posted September 14, 2009 10:56 PM         

It makes me very particular. Venus in Cap contributes to that. Combined, they're like an albatross around my pants.

I've always been hyperaware of what my relationship is with someone. Only a few guys have felt like someone I was meant to be with. When with them, my sex drive was/is strong. (I guess. I'm not sure what the average sex drive is for someone in an LTR.)

With guys who I didn't sense that bond with, I got bored fast. Never stayed interested long enough to have sex with them. I have lost interest mid-kiss, even immediately pre-kiss. Once I became aware that the chemistry wasn't exactly right, I'd switch from being genuinely myself and aroused, to just performing.

I don't think I could get off on the novelty of different partners. Because it would feel like faking, since I'd feel how these partners aren't really mine/me theirs.

I can see my Venus contributing to those feelings. Besides being in Cap, it is also quindecile Juno. So I guess I'm obsessed with uniting sex and commitment. Pluto on my Venus/Juno midpoint shows the commitment that quindecile seeks isn't some socially constructed relationship, but a deep connection that is overwhelmingly real. My Virgo Mars is simply helping my body honor the rules of my Cappy Venus.

posted September 15, 2009 07:02 PM         

I'm picky about finding the right partner, but once I find him, I'm not picky about the circumstances. The only thing I require is feeling genuinely turned on. If anything, I have little restraint, because I highly value the sexual impulse and don't think it should go to waste. Mars in Virgo = servant of sexual desire?

My partners have all said I like to tease, but it's not that, because I always eventually follow through. But I admit that I enjoy fanning the flames in situations where restraint is needed. I guess Virgo likes to push things until the loss of control.

I like making sex a part of daily life in an unexpected way, not just some nightly pre-bed thing.

I also think of Virgo as giving Mars a desire for moments of pure sex, isolated from the rest of life and personality.

Virgo pays close attention to every moment & likes to please. A Virgo Mars can know more precisely how to please her partner than the partner knows himself. Or so I've been told.

posted September 16, 2009 03:59 AM         

I have a rather high sex drive. When I was younger I would literally 'prowl' around looking for men to jump on. I didn't always jump on them, but wanted to (sextile Saturn saves me lol)....there's discernment there and it's grown the older I've gotten, even though my own desires have deepened with age.

I've extremely loyal sexually and do not cheat. In my relationships I can't keep my hands off the person I am with (I'm seeing someone with almost the same placements now and we seem to be reflecting this back and forth lol).
I'm very touchy-feely, though I do have my Moon/Uranus oppositon sometimes kick in and demand AIR to breathe
I'm usually really focused on my lover and give a LOT of attention to them...I wouldn't say I'm a selfish lover at all, probably giving to the point of sacrifice (probably with Venus being connected to my Mars, there's an accommodating thing going on, regardless of the 1st house thing)

The only time I've turned off sexually is during a really harsh Saturn transit on my Mars and Venus. At the same time I was having a lot of problems in the relationship I was in and things weren't being addressed, so it's like my body turned off and I withdrew.
I think this placement is super sensual and loves sex and closeness.
I just learned that my Mars/Venus midpoint also squares my Mars exactly... I don't know if this contributes to anything, but I always feel like I am seething to reach out and touch someone, just to feel them. It's a very tactile thing.

posted September 16, 2009 07:59 AM         

I can smell if I'm with a wrongun too, even through aftershave.

posted September 16, 2009 02:04 PM         

Aargh!! Frustrating placement. When I'm on, they're off. When they're on I'm off. At other times, I attract people I'm not interested in, and attracted to people who aren't interested.

The hard to get type is particularly alluring. I think I love the chase, to woo the object of my desire. On two occasions I've chase a person for a whole year, bombard them with poems, flowers, candy, gifts, and just as they're about to surrender, I switch off, before the act. Sometimes I don't know what's going on. Pain in the a#$$ placement is what it is.

posted September 19, 2009 09:19 PM         

Now I'm experiencing a virgoescaly virgoan blush.

posted September 20, 2009 05:19 AM         

My libido drives me nuts. The only time it's "off" is when I have an incredibly pressing problem/deadline.

Venus in H7 in scorpio conjunct pluto so that doesn't help any.

Don't know any Mars in libra, know one with Mars in capricorn , that one is pretty sexy

posted September 20, 2009 07:28 AM         

And?

Details?

posted September 20, 2009 01:49 PM         

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Mars in Scorpio/Aries/Capricorn....

And?

Details?

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Depends weather I love someone or I like someone. If I just like them I can be rather raw, animalistic, can't get enough of them... and since I don't love them there's no risk to lose them so I really let lose and indulge my cravings. One thing I don't have the patience to do is to take it slow. Slow bores me with people I'm not inlove with. A definite turn off are baby names.. and/or most nicknames

I have a little appetite for SnM (blame the mars square moon neptune saturn uranus)

Mars is in the 12th so I don't actually divulge most of my very rich fantasy life.

Agressive is definitly a word to describe Mars in aries individual ,very temperamental (which is actually a huge change from my normal mood)

The whole conquests thing is also something that attracts me.

A year or more ago I was deeply in love with someone and back then I had eyes for "no other"... But when it came to it, to either leap into something or stay as very close friends I chose the friendship... being reachable made me not want him anymore. It would've made the stakes too high.

Right now I'd prefer to find someone to have fun it over the whole love thing. The ram wants what it wants.