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Topic: Heartbroken! Cancer Male Disappeared
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pire
Knowflake Posts: 65
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posted May 09, 2009 06:51 PM
 
ok here you make a first mistake by assuming that he already rejected you. if he's the one, then you can wait because you found him already. even if you were married, there would be time of uncertainty, of feelings or even just of knowing when he's coming back from a trip, what he's going to do next, and so on, so this absence of certainty should not mean it is finish unless you decide it, because being one of the duo you have this power. IP: Logged |
pire
Knowflake Posts: 65
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posted May 09, 2009 06:53 PM
do you have some libra placement or aspects between saturn and venus?that could make you want to fit in (libra) or have a problem valuing your worth (venus/saturn), hence being taken for an idiot (as you say) IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt
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posted May 09, 2009 07:02 PM
hey don't feel sad !there's no way of finding out if a guy is lying about being single when they're not.. it happens to a lot of people. you're probably a very friendly person and they find you attractive so they think they could approach you. so, what I get from all this is, you're an attractive girl, this cancer guy must have thought so as well, let's hope he calls you back, if he doesn't shame on him 
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uniquepisces
Knowflake Posts: 32
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posted May 09, 2009 07:11 PM
yea seriously shame on him!! its just so rude! I text back guys im not into. I try and make it obvious that im not into them and just say im busy o something. this guy has some nerve to ignore me so.and if a girl said she didnt want to kiss you YET.. you think you wouldnt take that as a full rejection. I mean **** i went to New Jersey with him!!! and called him after! A lot of girl would have felt very awkward around 15 guys and no girls out in a different state with someone they hardly knew. I didnt at all. I was totally fun. What gives!? IP: Logged |
pire
Knowflake Posts: 65
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posted May 09, 2009 07:13 PM
well, you can complain as much as you want it won't change a thing isn't it? sorry i don't mean to be rude. do you think he should have loved you because you went to new jersey with him? too bad i thought you were looking for something meaningful. joking aside, he should love you. period. the man who's going to be spending his life, his economy  , whatever he has with you should have feelings that do not depend on you going with him (or not) to new jersey. and vice versa. don't you think? IP: Logged |
uniquepisces
Knowflake Posts: 32
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Registered: May 2009
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posted May 09, 2009 07:15 PM
also why would he let me take that jacket!? or offer me a ride home if he didnt like me anymore?
i mean im guessing he probably talked to his bestfriend after about me and told him i didnt kiss him. he obviously doesnt want to get to know who i am if a kiss, or lack there of, would turn him away. this is so frustratingIP: Logged |
uniquepisces
Knowflake Posts: 32
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posted May 09, 2009 07:16 PM
no its not going to change a thing which makes it worse. It shouldIP: Logged |
pire
Knowflake Posts: 65
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posted May 09, 2009 07:24 PM
i do think that your feelings were right so the jacket and the ride could very well say what you see in them. and even if i had said the opposite, that should not influnece you because you are in the best position to know.IP: Logged |
pire
Knowflake Posts: 65
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posted May 09, 2009 07:29 PM
my advice is leave it as that, don't assume it's over because true love does not respect conventions. if the feeling was reciprocal (don't cringe at the word IF ) then your worries are useless, he'll call back. same, IF he doesn't want to carry on on the feeling then worriyng won't help.bottom line: stop worrying. trust yourself and go with the flow. you might as well get ready if you are to embark on something as important as a loving relationship. by getting ready, i mean looking at people in serious AND loving relationship. take example on them. see how they behave together, on their own... IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2009 07:40 PM
Hell, maybe the guy is just a gentleman!I mean, my male friends always give me their jackets etc... doesn't mean he necessarily fancies you. I would just get on with your life cos there could be a nother guy waving frantically at you and you aren't even looking in his direction IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2009 07:42 PM
What does your GUT tell you... cos you already know the answer to this question as to why?IP: Logged |
uniquepisces
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posted May 09, 2009 07:44 PM
my gut feeling was telling me that there was no way he couldnt like me. i thought for sure he did and that everything was going very well. i was convinced he had lost his phone or something. my gut told me he really liked me.but the lack of reply has forced my gut feeling to have to be put on hold. its the worst. IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted May 09, 2009 08:40 PM
As a very Neptunian person, I understand. (Neptune being the ruler of Pisces is smack on top of my Sun this making me super dreamy and romantic)People here have given you some really good advice.
