hiding" it,as is suggested erroneously by most sites.It seemed to scream it out;"hey look everyone.Look how lonely, alone and sad I am".

But then I also felt that no one truly "listened". And when they did, I felt lucky.Like I wanted to keep them forever etc.

Its real easy to fall in-love when Saturn sits on Venus(contrary to popular belief), because you feel so love-starved.

Sometimes even a platonic warm touch from an attractive stranger, can give you the most awesome orgasm.

I have Saturn-Venus conjunct nataly.My SO has Saturn,Venus,Sun conjunct in Libra.

We may not show it to others.But we are the most sentimental,romantic people you'll meet.

I think we appreciate each other a great deal. Since we are aware of how rare true connection really is.

Saturn teaches you this when on your personal planets;that you must take nothing for granted.

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posted October 24, 2021 04:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I am starting to feel like Venus is self esteem. When Saturn was opposing my Venus it seemed like a very rock bottom place. I had to go to therapy.

When Saturn was in my 5 house, it pushed me to change my taste in men, and raise my standards.

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posted July 13, 2022 03:51 PM            

But I am not here to talk about the effects...majority of the things said about these aspects are true. Thats how I ve experienced them..

I am here to give hope to people who are scared of transit Saturn Venus square...

I have 2 friends - they got married when transit Saturn was squaring their Venus.

posted July 14, 2022 08:49 PM            

Like right now, and getting followed.

posted July 30, 2022 02:42 PM            

Well when Saturn in Sagittarius came along and squared my Venus. It was time to burst the bubble.

posted October 19, 2022 09:01 AM            

I can't say the same about the hard aspects. I've never experienced saturn opposite Venus but saturn squares currently my natal venus and it sucks At first, when Saturn entered Aquarius, I was still full of confidence but the more Saturn squares, the more my poor Taurus Venus (7th house) suffers. There is no potential partner in sight and those who are interesting are taken. My self esteem is not in the best shape and although I'd really like to be in a relationship, I'm at the same time terrified of getting heartbroken again and feel like I don't deserve a relationship and that I don't bring enough to the table.
I'm short on cash and in relationships with other people, I was trying very hard to please them but did not get any credit for my efforts. I was even ghosted. It's a lonely time and I don't have much of a social life currently.

posted October 19, 2022 08:25 PM            

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@rockwell, I have an early Taurus Venus so the square to Saturn has already happened to me and I recognize the feelings of low self esteem. My relationship fell apart and that has been difficult but there have been opportunities as well.

My Venus is in 8th house and Saturn has been squaring from 5th house and I actually started a new hobby in this period. I started singing in a choir and I still do. It was scary to start because I have no previous experience but it has been so much fun too. I have met new people as well and I’m slowly improving my singing skills, it has boosted my confidence.

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I'm very sorry that your relationship fell apart. I remember your posts. Was it about the divorce from your Pisces husband? How cool that your Venus is also in Taurus! That's a lovely placement. I have a late Venus in Taurus (23 degrees)♉ but it's still enough to feel the effects.
Great hobby! Do you sing in a church? Its so important to stay active during this transit and a great advice

There is worse than saturn square venus. I'm thinking of saturn quincunx venus right now... The square and opposition create fraction but it's still possible to make it work but with a quincunx it's impossible to balance the effects out.

posted October 19, 2022 10:49 PM            

I have Venus in Pisces. So that's what I am going to experience next. Its great to hear that it's a solid time for couples. My husband and I have been doing so much work on our marriage. Things are starting to look up. Saturn in Pisces will be overall positive for me. The only issue will be Saturn squaring my Gemini Rising.

I feel for my husband though. Because he is a Virgo Venus. We both have our Venus at 6 degrees. My husband will experience little relief. He has Virgo, Gemini, and Sagittarius allover his chart. But his Capricorn stellilum could soften the blow.

posted October 19, 2022 11:02 PM            

And anything squaring or opposing my Saturn right now...is way too intense for me because Pluto has been in conjunction my Saturn for years!

posted October 20, 2022 10:51 AM            

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I'm very sorry that your relationship fell apart. I remember your posts. Was it about the divorce from your Pisces husband?