You don't know what is going on. The ball is in his court. If he wants to pursue a relationship with you, he now knows how to get in touch with you.
Don't get hung up on why he isn't calling and thinking what you did wrong. You did nothing wrong. You were yourself as you should have been. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Arizona
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2009 09:00 PM
Do you want mabe a reading on this to see? Like a tarot reading..I would need your name and or bday.IP: Logged |
uniquepisces
Knowflake Posts: 32
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posted May 09, 2009 09:02 PM
yea that would be really great to get one. i feel like it will settle this uneasy feeling i have. do you need both birthdays or just mine? Mine is March 19 1988IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Arizona
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2009 09:07 PM
Alright I will do it an than and post the results in the Private Readings forum section of LL..IP: Logged |
uniquepisces
Knowflake Posts: 32
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posted May 09, 2009 09:09 PM
ok thank you so much it means a lot. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
Knowflake Posts: 54
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2009 10:15 PM
Your reading is ready http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/000555.html IP: Logged |
Isolaede
Knowflake Posts: 2
From: Sunny CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 11, 2009 07:50 PM
Any update, UniquePisces? Please don't feel discouraged. I still have a great degree of hope and faith that you will hear back from this chap. Unless this fellow is a VERY unusual cancer, you’d have to do something pretty terrible to go form “kissing” status to “I never want to talk to you again” status. And you did nothing at all wrong, so please do not be sad or feel rejected. I feel that there IS a rational reason for this, and you will hear from this fellow again.
But on the offhand chance I'm wrong, then please remember that every romantic door that closes, is in fact a hidden blessing form the universe, saving you from a relationship that would not help your spiritual growth. You will find love, and when you do you’ll be grateful for every door that closed and every opportunity you did not have to waste your time and precious heart on.
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uniquepisces
Knowflake Posts: 32
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posted May 11, 2009 08:38 PM
Hey! so wonderful to hear from you Isolaede!
Also would like to thank Libraschoice for my tarot reading. It filled me with hope and optimism for brighter times ahead. Great reading I feel. You two have made all the difference and made me a lot less upset about feeling so rejected.I did hear from him actually. He texted me at 4 am Saturday night. (very weird hour I know) saying that he had just gotten back into town from vermont and that he was sorry for not having called recently. I replied with a sweet no pressure filrty message. He didnt reply to the message yet texted me again this morning telling me to watch a video online. I watched it and replied commenting on it and I asked him if he had watched what I had told him to watch since we met. I still have yet to hear back. I would love to know your thoughts on this. Im just going to try and not read too deeply into his actions anymore because he is far too confusing. One second he chasing me like crazy and now seems to be playing it too cool? Who knows... But once again thank you for your concern. It really means a lot that you are thinking about me. That is why I love cancers so. My best friend/ basically sister is a cancer and she is my soul mate. I would do anything for her. Such a gentle caring sweet girl. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Arizona
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 11, 2009 08:43 PM
Thats great! I am glad he finally called you back, Cancer men usually do, sometimes you just don't know when though lol...IP: Logged |
sm
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posted May 13, 2009 06:24 AM
i think , he is just testing waters !
cancer men are afraid of rejection so this ' one step forward two step backward ' is actually a defensive mechanism . why did he call you at that weird hour ? may be bcos he wanted to know if he was important enough to be answered back .
Bcos normally we dont answer such calls at those weird hours unless its very important . its more so in the case of women .
second explantion to it could be , he wanted you to know , you were important enough for him to be remebered even at that weird hour . Now , why didn't he text back but rather sent you a mail . Its again being defensive , he is acting formal and trying to say , he is still very much independent and isn't depenedent on you or the relation . so he shouldn't be taken forgranted . but well these are just assumptions , they can be right - they can be wrong too . IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2009 06:41 AM
Cool Unique! IP: Logged |
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