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Great hobby! Do you sing in a church? Its so important to stay active during this transit and a great advice

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There is worse than saturn square venus. I'm thinking of saturn quincunx venus right now... The square and opposition create fraction but it's still possible to make it work but with a quincunx it's impossible to balance the effects out.

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posted October 20, 2022 11:46 PM            

My fashion has been very I give zero sh-its if I actually go out. I usually dress very feminine. But with my minor health issue right now. Even my most low key outfit is a hard no for me right now. Leggings and a shirt. Because a lot of leggings suck in your guts. I've been wearing my husband's sweat pants and hoodie. Messy bun hair. Not even having my face washed. No make up. I'll be wearing a PJ top under my winter coat.

posted October 26, 2022 06:47 PM            

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[b] I'm very sorry that your relationship fell apart. I remember your posts. Was it about the divorce from your Pisces husband?

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Great hobby! Do you sing in a church? Its so important to stay active during this transit and a great advice

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There is worse than saturn square venus. I'm thinking of saturn quincunx venus right now... The square and opposition create fraction but it's still possible to make it work but with a quincunx it's impossible to balance the effects out.

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Hey, my dad is also a Pisces sun I have a soft spot for their caring, understanding demeanor and it's super appealing but you really have to be careful and pay attention to their actions. It can reveal a lot about them and Pisces likes to sugarcoat things and can easily create illusions, for example: fake interest/motivation/intentions.

Mhh, your ex has saturn square saturn and saturn square mars transit. That sounds like a solid midlife / identity crisis! What is his moon sign? I was recently ghosted by one of my Pisces friends and I get what you mean when you say they ignore problems. It annoys me too and my Aries placements have zero patience for it. Pisces are like emotional seismographs, picking up every vibe in a room and when the mood is negative they like to disappear. Thing is, disappearing makes things worse and even Pisces can get it wrong about vibes...

We should make a Venus in Taurus appreaciation thread Nice smells and fabrics? You name it! For me, Venus in Taurus is all about good quality - in every area of life I love fine fabrics, 'green' smells and fragrances, clothes that last more than one season, long lasting friendships and relationships are extremely important and loyality is a must. Like many Venus in Taurus women, I prefer natural beauty and usually look very natural in everyday life. No heavy makeup, but makeup that emphasizes natural beauty.

I like older (or younger) ppl but not so much my own generation since I do already know everything about their zeitgeist. You can learn a lot from older ppl

You have Pluto in Libra, right?

posted October 26, 2022 07:49 PM            

I am kind of detoxing from social media on and off this entire month. I don't think/know if it's actually helping.

posted November 07, 2022 01:50 PM            

While it is not necessarily something you look forward to, I'm not dreading it at all. I've been through Saturn to Venus transits many times, including while married and understand how to handle it.

Every transit of every kind is nothing more than a window of opportunity. Some of them are less enjoyable than others on the surface, but none of them are happiness thieves.

Hard Venus-Saturn transits tend to highlight self-worth / self-esteem issues.

If such a transit accompanies huge disappointments in love, then it means you had lessons in reality about love — values, priorities, maybe even boundaries to some extent. Relationships require more effort during these transits, so if you're wanting fantasy it won't be so accessible. But many people have to pull their emotions back from others in order to find more objectivity or grounding.

These are periods to beware of your heart in a very internal way, that you don't let it harden.

Saturn to Venus transit periods offer a cooling off period, tests of the integrity of the heart, tests of underlying commitment or of the sturdiness of particular relationships (especially the square and opposition/contra-parallel). Relationships of good foundation will not fail during these transits. They may be tested in minor or major ways, but will improve if there is willingness on the part of the person undergoing the transit.

In some cases, Saturn to Venus transits may expose some underlying bodily issues related to what Venus covers (depending on the natal chart arrangement). Things like heart, glandular, hormone or kidney issues.